Chapter 34: Privacy by Leslie A. Fischman
By: Leslie A. Fischman
I. Purpose for Privacy
There are many purposes for privacy, other than intimacy. Such as the sharing and information concerning about us and others to whom we interact with. That type of information is considered, private, and for those purposes may not be used in a way to cause harm to self or others, UNLESS it is necessary to help others make sense of consequences and circumstances to make better the times in favor of all, peaceable. That is called right to privacy. People with individual interests who do not understand the concept of privacy, are people who are not of concern, people who do understand the concept of privacy, most, are generally those within the helping professions, who by professional means, have experience caring for others on a professional level, understand these matters clearly and to whom they concern. –I’m sorry therefore if for any reason, those in my life, were made public, as my current health is a matter of public concern, when my health is affected by others, they, others need to understand why, to help adjust the public to be more accepting of me and those around me, to whom I interact with, as not to causes for disruption. As I am apart of the solution, no one to whom I interact with is therefore part of the problem, that’s a given, to think anyone is so important next to me, as to receive blame, is by physics impossible. Do not be so narrow-minded to think that I would stoop so low, as to blame anyone for my current problems and hardships, are always of my own making. I have been a writer everyday for 5 years, my current status as a writer now is no thanks to anyone but me, I encourage myself. Never discouraged by others. Always confident professionally, never insecure, just quiet.
II. Right to Be Heard and Right to Privacy
Why are these rights important. To me they are important for mental health reasons. When we feel we are heard, listened to there is a reassuring value to that, reassurances are given to those who can be trusted and those who cannot be trusted are not given added reassurances in life, and made to become paranoid to cause continued harm to themselves not help themselves or others, but for themselves. Why these rights are taken away from people who cannot be trusted.
According to Google, right to privacy means “The right to privacy refers to the concept that one's personal information is protected from public scrutiny. U.S. Justice Louis Brandeis called it "the right to be left alone." While not explicitly stated in the U.S. Constitution, some amendments provide some protections.Jun 12, 2013” 
What does public scrutiny mean? Scrutiny means “If a person or thing is under scrutiny, they are being studied or observed very carefully.”  Whereas public means “of or concerning the people as a whole.”  Merriam-Webster further defines scrutiny as: “1 : a searching study, inquiry, or inspection : examination , 2 : a searching look , 3 : close watch : surveillance” 
Public Scrutiny therefore to me, means the of or concerning o[f] an individual, or any number of individuals, to whom concern is sought to be replaced, by need, once a need for information is sought and brought to ones attention, attention to all is made, in order to further sustain or inform, or support that thought, series of thoughts, or chain of thoughts about an individual, to whom opinion of one is held certain based upon a knowing or a thought of knowing a person, for who they recognize as deserving of scrutiny. No scrutiny is ever deserved, in fact out right to privacy, protects this very subject, of or concerning individuals or parties to transactions, from the meddling of the public, that is considered scrutiny of an individual to associate to a negative, that negative is the taking of private information and making it public, to cause harsh scrutiny. Harsh scrutiny is or are the judgments passed by those to whom opinion is had to and of and to whom opinions are sought to be had or proven likewise to further support opinion. –No opinions held by one should ever be sought or proven to be held by all by good members of society, that is the taking of a good characteristic, or identity, and seeking to prove the opposite. The disingenuiness of transactions and interactions, are considered opinions based, and opinion based rationales do not rise to the level of bad of or concerning further hardships, or justifying continued hardships of individuals considered to be private. The privacy of individuals i[s] a protected constitutional right not a fundamental value, not a human requirement, but a protected right, a guided potential for success, and when that’s in operation, when you yourself subject oneself to harm, that guided potential cannot be in full force and effect, that is a trusted position, position[s] of trust, or valued position to counterclaim that any other force is the cause or future cause for disingenuinzing the current or future potential of success, when that right to privacy is not practiced, to claim broken by another, when purposes are not evident, when public face is present and accepted as part of ones identity, a public presence, information private therefore cannot be used once made public, to cause hardship or scrutiny of individual not under scrutiny. It is by only our own wrongs that cause paranoia, not the wrongs of others upon us, those can always be prevented by practicing this right, right to privacy, to avoid scrutiny.
 “Right to Privacy” https://www.livescience.com/37398-right-to-privacy.html (12/24/17)
 “Scrutiny” https://www.collinsdictionary.com/us/dictionary/english/scrutiny
 “Public” https://www.google.com/search?ei=AzVAWtDdGsWR0gK2-bnoDw&q=public+definition&oq=public+definition&gs_l=psy-ab.3..0l10.10247.11734.0.122220.127.116.11.0.0.0.109.957.9j2.11.0....0...1.1.64.psy-ab..0.11.954...35i39k1j0i67k1j0i20i264k1j0i10k1.0.oHeTFcOnOTI
 “Scrutiny” https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/scrutiny
Not withstanding current hardships, I write, this piece, keep moving forward. At a snails pace, and always with advance warning write, to anyone who is in opposition to me, that is how I have written since 2013. Be careful not to connect negatives to positives, this creates hardships and hardships interfere with expectation, and high expectations of oneself. Always be respectful of higher authorities, and always make sure to give credit where credit is due, Red Cross i.e Professionals. –Its never important to credit people for good deeds, or to seek credit for good deeds, that’s a misnomer, but to file oneself among, is appropriate.
What you are influenced by is what has been read, I influence myself for that matter, a writer. I just looked up my Curator Application to the US Supreme Court, and here we are today, with a new foundation #mmdfilmbase. Not the purposes for this website, not connected. Not for award. Not related, to my causes. That’s a negative connection sought to justify a connection made, and where ideas come from.
When safety needs are met. How can safety needs be met, by connections. When safety needs are met connections are made.
“Your pathways in life matter much the same as your pages online to your though[t] processes and by what you connect is based on what you read. I love the #newspaper why we have them.”
IV. When People Are Grose
We cannot control what we look like to others. Do not mock or imitate me and interfere with my progress, if you are unhappy with yourself, than its best to move forward in life. I do not promote people who are grose, or who do not like me or make fun of me, or who are not on my team in life, I just ignore them.
Its important to always be in control. People will hack to make you look like someone who is insecure, or not stable, and therefore not to be trusted. I’m not a grose or unsafe person, and I don’t have to prove anything to anyone. –I am very secure with myself, and because I am secure with myself, people read my blog.
Its people who are grose on purpose for attention or who make others look grose, who are insecure with themselves, because they think its funny to do something (by few) behind their back to see (as experiment) what the reactions of others will be. –Its never proper to hurt someone purposefully, I am supervised by Srg. Lattimore of the US Military and cc him on everything important. This isn’t President Trump’s job. Whats beyond you, is not as important as whats in front of you. –To spread rumors is sin, and for those reasons, I have left a location or locked a location, in which I have been harmed, or where others have been harmed, deemed unsafe. Usually when you leave a location its because either you have been made to feel unsafe or because others have been made to feel unsafe.
When someone does something behind your back to hurt you, it is obvious to onlookers and not of concern to me. When people hurt you purposefully that’s on them, based upon their immaturity or inability to deal or cope with their own problems. The problems that people have either with themselves or toward me are not my issues, but their own. You cannot fight any war on personal basis, that’s selfish decision making, when you only make decisions for yourself not others.
V. Your Influences in Life Matter
Your influences in life matter, as to who you are, and where youre going in life. Where youre headed is always a direct reflection of what you have in your tool belt, the tools you acquire throughout life, are supposed to help you (1) be (2) be aware and (3) be aquainted in life with your surroundings, have an appreciation for where you come from, and the influences that define you. Why your influences matter. –Don’t be so hard on yourselves, nothing can change you, if youre hard headed enough not to let the voices of others drown our your own. You must always be in control of where youre headed in life, whether someone tries to be you, acquires your gifts, or compete with you in life, thinking they know better, and can achieve better, and have better direction in life, its your intuition that guides you properly. Always be proper in front of others, we are only misguided by our own missteps in life, how we end up places we wish we never were, and end up behind in life, or having to turn around in life, and find new direction in life. You are always the matter with you now whats the matter with others, you come first, in all matters. In order to be self sufficient and succeed in life, you have to matter to you, in order to not be easily misled by others, or put in harms way, misguided. –How you differentiate between the present and your future, determines where you end up in life. Its not that difficult to follow directions and laws, they are meant to protect you from harm, you and others from harm. What you focus on therefore matters, always focus on the positives in life, to prevent hardship, and or personal struggles, we need no mentors only ourselves, and we need guidance, in order to persevere. –Do not blame people you once looked up to and who failed you for direction in life, you are always responsible for the choices you make and who you idolize, be yourself.
VII. Respect (Blog Post) by Leslie A. Fischman
Respect why does it matter? Respect is so important, not just for the purposes of self-discovery, needing to have self-respect, but for the purposes of lifting those who we admire, and recognize those who we despise, without hindering the abilities of anyone, when we have self-respect, that means not engaging in fights, or behaviors that make us look disrespectful or immature. Listening to others is one way in which respect can be achieved, achieved for self and newly acquired respect for others. (What do I mean, I’m getting to the point. Reading over what I just wrote).
Self-Respect (definition): Holding yourself in high regard, demonstrated properness, socially, academically, and professionally, that illustrate you hold others in high regard too, that is how self-respect can be achieved, by those you hold in high regard. Those you admire, shape you, influence you, and that’s who you become.
Then whats the difference between self-respect and respect. To me, self-respect is respect for self, and respect is respect for others. It’s my theory that in order to have self-respect we have to respect others. Meaning, when we do not respect others, then we are lacking respect for something either them or ourselves, which causes immaturity, and immaturity is a result, to me, of lacking respect for self or others.
When you love yourself, respect yourself, others will love and admire you too. When you trash yourself, by being negative toward self or others, then others will not respect you. That doesn’t mean that they should trash you, but they will throw things under your bus, to make you trash yourself, or to cause others to trash you. That’s just apart of life, staying grounded in principles, that’s how you achieve good luck in life, by not allowing others to get under your skin, having a tough skin about you. –I don’t believe that overexposure causes one to look trashy, when on the inside you feel good exposed, that means you’re a performer. However, when you overexpose yourself in a way, by taking in too many exposures, you will feel trashed, or not good about yourself. Overexposure, works in one of two ways: (1) what we expose ourselves to (2) and what we expose others to, about ourselves. –That’s the big dilemma on Social Media, what exposures cause illness, and which help. –I think if you don’t like someone, then no exposure of them will help you see yourself, its important to always be separate from your audience as a writer, not in their face. –I’m chubby right now, so I only photo my face, not my body, that’s why. –I wish I was skinny right now, but I would never expose anyone to seeing me when I’m down. I only show my face when I look perfect, I feel better, key to high community esteem.
Leslie A. Fischman
Please Note: I have finished writing the first draft of my first book, still editing Ch 5-25, my goal is to publish my book 2020 after I graduate, working on myself right now.