Chapter 42: Controversy by Leslie A. Fischman
What's put into controversy is what matters sometimes bothers the mind if about stuff we don't want to talk about that in the subconscious is a topic an underlayer that hurts the mind causes one to tantrum why it's important to speak speak kindly explain explain nicely be thoughtful thoughtful always.
Stability is all in the mind, what matters to you, your basis and jumping off points for decision making is all a matter of you.
When you demonstrate care for self that is reflected in your work ethic you cannot be easily fooled by the moods of others easily affected take nothing personally in life.
Who you communicate to you communicate from and back to always communicate to you your standpoint not the standpoint of others to include not include.
Focus on who's healthy not so much who's who to figure out where you stand amongst likewise.
When you get mislabeled people don't want to associate with you.
Peaceful outlook makes for peaceful times. It's how you see. Always see the good in others.
It's all about who you get along with matters to the psyche what becomes of your thoughts affects you if you allow negativity in to process you should think your thoughts not the thoughts of others about you that just hurts.
My methodology is to share new everyday something new well versed an idea or quote helpful.
Once you become known you can't share political ideologies it gets thrown back at you your ideologies.
If you identify wrongs #preservation I could see myself attending that march fit right in.
If enough people believe in something and show up well put together we listen up #slutwalk it's about right to privacy I think.
You can only be so transparent online my views are right to privacy collected composed virtuosity is so important for positive thinking. When it comes to net neutrality. Based on my read of this definition these are the topics that came to mind. I think connecting is good. It's bad connections that hurt esteem and that toxicity needs repair that's how you better systems, when it's clean it's clear.
What you stand for you attract back so be careful enough to be really involved care to stand for.
At a certain point follow is support personal specialized I hope everyone understands it's difficult.
It's how you think about situations taboo or not what represents what you think best is how to see best.
I'm kind of getting the swing of the high profile mentality blending in I understand that it's difficult to all blend in I see that now why different unique characters.
Influences matter as to causes.
Its thru my writing not my identity.
I see myself helping others but not being it. There's a reason why. I'm not for competition I'm a helper.
Always speak positively of yourself and others to see positive to have a positive outlook in life that's the trick of the trade, to positivity.
Rejection is no excuse for throwing your life away. Don't listen to others. Just keep going. Don't stop to listen to hate, you have to focus.
When you like yourself fitting in is easy. It takes time to make amends in life first with yourself. Forgiveness is a quality about moving forward in life and letting go of the past that includes those who have harmed you.
Perfection is a quality about yourself you should pride yourself in everyday. How to stay focused like yourself and be well liked.
Always think positive thoughts of others. It's when we second guess others we end up driving ourselves nuts trying to figure out others. Just be accepting of people the way they are and always see the good in others.
Fighting is never the solution. 🌸
"What you get is what you see in others" meaning you possess certain traits those traits can be bettered through communications such as reading writing and dialogue positive or negatives helps put issues away to move forward in life, think positive of self we all go through things in life not one better than the other all capable of achieving working. See yourself for who you are not as others say you are to cause hardship upon you, be positive.
What you get is what you see in others. They say sometimes what we think say and how we respond is a manifestation of ourselves. There's a reason for that, good reason to see best self before passing judgment on others. It's what we have that we see best from that standpoint always not always seeing best from the shoes of others. At best we can only be ourselves.
You should not put together more than two things please #Elmers.
You should not be bothered by others or by the problems of others. You should always be thankful for your places in life.
When you think you have it all you could lose everything at a moments notice. Be grateful for the good times. Remember the bad times. And never give up. Much of life requires you to keep going even when you want to stop and quit there's always something positive waiting for you on the other side. Life's like a coin you flip, some days are good some days are bad. Always be present either stuck in the past or the future, live for today. Live for the moment.
When you think positively you fear less, what you take away from a situation or experience is what sticks. If you focus on the positives that's what you'll take away from life, when you focus on negatives you take away the negative. What festers is the negative, to undo negatives you have to move forward in a positive direction to have better thoughts geared toward positives will lead you to more positives how you achieve good luck in life, by what you see.
You won't know unless you try. Whether you fail or succeed in life is based upon what you gamble away image wise. Life's not a gamble. You must always present self professionally. That's how people will know you by how you present yourself. Errors in life when it comes to image leads to self-hate, for perfectionists. Always be understanding of others on #SocialMedia.
Lives can be ruined but ultimately it's up to you to start over not fall behind in life and keep going.
You are a product of the pressure you put on yourself. Those who succeed work hard, put pressure on themselves not others. How you achieve in life, the less connections you have, the fewer communications, the more you get done. The goal is always to live independently of others not be too co-dependent.
Always be thankful for what's been built how to appreciate life and those in it, whether it be on #SocialMedia or real life. Life is much bigger online it's to help you live small find out what you value in life, and especially to help you value you. Not for pressure.
When you care for yourself others will care for you too. When you do not take good care of yourself others will not care for you either. Always be respectful of the cares of others not make people care for those who do not care for themselves. Is what it looks like when there's #discrimination of care.
When well we talk to others when not well we work on ourselves to get well. How to achieve balance and not become a burden to others thru self-care others will care. #DisabilityDiscrimination How to overcome.
You can only be yourself. The internet knows me as mymollydoll. So I'll have to make a new Professional Account that's Finance Based.
If you drink or do drugs you look like someone who is irresponsible doesn't care about self enough to hold a leadership position why leaders should not drink or do drugs, why they don't get jobs make it to leadership because they self-harm hurt themselves their ability to think smart.
For my new job will make a new account to keep separate the campaign my only concern I shared in my interview to keep steady each following how you keep separate lives. Professional + Volunteer.
Everyday is a chance to make a new impression. Plan: Finish School and Finish my Book while working Part-Time training and getting my Licenses.
My current crisis: How to organize my Social Media Accounts. I'll figure it out I'm sure not by my name a new name probably.
Solution: I'll study Finance write Finance + Business Quotes. What I'm studying now at TJSL I'm new!
How you think is how others will think of you hard on you or not based on your look and career overall it's by placement you are judged and by the decisions you make for yourself moving forward in life is best you can do to make better self and those around you.
Think happy thoughts to achieve well in life. Especially about the thoughts of others about you. How to think well.
When you are kind to yourself and apply yourself positively new opportunities and doors open for you to take care of self and others.
Composure under pressure requires you be kind to the spaces of those around you not give in to social pressures how to behave well by doing what's expected of you.
By work product how you identify what's being offered. Services.
I want to keep principles separate so that the companies don't get confused with identity know the company separate from me meet.
When you know what you want in life for yourself go out and get it don't wait until you fall apart to know when you're down. You should stop before you fall apart. That's how you stay up. Careful. This advice was given to me once to be careful. How I know how to behave under pressure.
When you represent yourself well for you and those around you they shine + you how life works to live selflessly not for self but for others is one way to live and improve your life and the life of others. There's a give and take to living life selflessly one must always practice self-care rebuild self to help others well. Otherwise you fall apart.
When you feel down that doesn't mean victimized it's called depression when you are up in life and unhappy that's called depression when you can't help others and/or hurt others to stay.
When you undervalue yourself others will see value within. When you undervalue others they devalue you. When you value all all feel valued that's how you build value by esteem and care.
By the time you realize it should be already made there for us don't worry, that's how successful people care for people they make it in life so that they can be there for others, that's the circle of life.
Controversy devalues self. Always think positively speak positively about self that's how others will think of you whether perfect or not.
Leslie A. Fischman
Please Note: I have finished writing the first draft of my first book, still editing Ch 13-25, my goal is to publish my book 2020 after I graduate, working on myself right now.