Chapter 59: It’s Okay to Have Dreams by Leslie A. Fischman
01-28-18 Never let others get under your skin enough to hurt you. When you love yourself nothing can get to you, not even those who hate you. You should always get along well with others. Fighting is for those with sides to fight not for the innocent or for bystanders to over involve themselves with. When you have disability it's difficult to function in the World normally that's understandable everything takes time and adjustment. Some people are too far gone to return and rehabilitate themselves some are able to adapt and some never make it back to full swing, never get back to 100% and that's okay. It takes time to readjust, heal. When you're doing well cherish those moments in life they are far a few in between. You never know, what life throws at you, you sometimes have to deal with on your own, figure out for yourself, rights from wrongs, on your own terms, not by the terms of others, make decisions for yourself. Do not be easily misled by others always be best in charge of yourself not bossed by others but independent of others decision making skills be the best decision maker you can be for yourself in life. You have to be you no matter what anyone says about you. If it affects you too much, in one ear out the other. You should not let anyone affect you. Always be natural about how you react to others. Never blow things out of proportion be overly dramatic and selfish. Think twice before you react and respond to others. Always take the commentary of others lightly, never assume anything is about you. You cannot control what people think. When you lose your marbles in public you have no one to blame but yourself. Always have dreams and aspirations in life. How you stay afloat. Never let anyone bring you down in life. Never stoop to any ones level. Let you be you and they be them. Words can be said but never forgotten always be mindful of what you say and keep in mind how remembered. Sometimes the best decisions aren't made when we are tired but when we are well rested and can think clearly. This is important for positive functioning. It's when we're not doing well we make decisions that may in turn hurt ourselves if we're not careful. Never think too highly of yourself. How you set yourself up for disaster psychologically when your too high up, not careful, and more likely to take risks in life. Always be a cautious decision maker in life. When things just don't feel the same anymore usually it's because a change is needed within you not within others in order to regroup adapt to your present circumstances get back into the swing of things. That's how you fit in again by being apart of not separate. Always be careful how you contribute online as it reflects your beliefs to whom and what you contribute and why. Always be careful. When you love yourself everything seems to fall into place. No longer nit picky over mistakes in life but able to embrace the moment and live life on life's set of terms not by the terms set by others. The best memories are the ones you keep to yourself. TMI Causes Depression: Why? When you share too much about yourself others feel bad for you that in turn makes people distance themselves from you and when that occurs you feel bad about yourself. Why it's important to always be approachable online. You have to make it on your own in life, no one takes you under their wing. They can support you, but you have to always do your best to bring yourself up in life. You should never create problems in your mind you yourself cannot properly deal with on your own without the help of others. There are always people to go to in times of need. You are never so alone in life that hurting yourself should ever be an option, that's just you stuck in your own head or you stuck in a rut you can't get out of, always be proactive and do your best to achieve a normal life. Never let the problems of others get you down in life. Everyone has problems. Always be understanding and compassionate with that comes compromise empathy. No matter how you feel always put the feelings of others before your own when listening to avoid insult, why it's important to be a good listener not interrupt others while they're speaking. We all have problems some more or less unique to ourselves but none greater than the other, they're just problems any problem can be dealt with maturely and need not be a deal breaker or ruin ones life, it's important to get over stuff quick in order to fair well in life not allow yourself to get so easily beaten up and off track in life. You have to be doing well in life to be surrounded by those who are well too. You cannot do well in life when you are not doing well not feeling well or the sick are making you sick. You have to be independent of others in order to do well in life. Its usually people close to you or in your life who become defensive when you yourself are not doing well. Then blame it on drugs, alcohol, or mental health issues claim your difficult not their attitude toward you as being hard on you for no reason. Always be kind, courteous, and respectful of the time and attention of others. Detailed responses are not necessary to let others know everything about you. Heard and understood sometimes just makes people feel less than, to be heard and understood is to be listened to that's at best you can do for anyone going through a lot is to just be there for them be present. When things are going well for you in life usually happiness follows. When things are not going right for you in life, usually unhappiness follows. Know your part, and always do your best to fix whatever errors exist in your life that are keeping you from achieving happiness and centeredness. When you know your wants in life it's like nothing can stop you from achieving your goals in life. Its never advantageous for you to quit while you're ahead in life, it only sets you back, the more indecisive you become, the worse your situation present seems. Always think positively in order to know best and to be a good decision maker in times of need. When you realize your self-worth it seems like everything falls into place and you begin to function normally again as suited to your best interests not the best interests of others or to whom those you care for. You are your best advocate in life know that by helping others when you are not well you only put yourself at a worse off disposition in life not better off. Why it's important not to help others when not well only when well.
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Chapter 58: Nothing is Perfect by Leslie A. Fischman
01-27-18 Worst comes to worse always have a backup plan in life. Nothing is ever perfect unless we are, or so it seems. It's never too late to change or dream a new dream. When you have a strong sense of faith within yourself nothing can bring you down in life, not you not anyone. When you lose support there is always another who gains support that is how support works. When one side is taken both sides are argued and both sides suffer loss of support and attention given to those who do or do not support each side that is always the group empowered not the groups or individuals in controversy. Love yourself for who you are not who you are not. You don't ever have to embrace the harsh judgments made by others. Always be yourself. The only pressure that can ever be is pressure you put on yourself. Know your limits learn to let go and always pride yourself in the work that you do. Somethings are beyond you in life and that's okay. Always stick to what you're good at. Never set expectations of yourself higher than you're capable of achieving in life. It's never your fault in life when you do your best and still not good enough. When you fear what others think of worry too much you run yourself for risk of paranoid thinking -which only leads you to ruin. To stay afloat always be centered think positive thoughts about self and others. What gets you going in life is your business not the business of others. To each his own. Your personal motivations in life are not necessary to be shared in the public sphere or need be known to be heard with more or less scrutiny. Balanced minded equals balance of opinion. Knowing your likes and dislikes in life, takes time. Not everybody likes the same things. Not everybody agrees upon the same intuitions in life. You cannot be well-liked by all, but that doesn't mean rebel and stop trying to be well-liked at all. What does in good faith mean to me? It means doing things with a good heart with no intended personal benefit present or future. For the betterment of the majority not few and with no particular individual interests involved nor your own personally. From where do ideas originate. Usually from our best interests, ideas are brought forward. Never to undermine our good wits about us, but to bring about changes in our lives thought with pride and looked up to with envy for those reasons we usually share ideas, however some ideas get rejected, that's marketing, not every idea is best or good, some ideas are best left in the wood work. Never allow others to harm you or think justified to harm you no harm is ever deserved always remind yourself of that. When you're lost and to no avail cannot find yourself well enough in life to make good decisions for yourself know that your best is always required in order to achieve well or better than in life or to better your present circumstances, not be worse off, worse off only ruins your worst and makes worse your present not better anything, to be better you have to continuously make yourself new again, better yourself everyday. Its never too late to turn around and make mends where needed and ties where tightened needed. You cannot change things but you should not leave things undone, there's no room for error in life, only room for improvement, constant improvement and correction. Everybody has issues. Some more apparent than others. That doesn't mean that your defective or that there's something wrong with you it just means that everyone's got their own issues and not to take anything too personally, some blend better than others, depending on their dispositions in life and confidence click or don't click. Never let them win not haters not anyone in competition with you who try to bring you down or hurt you. That's never okay. Everyone should be able to achieve in life absent hurt or dismemberment be able to behave as a unit without interference from outside forces trying to keep apart or prevent relationships from occurring if so must be for good reason. Good reason alone is enough to prevent relationships from happening but only by good reason should relationships not happen in life. You can't undo the past you can only move forwards. Sometimes there's nothing you can do to undo a wrong that's been done to you by another that doesn't mean fight that just means walk away move on, that's not time for an amends or time to talk that's just how you get hit with low blows in life always move on never fight, otherwise if you go backwards in life you get hit below the belt. Always be in good humor about yourself and others. Hope is never lost its always around. It's all a matter of manifestation what is lost is always enthusiasm when there's too much negativity out why it's important to be positive to help maintain positive energy around to help set positive events in motion. Never be defensive to the emotions of others. You are you and they are them. You cannot control people or their thoughts only your own. If people don't like you so be it, it's not the end of the World. Always be mindful of the thoughts and feelings of others never say anything under duress you'd later regret or take responsibility for the actions of others not your own you are never responsible where others are wrong that's not your responsibility to care for those who are wrong toward you or others. When you win some you lose some. You cannot be perfect always. There will always be some who will not be on your side in life and that's okay. Not everything in life will be agreed upon, if so you're setting yourself up for disappointment and unreasonable standards. Always set yourself up for success in life by reporting to your superiors in life, that's how you stay on base, on par, on point in life by following the direction of others under the direction of others. Chapter 57: Know Your Limits in Life by Leslie A. Fischman
01-26-18 Know your limits in life some people don't know when to stop until it's too late don't be one of them. It's not your responsibility to control others. Wonderful things happen the minute you stop worrying and start living your life. There are times when you need others and times when you just want to be alone. Always be understanding of the time and spaces of others. Remember the good and the bad times and move forward from there. Love the life you're in you never know for whatever reason things in life take a turn for the worse, to get back on track, stay on track in life. You are your number one priority in life always. Love yourself enough to know when it's time to quit. Sometimes it's not worth it to keep trying. Once you hit a dead end in life often times you have to begin again. When you're down you're down when you're up you're up: then and only then are your clear headed enough to make good decisions for yourself and others. Always think twice before overexposing yourself. You never know who's watching. Be kind be well be you be sweet be noble be caring always be nice how to stay well minded not minding the thoughts of others. Who ever said that caring was a sign of weakness but of good character. Those who care and are mindful of the thoughts of others are signs of intelligence. As you get more and more normal your sense of privacy becomes safer and safer. It's when you're not doing well or not doing what you're supposed to be doing that you fear others or think others are out to get you or harm you in life, those delusions are called: (1) fear (2) anxiety and (3) paranoia. #RighttoPrivacy What is it that bothers you about others? Always put the best interests of others before your own, before you react in anyway incongruent to your best interests. Never stop believing in yourself. When you get too cocky in life you usually misstep somewhere along the way. Take it easy on yourselves don't become defensive to the best interests of others. Always put your best interests first. Never over consume yourself with the problems of others. There is a method to everyone's madness. Just when you think you've made it in life your World can just as easily crumble down if your not careful. Why it's important to always take good care of yourself. Just when you think you've made it in life your World can just as easily crumble down if your not careful. Why it's important to always take good care of yourself. Energy and Companionship How you behave toward those you love, resonates energy back to you you apply to yourself by how you view yourself based upon the energy and reactions of others toward you. What energy you put out into the World, you get back. In order to be high energy one must maintain a low public profile and maintain private contacts, it's by private communications we are empowered whether to one or some. #SocialMedia #Companionship Everything happens for a reason whether we know for what reasons or not at the time should not matter much. When your chips are down and you lose your crown, think what can I do for myself to lift myself back up. Always do what's expected of you and avoid the unexpected. Disappointment denotes some failure, by your choice or actions. Don't bring yourself down by focusing too much on your problems. Always be in the solution. You cannot change what others think of you once they have their minds made up about you based on what they hear thinking you're deserving or not deserving of punishment for what when and why is no ones business but my own. That's an overstep of boundaries to intrude into the private spaces of others to exploit them or extort the truth without ready explanation of the circumstances present for each ones self, depends on choices made to engage not engage others only when good can one engage in conversation with others. You have to love yourself enough to know when to quit trying so hard and just be yourself, accept you for you and not try so hard to be loved. Anger is a product of unwanted attention toward or a break in one's right to privacy to pull out a reaction out of someone to then trigger another to respond in a way that suits them. No anger is ever justified all anger is wrong. Never be angry toward others. I'm nice to everyone cordial always I don't have anger management issues I'm an overachiever. Always keep in mind the thoughts and feelings of others who are sensitive or desensitized by the lives of others and the sharing of their experiences in life. I never write about others only myself. Not my style. 012118 Chapter 56: The Recovery Process by Leslie A. Fischman
Everybody Has a Mind of Their Own by Leslie A. Fischman 01-18-18 Everybody has a mind of their own. It’s not up to you to decide how people should think about you or others, never persuade others to hold a negative viewpoint about individuals or groups of individuals in life, as that is holding prejudice toward any group of people or set of individuals within a group. Everybody has a mind of their own meaning, we cannot control the thoughts of others, only our own. What we see best fit is a matter of manifestation of how we see the World, and our position in it. When we feel as though we are wronged we may behave differently. When we feel that others may be wrong to others or toward us, we may behave differently. Always know that you are not your associations in life, and only you can be you in life. Always Focus on What Matters Most by Leslie A. Fischman 01-18-18 Always focus on what maters most, during times of controversy, never assume that everyone knows your whole story but what you share out loud with them about you. That is an assumption, that others can read you, or know what you are thinking, or what’s going on in your head, and in your life at any given moment in time. –Mental illness is a daily struggle, something that must be managed everyday and cared for, its like diabetes, you have to take your medication in order to stay well. Therefore when you are not well, it is difficult for you to be strong and to be there for others and likewise do well. Drugs and alcohol may amplify this disability, and further impede on your progress health wise, recovery time takes time, especially from drugs and alcohol. Recovery is defined by Google as: “a return to a normal state of health, mind, or strength. [or] the action or process of regaining possession or control of something stolen or lost.” This is a loss of a stable mental health condition in place an unstable mental health condition, caused by the use of drugs or alcohol. This lack of stability causes one to question self as well as others, can induce paranoia. Why when in paranoid states and not doing well, its important to refrain from the use of alcohol and drugs. -The well see well, and the well looking at those with mental illness, apply mental illnesses to the well, to figure out what is causing mental illness. That will never change, people will always wonder for what reasons caused the use of drugs and or alcohol, usually its not conspiracy, but pressures upon pressures, that cause mental illness, and eventually turning on oneself, or others, paranoid. Its important when mentally ill to express yourself in a safe space so that does not occur, so that you don’t say anything that causes others to question your stability and ability in life to represent self and others well, to the best of your ability, to do well in life. Reference: https://www.google.com/search?source=hp&ei=945gWu2REs7wjwOXtrCIBQ&q=recovery+definition&oq=recovery+definition&gs_l=psy-ab.3..0l10.480.4754.0.5191.24.15.2.6.6.0.184.1449.11j4.15.0....0...1c.1.64.psy-ab..1.23.1522.0..0i131k1j0i10k1j33i160k1.0.xxT6biRZFPI Friendships Can Never Be Wrecked by Leslie A. Fischman 01-17-18 Friendships can never be wrecked, only mended, by bettering yourself. When one friendship ends another will blossom, never lose faith, and always keep going in life. You cannot go backwards in life, you can only move forwards. “Life is no Nintendo Game” in the wise words of Eminem. –Going backwards only does you harm in life, does not make better situations for self or for others, but only festers wounds. Know you best and be that, don’t compare yourself to others, as that will prevent you from blossoming in life, and being at your best, always do well, to be well, and likewise be kind to others appreciate well, to be well, not be jealous of well to make well. There will always be different types of people, with different mood settings, that will not change we are only human, and like the water within us, we change. Don’t think too much of others, as their problems become your problems, if thought about. You will always be yourself, and no one can change that about you. What you see is what you know, and what you hear is what you think, and what becomes of you is how you become toward self and around others, is a product of your work ethic put toward bettering yourself everyday, that is what will surround you, you have to work for it. Nothing comes easy in life, including having friends, and being around others, that is something you have to earn by good merits to be surrounded by good people, if not there are plenty of people to surround yourself with on social media, that will never change, there will always be systems of support online for those in need, on social media and away from social media, to help us identify whats bothering us. Sometimes its difficult to share out loud what is bothering us, and that’s okay. Its never too late to change, and its never too late to make better self, never trash yourself. Always be kind to yourself, when you are kind to yourself. Others will not trash you or think different of you, when you are well, others will be well around you. Never stop at just okay, and always do your best, perfection is everything in life, when you get good at catching your mistakes in life, you get better at catching the mistakes of others in life, and that’s how you see and become a better person having known them, not all people are perfect, and sometimes we have to see it to believe it, believe in ourselves and in others, what is true and real are our own realities. When we fixate on others, we can become real, if our Worlds feel unreal how TV helps adjust us, to reality. To be cured is to see well the thoughts of self as well as the thoughts of others. To what becomes justified is by traits seen and shown. Never accept blame for the wrongs of others, I’ve said this before, always be true. Its by who you identify with you become, identify with whole people to be real, all knowing. Everybody Has a Mind of Their Own by Leslie A. Fischman 01-18-18 Everybody has a mind of their own. It’s not up to you to decide how people should think about you or others, never persuade others to hold a negative viewpoint about individuals or groups of individuals in life, as that is holding prejudice toward any group of people or set of individuals within a group. Everybody has a mind of their own meaning, we cannot control the thoughts of others, only our own. What we see best fit is a matter of manifestation of how we see the World, and our position in it. When we feel as though we are wronged we may behave differently. When we feel that others may be wrong to others or toward us, we may behave differently. Always know that you are not your associations in life, and only you can be you in life. Negative Opinions Don’t Matter by Leslie A. Fischman 01-17-18 Negative opinions, don’t matter, those are things, words, places and people that get under your skin, make you not think about you, only think about, and cause illness. –What matters is proper maintenance of positive opinion, its not what you do that matters but what you say, interjects a negative opinion or positive opinion toward self, and reflects your belief systems. How you were raised does not matter, its what you do with your life that matters most, importance to accolades, and holding virtues that help not just yourself, but everyone around you. Be well minded in order to have well thoughts, about self and other. Causes for disruption are your own thoughts disturbing your own sense of peace, and whereabouts mentally. When you circle about, make it not collapse on negatives but by focusing on rebuilding off of positive tangents, is how to get from one point to the next without stumbling or falling into a pile of oopses and controversies. –Negativity is when you try to discern whereabouts or causess for controversy [where] exist[ent] then stumble and fall into the pile of negativity, always look out for one another, but not to the point where it bears too much burden upon one or others or many. Think before you speak, crime is crime, and people are people. People are not crimes, and crimes are not people, crimes are caused by criminals, criminally minded, and crimes are caused by those who commit crimes, crimes upon people, places, and people. Some words are considered crimes, such as words directed at people, specifically, and words directed at self that harm, or words directed toward others that harm. Those who get harm are never forgiven nor never forgotten, and will always be remembered, including those who harmed them, that’s a sad truth, to be ignored. Whats most important is to focus on the living, respect the oldest as well as the deceased, and to always do whats best, its by [respect for your elders], we become special [I was thought to have become special by death], unique [no not unique], we are all apart of someone who has passed come before us, that will not change. We are a product of ourselves, not of the deceased, that’s your life as applied. Do not apply your current life to the deceased or compare self to the deceased that is considered sin. Worship things not people. People with many things, why they are worshipped, its by things, not by people. -Guilt gets passed over much like a lawsuit, gets passed on from generation to generation, harships, that’s the law. When you become too involved in the problems of others, you tend to take it personally, don’t take anything in life too personally, including the wrongs of others, on others, and including yourself, do not internalize hate as directed toward self when on others. Do not mimic hate as a representation of self toward others, by sight seen. How people die, is a discussion for medical professionals, not for the commoners to discern or think about, always focus on the living, NEVER play Doctor, that is sin. When you hurt others, you only hurt yourselves, Ive said this before. When you share a lot you become paranoid, because those are your inner workings, keep all inner workings to yourselves, to not be duplicated among yourselves in life. When you get your hand dirty in life, its because you’ve entrapped yourselves in the problems of others, or the thinking about of problems of others, that are not your own, always focus on yourselves not others. Always help one another group by group, not in groups, but person-to-person, connections are made one on one. So its always important to be yourself, why its important to be yourself. The best gift you can give in life, is to be yourself to others, that’s how to avoid trading in yourself, or giving up your identity to another or others, always stick to your roots. You don’t’ talk about victims, that’s disempowering, to empower, let them come to you. You cannot empower vicitms, you can only redirect them to someone more qualified. Likeness or bear minded I don’t look at anyone or them or read any such things or people, I am myself, I bear no identifiable traits of anyone. Whats to know whats to hear whats thought whats said whats felt inklings [are] not true until said don’t go away. To help others, you must be whole. #Sober #Clean What is Racism? By Leslie A. Fischman 01-17-18 What is racism. Racism occurs when you do not like a particular person or group of people, and because of that dislike you either (1) fear (2) taunt (3) belittle (4) hurt (5) threaten (6) injure esteem or (7) put down because one thinks that it predominates because ones beliefs are better than or more sound than the other. That is called racism. When one is discriminated that occurs because based on ones behaviors, use of likeness, they determine that one if like that one is and therefore not to like someone who is characterized or mischaracterized, denominates. To denominate in mass media, occurs when a likeness, is used and portrayed as a kind, so when identified in public is disliked, that is to denominate a particular group or class of individuals as lesser than, and that the predominant view –goal to be seen as greater than. Beliefs are not a race, and to no beliefs can be discriminated, as these are ideas inside of you that cannot be seen outside of you. Therefore racism does not exist as to belief systems, because inwardly you cannot see outwardly beliefs or resentments or fears held toward any groups of people or individuals. –When one is put down, for me for instance, that occurs due to bullying at home, and as a result of bullying at home, that caused failure, and because of failure, that caused loss of esteem, and because of loss of esteem, that caused loss of focus, and because of loss of focus that caused lack of achievement, and because of lack of achievement that caused resentments toward me as not good enough, and because that not hired, because I was not an Attorney and he only hires Attorneys, I was a Housekeeper and Intern ABA Certified Paralegal. Bullying at home, was because of cocaine use in college 2006 for a semester. Recognizing Failures by Leslie A. Fischman 01-16-18 When you recognize your own failures in life, you can fix yourself. Until then you will be lost. Know your weaknesses, and know your errors in life, and regroup. There is always time to regroup in life, and think positively of self and others. What causes a loss, and causes a gain, is a matter of manifestation, what you in your heart think is real, true or not true about others, and upon that you react to others, and to people in your lives. Never take out your failures or unhappinesses out on others, as they are not to blame, never to blame for ones own current hardships. Know that until you are willing to move forward in life, and see best your interests and the best interests of others, then and only then will you be able to move past reasonings or people in your li[fe] who have caused you hardship or illness. Know you best suits in life, and always follow the rules and regulations of others, as well as protocols, how best to respond during crisis conditions, not make ill but make better self and others. That is how to build strong foundations, a willingness to surrender to your own faults in life, and help make better self and others. That is how to rebuild. When you are not doing well, that is not the time to confront or attack others, as you are wrong when you take out your aggression or unhappiness out on others. When your energy is calm, and when your energy is not directed toward others, that is when you will do well in life. When you communicate wrongs of others to build sides that’s when you are wrong, and when your side will not be taken in life. Never turn on people, to whom you confide in, those are people on your team in life. Intent to Communicate by Leslie A. Fischman 01-16-18 Intent to communicate is defined by Google as: “Non-intentional communicative intent is the communication of a message that is automatic and completed without thinking (spontaneous). Intentional communicative intent is the deliberate communication of a message to a person, whether it's via gestures, gaze, or vocalizations.” [1] –Online you have to be very careful what you communicate about self and to others, what you think. It is always a reflection of self what is communicated to and from any one person. Be careful not of what you think but of what you interpret via those communications, formulate your thoughts and response in return. Its important to always have a balanced perspective whenever passing judgment upon others. What you think, see, feel and hear is always a matter of manifestation of self, and a reflection of your safety needs, and the needs of those around you. What you relate to reflects your own needs, and who you relate to affects your needs also and the needs of those around you. What is public safety? Google defines public safety as: “Public Safety refers to the welfare and protection of the general public. It is usually expressed as a governmental responsibility. Most states have departments for public safety. The primary goal of the department is prevention and protection of the public from dangers affecting safety such as crimes or disasters.” [2] Public safety is a learned phenomenon, something that can always be perfected when it comes to oral communications and written communications, how you communicate to others, is how you will be judged, as conservative or not, helpful or not, or considered a problem, exuding problematic behavior, or deemed influential in a bad way, that denotes harm causing agents attracting harm causing agents. Always be respectful of the spaces of others, written and orally in communication, any unwanted communications result in aggravation and loss of sleep, to those whom communications are unwanted. For all wanted communications speak to your local Government officials, like Michael Moore. That is how to make change happen, not by attacking within groups or other groups. Reference: [1] https://www.google.com/search?source=hp&ei=1YJeWtrmCsGU0wKVtbigBA&q=intent+to+communicate+definition&oq=intent+to+communicate+definition&gs_l=psy-ab.3..0i22i10i30k1.900.8959.0.9501.49.37.6.2.2.0.378.3575.26j6j0j1.33.0....0...1c.1.64.psy-ab..8.41.3658.0..0j0i131k1j0i13k1j0i22i30k1j0i13i30k1j33i22i29i30k1.0.XXD85oVWZms [2] https://www.google.com/search?ei=34JeWp7-GsnujwOptqKYAQ&q=public+safety+definition&oq=public+safety+definition&gs_l=psy-ab.3..0l2j0i22i30k1l8.182082.189533.0.189872.56.47.0.4.4.0.252.4449.32j11j1.45.0....0...1c.1.64.psy-ab..23.32.2550.0..0i22i10i30k1j33i22i29i30k1j0i67k1j0i131k1j0i131i67k1.100.pcmV6NVGim Chapter 55: Struggling With Mental Illness by Leslie A. Fischman
01-21-18 The latest craze is always about something secret becoming known, something special that gets mass marketed and well known, pulls the focus away from something someone's doing to focus on something else, a work product or product. It's not about fame, but about principles, why people become famous, to take care of others, including themselves, it's an achieved state of being, for the well. Rarely have we ever seen someone struggling with mental illness achieve fame, usually they are ignored and for good reason. Always be kind to yourself, you never know who's lives you've made a difference in, without having known them. Never let yourself go. Never compare yourself to others. Always be thankful for where you're at in life. You can only be you. Never obsess over others. Focus on yourself. Don't get caught up focusing on others. You are your own best friend in life. Always be real, never let anyone bring you down in life. Always rise above drama. Never pack your plate up with more than you can carry. Dream but not bigger than the voice you carry. Love yourself to know when to quit. Never belittle others. Lift yourself first before lifting others. You know you best, always listen to those who care for you. #MentalHealth Intelligence is in the eye of the beholder. Never doubt yourself. Every effort toward bettering yourself matters. Whether you win or fail in life, never stop trying to do good, know your best, and do well in life. Know that you're worth it. Always try your best no matter what. You are your own best critic in life, don't be so easily fooled by others. Follow your heart. Always be ambitious but never at your own expense. Keep yourself separate from your problems, and your personal life separate from your professional life. Accept people as they are. Everyone you meet on a person-to-person basis you know individually through those interactions, you cannot know everyone well, some people you only know professionally. Give it time as you settle back to normal and never give up. Dont ever stop to wonder what could've would've should've been. You should always be you no matter what else anyone says about you. Know that you are wonderful on the inside out and no one can change you. When everyone is feeling better, that's you're cue to do better for yourself. Learn how to let go in life. Be there for others, but don't be overbearing let others walk on their own without you. You don't need to have it all or know it all in order to have a good life. You just need to be grateful. When you're doing well. Keep doing well. It's all a state of mind wellness. When you think well thoughts about self and others you too can fair well in life. You can't control what people think of you. You can only do your best. Always be a good judge of character. No mental illness is an excuse for hurting the esteems of others including your own. Always represent yourself best. Keep things in a balanced perspective. Rise above hate. You should always know yourself well enough to know who you are who you are not. Never let the opinions or judgments of others to bring you down in life. Never assume that everybody knows you. That's usually all in your head. Never push people away who love you. Usually they are just trying to help you get back on your feet stay centered. You are a product of your own mistakes in life. Just keep going in life you cannot change others or their thoughts about you, not all people think the same. Just because one passes negative judgment upon you doesn't mean they all do. You just have to keep going in life. Always do the right thing. Love yourself enough to know your limits in life. What you think things are about and what they are actually about are two different things. Usually looking back if applied to the present sounds wrong or off. Always stick to present interpretations of present not interpret the past with present interpretations or knowledge, that's called passing judgment on the past. Its always a compliment to be compared. Whether thought you are something you are or you aren't own it. Not all people are given the attention of the time of day to even be compared in the first place. All attention is good attention, don't attract unwanted attention to self, you're not prepared for. Never wait until it's too late to speak. Have no regrets in life and always participate. To feel apart of is everything worthwhile. If it's not possible it's not probable. Know the difference between right and wrong. You should never have to convince anyone of your thought processes. Always think well in order to do well in life. You are always a product of your thoughts. Never become too paranoid to think others have it better in life than you and get sick. You always know best. You are always capable of living your best life if you just make good choice always putting your best foot forward. Always think best of others to bring out the best in others, think positive. Your take from matters should always be in the positive, to learn positive lessons back to self, not inherit the problems of others, internalize blame. That causes history to repeat itself, when you internalize the issues of the past. Your problems are your problems you should not make your problems the problems of others in order to feel understood. Always be understanding of one another's time and effort put towards trying to understand you and your problems. The best solution is always one that takes into consideration the problems of all. Be careful with your words, once said cannot be taken back. Who you offend does not forgive easily. Always speak well of others in order to do well in life. You have to be careful when confronting what's bothering you, not to offend others during the process of recovery or over the course of discussion. It's easy to become alienated by use of drugs and alcohol. Why it's important to maintain sobriety once you go sober or else judged in the negative. Maintaining sobriety has been key to my recovery. It's been said that "things only get worse" upon relapse, and that I understand, understand clearly. That in order to manage ones own emotions well, one must be able to manage their lives well, both personally and professionally. Your recovery is always based upon your willingness to change. Who you become thereafter is a product of your positive influences in life, those who support you when your down. Always be grateful for those systems of support in your life that help guide you through the basics of life. The basics of life include your communication skills both positive and negative, and your ability to comprehend comprehend well the matters of others, including deciphering well your own problems, and being able to effectively communicate what's bothering you, so that you can do well too in life. Always stay positive. Love yourself always. You never know who could walk into your life and change your life for good and for the better. Always note you're no big deal until someone loves you and you become a big deal to them. Not one more important than the other. Willingness to love is based upon a willingness to change which is based upon a willingness to trust. Without trust there cannot be love and without love no relationship to keep trust and confidences in. When you feel like you need to be important in someone else's life, usually you are not given the attention back you think you deserve. Always think first for yourself before putting the needs of others before your own. Always be professional in all relationships be careful not to overwhelm others with your problems. That's not the solution. What Matters People matter not things. When you value things not people you know your off base off point with reality. Always maintain a healthy balance between what you value and don't value in life. Be hard on yourself not hard on others, in order to achieve greatness in life one must value themselves not take themselves or their careers lightly but be independent of the thoughts of others. Quelled not rampaging or complaining but getting what needs to be done, done. Knowing ones priorities in life helps one to understand the value of people and their time. That's how you get jobs and get things in life by valuing yourself as well as others too. When you don't feel good don't think badly of yourself. -When things happen behind your back usually it's because people care, not because they don't care about you. Always be mindful of the thoughts and feelings of others to show genuine care back. Its by wellness we achieve in life, not by dislike. -When you're doing well others doing well too will stand out to you. It's when you're not doing well that everything negative stands out to you. When things are not going your way in life you have to think positive in order to do well in life. When you're not doing well in life it's important to perfect yourself until you do well feel well in life, otherwise you get picked apart. Nothing is a facade in life, all recovery takes time. There's a fine line between well and not well when it comes to mental illness and bipolar, you have to maintain steady progress do well in order to achieve and maintain well in life. Never be aggravated by others. Usually when aggravated we say and hear things in the wrong, what suits us, what perfects us, what makes sense to us. Never argue with an angry person, always walk away. You cannot change people only yourself. Never change yourself or gear yourself to people please those who do not like you, that's just recipe for disaster. Always focus on positive changes you can make in your life to please those who care for you. The solution is never to pick yourself apart at your own expense. You are all you've got. Self-harm willingly never makes sense. Never knowingly put yourself at risk of harm. You live and you learn in life how to be how to behave and how to see in life. What you know about yourself will dictate how you should react and respond to others, always take into consideration the thoughts and feelings of others, know your best, your strengths and weaknesses. Never respond in the negative to others expected or not, that just makes you look bad. Always stay positive not one person is ever all knowing. You know yourself best. Don't succumb to the default judgments of others upon you. You cannot concern yourself with the problems of others, if you want to do well in life, you have to be at your best, focused on yourself, how to think best. When others are negative towards you there's nothing you can do about it. Don't feel hopeless with resentments that's not how to overcome resentments. One must be positive in order to think positive, no one can harm you when you do the right thing, it's when you're in the wrong you get harmed by the thoughts of others. Bipolar is not Schizophrenia and it's not psychic powers, it's just the difference between reading yourself and reading those toward you misreading them as negative or positive toward you. Always think well of self not one is famous or recognizably famous as those who are. Private people are private people and will always be treated as such, special, apart of, one of. Dont underestimate the power of forgiveness. We all have our moments in life, some forgivable some not, but we are always understandable when in hardship when not when okay when not okay that's always clear. Bipolar is not contagious, it's just understanding what's real what's not real is the problem. When you are focused on yourself not stalking others, focused on your likes not your dislikes you too will feel favorable to your best interests not the interests of others, behave in a people pleasing way, but follow best your instincts not be reliant upon others co-dependent. An independent mindset is always best. You can't always predict the future of what others will think of you after sharing secrets about yourself. Allow others to pass judgment on you. Allow forgiveness to happen on its own, you must first forgive yourself for your mistakes in life before others can forgive you. There is no room for error past 30 that's for sure. You're either perfect or not, and if you mess up in life it's on you, no one can fix you but you in life. Don't worry what others think, always be right minded to do well in life, and get help when needed. Chapter 54: Finding Yourself by Leslie A. Fischman
01-20-18 Whenever we experience a loss in life whether by failure or shortcoming, we realize what's important to us. These are not embarrassments but simply how to adjust to the times. Not worry about losses incoming, you should always focus on what you do have, not fear consequences non-existent based upon previous or past concerns. Always be present. Never underestimate the power of forgiveness. To whom we associate to any why. Usually the well stick together, and the not well gets rejected for whatever reasons sound. Always behave well and have good people skills, not be an angry or disgruntled person in order to do well achieve well in life, not have paranoia or embarrassment. That's just you being hard on yourself. Always be thankful for what you have in life. What goes up must come down. Always be ready for whatever gets thrown your way in life. Even if you're not happy in life, sometimes you still need to move forward. That's called making a compromise. Letting go of what you fear and in its place sound judgment and rationale for proper decision making skills to occur. Never let negativity get the best of you. You won't always like what people have to say about you but that doesn't mean quit and give up in life, it simply just means that maybe you need to regroup and figure out what's important to you in life. Always care for others. Live each day as though it were your last. Always be thankful for others. Who help you in life be you. Not everything is for everyone. You will always be you no matter who steps into your life. Let that be known. Who cares what people think about you. Always love yourself. Not everything is about you in life. Then and until then will you realize you're own self-worth. Part of staying level headed is about feeling good for yourself and others, do well always. When your life flashes before your eyes, you know you've gone too far backwards in life to comprehend the present. Always stay focused on what's important and what matters, because as soon as you complain or play victim any other side will deny any wrongdoing toward you or others. No wars private should ever be made public for exposure or for political duress. Never be too abrasive always be understanding of others. Your stresses in life should not stress those around you out. Always be kind first to yourself and others secondly, how to keep and maintain friendships. Always follow suit. When you see what matters and you know what matters, you know who to blame for your present circumstances. You then either (1) play victim (2) depart or (3) fight. Fighting is never the answer to your problems best to always walk away (1) and (2) are easy to recognize but once you (3) fight, it's hard to see, through your lense, and then you get blamed for your own hardships. Why if you're a V1 never fight, always ask for help, play by the rules. Don't take matters into your own hands ever, always be professional, representing you yourself and those around you best as you can. When you're delusional wear it with a crown and be proud of yourself anyways. We all have our shortcomings in life, it's hard to stay normal, and keep a level head on your shoulders, stay separate from others. Know that success first comes from within. No one wants to get blamed. It's hard enough starting over in life, let alone thinking that anything is about you when it's not about you. Always stay calm, never be in on anything, everything sound always protects others from harm its the unsound that hurts, never do drugs or drink alcohol it causes delusion and mental illness. Always know your best, and let the rest go. Your esteem makes you who you are, always be humble. Never lose your sense of self-worth and value. What you see is what you get. What others see in you is based upon what you put out there gets communicated back to you. Always be kind to yourself. Lift others in order to feel lifted, how to socialize, by being well minded, putting others before yourself. Chapter 53: Love Your Own Voice by Leslie A. Fischman
01-20-18 Popularity is based upon likeability not based upon who knows who. Connections don't matter, tight or loose. It's about who you are that matters most, whether accepted or not, by others. Always do your best to be well liked, understanding of others. What you know is what you hear and read and that will never change. Know your voice in life, speak to what matters to you most not speak to the concerns of others, how one turns on oneself. There should be no surprises in life so long as you are always doing your best there should be no surprises in life. It's when you're not prepared in life that life catches you by surprise. Life life without regret. Always count your blessings twice in life. Mental illness occurs when you think things are happening that are not happening for you in life. Always note that the World is a big place, never think too highly of yourself no matter how many followers you get, always keep a level head on your shoulders. Never get too wrapped into yourself to think you're someone that you are not. Its always hard to get yourself to do things that you don't want to do in life. Don't fret the small stuff, easy does it, one day at a time. Know your best, and never stop trying to be your best in life. You are a product of your connections and associations in life -that's how you put your World together. Always be grateful from where you come from as well as everyone in your World that helps you realize your potential in life. Think like you are you in order to be you and stay you in life, you cannot be bigger than yourself in life, only you know you best. Coming up isn't easy in life, it takes hard work. Love yourself enough to know when to stop following others paths in life and to just be yourself. There's only so much soul searching you can do in life until you have to just settle down and be yourself. Never be condescending to the needs of others in life, we are all human. Intimacy occurs by communications with others, always be professional toward others to ensure the comfort of those you love around you. Never be awkward but to those you love and like, they will know what's best for you when you are not well. Intimacy is love to be shared with those you love. When you know your stopping points in life you won't get sick by others. Know yourself well enough to stay separate from those you communicate with. For every edge there's a take. Finding your edge in life is defined by your grind. What you do everyday to become a better person than you were yesterday. Life is a summation of your ability to handle life on life's terms without disrupting your present circumstances, living freely without cause, and under support of others, while helping others accomplish their goals too through your supportive nature. Theres always time to be beautiful in life. You are always one of a sum in life, equal to its parts. Never wonder why you are the way you are different than not good enough, always remind yourself that you deserve to fit in with the best of them. Life's not all about looks but about being normal. Always do your best! When you don't know where to start or where to begin always look toward yourself past and pick up from there. Do not become too reliant on others for direction in life. It's how you think that matters most. Defeat the negative voices within you to see positive. That's how to undo negative voices and hear yourself again, like yourself. You won't know your self-worth until you try. Do not be bothered by the opinions of others, their standing, or their worries. No one can take your place in life. Life's not a political competition it's about blending in + fitting in. When it's all in your head it's all in your head. Always be good enough for yourself first and foremost and others second. You are you. Not one can be you. Jealousy is a form of hate, always be happy for others and likewise they'll be happy for you too. Stay positive! When you're doing well everything around you will turn out well too. Never underestimate the power of forgiveness for self and others. Love every moment of everyday that you have to live life. Always live for the moment. Enjoy life. Be confident and live freely, free from restraint, free from voices, free from those who've caused you harm in your life. Always be positive toward self and others, to live freely. Be kind mostly to yourself and spread kindness like confetti from there. It's important when you're not feeling well to go to systems of support for help and guidance, not rely upon ones own decision making skills when off center. Know your limits in life. Ask yourself what is your stopping point. Never go over the edge in life, always be frugal with your time, never a spendthrift. When you know you're worth it you will shine. Never underestimate yourself. It takes time for people to come up in life, some do and some don't. There's always an opportunity for change, never stop trying. Who you trust and who inspires you is none of anyone's business but your own. Always be thankful for your blessings in life. Nobody can change you, that's not how life works. Only you can change you. What speaks to you is what matters to you, matters to all. What is believed is what is said and heard and connected as having or not having to do with you. What speaks to you matters as to what's at issue with you or others. What you think matters most not what others think as question, whether anything is of or concerning you is none of anyone's business but your own. Never become defensive overtly to the responses of others as that's you picking up negative words or language and applying it to yourself. That's how one becomes negative by too much focus on negatives and too much application of self it's like vanity gone wrong in the negative, always be positive, therefore. You will always be you no matter who walks in and out of your life. People don't make you who you are you are responsible for building your own self in life. Be kind to yourself and others, think well, have safe thoughts about self and/or others to feel safe. The voices you hear make up who you are. I was once told "we all hear voices." If so make sure the voices you hear hear well are trusted voices such as the media and newspapers. They are the best judges of character -use us sparingly not to a fault. What you focus on is what will bother you about self and others, on the record or off the record conduct and statements, all of it matters, as to how you will be judged by others as truthful, cognizant, caring, or helpful to others -genuine or not. What matters to you may not matter to everyone, especially those looking for faults and sources of blame. Always stay positive, in order to best be there for others, not worry about what others fixate on, how to be immune from hate, live freely. When you're ready to quit is usually when you need to keep going in life. Let no one keep you down in life. Always try your best, and focus on what's important to you, not be too focused on others, always have a life of your own in order to be well balanced. What is your life that is you, based upon your exposure in life who you see and talk to opens a window to your soul looking outward. How to see best is by who you connect with and talk to on a daily basis, how to be well adjusted in life. When you know you're wrong, own it. Correct yourself, and do a better job of being you in life. Youre never that important enough to think that everything is about you. Not everyone has the time of day to constantly be thinking of you or worrying about you in life. What connects is not always about you and can be about others trying to put together pieces. What matters to you may not matter to everyone you meet in life and that's okay. You need not convince people of your thoughts or argue your position in life or decision making skills that just makes you look defensive to the opinions held by others. Always represent yourself best. Quit worrying about what other people think, and don't stop being you. Chapter 52: Battling Mental Illness by Leslie A. Fischman
01-19-18 You cannot fix people. You should assemble yourself not others. How you give your power away, fixing, helping, only do so under the direction and authority of professionals. You don't always have the answer to everyone's problems and that's okay. Think with your head sometimes not just your heart. Don't cover for people embrace cultural differences when it comes to choices always be yourself straight on your terms of living. You don't know faith until it finds you. Always stay true to your good character traits in life and always do what you feel is right not succumb to the temperaments of others toward self. Be unique. Love yourself no matter what they say. Nobody's perfect including me. You are what you say and what you do. Love yourself enough to know when to quit. Don't put up with the bad circumstances of others, it's but they're fault for their misconducts, your shoes are your shoes always react from your shoes in life not the shoes of others. When you are well minded your thoughts will lead you to better comforts in life than hate shame guilt and blame those are the seeds of negativity. Know yourself well enough to know when to quit trying, and start living your life day by day. You never know what's on the other side of tomorrow. Often times when we lose our cool we miss out on opportunities in life. You don't get many chances in life to make a good first impression, always be sound. Never wonder too much about others or what they think, life is normal so long as you are normal, when you misbehave you will be judged by your behavioral health issues why it's important to be conservative in order to be well liked not mimic'd replicated as a traitor. That's paranoid thinking, thinking of self not others always put others before yourself, best interests. Always be mindful of the spaces of others as well as your own spaces in life. Do not allow your illnesses with one another to interfere with your ability to function normally in any environment. When you leave social media, always leave things on a positive note to stay well, look well, be well. Love the life that you're in. Never forget who was there for you when you were down. Always live life with purpose, and never stop giving back. Loss on innocence occurs when we don't stick to our good values in life and venture outside the norm. Forgiveness is everything sound minded. Be clear to others but do not impede on the progress of others or their likelihood of success in life. Understand you are not the only one with problems in life and know that everyone has problems of their own whether by their making of by the making(s) of others. Always do your best to assist those in crisis. Your safety needs must be met first before you can help others. Once your safety needs are met, then and until then, will you be able to help those during a time of need. When you think that everything is about you that's when you've misstepped in life. Always focus on being there for others, not worry about others being there for you. Lifes not about who's there for you, always be on your own team in life. You are a product of your own Karma in life. What you put out into the World you get back. Make sure to always be positive, not all-knowing. There's a difference between delusion and reality. How you think is what becomes, what you fear is what you hold back, and what you love is who you are. Love yourself enough to know when to let go and when to let others go from your life. Hold on to what you can, and let the rest of the dust settle in life, how to stay on top of things, without falling under water. Never rely on the realities of others to understand your own reality. You are a product of your own makings in life, what you perceive as real or unreal is a matter of what you see should not be by what others see. Know yourself well enough to understand the whys in life on your own and not become too reliant on others to understand whys. When life happens let it happen on your own terms not the terms of others. You are your own best friend in life. Always listen to your intuition, when to stop, when to go, and when to move forward. The harder it is to move forward the more in life you have to let go. Never allow the dirty thoughts of others toward or about you rot your mind away. You are always you no matter what anyone says about you. Only you can be you, it's not the power of others to take away from what you yourself empower yourself with. Life happens on life's terms don't be so willing to go backwards making amends and getting hurt always with the guidance of others professionally follow suit. Don't dismember yourself going backwards in life unless it's necessary to move forwards in life away from your troubles and hardships bothering you and/or others. Not feeling well is a product of unhappiness with ones self. What you know about you is not what others know about you. People can't read your mind, they have lives of their own. No ones ever that obsessed with anyone to think of them 24hrs a day. Know that, never be too full of yourself to think thought of too much or more than wanted by others, people don't care that much for others other than their loved ones mostly for the most part. Two teams in life everyone cares and who cares but always take life seriously enough to know when to stop caring, and pick yourself up. Think for yourself not others. You are you no matter what and no one can change you but you no associations no connections. Be best for you not for others. Repairing yourself and what others think of you takes time. Fantasy is based upon what you cannot create in real life for yourself and create circumstances or thoughts otherwise that help you toward the realization of dreams in real life. Creating a fake world for yourself to thrive in is called unwillingness to face reality and the present. When you feel well everything around you will feel well too, that's how wellness works. When it's clear who's wrong who's right a decision is made. No such persons should suffer any harms graver than the consequences for the chosen wrongful accusations toward another. And upon that decision weighted a judgment is passed upon another as being wrong or right. For every wrong there is one right of way, for every misdirection in choice, there is a right decision made. That is by choice. By our choices made right. Always keep busy and stay right minded, don't give in to the repercussions of the actions of others toward or against you, always stay calm level headed to do well, act right, look right in life. Everyday is an opportunity to shine. Learn to let go of the past and just move forward. Know your limits in life. Your memory is best. Don't allow others to affect your memory cause you to turn on yourself or others. That causes self-harming behaviors. You should not be affected by others well or not well. You should love yourself enough to know when to let go. Never let yourself go, always be kind to yourself and/or others. Success is based on doing well and doing well for others it's not based upon obsession with self or others. Always do your best to be accepted by others, how you do well in life. Be the success you want to see in the World, not be a failure to oneself or others. When World's Collide it's not really a big deal. It just means that one is in need of help and goes to the wrong person for help this causes a collision when you get help from the wrong people in life. Always date well to get up in life. Otherwise you get and feel devalued. Chapter 51: Moving Forward With Reality Not Others by Leslie A. Fischman
01-15-18 Moving Forward and Backtracking by Leslie A. Fischman 01-05-17 Whenever we move forward in life its common to backtrack and review ourselves, our strengths our weaknesses, and try to better our self and our image. Life is all about perfection. How we view ourselves, much to the same effect is how others will view us. If we do not go backwards and make our amends, and edit, then we as writers, subject ourselves to harsh and unnecessary scrutiny. Writing is all about perfection, no spelling errors, and no typographical mistakes. All of which affect the readers understanding of what is written. It is very important as a writer and publisher to always be unique, and to always be neat and tidy, that is how to make a good blog, one that is read, with ease. When there are errors, and blocks this causes the reader to question the source, and that is why people are blocked, and questioned, when they themselves are not tidy and neat looking they will be judged. It is by how we present ourselves, that we are looked at, manage your presence at all times well, in order to be well received, that is how to be best approachable. Being Raised Conservative by Leslie A. Fischman 01-06-17 When you leave the woodwork you realize what you have, I was raised very conservative, and now I understand why. It was to protect me from harm, that when we let loose we will be judged by others, its how we are taken seriously, that others will judge us, based upon our own merits, and what we bring to the table, skills. Those skills are by education and background, those build the backbones to companies, and from there a company grows. What is independence. We chatted today before the meeting, to me that means a Corporation that is independently run, by its employees, who are independent of one another, not co-dependent. In the real world, I see that individuals, base selves on their accolades and based upon their merits, how confidence is made, not by being inside a group but by what they bring to the table, that is how confidence is made. You can only see yourself, when you are in a group of people, who is accepting of you not hard on you, know your worth. Sometimes in close relationships, people are hard on us, that’s to protect us from harm. When we understand the value of self, in relationship to others, we will know ourselves best. How to behave in front of others, whether to be known for our present or our past, and from that point determine how well known, know you best, not others, how to get to know yourself among people, how to self identify. When people look at you and think you are something you are not, that is because they know you based on what they hear, not based on what they know, or see, and that is always understandable, we give thanks to others, for acceptance always, how to move forward, and not discuss our private lives out loud, or professional selves, in order to maintain a positive outlook in life, is by our work ethic not others points of views. This is clear upon meeting people very well adjusted, I too was once well adjusted, and now struggle because of my relationships gone sour, while attending law school. I will never understand the pressure perceived until I undergo it myself. What you say about yourself, is by what rumor is known about you, always be truthful, and give value to your life presently, everything is a matter of correction. When you are a perfectionist and corrected, then you should know better how to behave is how one is treated, who looks or appears mentally ill, that’s called passing judgment upon another’s circumstances, and adding fruit to the table of concerns. What is concerning is what alarms, people should never be alarmed by adjusters. Adjusters are people who are accepting of all people, they themselves must be conservative minded, if to be a backbone to others, to mirror conversation behavior. That is how trust is built, not by surprises, but by dialect, being conservative minded. Conservative minded means being a defensive driver in life, watching out always for concerns, addressing concerns accordingly, and by offering reassurances. Reassurances are guaranteed by behavior present, and behavior continued, elsewhere. It is known that I struggled with alcohol after law school, its never been a problem in my life professionally, always sound, and never a threat to my environment, or to others, I’m not a loose canon, its by judgments threats to me, that occurred (once), said something back under the influence (once), that is not me but a product of my circumstances, I was judged as something I am not, and because they thought I was a whore, I was treated like that, Im very chaste, never dressed like a whore, never behaved like one, always conservative toward others. What We See We Remember by Leslie A. Fischman 01-06-17 What we see is what we remember is what gets promoted about us, not by whats in our closet, or in our bedrooms. That is not how people see us, by our private spaces. Is not how you judge a cover by its book, its by how you remember identify yourself, not by the baggage of others, or by your things in life. You cant go backwards and try to be a better you, you have to just be you as you are now. That’s how to build a better you, from here forward, not by going backwards. Your past picture is always your best profile picture, as you remember you best. Ive found that that has helped me, gear myself back to reality, and how I understand my direction and self in life, and where I am headed, not by the direction of others, headed in life. Its important to stay true to your character, not be easily impressed upon or molded, slightly stubborn, but cautious, is the best way to lead yourself in any public environment. I have found that to rehabilitate my character it takes time, by good merits only. When I infuse myself with the troubles of others, bear burdens, that’s my weight. Not the weight of others upon me, but my instincts, errors, failure, to overcome. Perfection is a job, not a hobby, when you perfect yourself, you understand your own intrinsic value, that no other person’s value should affect you in communication. Its not contagious, stupidity, its just a recognized failure, always do your best to repair yourself separately. Whats Important to You by Leslie A. Fischman 01-07-17 Whats important to you matters, however it may not always matter to others. What you project about yourself personally, is how you fail, in the image department. That cannot be removed from your record, how others see you, that is something that you cannot control. In the grand scheme of things, how you will be viewed and judged will be a matter of principles based, not gusto or energy, but by your nature and value and givingness to the trade, that is your writing. Overall how you will be perceived is how you are judged by others, as worthy of attention, put together, a cohesive idea, or something that needs more work. That is called acceptance. What matters to you may not matter to everyone, but that doesn’t mean that you or your ideas don’t matter at all. With proper training and instruction you too can make a difference in the lives of others, its all a matter of manifestation, and willingness to learn and try, always doing your best. How you represent self matters, and based upon those judgments and first impressions, a judgment is passed upon you, accepted or declined, mattered or fabricated, together or not, or picked apart. You should never be insulted by the input of others, and that should not change you or your feelings about yourself, or cause you to question yourself or others. That is your instability, a reflection of your own instability, when you feel judged. To think positively of oneself, is how to undo negative opinions about oneself. Some Ideas by Leslie A. Fischman 01-08-17 Some ideas help us move forward in life and some don’t. There’s a stopping point, at what point to we stand back and look at everything as it is, either accepting of the times or rejecting our present circumstances as real and true. That is a judgment call based upon those who upon viewing either choose or decide to accept anything said as proper philosophy. It’s all about acceptance, that’s how one moves forward. It’s all about integrating ideas, that when it settles, it settles well to all. That’s how good ideas are made. They’re the type of ideas, that make us stand back in life, and look at life in aw, those are considered good ideas, something needed, and necessary. What’s unnecessary, are attachments, and promotions, those usually hurt ideas, now looking back, as ideas get applied, to the promoter of a work or an idea. I see now. The meaning can change depending on who is promoting an idea, how it will be viewed. At the same token, when viewed, the viewers reaction is interpreted, and understood as connected, screen to audience, or work of art to audience. What you pay attention to is what matters, to you, but something else might stand out to your audience, that you have no control over, best to always be a perfectionist. Regret occurs when we don’t do our best and we settle for less in life, we hold back regret. Wish we would have tried harder, or wish that things would have turned out differently, that’s called regret. What is read into is what comes out in the readers mind. Those are not subconscious results, but a matter of how well read and what’s being read into, is what will come out of any given piece of writing or work of art. The overall feel and the overall message is what gets taken away, always think positively of others, without connections to mainstream media, when interpreting. 0 Comments Whats Important to You by Leslie A. Fischman 1/7/2018 0 Comments Whats Important to You by Leslie A. Fischman 01-07-17 Whats important to you matters, however it may not always matter to others. What you project about yourself personally, is how you fail, in the image department. That cannot be removed from your record, how others see you, that is something that you cannot control. In the grand scheme of things, how you will be viewed and judged will be a matter of principles based, not gusto or energy, but by your nature and value and givingness to the trade, that is your writing. Overall how you will be perceived is how you are judged by others, as worthy of attention, put together, a cohesive idea, or something that needs more work. That is called acceptance. What matters to you may not matter to everyone, but that doesn’t mean that you or your ideas don’t matter at all. With proper training and instruction you too can make a difference in the lives of others, its all a matter of manifestation, and willingness to learn and try, always doing your best. How you represent self matters, and based upon those judgments and first impressions, a judgment is passed upon you, accepted or declined, mattered or fabricated, together or not, or picked apart. You should never be insulted by the input of others, and that should not change you or your feelings about yourself, or cause you to question yourself or others. That is your instability, a reflection of your own instability, when you feel judged. To think positively of oneself, is how to undo negative opinions about oneself. Facebook Heading: Whats Important to You by Leslie A. Fischman #lesliefischman (cc: #SimonCowell and #DavidCameron, thanks for the feedback! In my mind, you guys to me). 0 Comments What We See We Remember by Leslie A. Fischman 1/6/2018 0 Comments What We See We Remember by Leslie A. Fischman 01-06-17 What we see is what we remember is what gets promoted about us, not by whats in our closet, or in our bedrooms. That is not how people see us, by our private spaces. Is not how you judge a cover by its book, its by how you remember identify yourself, not by the baggage of others, or by your things in life. You cant go backwards and try to be a better you, you have to just be you as you are now. That’s how to build a better you, from here forward, not by going backwards. Your past picture is always your best profile picture, as you remember you best. Ive found that that has helped me, gear myself back to reality, and how I understand my direction and self in life, and where I am headed, not by the direction of others, headed in life. Its important to stay true to your character, not be easily impressed upon or molded, slightly stubborn, but cautious, is the best way to lead yourself in any public environment. I have found that to rehabilitate my character it takes time, by good merits only. When I infuse myself with the troubles of others, bear burdens, that’s my weight. Not the weight of others upon me, but my instincts, errors, failure, to overcome. Perfection is a job, not a hobby, when you perfect yourself, you understand your own intrinsic value, that no other person’s value should affect you in communication. Its not contagious, stupidity, its just a recognized failure, always do your best to repair yourself separately. 0 Comments Being Raised Conservative by Leslie A. Fischman 1/6/2018 0 Comments Being Raised Conservative by Leslie A. Fischman 01-06-17 When you leave the woodwork you realize what you have, I was raised very conservative, and now I understand why. It was to protect me from harm, that when we let loose we will be judged by others, its how we are taken seriously, that others will judge us, based upon our own merits, and what we bring to the table, skills. Those skills are by education and background, those build the backbones to companies, and from there a company grows. What is independence. We chatted today before the meeting, to me that means a Corporation that is independently run, by its employees, who are independent of one another, not co-dependent. In the real world, I see that individuals, base selves on their accolades and based upon their merits, how confidence is made, not by being inside a group but by what they bring to the table, that is how confidence is made. You can only see yourself, when you are in a group of people, who is accepting of you not hard on you, know your worth. Sometimes in close relationships, people are hard on us, that’s to protect us from harm. When we understand the value of self, in relationship to others, we will know ourselves best. How to behave in front of others, whether to be known for our present or our past, and from that point determine how well known, know you best, not others, how to get to know yourself among people, how to self identify. When people look at you and think you are something you are not, that is because they know you based on what they hear, not based on what they know, or see, and that is always understandable, we give thanks to others, for acceptance always, how to move forward, and not discuss our private lives out loud, or professional selves, in order to maintain a positive outlook in life, is by our work ethic not others points of views. This is clear upon meeting people very well adjusted, I too was once well adjusted, and now struggle because of my relationships gone sour, while attending law school. I will never understand the pressure perceived until I undergo it myself. What you say about yourself, is by what rumor is known about you, always be truthful, and give value to your life presently, everything is a matter of correction. When you are a perfectionist and corrected, then you should know better how to behave is how one is treated, who looks or appears mentally ill, that’s called passing judgment upon another’s circumstances, and adding fruit to the table of concerns. What is concerning is what alarms, people should never be alarmed by adjusters. Adjusters are people who are accepting of all people, they themselves must be conservative minded, if to be a backbone to others, to mirror conversation behavior. That is how trust is built, not by surprises, but by dialect, being conservative minded. Conservative minded means being a defensive driver in life, watching out always for concerns, addressing concerns accordingly, and by offering reassurances. Reassurances are guaranteed by behavior present, and behavior continued, elsewhere. It is known that I struggled with alcohol after law school, its never been a problem in my life professionally, always sound, and never a threat to my environment, or to others, I’m not a loose canon, its by judgments threats to me, that occurred (once), said something back under the influence (once), that is not me but a product of my circumstances, I was judged as something I am not, and because they thought I was a whore, I was treated like that, Im very chaste, never dressed like a whore, never behaved like one, always conservative toward others. 0 Comments Moving Forward and Backtracking by Leslie A. Fischman 1/5/2018 0 Comments Moving Forward and Backtracking by Leslie A. Fischman 01-05-17 Whenever we move forward in life its common to backtrack and review ourselves, our strengths our weaknesses, and try to better our self and our image. Life is all about perfection. How we view ourselves, much to the same effect is how others will view us. If we do not go backwards and make our amends, and edit, then we as writers, subject ourselves to harsh and unnecessary scrutiny. Writing is all about perfection, no spelling errors, and no typographical mistakes. All of which affect the readers understanding of what is written. It is very important as a writer and publisher to always be unique, and to always be neat and tidy, that is how to make a good blog, one that is read, with ease. When there are errors, and blocks this causes the reader to question the source, and that is why people are blocked, and questioned, when they themselves are not tidy and neat looking they will be judged. It is by how we present ourselves, that we are looked at, manage your presence at all times well, in order to be well received, that is how to be best approachable. I have a new account for work: Instagram.com/leslietfinance 0 Comments Life Isn't About Image or Connections by Leslie A. Fischman 1/3/2018 0 Comments Life Isnt About Image or Connections by Leslie A. Fischman 01-03-17 Life isn’t about image or connections, its upon your own basis you become you, based upon your own merits in life, not the merits or good merits of others. How you self-identify and what becomes of you is how you will be judged by others. Always be yourself, you need not justify why you are the way you are or for what reasons you are ill is no ones business but your own. If you are doing everything you can to be well, than no people or persons should make you sick. People are not contagious, its bad ideas that are feared as being contagions, everyone is responsible for themselves, you cannot control others, it is not by our ideas that make us who we are but by our thoughts which control our actions and behaviors that make us who we are, how we are in public, how we address others, and how we ourselves are addressed, is a manifestation of how we see ourselves is how others will see us in reply, always be appropriate in public dressed and around others. That is how to be well-liked. When you are judged that is no excuse for self hatred or for upset, you can only do your best, and if your best is not well received than acceptance of self is required you cannot be accepted by all, that’s called discrimination. You just have to accept that some people will not like you for whatever reasons, whether by your associations connections what you represent or what they think you represent or by where your headed in life, they think deserving or not. Intimidation and wins are for the weak, life’s not a competition, take life easy, and always be there for others, when you help yourself, others will be helped too. Facebook Heading: #BlogPost: Life Isn't About Image or Connections by Leslie A. Fischman #lesliefischman (Make yourself synonymous by your puttings together not the puttings together of others, thats how you maintain a level outlook about others, not get upset about haves). 0 Comments Ideologies and Happenings by Leslie A. Fischman 1/2/2018 0 Comments Ideologies and Happenings by Leslie A. Fischman 01-02-17 Who you put in charge of ideologies matters as to happenings, is by popular opinions and by likeness whether imitated or consumed. There are consumer trends which we identify which tell us the likes of our audiences, and by those trends dictate the material that is produced for our audiences. That is the only mathematical way in which to please all. People in the entertainment business cater to their audiences, by listening services, understand what are the likes and dislikes of individuals so that they can best provide for their audiences. Based upon those numbers provided by servers like Google, we can tell what is in demand and what is not in demand, by what is helping us to cope and what is hurting our abilities to cope. –How things happen is by choice, the choices you make, are what influence your thinking and what makes up your mind, is how your life happens, what happens around you is your environment, and that you cannot control what people think about you and what happens around you, you can only control you. –When you are in control of you, then everything around you seems in control. When you are not in control of you then everything around you seems out of control. Its important to always maintain a level head about you, why those in positions of power, with earning power, are put in caretaking positions of trust to help us. Nothings Ever Permanent by Leslie A. Fischman 01-09-17 What you think is wrong, if so, is wrong, only if you think it is wrong. Always play by the rules, and go from there #CHP. -There is nothing we can do when we experience any type of loss, usually follows a period of powerlessness. I’m not a Doctor but I know well enough the difference between right and wrong. -I have grown a lot since 2013, spiritually, and academically. I am still working on finishing my LLM at Thomas Jefferson School of Law, and work part-time on and off. I realize that during my time away from work and school is always a time to regroup and get strong again, so that I can be there for others. -You cannot move forwards without going backwards, that doesn’t mean stay there, you can reflect, life involves constant reflection without going through the motions. –Everything is always clear backwards moving forwards have faith. Commentary is for Professionals by Leslie A. Fischman 01-09-17 Commentary is for Professionals, and there is a reason for this. I am just a MuckRack.com Writer, not a professional commentator. I will always have my opinions, politically correct or not, always share how I feel about any given situation, and how that makes me feel, and how I have responded, and will continue to respond. Whether under stress, or not, or doing well, I will always be a writer. I have kept a journal my whole life, this is something about me, that will never change. I will always have my thoughts, and likewise, the reader will always have their thoughts. How are thoughts made, based upon exposure, and based upon how you feel about yourself, that will gear your thoughts, always be positive minded. When you are negative minded, your thoughts will wander to places, that cause you illness, yourself, and hopefully but not sometimes others illness. Always be mindful that things are not what they seem, and even if you hear something, about someone, to still respect that person, when you see them, that’s how you know whether anything bad has been said about someone behind their back, usually they look better than. I was once told, “haven’t you ever noticed that when someone talks $hit about someone it always makes them look better” laying in bed next to my ex #RobDebakey. Be very careful with your words, as they may be used, to portray something else about you, your likeness to others. In addition, always be careful what you say about others, can be used to pass judgment upon you. Ive said this before I’m someone who’s side is rarely taken in an argument or agreed with, they always take the other side, knowing this I built a campaign, in which all could foster. A mutual sense of humor, to begin focusing on whats important the weather, not just to make conversation, but because it matters. #LeonardoDicaprio. –Its funny once you begin to write in public, how much is memorized, and what is remembered that you cannot control, you only hope that people see positive, and trust you as a writer. They may not agree with all your opinions, and its not betrayal that hold back, but caution. Its not fame that retards, but behavior while famous. Always be kind to others, as everyone is doing their very best to represent all. All crimes are senseless, if there is one quote you should remember, that is the media’s choice. Anything ending with more, means, a good suit, lightly taken, not disturbing. I’m learning as I go what can be talked and joked about and what cannot be. On the otherhand anything that breaks confidence, causes one to question, decreases esteem. Always be thankful for your places in life, without whom we’d be lost. Minimalism Amplifies by Leslie A. Fischman 01-10-18 Theres a subtle difference between what is accepted said, and what is accepted past, and what is accepted presently, as in accordance with virtues set forward into motion. What is accepted is not the past, but in favor of the future, that exemplifies good bearings on current turmoils. When there is a rush, there is energy, and that energy must then be transferred to positives, positive focus points. When there is energy and that energy is applied to negatives, negatives result. Why its important to always stay calm, and to focus on whats within, not without, when in crisis. The common thing to do, is to focus on what you do have, not what you have not, when in crisis. Not to think of self, but to think of others, what are your needs, and what can you do to best assist others in crisis, is not to focus on self, but to focus on others, that is counterproductive when you change focus away from you to others, that shows that you yourself are not stable enough, and reliant upon others for assistance. Who is strong and who is not, is not important during times of need, but your own choices are much more important, as to who you go to for assistance. That is always important to go best to sources of support qualified to assist you. Redirection of focus is because some want to direct focus away from them, sometimes redirecting of focus occurs, because one wants to direct their own focus away from themselves, and their current troubles, escape from reality, that is called fantasy. There are such things as fantasy campaigns, I am not one of them, I am real. –Minimalism amplifies, because it suggests to focus on a few things rather than see the big picture, and whats in place, is what is left, that is minimalism to me, what remains, what is gone, is junk from our lives, why there was a minimalist movement to help us focus more on whats important, and what matters most to us, to get from point A to point B, positivity, and not go backwards, and relive the past over again. When you are reliving your past, you are making amends to get to your future self, a better self, and that is why amends are made. Never be too apologetic as accepting yourself as wrong, you are always right, the victim is never at fault, always remember that, in times of crisis, the one who suffers most is considered the victim. –I was raised never to play victim in life, and to always move forward, be strong. That is from a political standpoint best, when victim blaming occurs its because fault is placed on the victim, as to the victim’s current circumstances as asked for. I have never asked for any help or assistance my whole life, able to always work alone. How I was raised, to be independent of others, eventually you date and fall apart. That is the difficulty of being a Woman, giving your body to someone else, and trusting your body with another. You don’t realize the repercussions until too late. What to Talk About by Leslie A. Fischman 01-10-18 Its not always necessary to share your two cents or to say whats in your mind, that is for a particular time and place, and among certain groups of people, or persons. Be wary of to whom you are speaking and who is in your audience, is affected by your speech and what you say. Some audiences come, and some are connected. Be careful not to connect information to people or existing connections but on your own, assemble and put together information, and then people can go to that information. I see now why we have blogs and links from blogs, not blog directly. It is offensive to others in direct communications, when communications outside do not accurately reflect communications inside, sometimes we need an outer layer of communications that supports positive communications within why we have Twitter, a group of professionals, who communicate outside of Facebook back to us. #LessisMore #BeKind You Cannot Predict the Future by Leslie A. Fischman 01-11-18 You cannot predict the future, best you can be is prepared. That is the key to success preparation, and stability. The stability provides you with the footing you need to achieve in life, not leveling over or under people, in order to achieve, that is not how one achieves by comparing oneself to others, that only causes disillusionment. Best to stay focused on oneself, how to achieve in life. When you are too worried about others, or the thoughts of others, this can cause illness, franticness. –During periods of turmoil we are especially prone to being concerned about others, that is only natural, if you already have a pre-existing condition, that causes you anxiety, social anxiety, or fear of the thoughts of others about you, this can become amplified during crisis, and times of need, why its important to slow down, and think twice. According to Richard K. James, in Crisis Intervention Strategies: “When people confer their focus of self-evaluation on others, they become dependent on others for validation of their being.” (12) This explains how blogging and likes help people in crisis, identify both whats bothering them, read about it, and also self-identify what their thoughts are for the day, or share how their feeling and get feedback, positive affirmations back, via likes. Social Media is a “macrosystem” still in its developmental stages, and a growing field where “There is great value in looking at crises in their total social and environmental settings –not simple as one individual being affected in linear progression of cause-and-effect events.” (12) There is much “interdependence among people and between people and events” that shrowd our relationships with one another in reality, on a person to person basis through interaction and via the “relationships” we develop with others. (12) A “situational crisis” is described as an “occurrence of uncommon and extraordinary events that an individual has no way of forecasting or controlling.” Such environmental concerns, and catastrophes, resulting in death of persons, and loved ones. These are events outside of our control, often times “sudden, shocking, intense.” (13) It is common during crisis for there to be “abnormal responses.” Do not be alarmed, by your peers, they are probably just voicing their opinions, but anything urgent is important to report, if they themselves are in danger of hurting themselves or others. Sometimes a crisis can be personal, “a state [of] … impediments to life goals that cannot be overcome through customary behaviors.” (11) This is described as a “disturbed equilibrium” that requires “grief work” and an expressed willingness by the “clien[t] [to] wor[k] through the problem or grief” causing circumstances, in order to restor[e] [their] equiliubirum.” (11) Sometimes the “crisis service[s] never ceas[e].” (8) Especially on “suicide hotlines in major cities.” He further notes that “suicide prevention is probably the longest running intervention program” in the mental health field, and serves as a “benchmark for crisis intervention” in today’s times, to help “understand the several social movements [that] have been crisitcal to its development” such as the “women’s movement in the 1970s.” Grassroots advocates in the past have been known to assist people with PTSD. (7) There is a such thing as “transcrisis states” in which there is “unfinished business” (5) or where the “original crisis event” is “submerged below awareness.” This differs from PTSD in that it is caused “by an extremely traumatic event, and very specific criteria must be present for a diagnosis of PTSD to be made.” This condition is not limited to just those who suffer from PTSD by “so-called normal individuals” too experience these malapadative contiions, such as those who “quit taking their medicine” and therefore “capable of functioning at some minimal level” as a result. One of the “key differentiating element[s] of a transcrisis state is … whether it is due to [some] trauma” or personality traits, substance abuse, psychosis, or chronic envionemental stressors, the state is residual and recurrent and always present to some degree.” I don’t think that discrimination lasts forever, but if it does, it is doable and momentary, and can be lived with, its not a big deal, you just go on in life, and find somewhere, where you are accepted, and treated as human, and intelligent. Anyone who dehumanizes you and treats you as bait, or less than, probably doesn’t respect you and that’s okay, you just move on. There is no excuse for suicide, even if everyone tries to convince everyone that your off and theyre smart, its not your responsibility to convince others, that you are intelligent, and doing well, just do well, and the rest should follow. We all have our own beliefs in life, and often times they do not change, even over time, there will always be blame and blame avoided. Never blame others for your current hardships I was raised to believe and never play victim. I did not grow up with fighting, never have been in a fight my whole life. When there was fighting, to talk about the negative, I become suicidal, not able to cope with fighting, because I grew up in a disorganized state, and had to make things better for everyone, that required a tremendous amount of focus on self, not others. Reference: Richard K. James, Crisis Intervention Strategies, 6th Edition (2008). Life’s not all about Blogging by Leslie A. Fischman 01-12-18 Lifes not all about blogging, and it certainly is not all about you or the faults of others, blame rarely gets you far in places, complaints often frowned upon. Theres a certain state of helplessness, that follows in any addictive or malapadative behaviors that cause you to question yourself or others. According to Dr. Martin Seligman “The feeling of oppression and not being in control or in charge is the opposite of the top of the UpSpiral which is “feeling good and feeling free” (http://appliedneuroscienceblog.com/learned-helplessness-way). -Theres a condition of loss that occurs, loss of self, loss of standards, and loss of care. That’s how you know you have addiction, when you become dependent upon a system of support, and that support when overused, creates a condition of self hate. That is the trouble with Social Media, is when to stop, look up, and look around you. What is it that you’re trying to do in life, and never lose focus, not to social media, not to others, and not in place of self, and your life goals. One can be easily led astray online, and on the internet, and even while blogging, its hard to maintain footing in life, without the internet some days, if so then blogging may not be the correct profession for you, if unable to achieve your goals in life while blogging. Sometimes too much exposure, is cause for consequences, that flip back onto you, on your feet, on your side of the grass. What can you do to make your grass greener, by representing yourself well at all times, that requires not to share too much what is inside of us, and share more about what represents ourselves best. The outer layer. Always Think for Yourself by Leslie A. Fischman 01-13-18 Always think for yourself, you never know whos watching. Just got two new folllowers today @redcrossla and @navy_airpower_usa. –Best to always represent yourself well, and the rest should follow. What is trust? Trust is when you are put in a position of power, and you do not abuse those trusts and confidences. That can be achieved by doing your job, and by helping others as you say you will, not by overstepping boundaries, knowing your limits, and your place in life as a worker. There are some things we can and cannot talk about, and for everything else, we have the internet, to share our opinions on. Fears and resentments are things you share in private, under the confidences of licensed professionals and for good reason. Whenever we go backwards in life, we run the risk of reliving past traumas, and facing those traumas head on at the present. In order to overcome those traumas, we need assistance, medical assistance sometimes, in order to grow past those traumas, without inheriting disabilities along the way from our past or from others to whom we discuss our past with. I don’t believe in ethnic cleansing, but as an individual of mixed ethnicity, I understand how easily my health can go in and out over the years, and by the difference in my weight, up and down, which is all dependent upon my self-esteem and how I feel about myself. How you feel about yourself, is based upon how you interact with others, as well as how others perceive you. Lifes not an STD, covered in disease, and neither are people, by communication. That is not how gay is spread or bad ideas, by communications, but by a person’s unwillingness to follow general laws of common sense conduct and courtesy for others. How you treat others is how you will be treated in return. –The difficulty with disability is trying to be something youre not able, and then trying to fit in again. I never thought that my disability would get worse overtime, but it had, and now I am doing everything I can to overcome those hardships, and stay focused. Playing up to what people think a disabled person looks and sounds like, is fun, to just be yourself, and listen to your inner retard, however the writing world is very judgmental these days, and some days you have to always give your best. Theres a time and a place for everything, Im not an actress, so I can only give my best. People who are performers, are good at hiding issues within them, Im not one of them, my biggest weakness perhaps is that I can barely keep a secret, if made known would help others to better understand me, and my previous responsibilities as an advocate to others. You have to be very well, in order to help others, and in order to be well and get well, you have to understand yourself first before others. That is what I am currently working on building a better understanding of myself, so that I can best be there for others, professionally, and by learning, and maintaining my academic integrity –that is my strengths in academics, where I shine most. Living Life is Not Contagious by Leslie A. Fischman 01-13-18 Always surround yourself with people who have lives. That is how you live life, not on your own. When you are surrounded by love you too will be equally loved, and have self-fulfillment in life. It is when we are left to our own devices in life we question ourselves and others. Always be true to your good character in life and never read too much into others. Its what you think that matters most. Never accept blame where you are right and others are wrong towards you. Never blame others when you are wrong, and by these lessons we build a better understanding of ourselves and others. You live and you learn, not by mistakes but by rights not wrongs. Whats Important to The Reader Doesn’t Matter by Leslie A. Fischman 01-14-18 Whats important to the reader doesn’t matter. Everyone has their own poignant recall and experiences they remember, their own lives and most memorable moments. You choose which moments in life define you. You should never be defined by others, or by experiences in life. What you remember is what you process and register as important. You as the reader have a mind of your own. What you remember is a choice, what you think is important is a choice, and how you are graded in life, is by exemplifying good moral character a general understanding a proper care for self and others, a degree of sensitivity for those preserved is welcomed, why I get picked in life, not rejected. What occurs when associations are made by telephone, and by what people say not by what is written and used to cause judgment is called hearsay, that’s a persuasive argument against someone, by opinions shared about someone’s character based on pulling something that they say out of context to make them look bad as applied to something else. –Its important not to judge others at what point did things become bad for others in life, there are timelines and there are records, and from those points during those moments in time, when drugs and alcohol are involved, that is what is punished, and for those reasons others are punished, or punishment is sought for them. That us how crime works, by punishing people, good people, to undo the wrongs of themselves. Your discomforts with people, who help you, are not of concern, and even if I did commit suicide, there would be no one to blame but myself for it. All suicides are retarded and selfish acts, occurring by giving up in life and others. This is not a period in time, when all hope should be lost, but by continuously rebuilding from where people left off is how you build sound intelligence and learn principles for recovering from hardships, and understanding the hardships of others better. –We are not actors, we can only be human, and by that I meant it, I’m not an Actress. Don’t Blame it on the DJ by Leslie A. Fischman 01-14-18 You should never turn on your instructors in life, that includes dance instructors, or song choices. It’s much too late to blame DJs at this point. You guys should always stay positive. And you cannot blame Housekeepers either, for listening to orders. So that’s the main point. The main point is a point addressed to clarify a whole, not make certain, but make clear, not allude, but bring to a point of closure, response. That response should always be positive. When things are not right and not certain we feel that energy. And based upon that energy make decisions in life for ourselves. Never become defensive to the wrongs of others, and never justify the wrongs of others. Where others are wrong, that will eventually come to light, through their character good or bad. You cannot change people you can only correct them. –The stopping points and ending points of discussions should always be in the positive not the negative. Those are not then jumping off points for discussions. Usually points made by someone in the middle of any controversy is called coming forward in life, and speaking. You have to give it time, allow victims to come forward on their own, that’s how you undo the wrongs of others, not by offending people, to see how they react in the positive or in the negative to get some more truth or a reaction to justify any existing or pre-existing conditions or reactions you deem relevant. Always think relevant as to what, guilt for what, and for whys, never justify the wrongs of others, that’s a slippery slope, and only leads to disillusionment, illness. When people become ill, it is because they become disillusioned, either by drugs or alcohol made worse, present circumstances only become worse, when reading abilities are worsened, to make unable to read, usually those well read don’t do drugs. Drugs cause retardation, or inability to read, read well, or respond promptly or well enough to be understood well, and because not understood, evidence of guilt is present, as misconduct toward oneself, the use of drugs is called self-harm. Keeping a Positive Head on Your Shoulders by Leslie A. Fischman 01-15-18 You need to keep a positive head on your shoulders in order to do well in life. That includes being there for others, and ensuring the safety of all. When you are doing well others around you will do well now. Co-Dependent systems are not healthy for personal growth, as they stifle you, real friends don’t compare themselves to one another or try to be better than one another, but help one another get better in life. Its called looking out for one another, that is within families and outside of families, understand the fights, and help not make worse current situations, or leave one another worse off, that only causes blame, and resentments, and resentments cause hatred or misunderstandings toward one another. From where does power come from, from the Parents, or Schools. From where does confidence come from, the Parents or the School. From where does sickness come from, self when self does not get help when sick, sick can make others sick. Never worry for the fears or resentments of others. Never provoke one another to end up worse off, that proves nothing right, and everything wrong. Always prove them wrong in life, and always do your best. Who you are is not about people downloading, but being yourself. When sick makes well sick, you know we have a problem, always think well. Some people in life, do not have it good, and are worse off, never be minded by the problems of others, but always do your best to rise above and be happy for others. You Cant Change Words or People by Leslie A. Fischman 01-15-18 You cant change words or people. What it looks like is never what is, and whats seems is never as is. Its what you think that matters most, not what others think or say to you, is not how the World works, but by happiness and appreciation for others. Is how to see right. What comes to be, is what is thought of others, always mind your thoughts, is it of a concerning nature, is it important, what maters to you. With clarity of thought and purpose in life, you too can repair yourself. Repairing oneself, and ones image takes time, it doesn’t happen overnight. You have to be a very strong person, and strong minded, in order to do well, and in order for those around you to do well too. Campaigns are not for everyone, but for the well. When others get sick, that means the Campaign is not doing well, either there is a conflicting issue surmounting, or a misunderstanding that needs to be compelled. Abusive relationships are for the weak and jealous types, never engage in any response to those who are jealous of you or your successes to make right others. A sign of immaturity is lack of self-confidence, in order to do well one must be confident. Confidence attracts others to you, and that is how you do well in life. Bad Memories Are What Hurt by Leslie A. Fischman 01-15-18 Bad memories are what hurt, let your memory be your memory, and go from there. It takes time to overcome trauma. When someone you love hurts you, that’s called a breakup. You deal with it and move on, to someone who makes you feel good about yourself. The cycle of abuse occurs, when you keep going back to where it hurts, and then you get hurt, or hurt yourself or others. Its okay to walk away without a fight. You don’t have to be there for everyone. Know your personality and own it. How people are is a reflection of themselves a composite of their experiences not a composite of those who have harmed them, do not be a composite sketch of hate. Its important to always take good care of yourselves, and when there is love there is beauty, and when there is beauty there is peace, and when there is beauty there is nature at peace and calm with us. How the birds sing, when all is at peace and they are happy with us, means we are doing a good job. Know when youre well, and know when youre sick and know when to get help, that’s the best always you can do. Paranoia is caused by backwards blame and hardships caused by others on you, behind your back, that causes paranoia, and causes one to go off setting in life, appear weird to others, and makes others stay away from them. Don’t allow others to paraia you in life, why defamation is considered a crime, when you try to turn a good bad, or make a good look bad, there is bad and there is good, and there is really bad f-k ups in life, I am not one of them. Don’t f-k up your lives to please others. Always do the best that you can do, and don’t worry about those who do not care well for themselves, they are not the problem, and causes for abuse are not the causes for illness, its when you allow others to hurt or harm you you become ill with self, and not like yourself, and when that occurs, love cannot happen for self or ability to give love to others is hindered. Don’t be experimental with others, that’s an HRC issue and needs Government approval. The Red Cross now follows me. I think theyre trying to tell me not to worry about image and be real, calm know that all is well, so long as you think well, and that no one loss of support should make or break you in life, and that in order to get support you need to go to systems of support Ch. 50: You Are Your Thoughts
By: Leslie A. Fischman Never wait until it's too late to say how you feel. Anything said after the fact is deemed unnecessary if to help move forward less is more, without harping on subjects combining issues you see best forward, how. When things don't feel right that means there's something wrong in your environment or there's something that you're not doing right in your life right now. Always be sensitive to the needs of others. We only have so many supplies. It is never the victims fault. Remember that always. When there is risk taken and people involved than rejects are to blame for misinformation and bad decision making not leaders. It's when rejected we make bad decisions for ourselves and others. What you relate back to -when you physically in your mind turn around to see is not connected to you now, it's just the past, letting go is everything moving forward, don't scare yourselves, be present. How to be happy. That just means you've done something wrong or there is a probable existence of some error by or not by you. It's our job to figure out ourselves not others. When things don't feel right that means there's something wrong in your environment or there's something that you're not doing right in your life right now. Think wisely. Life goes on. Always be sensitive to the needs of others. What gets amplified gets compared. Know your rights. Always do your best. Forgiveness is everything. It's what you choose to focus on that matters most, accepted or not. Acceptance is about comfort ability with self. Know the difference between your nightmares and your dreams in life, for all to go well, pan out well in your favor. See the good in the World not just yourself. Think well. Everybody back to being you! Dont think of what could have been think of what is. When you think you know everything and end up failing yourself, that's called self-sabatoge. Don't set yourself up for problems, always stay in the solution how you get better. Doing well in life requires careful decision-making skills in order to be successful. Everyone has their moments. Some shine and some don't and that's completely okay. Be okay with yourself, and the rest should fall into place. Mental illness is not contagious. Some people have allergy to alcohol. How you communicate it affects how you communicate think. It's important to be well. You're this you're that is a sign of immaturity sober up its a long life. When you do well you'll be well. Beauty is well not sick. Beauty is stolen not taken. What is well is not sick. It's clear when someone's well or not. It's a matter of who's who always be yourself well minded mindful of the spaces of others. Always be positive to do well. And always think well thoughts of self and others to be positive minded. Never accept blame of others as your own your issues are your own not the issues of others to be of issue. Always think clear minded. Proving illness is wrong to look well better than that's what's making me sick is others mean to cause sickness to keep others away. I'm not a sick person I'm well doing well in life have always been well. LAPD says it sounds like jealousy. (2017). |
AuthorLeslie A. Fischman Please Note: I have finished writing the first draft of my first book, still editing Ch 13-25, my goal is to publish my book 2020 after I graduate, working on myself right now.
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