Ch 49: Overcoming Mental Illness by Leslie A. Fischman 01-14-18 When you put things aside, your attention becomes divided, between what your doing now and what you need to do. -Take it easy on yourself, the times are challenging, pace yourself. The safety and comfort of home either generates positive vibes or negative vibes depending on where you're at in life, acceptable, successful, proud of yourself. This is the energy you carry to and from home and it matters, to everyone you interact with -how well you take care of yourself. Women have the gift of foresight. Follow wisely. I think we understand the value of religious principles now to help see. If we all see better do well, good, preserve good. #Preservation that's the main goal. I study me to free me. Not one more important than the other, all people are important. 🌸 Don't be scared to live life. 🌸 Self-Care is so important when in crisis. #Hygiene It's okay to miss work. We understand. The times are tough. Ignore the confident let them be. Your memory strengthens now. Hang in there guys. Stay calm. Care for those who need it #RedCross. Support where needed. That's how to rebuild strong, by supporting who needs it. Don't attract attention to yourself. That's how you get hurt at the top, or paid, as an employee represent others well in order to do well be well, coherent thoughts are expected well versed composed. Discomfort with self causes discomfort in others, be unique but not at your expense, fix self often. Morbidity is frowned upon as focused on the wrong thing when purposes are for maintaining positive functioning harping on negatives can cause dysfunction. I read today about trauma and disorganized thinking as a symptom of trauma, a stage of trauma. Recognize and improve how you communicate and always be understanding of others in conversations as we all adjust to conditions that cause us hardship. Maintain some equilibrium mindset. Mindful of others, as well as what you say. When all in trauma be calm, powerlessness requires patient, for all to cope with the times. Stable or not not dysfunction, don't make things worse for yourself, listen to others. Be Sensitive to those in need, care for yourselves, and care for those in need. #Trauma It's by discussion reflects beliefs how you speak reflects intuition where you came from a good or bad place intent - if well or not well how you will be judged looking back on your life as good or bad. Talk positive they connect to your words in Conversation should be positive When you love yourself others will love you too. Life's about being well liked and fitting in -always do your best to make a good first impression. Just when you think you've had enough, and ready to quit, is when you need to keep going in life. Never give up, life's not a failure and neither are you, life is to be lived, without suffering the consequences of one another's mistakes. All crimes are senseless. Never justify the wrongs of others, that's elmering negativity -is always recipe for disaster. Stick to positives. #Elmers You cannot worry what others think when you write creatively, and explore your mind, there's no one to judge you but you. Until you recognize your own self worth and value will you understand the thoughts of others toward you. Diagnosis: Gravely disabled harm to self. (2009) I'm not mentally ill. How free do you need to be to listen. I think there's a stopping point when it comes to freedom. Don't let anyone affect you #Lesson. You should not be affected by others, in one ear out the other, focus on yourselves. Set easy goals (short + long term IOP) don't make life more difficult than it needs to be best to take care of yourself first before others. Better to keep quiet than get upset better to keep quiet than fight unless quiet causes harm to you or others recurring then speak. Feel bad for those who need it. (1) It's never the victim's fault. (2) All crimes are senseless. Sorry I hit my head hearing voices that's a consequence of bullying. I'm not a drug addict wrongfully accused of using drugs I went to rehab treated fully recovered successful doing well happy and getting married I have a great future ahead of me it's not for me to discuss causes and consequences or place blame. I'm very diplomatic I committed suicide 2009 Bc this is too complicated. Stop bullying. I'm very strong was doing well I was not this way in law school its failure and embarrassment that causes these illness which are superficial then hit when down that's too much needs to stop. A flight risk is a mentally retarded person who hears voices and shouts at people I'm not a shouter I'm a calm chill person don't push me over the edge that causes suicide when well leave others alone triggers + consequences are always of your own making not the faults of others don't send people off by your discomforts superficial in nature about image are inconsequential don't mean much. Some people have disability get discriminated in life deal with it. I'm one of them I don't deserve it not then and by now if rather be dead than deal with discrimination I've done so much to help everyone it's not about anyone it's about people taking better care of self + others. People talk to me like I'm retarded I'm not retarded I'm very sweet and nice to everyone everyone should be a little more professional not condescending toward one another let people be happy have relationships that's none of anyone's business choices. I'd rather stay home live a simple life be Amish write books live life. Illness is not contagious but if you act out of character they lose trust. If you're not a winner in life cheer others on don't hurt people to get ahead in life especially those who give back help others is stupid. I probably should file for disability I can't handle the pressures of doing well and people treating me as normal or competition is too much expectation not worth the risk. Elmers says guys relate to people. Not relate stuff together. 🌸 #Relationships Always establish boundaries early on in a relationships, let the other know where you're at and what you're plans in life are to see if you're a match. No relationship is predictable, each one has their ups and downs in life best you can do is be supportive of one another. Not let one another down in life, always being truthful and honest that's how you build trust and positive rapport. When you are yourself and nothing else matters than that one person in your life who helps you shine, then you know that's love and care. There's always an opportunity for change and improvement never give up, you never know what's on the other side of tomorrow. You have to be inspired to write today is not one of those days. Some days you just need to be alone to think and process. It's not being spacey to be quiet sometimes it means you're thinking. Don't worry what others think so much, as what you think matters most. Don't internalize the emotions of others toward you, that just leads to self destruction or dislike for self. Always rise above. Learn how to let go in life, never step back, when your ten feet under water, trying to swim up, stay level headed, don't sink into negativity, drown out negative thoughts in place of positive thoughts and never give up on self or others, when you can be relied upon you can be taken seriously in life and get the support, accolade, and affirmation you wish for in life. Love yourself enough to know when to let go. It's when we get too comfortable with others and let our guards down we get hurt always maintain a professional distance from others to whom you develop intimate attachments with how to build a long lasting relationship or how to maintain positive rapport with others -keeping your personal life separate and by not allowing interpersonal goals from interfering with your professional decision making skills when around others, talking to others, or during times of need, never place ones personal burdens on others to mend and repair but always fix yourselves on your own on your terms not try to change others to adjust to your needs, be well adjusted yourself for the purposes of mindfulness and from there acceptance will likely follow. Love yourself enough to know when to let go. It's when we get too comfortable with others and let our guards down we get hurt always maintain a professional distance from others to whom you develop intimate attachments with how to build a long lasting relationship or how to maintain positive rapport with others -keeping your personal life separate and by not allowing interpersonal goals from interfering with your professional decision making skills when around others, talking to others, or during times of need, never place ones personal burdens on others to mend and repair but always fix yourselves on your own on your terms not try to change others to adjust to your needs, be well adjusted yourself for the purposes of mindfulness and from there acceptance will likely follow. When you matter to others you're work will speak for itself. When you're not up to par others will judge you. If you don't know when to stop, have limits in life, others will think you're a gamble not have faith in you. Always be a stable companion to counteract or diffuse negativity around you, it's all a matter of manifestation. Don't abuse privileges in life, never take things further than where they need to be with others in professional relationships, you will be judged in the negative, romance is for the bars not for working relationships. Interoffice dating is never a best recommended suit but one to be avoided in life, listen wisely, as advised don't date bosses and didn't listen. When you matter to others your work will speak for itself. When you're not up to par others will judge you. If you don't know when to stop, have limits in life, others will think you're a gamble not have faith in you. Always be a stable companion to counteract or diffuse negativity around you, it's all a matter of manifestation. Don't abuse privileges in life, never take things further than where they need to be with others in professional relationships, you will be judged in the negative, romance is for the bars not for working relationships. Interoffice dating is never a best recommended suit but one to be avoided in life, listen wisely, as advised don't date bosses and didn't listen. Backwards blame = present failure. If you don't like me than don't read. I'm not out here to be criticized I'm trying to help everyone move forward, because hurting me is not okay, and talking $hit is not okay. I committed suicide 2009, Bc dumped, that's why. I recovered. When you're negative toward others that harm can be permanent. It's important to be nice, that's never my fault, bullying. Better than does not make smarter than how it looks is what's seen. Don't self harm people please. You don't fully appreciate, people, places, and things from our life until they're gone. Always stay in tune with reality. Learn from your mistakes and do your best to get from point a to point b in a positive way, rehashing the past only sets you backwards if unless to do so helps refresh a positive point moving forward. What you know best now, can only be improved by balancing your focus on you strengths and knowing your weaknesses in life. Never worry too much about what others think of you. You cannot be perfect always. There will always be some on your team in life and some who turn against you for whatever reasons they think justified. Don't be obtuse, move forward in life and always rise above, that's how you get to the other side in life. Not by criticizing others, but by accepting your own weaknesses in character and by strengthening self and others who do care. Everyday is a new opportunity to change. Change for the better. Always make your amends, forgiveness is an option not a choice. Some of us live with mistakes and some of us point out mistakes. Know your limits know when to stop. When you've got nothing left to lose, think about what you have. Never be dramatic to the concerns of others, but best to be concerned most with yourself. How you become apart of the solution not seen as part of the problem. Who you are is reflected by your beliefs and your associations in life, the putting together of self is how to represent all well. How you look demonstrates care. It's not who you know that matters but what you know about people that affects your outlook. Don't internalize the emotions or words of others. Always be yourself, your issues make up your identity -do not be easily persuaded by others, or by their wrongs, do not make you who you are, connected to or separate from. Always blend in, do your best to get along well with others, that's how you become comfortable with yourself, by your words not by your actions, represent who you are, inside out. Behavioral health issues are a product of unhappiness with self. So if you follow the rules perform well nothing should bother you or others around you should not bother you, it's how you react that differentiates between well not well. The well ignore the sick respond to subtleties why ignore noises not directed at you listen to others when they're unhappy with you how to be a better person. Don't be thought provoking in public always mind the thoughts of others and their spaces how to do well in life respectful of you and those around you, deemed well. Don't read into people's thoughts only what is said not by looks. Reassurances are provided by your belief systems how you get well. Rejects are people unfit to lead. It's by ill interactions you connect feel ill it ruins communication normal when you communicate abnormally to others to be normal. To be normal communicate effectively normal not defensively abnormal that looks like guilt connection is by understanding. Unwanted connection = illness. Let go of your fears. In order to achieve good luck in life you have to think positively of self and others. Only you can repair your image no one else can for you. When you yourself are ready for change, then and only then will you blossom and overcome whatever obstacles will come your way. It's never too late to be a good person of outstanding moral character. Always be honest and truthful, and upon that basis you should be free, to grow, learn, and thrive. What you see fit is what is. Never let the shortcomings or faults of others persuade you to think otherwise. What will be will be but make sure never at your expense and preserved sanity. Those aggressive toward others mind and those who mind matter. Don't worry what people think worry about yourself, conform to no standards set higher than your capable of achieving. Always fit in, and adapt to your environment. A case in my textbook actually told me they knew what happened and flew to DC to visit them. #SCOTUS. Fighting is not the Solution. Always best to stay calm not reply to Provocation and invoke the negative spirits of others toward you, don't internalize hate for self or others. #DontConvertMe Once you become ill with disability nothing can make your heart better. It's called burn out nothing feels good. This occurs when tired. Illness[es] are problems internalized that's called identity issues thinking that one is sick if sees sick. That's called smart recognition of self as well. #redcross severe retardation. What it looks like. I'm very organized work very hard (2013). I think we understand the value of religious principles now to help see. If we all see better do well, good, preserve good. #Preservation that's the main goal. I study me to free me. Not one more important than the other, all people are important. 🌸 Don't be scared to live life. 🌸 Hang in there guys. Stay calm. Care for those who need it #RedCross. Support where needed. That's how to rebuild strong, by supporting who needs it. Ignore the confident let them be. Your memory strengthens now.
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Never allow fears and resentments to keep you from fulfilling your dreams in life. Especially when you are only a few steps away from changing your life for the better. Don't waste time going backwards, and lamenting. Never play victim, don't complain, and always be a team player. Fighting is never the answer.
What happens to you in your lifetime is a manifestation of yourself. Keep it real or walk, you never know what's on the other side of tomorrow if you don't try today, now what you wish you would've accomplished yesterday, how to stay on track be present in the moment. Live for the moment. Stay present. Know your best. And go from there. Duty to Warn: To me this means gathering the people and leading discussions for future change. To me it means being selfless but cautious, caring, but not too empathetic spongelike, teaching compassion to others at this time whether had or not had for others, to whom we like dislike or don't trust and why. -In order to rise above controversy one must help others thru it before leaving any one controversy or point at issue, help others to think for themselves clearly, that's all at best we can ever do as public speakers. Words carry meaning. We may not be able to change our words but their meaning can change overtime by supporting verses is how language evolves, over time, positively. Know your limits in life. Be Your Own Best Friend. Its not always important to know why. Just blend in with the best of them. #Success #Courage #Perseverance #GoodHealth #Strength #Weakness #Image #Domicile #Judgments #Positivity Subjects heeded are personal ignore personal issues in favor of all, don't side with anyone in trauma always look objectively at all see the big picture to manage self and understand your value. Patterns are subjects for professionals don't get too caught up life's not a game to get to the bottom to the race to the bottom should be avoided at all costs. Mental illness is not a trend it's a lifestyle on medication and its challenging. When all is well be well for everyone not just yourself #selflessness is not caring for self. You are your brand, be yourself. Forgiveness is something past we regret and need something in its place positive to move forward from, something about us unique is how we move forward in life and by what connections relevant. What is wanted and what is given, differs from person to person, acceptance wise. Your firm beliefs guide you in life, nothing lasts forever. Usually when busy doing one thing others are drawn to us interrupt our progress, learning to multi-task is a trait requires balance not odds. Never feel bad for the problems of others, focus on your rights in life. Acceptance is beginning to end. If you mess up, take a new job try again. I went to the psych ward so I had to leave my job, start over. Fog is caused by doing things that don't make you feel good. Fog is caused by being in two places at once heart goes elsewhere how you feel still. Your individualized communications is how you rehabilitate good character by chatting, texting, talking, to others. Accept people for who they are the way they are. The sharing of private information causes discomfort in your audience. You should always care, never saying who cares, but you should care about yourself, for you and others. Always do your best to preserve self. At the point when you say who cares, you should care. When you fumble in life, never stop improving. To get back to the other side of depression you have to stay positive, how you regroup in life, being strong for yourself, not allowing others to affect you. In order to see the difference between now and your future you have to always stay prepared for whatever comes your way. -We are not all that important, in the grand scheme of things, there are always others more important than us. Knowing yourself is so important for self-improvement. Knowing your limits, when to stop. When to ignore. And when to move forward. Not assume everything's on your shoulders but always doing your part. How you move forward in life. When you like yourself you don't worry what others think so much or feel unnecessarily connected to them, you move forward in life. Bearing your own burdens in life not the burdens of others. This is called being mature, not creating problems within others or yourself. Where you think you're going in life and where you're headed are two different things. When you think positive everything comes together for you in life -whereas when you think negatively of self or others things don't seem to work out for you in life. Always be yourself whether or not people are watching you, over you, or looking directly at you. No one can read your mind but you, stay focused, and live well to be well. Who you communicate to matters, toward self others, and self-esteem, voices heard and listened to make you who you are. Who you speak to matters as to what you hear, in favor of you or against you in life, you are a product of your own thoughts not to be mistaken for the thoughts of others, how to preserve your identity by who you focus on, who's on your team in life, best to always be on your own team in life, not be too dependent on others to help lift your self-esteem or make you better, always see the good in others. Chapter 47: Independence by Leslie A. Fischman
01-08-17 Independence means without worry to others without worry for others. When you worry less you see more, similarly those around you will be more accepting of you, and others. If you worry others, they will care to interfere with your progress, set you back in life, correct you. Social Media is All About: 1. Structure 2. Thoughts 3. Connections 4. Neatness 5. Organization 6. Positivity 7. Creativity 8. Weight 9. Scrutiny 10. Subject Social Anxiety is a willingness to let go and sit in reality as is without the pressure of the past weighted on your shoulders. Weight means density. #SocialMedia How to make solid. Social Media is all about uniqueness of character and structure. To be ornate or original one must be genuine, meaning coming from a good place, how we share accordingly, without pressure from others or anxieties function well. Those best suited for leadership positions online are those best spoken, well spoken, out spoken, and courteous to the time of others spent reading along. How you see best others will see you. When you know your audience best, you react to help preserve that audience, how some know best. Based upon protecting others from harm. When one team is made then split that causes pain everywhere. That's called divided attention. Always keep your attention on positives to not be one sided or two sided but do what's in your best interests and the interests of others that's like-mindedness. Always match to good combinations to produce good. #SimonCowell infused quote/idea. The beauty you seek in the world always lies within you. How you see yourself in relation to others justifies your traits good or bad, either reinforcing positives or negatives about you reflected in your thoughts about self and others, when or when not around people. What you know about self and what you know about others is by what you read and what you hear. Pay attention to positive cues. To stay on the right side of life, not fall through the cracks. Stay positive. Obsession shows that you need to let things go, from you mind, to move forward, tell tale signs of unhealthy attachments. Life is a process. You recognize your own self worth once you experience loss in life and/or failure. This reminds you of what you do have in life. Sometimes that's all that matters. Knowing the difference between right and wrong and moving forward. Can either make or break your day depending on how you look at things. Wonderful things ahead. Always wish well others. What you think while you go through day is what is. You cannot go back to change you only your present circumstances. Always be well-liked. You have to keep going in life the focus is not always on you. People have their own lives to focus on too. Always be mindful that there are other people with lives not just your life matters to all you should matter to you too, in order to matter, period. What can you do but accept others for who they are not what seems is how you stay positive by always seeing the good in others not by being judgmental. Business Quotes by Leslie Be careful on social media not to over-conglomerate your business with too many ideas. This affects your image and the image of others as tied to. Always represent yourself best. Not be represented by others or use others to represent you. At the end of the day all you have is you and your work ethic to vouche for. Be you first, help others secondly. That's how you help and care for those around you, not by putting them at risk of harm. People are not pawns but to be cared for on social media. Be accepting of all personalities. What blends best is what you blend, that's what seen and heard. Who you write for matters. On each given platform from which you write a new set of ideas is generated based upon: (1) who you follow (2) who you're followed by (3) and by what you say reflects (a) 1-3 and (b) your ability to communicate to a specific group of people. How you communicate differently shows your ability to adjust and fine tune discussions for a separate base, clientele. Financial Advocacy (definition): "'Advocacy in all its forms seeks to ensure that people, particularly those who are most vulnerable in society, are able to: Have their voice heard on issues that are important to them. Defend and safeguard their rights." Moving on now the focus is small ideas not big ideas. (2018). It's who you bounce ideas off of that matters. Shapes you and your outlook positive or negative. Life is about balance. Finding your best suit. Addiction is about knowing when to stop and settle down your guards. Be kind to others, know yourself well enough, to know when it's time to change direction and focus back to study, and learning to help all. Don't DJ to your Bosses #DanBrown ya I know. This has happened before. What you know now changes after learning. You choose what to study and that shapes your mind and positive outlook in life. By exposure and thru experience become a better decision maker. How you balance your life determines how well you'll be able to help balance the lives of others. It's all about how well you balance yourself. Thru communications with others and by continuing your education to be best fit for jobs and clientele. You will always be judged by others based upon how you live your life personally and professionally that is always taken into account when passing judgment upon others as deserving or not of jobs. I worked very hard to get this job. Deserve to be here. Anything amplified is out of place. Know your places in life in order to perform well under pressure. You are always yourselves, never let the pressure of idioms or causes refresh your mind to think otherwise. Stay positive, always think first before you set yourself up for failure. You cannot blame people for their misfortunes in life or by connections upbringing. #AcceptAll. Take no offense to the struggles of others are not yours but of your own making. But people's struggles are a product of their own decision-making skills. You define you, do not be defined by others, or their attachments to you in times of need, always give things room to breathe, for the sake of acceptance, have gratitude. You cannot be apart of anything you choose not to be apart of you are only incorporated by the connections you choose in life. Controversy erupts epiphany so focus on the good sort out the bad, and never lose sight of your goals in life. Read self well to get places in life, you have to have a positive outlook toward self and others. It's not about being bright or the sharpest but about what you can provide, life's all about esteem and quality. My Opinion Know your rights without taking away good rights from the good, know your limits. Protest hate not bad people how you get hurt being a one. Arms should NOT include guns. Guns cause nervousness to carrier and bystanders. Apply law positively, such as marchers are ok. Bloglovin has a great new campaign for Influencers called Activate. There are so many campaigns to stand for that are anti-violence. #FBIDC Chapter 46: Whats On My Mind by Leslie A. Fischman
01-07-17 Life Isnt About Image or Connections by Leslie A. Fischman 01-03-17 Life isn’t about image or connections, its upon your own basis you become you, based upon your own merits in life, not the merits or good merits of others. How you self-identify and what becomes of you is how you will be judged by others. Always be yourself, you need not justify why you are the way you are or for what reasons you are ill is no ones business but your own. If you are doing everything you can to be well, than no people or persons should make you sick. People are not contagious, its bad ideas that are feared as being contagions, everyone is responsible for themselves, you cannot control others, it is not by our ideas that make us who we are but by our thoughts which control our actions and behaviors that make us who we are, how we are in public, how we address others, and how we ourselves are addressed, is a manifestation of how we see ourselves is how others will see us in reply, always be appropriate in public dressed and around others. That is how to be well-liked. When you are judged that is no excuse for self hatred or for upset, you can only do your best, and if your best is not well received than acceptance of self is required you cannot be accepted by all, that’s called discrimination. You just have to accept that some people will not like you for whatever reasons, whether by your associations connections what you represent or what they think you represent or by where your headed in life, they think deserving or not. Intimidation and wins are for the weak, life’s not a competition, take life easy, and always be there for others, when you help yourself, others will be helped too. Moving Forward and Backtracking by Leslie A. Fischman 01-05-17 Whenever we move forward in life its common to backtrack and review ourselves, our strengths our weaknesses, and try to better our self and our image. Life is all about perfection. How we view ourselves, much to the same effect is how others will view us. If we do not go backwards and make our amends, and edit, then we as writers, subject ourselves to harsh and unnecessary scrutiny. Writing is all about perfection, no spelling errors, and no typographical mistakes. All of which affect the readers understanding of what is written. It is very important as a writer and publisher to always be unique, and to always be neat and tidy, that is how to make a good blog, one that is read, with ease. When there are errors, and blocks this causes the reader to question the source, and that is why people are blocked, and questioned, when they themselves are not tidy and neat looking they will be judged. It is by how we present ourselves, that we are looked at, manage your presence at all times well, in order to be well received, that is how to be best approachable. Being Raised Conservative by Leslie A. Fischman 01-06-17 When you leave the woodwork you realize what you have, I was raised very conservative, and now I understand why. It was to protect me from harm, that when we let loose we will be judged by others, its how we are taken seriously, that others will judge us, based upon our own merits, and what we bring to the table, skills. Those skills are by education and background, those build the backbones to companies, and from there a company grows. What is independence. We chatted today before the meeting, to me that means a Corporation that is independently run, by its employees, who are independent of one another, not co-dependent. In the real world, I see that individuals, base selves on their accolades and based upon their merits, how confidence is made, not by being inside a group but by what they bring to the table, that is how confidence is made. You can only see yourself, when you are in a group of people, who is accepting of you not hard on you, know your worth. Sometimes in close relationships, people are hard on us, that’s to protect us from harm. When we understand the value of self, in relationship to others, we will know ourselves best. How to behave in front of others, whether to be known for our present or our past, and from that point determine how well known, know you best, not others, how to get to know yourself among people, how to self identify. When people look at you and think you are something you are not, that is because they know you based on what they hear, not based on what they know, or see, and that is always understandable, we give thanks to others, for acceptance always, how to move forward, and not discuss our private lives out loud, or professional selves, in order to maintain a positive outlook in life, is by our work ethic not others points of views. This is clear upon meeting people very well adjusted, I too was once well adjusted, and now struggle because of my relationships gone sour, while attending law school. I will never understand the pressure perceived until I undergo it myself. What you say about yourself, is by what rumor is known about you, always be truthful, and give value to your life presently, everything is a matter of correction. When you are a perfectionist and corrected, then you should know better how to behave is how one is treated, who looks or appears mentally ill, that’s called passing judgment upon another’s circumstances, and adding fruit to the table of concerns. What is concerning is what alarms, people should never be alarmed by adjusters. Adjusters are people who are accepting of all people, they themselves must be conservative minded, if to be a backbone to others, to mirror conversation behavior. That is how trust is built, not by surprises, but by dialect, being conservative minded. Conservative minded means being a defensive driver in life, watching out always for concerns, addressing concerns accordingly, and by offering reassurances. Reassurances are guaranteed by behavior present, and behavior continued, elsewhere. It is known that I struggled with alcohol after law school, its never been a problem in my life professionally, always sound, and never a threat to my environment, or to others, I’m not a loose canon, its by judgments threats to me, that occurred (once), said something back under the influence (once), that is not me but a product of my circumstances, I was judged as something I am not, and because they thought I was a whore, I was treated like that, Im very chaste, never dressed like a whore, never behaved like one, always conservative toward others. What We See We Remember by Leslie A. Fischman 01-06-17 What we see is what we remember is what gets promoted about us, not by whats in our closet, or in our bedrooms. That is not how people see us, by our private spaces. Is not how you judge a cover by its book, its by how you remember identify yourself, not by the baggage of others, or by your things in life. You cant go backwards and try to be a better you, you have to just be you as you are now. That’s how to build a better you, from here forward, not by going backwards. Your past picture is always your best profile picture, as you remember you best. Ive found that that has helped me, gear myself back to reality, and how I understand my direction and self in life, and where I am headed, not by the direction of others, headed in life. Its important to stay true to your character, not be easily impressed upon or molded, slightly stubborn, but cautious, is the best way to lead yourself in any public environment. I have found that to rehabilitate my character it takes time, by good merits only. When I infuse myself with the troubles of others, bear burdens, that’s my weight. Not the weight of others upon me, but my instincts, errors, failure, to overcome. Perfection is a job, not a hobby, when you perfect yourself, you understand your own intrinsic value, that no other person’s value should affect you in communication. Its not contagious, stupidity, its just a recognized failure, always do your best to repair yourself separately. Whats Important to You by Leslie A. Fischman 01-07-17 Whats important to you matters, however it may not always matter to others. What you project about yourself personally, is how you fail, in the image department. That cannot be removed from your record, how others see you, that is something that you cannot control. In the grand scheme of things, how you will be viewed and judged will be a matter of principles based, not gusto or energy, but by your nature and value and givingness to the trade, that is your writing. Overall how you will be perceived is how you are judged by others, as worthy of attention, put together, a cohesive idea, or something that needs more work. That is called acceptance. What matters to you may not matter to everyone, but that doesn’t mean that you or your ideas don’t matter at all. With proper training and instruction you too can make a difference in the lives of others, its all a matter of manifestation, and willingness to learn and try, always doing your best. How you represent self matters, and based upon those judgments and first impressions, a judgment is passed upon you, accepted or declined, mattered or fabricated, together or not, or picked apart. You should never be insulted by the input of others, and that should not change you or your feelings about yourself, or cause you to question yourself or others. That is your instability, a reflection of your own instability, when you feel judged. To think positively of oneself, is how to undo negative opinions about oneself. Chapter 45: Your Mind Your Matters by Leslie A. Fischman
01-07-17 When people don't like you coming up because (1) you don't have a paid job don't (a) worry (b) fight back (c) let the negativity get to you. They will understand one day what's important what's not about people and others, what to care for who to care for and why. When you match up well in life that's called fitting in finding you niche. It's important to always maintain a level head about you. Who you are you represent, who others are they represent. Others cannot represent you if you yourself do not represent yourself best. What bothers you about others will soon dissipate the more people you care for, the more people you help, the better your outlook will be, not overly defensive to the problems of others, that are not your own. What you fear you become if you're not cautious, less than you best. In the grand scheme of things, who is it that you want to be in life. Who are your mentors in life. How will you identify what is liked not liked about you based on those identifiable traits and characteristics about you. Sometimes it's what matters that counts, toward your successes in life. What matters to you. Moving forward. How you cope will be a reflection of your good wits about you. You cannot piggy back on the successes of others. Always remember who was there for you when you were down. To be a proper support system you must first represent yourself well. Why successful people surround themselves with successful people in life. You are at times a reflection of who you're surrounded by. Being subservient to the best interests of others, means being kind. And there for them but not needed, that teaches them independence in relationships. #HowtoDate When you are negative you will hear negative voices. Especially post breakup -Why it's important to keep moving forward. Not let the voice of others not on your side in life not on your team in life get to your head. When you are too kind to others, not deserving, you have the potential to disempower yourself, while catering to the needs of others. Those who you put in trusted position to care and care back are called relationships. To build relationships, long term, one must be stable successful. A little inspiration goes a long way live without regrets. Chapter 44: Communications by Leslie A. Fischman
01-07-17 I share ideas for betterment. 🌸 How we communicate needs be normal positive conservative to be well-liked treated without talk. The negative is acceptance past. How I share is by quotes. 🌸 The undercut to esteem is failure. When you go backwards to connect. Re-connect why move forward in life, make new connections, that's how to survive. You keep all your friends and make new friends how to survive be a success in life well-liked. 🌸 Intimidation is a quality of character. How you see yourself. Lives ruined are lives ruined. 🌸 Don't ruin yours at your expense. Those who have a lot are a lot. 🌸 One bad connection doesn't make you who you are you are responsible for you always. 🌸 Be your own best influence in life do not be influenced by another's sins should not affect you next to. Some people defend some listen. Guilt is when you personalize to self emphatically the experiences of others, always stay in your shoes. That's not how to identify the positions of others not by glue. But by what we put together. Always stick to positive bases. Guilt is an emotion of regret. If you live without regrets you stay positive how you attract others. Causes for behavior are always on your own doings emotional bases. When you leave a situation take from it and learn do better for self and others, always be a perfectionist. You reflect you. Others do not impress upon you your character is by your merits. When it's difficult you try harder. You cannot be others take places in life you can only best be you. What id say to myself sitting there as me now, show up more positive smile more be more reassuring not be sensitive and have more confidence. How I was influenced. When you wish, you've lost yourself in life, how you know you've created errors for yourself in life that cannot be removed forgotten that's called self-harm. You can only best be you, help you best in order to see best for others. Backwards review to see forwards blame is counterproductive for all. Humor I can't do anymore because it looks insensitive that's an issue. Represent yourself well not ideas. You should not pick apart glue. Where ideas come from are by comparisons better thans. What you relate to reflects you. We can only relate to others by: Impression Experience Empathy Sympathy Alikeness Differences Identities When the happiness of others (1) bothers you or (2) you think is directed toward you or at your circumstances you know (3) you think too much of yourself: (a) too highly (b) not humble enough (c) not in their shoes. Lift yourself up to lift others. 🌸 When you're well adjusted. Others will similarly be adjusted to you, seem well adjusted too. When you are not well adjusted everything stands out to you. It's what you see that matters in self and others why they say to always see the good in others. Direct communications lead to poor communications. How to think different from self and others. The less you try. To be direct the more you indirectly communicate the more direct communications the more direct you communicate. All responses to your communications are valued or devalued based on response. The negative is acceptance past. How I share is by quotes. 🌸 Be your own best influence in life do not be influenced by another's sins should not affect you next to. One bad connection doesn't make you who you are you are responsible for you always. 🌸 Ch 43: Forgiveness 🌸🎓📓 by Leslie A. Fischman
01-07-17 Forgiveness is about being on time. Knowing when to stop before it's too late. Resentments hurt overtime appreciate overtime if not dealt with why it's important to make amends right away not wait until the last minute to do so. How people are affected explains why they are the way they are. Always be understanding of others. Always see the good in others. That's how you maintain a positive outlook in life. When there's a need for a solution you have to be on time in life, you cannot rest on your laurels. In order to be successful you have to keep going in life. Not stop at befuddlements or bad truths, but by focusing on the positives, clarity will always arrive sooner or later. Never write by what's in agreement always write how you feel that's called freedom of expression. When we write how others feel in expectation of response the only ones we short hand in life are ourselves. Don't make resolutions you can't follow through in in life. It's all about what's agreeable to the taste, not what's like minded, but by what you yourself are comfortable with. Your audience will likely be more understanding of you the less you argue your side. When you have an idea give little notice as to its components or else the idea fades or goes away. It's like hypocrisy when you say you're gonna do something and you have to do it be a man of your word. You have to have assembled an idea in order for it to come to fruition. When you believe in yourself, your dreams come true. When you or others don't believe in you you question yourself and others. That's a common mistake when we do or do not trust others or they of ourselves are mistakes made as to the good character of others. Dont allow the aggressive nature of others to get to you. Don't let people get under your skin and make you needy of them. That's how you give your power away. By allowing others to interfere with your emotional stability, giving in to their need to be needed. Fighting is never the answer to your problems. It usually ends up not in your favor when you fight from an unsteady position or a position that looks like something that it's not will cause others to fight with you. Don't allow them to break your peace. You know you best not others. When you understand yourself well you are more likely to be better understanding of others. The more fragile you are the more sensitive to others you will be. When you have to shout a deduction it's probably meant to cause you harm, harm to your mind, your spirit. Think wisely of self first and always touch base with reality before accepting any harsh judgments of self or others. What you hear is what you get, bad ideas of others about you are called negative voices. To undo negative voices you have to think positive thoughts about self and others how you stay healthy minded and at heart, true to your good character, that's how you stay well, by not engaging in negativity. When you understand the value of communications and lose communications you realize your self-worth. Always stay humble, don't be desperate, and never give up. How you apply yourself is how you will be judged. Much about success is learning how to let go. Knowing your stopping points. Whenever there is an error to the perfectionist that error stands out. To undo the pain of that error like a typo, you have to do a lot of good to re-value your work to make it a trusted set. Letting go requires you to let go to manage your risks. The risk of caring is what subjects you to harm. When you cut your losses in life you free yourself from the future burden of loss. Why people in business steer clear of risky investments. That's how you leave bad behind. By going back to what's comfortable. A time before. Such as my quotes, written before my troubles in life. How I can operate to stay positive. Then go back to a pre quote start from that quote to get to good. 🌸 Chapter 42: Controversy by Leslie A. Fischman
01-05-17 What's put into controversy is what matters sometimes bothers the mind if about stuff we don't want to talk about that in the subconscious is a topic an underlayer that hurts the mind causes one to tantrum why it's important to speak speak kindly explain explain nicely be thoughtful thoughtful always. Stability is all in the mind, what matters to you, your basis and jumping off points for decision making is all a matter of you. When you demonstrate care for self that is reflected in your work ethic you cannot be easily fooled by the moods of others easily affected take nothing personally in life. Who you communicate to you communicate from and back to always communicate to you your standpoint not the standpoint of others to include not include. Focus on who's healthy not so much who's who to figure out where you stand amongst likewise. When you get mislabeled people don't want to associate with you. Peaceful outlook makes for peaceful times. It's how you see. Always see the good in others. It's all about who you get along with matters to the psyche what becomes of your thoughts affects you if you allow negativity in to process you should think your thoughts not the thoughts of others about you that just hurts. My methodology is to share new everyday something new well versed an idea or quote helpful. Once you become known you can't share political ideologies it gets thrown back at you your ideologies. If you identify wrongs #preservation I could see myself attending that march fit right in. If enough people believe in something and show up well put together we listen up #slutwalk it's about right to privacy I think. You can only be so transparent online my views are right to privacy collected composed virtuosity is so important for positive thinking. When it comes to net neutrality. Based on my read of this definition these are the topics that came to mind. I think connecting is good. It's bad connections that hurt esteem and that toxicity needs repair that's how you better systems, when it's clean it's clear. What you stand for you attract back so be careful enough to be really involved care to stand for. At a certain point follow is support personal specialized I hope everyone understands it's difficult. It's how you think about situations taboo or not what represents what you think best is how to see best. I'm kind of getting the swing of the high profile mentality blending in I understand that it's difficult to all blend in I see that now why different unique characters. Influences matter as to causes. Its thru my writing not my identity. I see myself helping others but not being it. There's a reason why. I'm not for competition I'm a helper. Always speak positively of yourself and others to see positive to have a positive outlook in life that's the trick of the trade, to positivity. Rejection is no excuse for throwing your life away. Don't listen to others. Just keep going. Don't stop to listen to hate, you have to focus. When you like yourself fitting in is easy. It takes time to make amends in life first with yourself. Forgiveness is a quality about moving forward in life and letting go of the past that includes those who have harmed you. Perfection is a quality about yourself you should pride yourself in everyday. How to stay focused like yourself and be well liked. Always think positive thoughts of others. It's when we second guess others we end up driving ourselves nuts trying to figure out others. Just be accepting of people the way they are and always see the good in others. Fighting is never the solution. 🌸 "What you get is what you see in others" meaning you possess certain traits those traits can be bettered through communications such as reading writing and dialogue positive or negatives helps put issues away to move forward in life, think positive of self we all go through things in life not one better than the other all capable of achieving working. See yourself for who you are not as others say you are to cause hardship upon you, be positive. What you get is what you see in others. They say sometimes what we think say and how we respond is a manifestation of ourselves. There's a reason for that, good reason to see best self before passing judgment on others. It's what we have that we see best from that standpoint always not always seeing best from the shoes of others. At best we can only be ourselves. You should not put together more than two things please #Elmers. You should not be bothered by others or by the problems of others. You should always be thankful for your places in life. When you think you have it all you could lose everything at a moments notice. Be grateful for the good times. Remember the bad times. And never give up. Much of life requires you to keep going even when you want to stop and quit there's always something positive waiting for you on the other side. Life's like a coin you flip, some days are good some days are bad. Always be present either stuck in the past or the future, live for today. Live for the moment. When you think positively you fear less, what you take away from a situation or experience is what sticks. If you focus on the positives that's what you'll take away from life, when you focus on negatives you take away the negative. What festers is the negative, to undo negatives you have to move forward in a positive direction to have better thoughts geared toward positives will lead you to more positives how you achieve good luck in life, by what you see. You won't know unless you try. Whether you fail or succeed in life is based upon what you gamble away image wise. Life's not a gamble. You must always present self professionally. That's how people will know you by how you present yourself. Errors in life when it comes to image leads to self-hate, for perfectionists. Always be understanding of others on #SocialMedia. Lives can be ruined but ultimately it's up to you to start over not fall behind in life and keep going. You are a product of the pressure you put on yourself. Those who succeed work hard, put pressure on themselves not others. How you achieve in life, the less connections you have, the fewer communications, the more you get done. The goal is always to live independently of others not be too co-dependent. Always be thankful for what's been built how to appreciate life and those in it, whether it be on #SocialMedia or real life. Life is much bigger online it's to help you live small find out what you value in life, and especially to help you value you. Not for pressure. When you care for yourself others will care for you too. When you do not take good care of yourself others will not care for you either. Always be respectful of the cares of others not make people care for those who do not care for themselves. Is what it looks like when there's #discrimination of care. When well we talk to others when not well we work on ourselves to get well. How to achieve balance and not become a burden to others thru self-care others will care. #DisabilityDiscrimination How to overcome. You can only be yourself. The internet knows me as mymollydoll. So I'll have to make a new Professional Account that's Finance Based. If you drink or do drugs you look like someone who is irresponsible doesn't care about self enough to hold a leadership position why leaders should not drink or do drugs, why they don't get jobs make it to leadership because they self-harm hurt themselves their ability to think smart. For my new job will make a new account to keep separate the campaign my only concern I shared in my interview to keep steady each following how you keep separate lives. Professional + Volunteer. Everyday is a chance to make a new impression. Plan: Finish School and Finish my Book while working Part-Time training and getting my Licenses. My current crisis: How to organize my Social Media Accounts. I'll figure it out I'm sure not by my name a new name probably. Solution: I'll study Finance write Finance + Business Quotes. What I'm studying now at TJSL I'm new! How you think is how others will think of you hard on you or not based on your look and career overall it's by placement you are judged and by the decisions you make for yourself moving forward in life is best you can do to make better self and those around you. Think happy thoughts to achieve well in life. Especially about the thoughts of others about you. How to think well. When you are kind to yourself and apply yourself positively new opportunities and doors open for you to take care of self and others. Composure under pressure requires you be kind to the spaces of those around you not give in to social pressures how to behave well by doing what's expected of you. By work product how you identify what's being offered. Services. I want to keep principles separate so that the companies don't get confused with identity know the company separate from me meet. When you know what you want in life for yourself go out and get it don't wait until you fall apart to know when you're down. You should stop before you fall apart. That's how you stay up. Careful. This advice was given to me once to be careful. How I know how to behave under pressure. When you represent yourself well for you and those around you they shine + you how life works to live selflessly not for self but for others is one way to live and improve your life and the life of others. There's a give and take to living life selflessly one must always practice self-care rebuild self to help others well. Otherwise you fall apart. When you feel down that doesn't mean victimized it's called depression when you are up in life and unhappy that's called depression when you can't help others and/or hurt others to stay. When you undervalue yourself others will see value within. When you undervalue others they devalue you. When you value all all feel valued that's how you build value by esteem and care. By the time you realize it should be already made there for us don't worry, that's how successful people care for people they make it in life so that they can be there for others, that's the circle of life. Controversy devalues self. Always think positively speak positively about self that's how others will think of you whether perfect or not. Chapter 41: Focus on the Good by Leslie A. Fischman
01-04-17 When you put others before yourself you automatically show that you care. And by that care in order to best help others you have to care for yourself. No one can make another care for themselves or causes unless they themselves represent someone who cares. Be yourself. A certain seriousness is required by those in the helping professions. Those who care for others are in trusted positions those trusted positions are not necessarily powerful positions but positions of trust. Those positions of trust are put in positions of trust to best empower others not by the trust given empowered, but must be strong themselves in order to empower others. Never undervalue yourself in order to make another feel better about themselves. This takes time to realize how to lift someone without you yourself assuming one another's burdens in life but be a rock from which that helps them stand and stay afloat in life those are the best relationships built like support beams. Anything you build is a reflection of you your values and your esteem. When you have self-esteem you will be able to achieve well centered esteem in the community that is not by people connections necessarily but by your valued connections to your fundamental principles that guide your decision making skills. You have to be willing to try new things in order to grow, that requires that you learn to let go in order to move forward. A careful balance must be made between intuition here present past and future to be read well is based upon your stability now. What is new is what you put forward each day the work you produce each day to build new is what sums up and by those parts you will be judged as to what becomes of you your work always represents you best not the work of others in the field of judgments passed, that will never change its always on an individual basis that we are judged. /// People will take and use in order to avoid misuse you have to be careful, with how you say what you say that can be used in any order. Importance is looked upon or at. /// Because they're trying to get in your head think they're better than. When people watching can't see you successful don't want you to achieve that's called stalking + hate. Unwanted attention to hurt. Successes tack on not to people. /// Thou shall not climb. Common sense. That's not how to connect. It causes problems I see connections. You have to make it on your own in life how I've achieved, that's how you get jobs. /// The icing on top describes within. Polarize to good people to direct thoughts toward good directions. You can't control what people connect interpret looking at you. Controversy affects earnings. So you have to represent yourself well in order to bypass negativity do well that's how you overcome hate. What leads to what before is private information the product is what's on top what is wanted. Intimacy directed need not ingest by the reader for some conservative is needed in times of trauma it's by population helped. I see intimacy is used. Needs rework. We need new direction. /// Competition thinks imitation the world is too small. Think other than self to rehabilitate self from others. How you communicate order matters as to connectivity. Read yourself to get to you how to undo when people get to you try to. Negative tells you somethings wrong that's simple so be good. What's normal is positive minded. You should sound like all. How to be well versed relatable kind. /// It's all about presentation of self. Lesson: People will be people you have to accept people as they are they will have their moods not take it personally and let it affect you. When you become dependent on others that's called unhealthy attachment one should be independent of others to have healthy relationships grow in life. Why they say to leave things alone. Tension is based on letting go. If you don't let go the past predicts the future why you let go to move forward in life - based on what's apart of you will level your successes in life what comes from you will be determined by your merits not the merits of others. Learn to let go of the past. Your outlook determines your input. You have to think about all sides of the equation to succeed. Nervousness is a sign of negativity. Why you need to think positive. Look around, be you, open minded. Don't boil down to dichotomies. Burdens make people feel bad. ---- Then things will turn out right you have to trust listen well to be right. Listen to trusted to achieve in life. Give power empower trusted. What you promote is how you will be judged by your own merits. ----- We all have retarded moments live like you care about yourself. Your dark moments are the embarrassing times but you should be put together so why I stay sober. To keep the demons out. --- * Speak to positives what becomes of you in darkness we wither and wane and fall victim to our demons. That's funny to say but very true. You should not respond to negatives that causes distrust in self when that occurs you fumble. Read people not intimately by things they like causes discomfort there's a time and a place per like. ---- Literal interpretations of people by likes is called passing judgment. Inside communications help outside communications. When you don't appreciate what's around you that's how you know you think you're better than. That's never a healthy mind set always see achieve some balanced view. Only you can ruin your life. Give thanks and do your best always. When you give in to hate you cave in why they say prove them wrong. The breaking point is blame. That's how people cave in groups cave in that's dysfunction to society. To lift always think positive opposite. Never blame others. Take control of your life be a good decision maker that's how to stay on track. When you have a lot on your plate take your time otherwise you break fall of center that's what I learned. Pressure on yourself is never the fault of others but your own. Nobodies perfect just enjoy life. And be thankful for others. #Happy Perfection helps decrease behavioral health issues. I think. --- Your track record defines you errors are by judgments passed whether by your own or by others you just move forward do your best in life you cannot control others. Best you can do is have self-control that is who is respected those who are well behaved behavioral health issues are because of unhappiness with self that's how that happens mistakes. When you need others that empowers the needed spoken to don't disempower yourself by speaking too much to others. For problems you discuss in private for solutions discuss anywhere. Your needs are your needs not the needs of others don't be needy. Neediness is a product of trauma. Independence is raised right. Too much of anything is cause for concern communications especially overwhelm if not needed it's the speaker that is questioned as to need why blogging helped me. Everyone deserves to speak. And get help how to better self. And others by sharing thoughts. As soon as you say words that can be misread they are taken and dissected to be used against your words past present and future which must then be clarified that is how one explains by becoming defensive to self how you always make better self by focus on bettering ones words shared, is how to achieve your best side in life your side not create a side against you that hurts you. Blame regret sorrow are all a product of loss deeply felt cannot undo wrongs and causes what words are hurtful that bellow no sentiments sensitive to the needs of those who've lost. We realize much too late too soon we cry and after we hate with anger roar these are patterns of calm how one is made better the opposite. Instability occurs when you lack a quality that is required for stability success whether it's likeability or money, these are qualities that are at your ability to change about you your responsibility to ensure ability whether by meds or education everyone is capable and if not can be taken care of by the government. /// Fighting is a waste of time + energy better spent fixing helping others. Never speak badly of others that causes one to feel negative then follows paranoia focus on the good. Esteem is built by stability. Positive outlook is not serious to comedy but serious to serious then lighten up take self not serious. My understanding is that others feel torn between who to listen to you should listen to all like likes. /// Think about it new people don't understand us at all so be nice. Why we travel to understand others. Higher ordered thinking is not easy to achieve intelligence. People don't like change just like if your favorite quote is silence is golden if I say different hurts. Sorry I see now. You gotta fit in. /// Its hard to be yourself when you are being critical of others. It's hard to see positive think positive when you are critical of yourself. In order to be happy you have to keep going in life not fixate or obsess over any one person or thing, but have balanced viewpoints and perspectives in life. Focus on those who are good. When it's tense people hate. Chapter 40: Being Well Liked and Why That’s Important by Leslie A. Fischman
01-02-17 Why Does Hate Breed Animosity by Leslie A. Fischman 12-27-17 Whenever you have a fear, that is not your own, that produces a worry for self or for others, to undo that fear, of popularity, that causes one to generate hatred toward another, also known as jealousy. Be very careful to whom and why you become jealous. Jealously is a tool for self-betterment, also a tool if misused, to cause hardship to another, that’s called trying to take the place of another, in place of oneself, to market oneself, with the identity of another, to make the other look stupid, and you better by comparison, that is the causes for jealousy and general reactions made by those who are jealous of another. Be very careful not to present self as someone who is jealous, but appreciate those around you. I’m no marketing expert, but any competition is good competition, it means bettering spaces, for everyone’s livelihood and that’s always a good thing. What you see and can make better, is usually called having a plan. When you see a plan its easier to make a plan, than it is to build something from scratch. Any website is time consuming to produce, with so many options at our disposal, its hard not looking put together these days, and if you’re not put together someone else will put something together. That’s how competition online works, who puts what together first, hopefully for good, we put together things, how we work together, the blogging community. Why Tech was a Difficult Field by Leslie A. Fischman 12-27-17 Tech used to be a difficult field because people were not sure what information to put together and how to. Overtime as we realized what was causing beffudlement, we became more clear, with a more clear vision for how we want out sites to operate, within a whole, not stand out, as different, but supportive of one another. This took time. In any new field, there is competition for resources, after these resources become scarce, we realize that we need to be supportive of one another, in order to attract a larger audience. I think everyone is getting better at building websites, now that we are all working together, not separate spaces, but connected to a few spaces, social networks. Social networks are for websites and web personalities, to function we must always cater to ourselves first and our audiences secondly, that’s how to avoid repetition, and imitation results in unhealthy competition. When we build off one another, not on top of eachother, there results in a plentiful following to each site, when people move about, they follow those in connection to sites trusted, and where they can move from trusted site to trusted site with ease. When there is malfunction in the movement from site to site, then this results in questioning the sites functionality among. Why people create sites where once you get there you move from one page to the next within the site, to avoid confusion, and to keep people on their website. Some websites are landing zones, and some websites establish connections, and link you to other sites, that will not change. The sum of its parts, the person responsible for the identity, must be registered to be authenticated, be authentic, original, considered an original. –How do you make an original, when you do not copy or imitate others, how you stay unique, and maintain a following, when you base your identity off of others, online, you run the risk of devaluing yourself, if seeking to devalue the other, by being better than. The Timeline of Care by Leslie A. Fischman 12-27-17 There is a timeline of how long someone will care, usually not unconditional, in the field of marketing. Generally people only care for a little bit while marketing, and then they leave and find something better. That is my experience with marketing, if you cannot offer better, then your following will leave in support of something that makes them feel better. That’s generally how people choose spaces to grow, is based upon who they listen to. Who you listen to matters, it affects how you grow, and what you see, and what you feel, do not allow the sicknesses of others to affect your being, or how well you see in life. Always be appropriate, when you give in to sin, and behave in a way that does not reflect accurately your words or your viewpoints, you look hypocritical, that is living in a way that does not match the words that you say. This causes other people to question you, whether you are mentally stable or not, and whether you are deserving of your audience members. #TrustFacebook “Leave Things Alone” by Leslie A. Fischman 12-28-17 We are always told to just “leave things alone.” Why? Usually when things get to be too tough, or if there is fighting, we are told to leave things alone. To me leave things alone means “let the dust settle” or to walk away from whats bothering us, or a fight. These are called remedies, for dealing with what is difficult to us, to our minds, and to our well-being. If something is not in your best interests to continue, usually people walk away from what is bothering them to focus on something new. –I was just thinking about this, what we focus on matters. If we focus too much on the negatives, just like harping on the negatives, then we will become negative. If we focus on whats positive, then we will become positive. Never underestimate the power you hold, to undo what is negative in your life, so long as you continue to hold negative viewpoints toward self or others, you will never achieve happiness with yourself. –Ive once stated that whenever we hurt others, we only hurt ourselves, that is human nature, to empathize with people, so anyone in your life, who you hurt, you end up hurting because they become apart of your life once focused on. –Anything negative from your past can be brought forward to harm you in the present, why its important to move forward in life. When you are happy, I’ve said before, then everything around you will become positive, and happiness can be achieved. When you are negative happiness cannot be achieved. –Why its important to leave things alone, especially ideas and things causing you unhappiness. How to Get Your Cool Back by Leslie A. Fischman 12-28-17 How to get your cool back, after loosing your self-esteem on Social Media, is a complicated task. Once you make yourself look stupid, you have to repair yourself. Repairing yourself, requires that you engage in less re-blogging, less sharing, and be a minimalist. Minimalism is good for people who have a lot of issues, and do not want to be read, or suffer from misguided thoughts about self or others. Theres a reason for this. When you expose too much of yourself online, you give more ammunition to be criticized about you, the less you share about yourself, the less critical others will be of you, and you decrease your chances of looking or appearing hypocritical, meaning going against your word. Don’t make promises to others you cannot keep online, why less is more, when expectations of you are low, you improve your chances of excelling, when expectations of you are high, you increase your risk of choking under the spotlight, why its important to be frugal with sharing information about yourself in public, online, and on Social Media. #StopBullying Look at the Big Picture. Focus on Yourselves. You see more clear when you are you, not focused on others. How You Present Yourself: Reflects (1) Your Drive and (2) Your Motivations in Life. Always Be Positive. It takes time to process trauma, usually its best to leave things alone, and give your friends time to breathe. There is a time and a place for everything. Given the circumstances, its best not to say anything that would denote blame to any parties, or appear in a way, that denotes blame to self. How overreaction is perceived is someone who is not in touch with reality, or appears insensitive. Always be sensitive to the needs of others, especially during times of trauma. –Share the good time, but be wary of sharing the moments, you regret and/or are embarrassed by. Be kind to your connections in life, and be kind to those we remember, always. The memory of yourself, is something that you work on everyday of your life, how you will be remembered, is by the positive differences you make in your life, to live a better life, for self and for others. –Your problems should never be the problems of others, only your own, as they apply your words to themselves, those reactions you are not responsible for, how you are perceived by others, that is always outside of your control. –How you present yourself, reflects your drives and your motivations in life. Everything you say and everything you do, is used against you to prove or disprove your theories and rationales in life, purpose for living. Everything is always grounded in past behavior and achievements. How you are if the same as how you’ve been, will be judged in the positive. If how you are is different now than how you’ve been, you will be judged in the negative. Be careful what you share about yourself, after you become well known, everything then gets applied to relate to you, to better understand you, everything should always come from you, not sources. That is for the purposes of protecting the identities of others, not using the identities of others to make better the look of oneself, you will always be you in defense of you. Where is this coming from? I applied to Law School (2006) wrote my statements. How I am now, is much different than I have been in the past, why I’m upset with myself. Im not happy with where I am in life, but that’s no reason to give up, in and out of the psych ward, mentally ill. Its not fun being me at all, I have depression, not running as much. Conversations by Leslie A. Fischman 12-28-17 I think conversations are supposed to be slow motion. Not to overwhelm the other party to whom you're having a conversation with. In today's day in age with text messaging it's easy to get carried away in any conversation. Often times stating too much without a response in anticipation of a response or in defense of self. -It's important to never be too defensive over ones thoughts and emotions and to always think of others first. -This is how to achieve balance in any conversation. How your reader feels should always come first in any conversation. -Too much of anything is annoying especially to your readers I've found this out the hard way. -Social Media therefore should be a place of limited communications in order to preserve real life communications which can be instead by text or by telecommunications. -Everything you say has an impact on the person to whom you're speaking too, always be wary of their feelings and responses. Timing is everything, it's never too late to earn a reply, this is often achieved by how we carry ourselves online -in turn affects our real life communications. Don't make things awkward for yourself over sharing amongst your friends, and always choose friends who know you best not likely to pass judgment upon you. Over-Dependence by Leslie A. Fischman 12-28-17 You should never become too dependent on any one thing or person for love. That is up to you how you play your cards in life and where you end up in life is up to you. Don’t fret the small stuff in life. Always focus on the big picture. If you’re not where you need to be in life and not happy then think about what will make you happy in life. Never get too caught up in the delusion of unhappiness. Don’t lock yourself into unhappy or unwanted thoughts. Think about what it is that will make you happy. Is what you’re doing right now going to help you achieve happiness in life? Why or why not? Don’t let anyone bring you down in life. –We all get sick sometimes its all a matter of getting well and staying well. Journal Entry #5 by Leslie A. Fischman 12-29-17 You have to be careful –what you consume affects you. What is becoming of you –is when you represent yourselves and others well. Always be in control of your emotions. What you send out (energy) gets sent back to you –especially on Social Media –where we are easily affected by others and easily misread. Who you are and who you are associated to matters. You build these associations to you by the likes you choose. –How people see what matters to you –and what you’re affected by. Always see the big picture. –Nothings a big deal if you don’t make it out to be a big deal. Think in terms of consequences. –How does your audience feel. That’s always a good indicator of how you should project yourself online to others –help make normal others. When you are normal everything around you will feel normal too. When You Put Yourself Under a Microscope by Leslie A. Fischman 12-29-17 When you put yourself under a microscope you will be judged for what you put under that microscope. Feelings about you and towards you will change, viewpoints. Some will like you and not all will, but you have to be accepting of all crowds around you. You cannot control your audience, or people who do not like you, they will watch anyways and read along anyways, and that you have no control over. People will always be judgmental, you have to maintain a positive attitude, there is no secret to positivity, there is no position or costume you can put on in order to be perfect, you just have to be yourself. That’s key. When you like yourself others will like you, when you do not like yourself others will not like you, you cannot read your audience, you can only read who writes you back, that is the bottom line. You cannot read what is not written to you, you cannot read words that are not spoken to you, you can only be yourself. You should not predict or anticipate the reactions of others toward you, that will only make you sick, the only thing you can control are your thoughts and your perceptions, do not make yourself sick anticipating the reactions of others, walking into puddles and dead ends in life, to their chagrin, those are those who are not accepting of you, and for whatever reasons, based upon what they hear or say when they look at you, should not be your problem, but problems of their own with you, and you should not be adversely affected by the problems that other people have with you, that and those are their judgments of you, accepting or not, and should not lead to self-harming behaviors and or dislike for self, you can only be you. Its impossible to please everyone, you can only have so many fans, and have so many people turn on you in your mind, that you eventually hurt yourself, life is not mortal kombat, never finish yourself off, just because one person does not like you, there is likely to be someone else who will. Be forgiving of yourself, life is not perfect, and you cannot be well-liked by all, but you should always like yourself. Whats in Good Taste Whats in Bad Taste by Leslie A. Fischman 01-01-17 Its never in good taste to speak poorly of others, including oneself, whether it be in jest, or to paint a picture. You can never build yourself up by telling stories about self or others, it just makes you look like a gossip or a yenta (Jews call it). Always be respectful of others, and do not make mention of the problems of others, or have pity for those who do not need your pity nor ask for it, that’s you subjecting yourself to harm, by speaking negatively of others or at others to generate a reaction from them to please yourself, that’s called selfish behavior, in poor taste. What is bad taste, in bad taste is called to be disrespectful toward others, whether it be the customer, or the consumer, or of the work product of the writer, always be respectful of others, for their craftsmanship and their bravamente. Without whom we would not be here today, those who give us life, and protect us from harm. They are people generally in positions of trust who we admire, and hold dear, everyone else is subject for scrutiny that is a given, not one more important than the other. People will often times try to make things about themselves to cause hardship to others, that is called unwanted solicitation and unwanted adherence to comment. It is never ones responsibility to respond to any outside commentary, outside of the arena of a writing space, there are plenty of spaces to comment herein. –My following is not very big, I have calculated numbers, and it has not risen to the level where anyone should treat me as famous or hold me to that expectation I’m not. I am a private citizen, I do not currently have a job, was recently hospitalized because they thought I was suicidal when I was not suicidal, and am beginning work for my Mom this week. I am an on and off again Law Student at Thomas Jefferson School of Law, studying Risk Management and Compliance in Finance. In my free time, I study trauma, trying to build a better understanding of trauma victims, including myself, and how to build better coping mechanisms suited to my individual needs as well as to the individual needs of those responding to others. That’s always in good taste to put yourself before others when sick, and to put others before yourself when well. What causes sickness, is God’s understanding. Ideologies and Happenings by Leslie A. Fischman 01-02-17 Who you put in charge of ideologies matters as to happenings, is by popular opinions and by likeness whether imitated or consumed. There are consumer trends which we identify which tell us the likes of our audiences, and by those trends dictate the material that is produced for our audiences. That is the only mathematical way in which to please all. People in the entertainment business cater to their audiences, by listening services, understand what are the likes and dislikes of individuals so that they can best provide for their audiences. Based upon those numbers provided by servers like Google, we can tell what is in demand and what is not in demand, by what is helping us to cope and what is hurting our abilities to cope. –How things happen is by choice, the choices you make, are what influence your thinking and what makes up your mind, is how your life happens, what happens around you is your environment, and that you cannot control what people think about you and what happens around you, you can only control you. –When you are in control of you, then everything around you seems in control. When you are not in control of you then everything around you seems out of control. Its important to always maintain a level head about you, why those in positions of power, with earning power, are put in caretaking positions of trust to help us. |
AuthorLeslie A. Fischman Please Note: I have finished writing the first draft of my first book, still editing Ch 13-25, my goal is to publish my book 2020 after I graduate, working on myself right now.
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