You can’t undo the past but you can certainly move forward. No one ever intends to hurt ones feelings, whether we know whats wrong with someone, acceptance is key. When we accept people for who they are thats how best to get to know someone. Living for the moment to me, is about doing the work, and watching the work get done. Similarly, relationships are about the same. Seeing an Ex from 6 years ago, a DA, I realized a lot, what I left behind, compared to where I am now moving forward. He’s moving to Texas … You have to let go, in order to move forward … easier said than done. Whenever we learn something new about ourselves, it usually hurts. Not just to know, how useless fighting is, but especially fighting in the past moving forward, in retrospect what we see now, should usually be thought of in the positive the past. You cannot undo harm, once it occurs you just have to move forward, whether or not our feelings are hurt, if we return to the same place, chances are you are bound to get hurt again under the same or similar circumstances. Where to now? If you can’t see your future, that doesn’t mean there is something wrong with you, it just means that you’re not psychic. Its just that you’re either doing something wrong now, or means you’re not where you want to be in life. Its through accomplishment, that we find a better road for ourselves in life. You get your power back, not by trying to reconcile the past, or by making amends with what hurts, but by being strong and in the now. The better you can see yourself as you are now, the better off you’ll be moving forward. Things happen that way, one good thing to the next. Thats empowerment, not just believing in yourself and others, but always seeing the good in others, and in doing so, good will follow. If you accept yourself as you are, and not easily fixed, finagled, and tormented by others, then you will too feel the same as everyone else around you well. If you don’t give yourself time to repair, you’ll never know what well is. It’s something everyone lives with regret, and not being perfect. That doesn’t mean stop what you’re doing and change yourself, to meet the needs of others, it just means being yourself, and owning it, while accommodating the best interests of others, thats how to be well liked, at peace with yourself, once you find peace from within, your options become less than few, but with a greater likelihood of overcoming whatever setbacks get thrown your way. Good luck!