Chapter 59: It’s Okay to Have Dreams by Leslie A. Fischman
Never let others get under your skin enough to hurt you.
When you love yourself nothing can get to you, not even those who hate you. You should always get along well with others. Fighting is for those with sides to fight not for the innocent or for bystanders to over involve themselves with.
When you have disability it's difficult to function in the World normally that's understandable everything takes time and adjustment. Some people are too far gone to return and rehabilitate themselves some are able to adapt and some never make it back to full swing, never get back to 100% and that's okay. It takes time to readjust, heal.
When you're doing well cherish those moments in life they are far a few in between. You never know, what life throws at you, you sometimes have to deal with on your own, figure out for yourself, rights from wrongs, on your own terms, not by the terms of others, make decisions for yourself. Do not be easily misled by others always be best in charge of yourself not bossed by others but independent of others decision making skills be the best decision maker you can be for yourself in life.
You have to be you no matter what anyone says about you. If it affects you too much, in one ear out the other. You should not let anyone affect you.
Always be natural about how you react to others. Never blow things out of proportion be overly dramatic and selfish. Think twice before you react and respond to others. Always take the commentary of others lightly, never assume anything is about you. You cannot control what people think.
When you lose your marbles in public you have no one to blame but yourself.
Always have dreams and aspirations in life. How you stay afloat. Never let anyone bring you down in life. Never stoop to any ones level. Let you be you and they be them.
Words can be said but never forgotten always be mindful of what you say and keep in mind how remembered.
Sometimes the best decisions aren't made when we are tired but when we are well rested and can think clearly. This is important for positive functioning. It's when we're not doing well we make decisions that may in turn hurt ourselves if we're not careful.
Never think too highly of yourself. How you set yourself up for disaster psychologically when your too high up, not careful, and more likely to take risks in life. Always be a cautious decision maker in life.
When things just don't feel the same anymore usually it's because a change is needed within you not within others in order to regroup adapt to your present circumstances get back into the swing of things. That's how you fit in again by being apart of not separate. Always be careful how you contribute online as it reflects your beliefs to whom and what you contribute and why. Always be careful.
When you love yourself everything seems to fall into place. No longer nit picky over mistakes in life but able to embrace the moment and live life on life's set of terms not by the terms set by others.
The best memories are the ones you keep to yourself.
TMI Causes Depression: Why? When you share too much about yourself others feel bad for you that in turn makes people distance themselves from you and when that occurs you feel bad about yourself. Why it's important to always be approachable online.
You have to make it on your own in life, no one takes you under their wing. They can support you, but you have to always do your best to bring yourself up in life.
You should never create problems in your mind you yourself cannot properly deal with on your own without the help of others. There are always people to go to in times of need. You are never so alone in life that hurting yourself should ever be an option, that's just you stuck in your own head or you stuck in a rut you can't get out of, always be proactive and do your best to achieve a normal life.
Never let the problems of others get you down in life. Everyone has problems. Always be understanding and compassionate with that comes compromise empathy. No matter how you feel always put the feelings of others before your own when listening to avoid insult, why it's important to be a good listener not interrupt others while they're speaking. We all have problems some more or less unique to ourselves but none greater than the other, they're just problems any problem can be dealt with maturely and need not be a deal breaker or ruin ones life, it's important to get over stuff quick in order to fair well in life not allow yourself to get so easily beaten up and off track in life.
You have to be doing well in life to be surrounded by those who are well too. You cannot do well in life when you are not doing well not feeling well or the sick are making you sick. You have to be independent of others in order to do well in life.
Its usually people close to you or in your life who become defensive when you yourself are not doing well. Then blame it on drugs, alcohol, or mental health issues claim your difficult not their attitude toward you as being hard on you for no reason.
Always be kind, courteous, and respectful of the time and attention of others. Detailed responses are not necessary to let others know everything about you. Heard and understood sometimes just makes people feel less than, to be heard and understood is to be listened to that's at best you can do for anyone going through a lot is to just be there for them be present.
When things are going well for you in life usually happiness follows. When things are not going right for you in life, usually unhappiness follows. Know your part, and always do your best to fix whatever errors exist in your life that are keeping you from achieving happiness and centeredness.
When you know your wants in life it's like nothing can stop you from achieving your goals in life.
Its never advantageous for you to quit while you're ahead in life, it only sets you back, the more indecisive you become, the worse your situation present seems. Always think positively in order to know best and to be a good decision maker in times of need.
When you realize your self-worth it seems like everything falls into place and you begin to function normally again as suited to your best interests not the best interests of others or to whom those you care for. You are your best advocate in life know that by helping others when you are not well you only put yourself at a worse off disposition in life not better off. Why it's important not to help others when not well only when well.
Leslie A. Fischman
Please Note: I have finished writing the first draft of my first book, still editing Ch 5-25, my goal is to publish my book 2020 after I graduate, working on myself right now.