If people dont think positively of you and if you think negatively of yourself, thats how you get treated in life. Thats how bullying starts, as deserved or thought deserved. Self-harm is in your control. All communications from the person being bullied is unwanted, thats something you have to live with once you become a reject, dont experiment with people who are well liked to see how they respond as an inexperienced reject, social skills are by people who are well liked, you cannot acquire good traits from people who are manipulative seeking to prove you are something you are not, that is how a reject is made, when adaptation skills and adjustment skills that come natural are created to suit an interest or a side, thats is how someone becomes ill, in my case, myself, thats why you just have to move forward its not required that everyone believe in the same thing or for all people to believe in something, and keep someone form believing in themselves, once the fighting starts, thats a turn off, and if you dont see positive, then the negative occurs for you in your life, if you allow the taunting to sit and haunt you. You have to think for yourself, and not be judgmental of others, if you allow negative judgments of you to sit, you are in control of how you respond to others, its not your responsibility to defend yourself, or control how people communicate to you, or make you feel, you should be in control of how you feel, benefit goes to those in alignment with eachother, thats how you get left out in life.