Chapter 26 (There will be fewer than 25 Chapter to my Book, for Organizing Purposes, I have separated my Book into many Chapters, to Separate Ideas).
Chapter 4(B): Instagram.com/leslie_fischman (Saved Quotes) By: Leslie A. Fischman 12/13/17 Life isn’t easy especially after experiencing a significant loss in life. We always try to make the best of everything moving forward. Supportive, loving, caring, and sensitive to the needs of one another. If there is one thing I’ve learned growing up, is the importance of privacy, maybe why so rebellious online now Campaigning. To me it means being there for others. Misunderstood mostly as overexposing oneself. When we are most at risk of harm is when we are quiet as to the issues that hurt the most. Talking out loud about how violence and fighting makes us feel, is important. Maybe in the immediate its not clearly understood how I’m helping, but I hope that by sharing my story I’ve made some kind of difference. *Don’t let negativity get the best of you. You will meet a lot of unhappy people in your lifetime. –That’s just a fact of life. The best you can do is be positive and never take anything too personally. Usually what people say and how they express themselves to you is a direct reflection about how they feel about themselves. Sometimes nothing to do with you. Always take that into consideration. People only see what they want to see if you don’t fit into the lives of some you will fit into the lives of others. Don’t let anyone destroy you. Remind yourself that you’re worth it. Always do your best to rise above and don’t be co-dependent on acceptance from others in order to progress and thrive. Sometimes you need to grow independent of others in order to get strong. Learn to let go of resentments and don’t pass judgments on others unless you are willing to accept judgments passed upon you. What you put out into the world you get back. Never speak badly of others, everything you say is a direct reflection of yourself and how you see things. You should not require others to see like you in order to be you. Don’t worry what other people think and never let any one person’s opinion of you bring you down. No one can lift you up in life only yourself. In order to fit in and feel normal you must first be accepting of ones self. You will meet many people in life. Only a few will care so much as to pause and help you with whatever it is you are going through in life. We call them friends. Not everyone is your friend nor can be your friend and that’s okay. You have to be accepting of others and take them for what theyre worth, the less you expect the more you get out of life. Enjoy the moment and try not to harp on the negatives. What you see is what you get. Don’t expect too much in life from others. People are only capable of giving so much. Everyone has their limits. Its not for you to determine what is fair. You will experience a lot of disappointments in life if you are constantly comparing yourself to others feeling less fortunate than. Always be grateful for what you’ve got. Change is just around the corner. Those who surround themselves with love will always be loved and appreciated. You have to give in order to receive in life. Always be reminded that you are capable of achieving anything you set your mind to. And that what you choose to focus on is where your strengths will lie and what amount of effort you put forth daily toward achieving your goals, your total output will reflect that for better or worse. Nothing can be achieved in one day which can be achieved greatly in many days, don’t overwhelm yourself by deadlines, and always try to stay ahead of schedule by accomplishing a little but each day is better than nothing at all worried and distracted by things that don’t matter, you’ll later regret all the wasted time and attention to things that interfere with the accomplishment of your goals, and only bring you momentary satisfaction in life. Achievements come at the cost of sacrificing the needs of others for yourself, or putting the needs of others before your own, its hard to focus on both, but maintaining a health balance is required to feel normal, in time, and not off center. Learn to be as patient with yourself as you are with others, time is precious, choose wisely, how you spend it, and spend it on things that matter. Life is scary if that’s what you make it out to be. You see what you want to see. Always do your best to keep it positive. We go through many different changes in perspective, outlook, and moods during any ongoing investigation. If you get scared its always okay to take a break. Never force connections, make assumptions, or create circumstances adverse to your best interests. Meaning safety comes first if you feel unsafe it is because you have been made to feel unsafe. Think about all contributing factors, from those points you may arrive at new leads or a deeper understanding of the facts presented to you, and understood. Take breaks when necessary and if you need backup never be afraid to ask for help, direct as to areas of concern, and leave no one astray, always be on the same page. Life is a test. We are constantly pushed and pulled in different directions throughout our whole lives. Testing our strength and testing the boundaries we set for ourselves. Always be mindful of your limits in life, exceed expectations, and respect the boundaries of others. We can do our best and never be good enough. That’s okay. We can do everything right, and some things may go wrong. That’s okay. Living life is all about facing those challenges, and in spite of our struggles we still manage to find success, never giving up. Life is a test. You are who you are not by what you say but by what you do. Actions speak louder than words. –If at first you “don’t succeed”, pick yourself up and try again. Never give up, for a better tomorrow. The only person you let down, when you stop trying is yourself. You only have one life to live, so make the best of it. No one is worth losing yourself over, always rise above. It’s never worth fighting for the attention of others, attention is given to those they think deserve attention. If you feel left out, then do something for yourself to better yourself so that you can be included, will be included, so that others are more accepting of you. Its’ not your responsibility to change to accommodate the needs of others, only to represent yourself best, better yourself, and do your best to be the best version of yourself, with or without certain people in your life. Relationships There’s nothing to be ashamed about when it comes to dating. We’ve all made mistakes, whats important is that you’ve learned from those mistakes and grown as a person, stronger because of your experiences in life. We all wish we waited for the one, but that simply doesn’t happen anymore. We date to know our likes and dislikes, and to determine who we are most compatible with. [Always be accepting of those who love you, and everything about them, in order to make a relationship work, for the long term]. That doesn’t mean sleep with everyone you date, but know how to set limits and boundaries between yourself and others so that they know you’re looking for Marriage, not just a casual good time. That’s how you avoid getting hurt in relationships, so long as they know what your expectations are, you are free to leave at anytime you feel that those expectations have not been met or satisfied. We always want better, but its important to do your part and be the best that you can be –if so, it will be easier to find matches in life the more well off you are and put together. Don’t be too hard on yourself and don’t be too hard on others. The fewer the expectations, the better off you both will be. Quotes Instagram (to be continued) … ---
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Chapter 25: Social Media Blogging by Leslie A. Fischman
12/09/17 Took me three years to write cohesive Blog Posts, three years writing online on Twitter practicing writing as a form of therapy and entertainment. Three years to write comfortably online no panic attacks due to stage fright or insecurities. http://www.mymollydoll.com/personal-journal/blog-writing-training One the most difficult tasks in life is to keep your head in the game focused achieving, while also being a good listener and attentive to the needs of others without allowing time spent with others to interfere with your ability to accomplish your goals in life and be focused when required to be focused to complete tasks required to achieve those goals in life and still be able to make time to maintain relationships with others and not go into isolation. Im the type of person who can only focus on one thing at a time, have difficulty taking care of others and putting their needs before my own and be able to focus achieve in life. Im not in an experimental phase in life risk taker or gambler gives me anxiety doesnt excite me makes me nervous not confident paranoid not cool. (Get Lucky (feat Pharrell Williams) by Daft Punk) -That song explains the dangers of carefree people in your company. Always best to be serious and if anyone tries to criticize you or encourage you to lighten up let loose, then they dont take you seriously and not a positive influence in your life a distraction. http://www.mymollydoll.com/personal-journal/weebly-blog-post-011315-recovered 2008 Blog Online I Read That Caused Me Concern 8/27/2014 In 2008, I read a blog online that caused me concern. Threatening my family to speak and if not grave consequences would occur. Here is my website. I hope this finds you. http://www.mymollydoll.com/personal-journal/2008-blog-online-i-read-that-caused-me-concern (A) How to Start a Blog and Maintain an Audience 3/29/2016 By: Leslie Fischman Although we like to think we are perfect writers not everything we write is going to be a masterpiece. It’s important to cite and make reference to Professional sources throughout your Blog to maintain a certain level of Professionalism. If you don’t have a Blog, try citing to other people’s Blogs. When I first started blogging I relied heavily on those sources for material everyday on my Blog (i.e. Bloglovin, Tumblr). However, eventually you must incorporate your own work too. One of the first places I went to upload my work to was Weebly. Weebly is a great, easy to use website, for beginners with no coding experience. There you can build a website and show case your work and writing via the various formats and tools they have to offer. Once you build and create a website then you can post from your website and blogs to your other newsfeeds on Twitter, Facebook, Bloglovin, Pinterest, etc. -When you post to your newsfeeds make sure you use links, links that come with boxes, if there are no boxes, find and upload a photo to accompany your post and link, to help make everything look complete. Links with photos not only look more Professional but it also captures the attention of your followers and potential followers via hashtags you incorporate, on a newsfeed. When you post don’t forget to include a “via” indicating the source, if not your own, to give credit to the original source of the post. -All of these skills are important to maintaining an audience: Professionalism, organization, citation, knowledge, and adequate use of the various social media platforms to promote your blog. http://www.mymollydoll.com/blog/how-to-start-a-blog-and-maintain-an-audience (B) How to Maintain a Successful Blog by Leslie Fischman 10/28/2016 According to Entrepreneur Magazine there are “6 Strategies for Maintaining a Successful Blog.” Those strategies include: Pick a Target Audience: “Focusing on a niche audience and developing appropriate content specifically for those people helps to ensure there will be strong interest in your blog's content.”[1] Be Unique: “your primary and ongoing goal should be to continuously develop innovative content and put a truly unique spin on whatever topic you're blogging about.” Its your responsibility to, “incorporate your knowledge, voice and personality into your blog … to set it apart from your competition.”[2] It’s important therefore to create content that isn’t already readily available on the web. Update Your Blog Regularly: “To build and maintain a steady audience, regularly add new content to your blog. Every new blog entry should cater to your blog's target audience, offer content that's perceived as valuable, and build upon previously published content.”[3] This requires to stay on point with your target audience, and know your audience well. Sometimes this requires you to adapt and change based upon what your audiences needs are. Be an Interactive Online Community: “Encourage your audience to post feedback and comments, interact with each other, share their ideas, and enhance your content by adding their own information.”[4] This can be done, via Share buttons to the various other Social Media Websites. Promote Your Blog Continuously: “Many of the world's most successful bloggers have relied on the mainstream media to generate publicity for their blog to help build an audience.” Therefore it is important that you promote your blog “on an ongoing basis [they say] is as important as regularly adding new content.”[5] Keep it Professional: “Always convey a professional image, regardless of the subject matter or your audience. The look and overall design of your blog should be professional, and easy to read and understand.”[6] [1] https://www.entrepreneur.com/article/232478 [2] Id. [3] Id. [4] Id. [5] Id. [6] Id. http://www.mymollydoll.com/blog/how-to-maintain-a-successful-blog-by-leslie-fischman (C) What is Blahgging? 9/21/2016 Blogging is very taboo. And often times, people discourage blogging as a form of therapy or self-help. Blogging to me is an outlet from which I can support myself and support others, as I grow and learn from my troubles in life. I don’t think that blogging is a waste of time. While some may see it as blahgging, I think that blogging has a great deal of value. It really helps you to get to know yourself and helps others get to know you better. Not on an intimate level, not on a personal level, but for me, on a Professional level. Blogging has been a way for me to demonstrate my work ethic, my dedication, and my interests in writing and being a professional writer (a Paralegal). -I have enjoyed writing my blogs and hope that they have been helpful similarly to my readers on their journeys in life. (D) Joining a Blogging Platform 10/30/2016 Our last article was about choosing the space in which you write and the importance of the space you choose to write and why. Now let’s talk joining a blogging platform. There are a few to choose from, depending on what your content is like, and whether you are trying to make money blogging, you may want to apply to a platform in that case to publish to in order to get paid for your pieces. But if you’re like me and choose to make money either by ads, products, and/or services then you need to join a blogging platform. (1) First, let’s start with: “What’s a Blogging Platform?” According to Google: “A blogging platform is the software or service that you use to publish your content onto the internet in the form of a blog. A blog platform is a specific form of a content management system.”[1] The Top Ten Best Blogging Sites of 2016, are as follows: http://www.websitebuildertop10.com/start-a-free-blog - You probably haven’t heard of any of them, as they are lesser known than some other popular Social Media Websites that we all know well. So let’s start with some Blogging Platforms that you know well, or probably have heard of, and then you be the judge of what the differences are and which route you prefer to go. If you want to know more about the difference between a blogging platform and a website, please check out this article: https://www.thebalance.com/what-is-a-blogging-platform-2531835 (2) Examples of Blogging Platforms The “Top 5 Free Blogging Platforms” according to www.thebalance.com are as follows: Wordpress (Example: www.mymollydollblog.wordpress.com) Blogger (Example: www.lesliefischman.blogspot.com) Tumblr (Example: www.mymollydoll.tumblr.com) Blog.com Medium.com For more information, details, and differences between these platforms, go to: https://www.thebalance.com/top-free-best-blogging-platforms-2531530 (3) Why is it Important to Blog on a Blogging Platform and NOT a Website? Well the whole purpose of blogging is to get people to read your work. So it becomes difficult to get people to read your work if its in a separate space on its own and not within a blogging platform network of people blogging, which you can hashtag and share amongst. But that doesn’t mean that you can’t blog on a Website. Two great places to build websites, now trending are: Weebly and Squarespace. vs. Two great places to Blog (i.e. Blogging Platforms) are: Tumblr and Wordpress. (4) What to Blog, What Not to Blog? My Mom even wanted to send me to a Therapist once a week Dr. Michelle Cohen (Therapist) in order to go over the Do’s and Don’ts of Blogging, and what not to Blog. I should know by now, considering that I have been writing online for 4 years, and have over 300k+ People on my Hashtags combined, but I continue to just write from the heart. Not the best advice! I may be popular, but I’m doing my best to be a better role model. I share a lot online and I DO NOT recommend sharing a lot of personal information online, and neither does my Mom, in fact she reminds me almost everyday not to write anything too personal online, as she reads my blogs daily, I guess that makes her one of my editors, and toughest critic. She’s a Grandma now, so I feel bad that she is still monitoring her 31 year old Daughter’s Social Media Accounts, but at least it keeps her active and on her toes. A little bit of nagging goes a long way, nothing to complain about, always take all advice with a grain of salt UNLESS it’s your Parents complaining then delete delete delete hide hide hide “only me” your posts on Facebook, Twitter, Tumblr, etc. This is also another good reason for hashtagging, within you posts, so that you can find your posts later, when referenced to. For easy editing and modification. According to www.thebalance.com there is a difference between blogging for personal use and blogging for business purposes. As some sites prohibit the use of personal blogging space for business purposes. In fact, they state: “When it comes to many free blogging platforms, you are only allowed to use your blog for personal use and not allowed to use it for business purposes. If you plan on making money with your blog you'll want to be sure you're using a blog that allows commercial use or simply self-host your blog on your own hosting account as mentioned above.”[2] For more information about Blogging Platforms and How to Make Money Blogging Online, I suggest reading the following articles: [1] https://www.thebalance.com/what-is-a-blogging-platform-2531835 [2] https://www.thebalance.com/what-is-a-blogging-platform-2531835 https://t.co/iR2Xpf3bgl - 51 Blogging and Publishing Platforms #BloggingCampaign #BloggingTips #Blogging #Bloggers #Blog #MYMOLLYDOLL — MYMOLLYDOLL (@mymollydoll) October 31, 2016 https://t.co/T1rUb3I7uF - Make Money Writing #BloggingCampaign #BloggingTips #Blogging #Bloggers #FBloggers #Blog #Writing #MYMOLLYDOLL — MYMOLLYDOLL (@mymollydoll) October 31, 2016 How to Choose the Best Blogging Platform for You - https://t.co/4xgbNn0AIt via the @Shareaholic blog #BloggingTips #Blogging #MYMOLLYDOLL — MYMOLLYDOLL (@mymollydoll) October 31, 2016 The 18 best blogging sites and publishing platforms on the internet today https://t.co/dV7K8EdQS0 via @thenextweb #BloggingTips #Blogging — MYMOLLYDOLL (@mymollydoll) October 31, 2016 (E) Why I Started Fashion Blogging After 3 years of being a Writer on Twitter I decided to start Fashion Blogging. At first I photo’d myself daily on my way to Work and slowly developed a Following on Twitter. I only had 400 Followers at the time, but knew I wanted to make a difference and be able to help raise money and support Brady Campaign thru Fashion Blogging. How did I get started? I got started studying Affiliate Marketing Online and learning the Business. I joined Glambassadors and realized I needed to be an Influencer to run Campaigns Online. After joining Glambassadors I also joined Bloglovin Activate which similarly offers opportunities for Influencers to join Campaigns and Promote products online. That is when I opened a Shopify Website and applied to Net-a-Porter and Shopstyle. What I didn’t realize was that these Companies require Blogs in order to sign with them as an Affiliate. In order to groom myself for the position at Shopstyle and Net-a-Porter I decided to start this Fashion Blog and build a new Website mymollydoll.org to showcase my Work Online as a Fashion Database Manager, and Style Curator to Sassique. I am also an Amazon Associate and Ambassador to Zindigo and Sol Theory. I’m just getting started but I hope that by sharing my experiences will help others who are just getting started Fashion Blogging and learning the Business. 6/28/16 https://lesliefischman.tumblr.com/post/147455411497/why-i-started-fashionblogging-by-lesliefischman http://www.mymollydoll.com/blog/why-i-started-fashion-blogging-by-leslie-fischman-tumblr (F) Blogging Tips 3/5/2016 21 Tips for Getting Started on Twitter as an Influencer By: Leslie Fischman Tips for Writing on Twitter and Maintaining a Following Blogging Tip #1: Keep a journal to Record your Progress and Set Daily Goals Blogging Tip #2: Keep Track of all your Used Material & Don’t Re-Blog anything more than 3 times. Blogging Tip #3: Never count your Followers per day just sign up for Sprout Social – what matters most is that you have a Schedule to stick to. Blogging Tip #4: Don’t over Mention your Favorites, once in awhile is okay but not too much. Remember your Twitter Etiquette. Blogging Tip #5: For every Follower I lose, I edit, delete, and change Tempo. Blogging Tip #6: Retweet Sparingly, to maintain a Following don’t overwhelm them with Retweets they are Following you because they want to hear from you. Blogging Tip #7: Be careful what you write on Twitter because it shows up in your Google Search. Represent yourself well at all times. Blogging Tip #8: Its important to keep a Journal to track your progress so you can #blog about it later once you find success! Blogging Tip #9: Twitter is a very specialized kind of Blogging you are the traffic controller of people short on patience, be contentious. Blogging Tip #10: The easier you can navigate the Web the easier your viewer can navigate, don’t share crap only the best research, be thoughtful. Blogging Tip #11: The Quality of your content determines your success as a Blogger. Know your sources, be mindful of your Audiences needs. Blogging Tip #12: Handwriting is a good way to slow things down and focus on your writing itself. Its easy to get carried away at the computer being too wordy. To put your best foot forward, write sharp, clear, and concise, online it is especially necessary to do so. -Handwriting forces me to do everything twice. For Publishing Online that’s a great trait! -Handwrite, type, then Post! Blogging Tip #13: If you can, you should always condense your material to one Tweet if possible, avoid series Tweets, helps to stay organized. (G) Becoming a Brand Ambassador Blogging Tip #14: Prior to registering for any Influencer Campaigns make sure you are first Registered as an Ambassador with an Organization. (Example: Glambassadors). Blogging Tip #15: Once you are registered with an Organization (i.e. Glambassadors, Bloglovin Activate) make sure you apply with your Website (i.e. Wordpress, Weebly, Tumblr, Twitter) not an Affiliate Marketing Website (i.e. Shopify unless it is complete with a Blog and appears as any of your other Websites demonstrates your work ethic as a Writer and Love for Fashion). To be an Influencer you must have a Blog, that can be viewed at the time of Application. This is a requirement for places like (Example: ShopStyle, RewardStyle). Blogging Tip #16: Image is everything. Make sure you are put together and well organized have a clear vision on paper before you apply, so they know you’re ready. Blogging Tip #17: Make sure your contact email on your website is different from all your other emails to keep track of Inquiries, and know from which Websites they are inquiring from. Blogging Tip #18: It’s okay to have multiple identities Online, so long as you are organized have a cohesive vision (i.e. School, Personal, and Fashion). Blogging Tip #19: myshopify is a New Platform -you need to razzel dazzle them if you’re trying anything new out of the ordinary. Blogging Tip #20: When a Company asks for an Influencer they want you as a Brand be put together not an empty Storefront. Blogging Tip #21: Nothing is obvious about Affiliate Marketing it sounds simple but very complicated hard to get into, don’t give up, and regroup. http://www.mymollydoll.com/blog/blogging-tips-by-mymollydoll Facebook Heading: Chapter 25: Social Media Blogging by Leslie A. Fischman #lesliefischman Chapter 24: Relationships While Working, Dating, and Communication by Leslie A. Fischman 12/09/1712/9/2017 Chapter 24: Relationships While Working, Dating, and Communication
By Leslie A. Fischman 12/09/17 It's about what you're about, not who you're about, what you know, not who you know, what you recall, what you think affects what you know therefore what you know is a product of you, and what's known about u -then is what you know representative of who you are? (A) Dating I think its really difficult to be in relationships when you are working on yourself and trying to come up in life and find your way. Its really difficult to be close to anyone and at the same time find a job, maintain a job, and still find time to enjoy a social life. Right now my social life consists on writing online and keeping in touch with the friends I make along the way who have been very supportive of me, followed, liked my posts, and corresponded with me, checked in. Its really unfortunate when you are doing well and you are not able to share that happiness with another and for whatever reasons the one you love is not able to share that happiness with you. Everything takes time to develop including what it and what is not, who we are, and who we are in the lives of others, particularly our significant others if and when we find them. Not everything in life in times perfectly and most of the time everything occurs at the wrong time due to poor timing. In order for things to occur on track and on our own best timing, well that is different for every individual. For me my best timing is when everyone around me is happy. But life doesn’t always work out that way. I wish that my life was different than it is today. I wish that I never Campaigned and just lead a normal life. I wish that I never dated in Law School and stuck to my gut instinct which was that I was not able nor ready to maintain an intimate relationship and at the same time focus on school. But at the time I put the needs of someone else’s before my own. When this occurs we are told that everything will come back to us tenfold and that our good deeds do not go unnoticed and that when we put others before ourselves that this means that in the end or somewhere down the line we are to benefit from that experience and those choices we made in life (to put others before ourselves). Eventually you get tired. When this occurs its important to step back, breathe, reassess things, and move forward. Pretending like everything is okay when its not. Or pretending like your feelings are not hurt when they are. Solves nothing. Particularly in terms your ability to communicate with loved ones or significant others. Less is more. The more we try to fix things and the more we try to buffer misunderstandings with excuses, and the more we try to be accepted the less likely those things are to occur. Why is that? Because a person who tries to hard is seen as compensating for some weakness or trying to hard to overcome some obstacle (negative) or trying to overcompensate make positive a life which they assume was not going well (or negative) which is the cause for their current circumstances. Not everything that goes wrong in our lives is to our own fault or at our own expense, usually when bad things happen not only may we be harmed but also those around us may be harmed too. Its important never to play Victim when you are the Victim, this usually breeds animosity towards you as trying to situate yourself as disabled or less capable than the rest and in need. People who are in need are generally characterized as physically or mentally incapacitated to the extent that they need or rely on others to take care of them, guide them, help them, for instance Victims. If you do not fit the mold of someone who could potentially be Victimized, you will not be seen as a Victim, but as a cause for your current circumstances and a product of the choices you have made in your life which you are expected to take responsibility for and correct on your own best timing. This is unfortunate. Many opportunities in life are wasted or passed when we are misunderstood and when we are harmed. Its really not the responsibility of the Victim to defend themselves. But here I am. Goodnight everyone, and hope you have a great day tomorrow. And remember to smile and be appreciative of all your blessings in life and those who are in your lives and not to worry about those who chose not to be apart of your life. Ive always been the most popular whatever school I go to or whatever town Im in. That’s just me. So I know something is wrong when someone who is kind to me at one point, chooses not to associate with me at another point in time. And that’s for me to figure out and is really none of anyone else’s business but mine. All I can do is be myself to the best of my ability and live life without or without people in my life. Without or without their guidance, acceptance, love, understanding, or consideration. When you are down, when you put yourself out there, you can only be harmed, not benefit when situated in a weakened stance by failure, mishap, rejection, or misfortune. Bad luck occurs and its to ones own responsibility to turn their luck around, not rely on others to help enable that to occur. You are what you attract in life. Reference: http://www.mymollydoll.com/blog/relationships-by-leslie-fischman-081716 (B) Relationships Not all relationships begin the same way and each has its own stages. Not occurring the same in every, but unique to each individual we meet in life. Why is that? For every experience that we have we have a new beginning in life, the lessons we learn from previous interactions with others, help to improve the basis upon which we make decisions in future interactions and relationships. A relationship is not defined solely on the intimacy that exists between between two people but can also vary in terms of closeness. In some relationships we desire closeness in others the opposite distance. It does not matter who attaches to us, for every relationships fosters our personal growth, both positive and negative. What does matter is to whom we attach to. To whom where and why we attach may often time baffle us, why attach to negatives, and why so few positives. Why are we so affected by those we do not get along with, and why is it so difficult to develop healthy attachments to those we do get along with. What is it about negative interactions that gets under our skin, that interferes with our ability to attach to the positives in our life. This is one area of relationships that has constantly created disturbance in my life and to the relationships that helped foster my growth, interfering with my ability to attach, because relationships to which negatives resulted from interfered with my ability to maintain current positive relationships and form new bonds and positive relationships. What I learned from these experiences was to not be too concerned with why I did not get along with these individuals and instead focus my attention on what it is that they said to me that caused me disturbance and interfered with my ability to achieve happiness in my life. Reference: http://www.mymollydoll.com/blog/chapter-relationships-draft-book-by-lesliefischman-061016 (C) Breakups One question you always ask yourself when confronted with disillusion, is whether or not you were at fault for the demise of a relationship, which dissolved before you had a chance to save a relationship from falling apart. Sometimes things occur when we least expect it. Not always in our favor but sometimes, to do us a disservice in life, these life experiences we call challenges in life. When circumstances, persons, or things occur to which we do not have a finite understanding of why or how, and we just have to learn how to accept things the way they are without further investigation. I am never one to investigate the faults of others or reasons for the demise of relationships and always move forward and let go. However when the harm resulting from that loss is recurring, then I know it was not me that was at fault if he is still so affected after I have already let go and moved on unaffected by him. When there is room for discussion and discussion is not made, than at no later point in time is discussion or continuation for discussion required on your behalf to anyone who has not given you the opportunity to be heard or left room for discussion. Where one assumes and one is harmed as a result of those assumptions, than the other is not liable for the harm resulting from those assumptions made upon the character of another. (D) Does Dating Come With a Map? My Bit on Relationships (Originally Posted 12/18/13) Leslie Fischman Um, does dating come with a Map, because I think I make sense, but apparently I'm still a little rough around the edges, always been a tomboy, that won't change, fill my closet with high heels and fancy blouses, all I need is my desk and my brain to function optimally. Its hard for me to start a new relationship because I am often clouded by emotions and negative thoughts or comments that get triggered, and then re-triggered when out in public, because I get paranoid, I think people are watching me and trying to see if they get the same result, a negative reaction (that just makes me want to drink), and makes me feel more insecure about myself, why I spend the majority of my time alone in my apartment, the reaction wouldnt have occurred if I wasn't triggered (but no one will admit to laughing in my face, or staring at me funny, they'll just find satisfaction in me reacting negatively, which is when I start talking to myself and being weird, when Im made to feel uncomfortable in my own skin), never been overly critical of others, just of myself, but when the reverse occurred, it wasnt anything I havent already felt or been said to my face before. Just in case you were wondering, I'm not proud of myself, and since everyone is embarrassed by me, I dont want to embarrass you, or people to think you are dating a loser, because I dont have a job, yet. Thats why I'm quiet. | Thoughts for today | Chapter 23: Dealing with Negativity by Leslie A. Fischman
12/09/17 Always be open to the criticisms of others. Usually people who comment are people who care. Sometimes helpful sometimes not. Take what you need from it and always strengthen yourself. It never hurts to listen to others so long as you know you best there's nothing anyone can say to change the way you feel about yourself, it shouldn't make you feel less than, but thought of ... that's always a compliment. At the end of the day, the goal is to better yourself in relationship to others. Always do your best. Be the best version of yourself. Some days may not be your best days. It's important not to take your anger and frustrations out on others who are also trying to live their lives and stay strong. Always be positive. Others will appreciate you more for it. When you live a great life you'll be sure to be surrounded by others too who live well for themselves and for those they care for. Never react in reaction to others. What people think should not matter to you. Never let anyone affect you. What people think is generally none of your business. Sometimes you don't always know why and for what reasons. Only time can tell. What's in your best interests may not be the same for all. What benefits your position in life may not be to the benefit of all if your successes interfere with their ability to succeed, that is called competition. Competition is never an excuse for failure or for treating others badly or poorly. Always do your best under all circumstances to choose wisely your thoughts. From which memories persist in your mind are all that matter not the memories of you that persist in the minds of others about you. Only you can change your view of self your change in your view of yourself comes before others change their views about you. Not all will like you but no one persons negative opinion of you should hurt you so bad you hurt yourself and don't achieve or function in life, that would be inhumane. All people deserve to be treated well, all peoples thoughts matter, no matter who they are, mentally ill or not, should never be treated poorly by others. Always best to keep to yourself. Engage with others only when you're doing well successful otherwise you run chances of colliding with misinformation and hostility because of misinformation. Appreciate the light that you're in. You're side of the street is always greener. You should never want to be anyone other than yourself. -When you compare yourself to others the only person who brings you down is you. Never let your character fall victim to poor choices. Good character is built upon strong foundations. And a true test of character is how you respond to others: (1) on your worst days (2) on your best days (3) under pressure (4) in times of need (5) when defensive (6) when you're up (7) and when you're down. Never lose sight of yourself first and secondly those that matter to you, upon all other things -should fall into place. Achieving a break from the norm requires that you do everything you can to achieve your best. Then it so follows that you have time to enjoy life and the blessings that life has to offer. Only through disciplined activities can we achieve this. Sometimes living a normal life is best without all the excitement. Risks in life don't always bring reward. Instead take your time. Recognize first within what is bothering you before disrupting the progress of others with your problems. Never make your problems the problems of others. When we are selfish we forget how we affect people. Try to always be compassionate and understanding of the time of others. People don’t have all day to wait for you to come around, sometimes you have to take it upon yourself to please others in that respect. It’s not always about you in life, sometimes life is about people pleasing. You can't change who you are you can only move forward in life: accept your past not ruminate over it and preserve your future happiness by doing today what will bring you happiness tomorrow. Usually it follows that understanding brings compassion for others as well as empathy. Who we care for is determined by what we so choose to care about in life. If what we choose to care about in life brings us more compassion for others, then that's how one understands the concept of empathy, caring for others. Don't be easily fooled by others. You know you best. It's easy to succumb to the wrong interpretations of others and set bad expectations of ourselves, that interfere with our progress moving forward. That's called a guilty consciousness you bear for the wrongs of others toward you who are not in agreement with you and cannot stand to see you succeed in life. That's not competition that's just pure rivalry. Success comes with competitive vibes that's hostility coupled with grandiosity in your face anything to bring you down to size or make you feel small compared to them. You should not be bothered by others. Always focus on yourself. When you are focused on yourself nothing affects you not even people who are negative towards you. Facebook Heading: Chapter 23: Dealing with Negativity by Leslie A. Fischman #lesliefischman Chapter 22: When Something Bad Happens by Leslie A. Fischman 12/08/17
Whenever something bad happens. Sometimes it's what you think that causes you to become worried. In that case best to listen to others, who are doing well. Nothing you create in your mind negative can turn things around for you in life into the positive. Its what you do that matters. What you do for yourself and others, those you care for and provide assistance to during trying times. Best to take care of yourself before making amends with others. Nothing positive can become of negative reactions. Never underestimate the power and importance of focusing on now. What's in front of you not what's behind you. The only way to move forward in life is through disciplined activities. All other things follow suit, when you yourself are doing well. Always do your best to respond with tact. Take what you need. Its really sad when loss equals equality of purpose in life. When loss gives meaning to life. And when losses are required to help people see better. That's always a sad consequence. But never the end result. Just something else we must overcome. Never give up hope. Sometimes we have to look forward to the times we remember best not recall the times we regret in order to move forward in life. What we represent now is all it takes in order to do what is required of us now to move forward in life and succeed with purpose and be on time in life. Being on time in life, means doing what is required of us. When we do what is required of us and follow laws, we are always prepared in advance for whatever comes our way. Never lose faith for tomorrow and the next day. "Tomorrow and the next day" meaning ... when we plan too far ahead we lose sight of what's important to us right now, what's in front of us moving forward, our indecisiveness for our future is based upon the decisions we make for ourselves and others presently as we see fit. That reflects how much we care for ourselves and for others. Always do what is in your best interests and in the best interests of others in order for things to turn out well overall. Whenever any one person hurts we all hurt, that's the meaning of #worldpeace, never let the weather bring us down, stay strong, and don't let fear take over. Always be in control says my Mom. The weather does not control us. We are always in control. You never know the true value of anything until you lose everything or until the threat of loss of everything you own. Every failure in life has their excuses for hardship. Either blames their upbringing or those who advise them never taking responsibility for their own misconduct or hardships in life. To those I cannot relate. There's a wildfire today. So in the spirit of discovery I will write to them. It is understandable for the concerns they have as to my mental health and well being they are not the causes for my mental illness nor the causes for the #CaliforniaWildfires, the #CaliforniaWildfires if to be blamed on anyone's behalf would be because of #NorthKorea threatening us. Today we pray for the homes we've lost. The new friends we've made. And the new peace we've managed to achieve and coverage sought for our errors, wrongs, disbeliefs, shortcomings, failures, upsets, angers, and fingers pointed, even with houses under fire still blaming natural causes upon one another; war is never the answer to resolve illness or hardships caused by natural causes. That is not how to resolve illness. That is not how to resolve hardship. That is not how to resolve war. That is not how to resolve weaknesses. That is not how to strengthen ones character. That is not how to live life. By hurting others or oneself. Or by putting others up or down. Take care of yourself. #WorldPeace #CaliforniaWildfires –What I think those who face hardships would be mindful of, looking at my progress, as a blogger with mental health issues, what to think and focus on, best advice given is usually the best advice taken, during difficult times. (A) How to Repent Repent for your sins. Your splashed paints and your selfishness. Repent for your lost sense of hope and your angered days. Repent for following the wrong ideas and holding false beliefs about others you held certain. Forget about your pasts and forgive those you've resented. Forget about those you've hated. Think about those who are alive. Forget about those who have passed, and remember their beings not relish in the glory of their purposes for dying. There is no purpose for dying that should be for a purpose other than for natural causes, if not, than by crimes punishable crimes and offenses. These are truths we hold self evident those are certainties that can be relied upon says the FBIDC trust always the Law and your Family first, your Friends second, and Strangers last. It's never the victims fault. There's no one to blame for your troubles not you not anyone. Best you can do is move forward. During times of concern blame upon others only sets you and others back in time. When you fall behind the only one you hurt is yourself. Don't sell yourself short in life. -Given that, what you relate to: (1) yourself (2) the times (3) your understanding (4) is your responsibility NEVER (a) the responsibility of others and (b) never to the blame of others for your hardships trying to understand (i) causes and (ii) consequences. Everyone is responsible for their own choices in life: my choices are to: (1) marry (2) blog (3) write (4) campaign (5) volunteer (6) date (7) maintain sobriety (8) stay close to family and friends (9) maintain loyalty to my country (10) write iMovies (11) tell jokes (12) be supportive (13) keep a website (14) socialize when I feel like it (15) stay home. Your faith goes through a lot of changes in life. It twists and it turns. Meaning sometimes you think you're on path on a positive route of thinking and then sometimes the opposite occurs when you are reading the minds of others not your own thoughts but the thoughts of others. This all too often occurs to people pleasers. People who will say negative things to please negative people then correct negativity with positivity. That's not the solution. But just noticed that pattern today. Always be thankful for what you have in life. Life is short. Gifts are seldom given to those who given in to sin. Remember that always. Remember to always be thankful for those who were there for you when you were down. Grateful for #AA. The other side is really just 30 year olds who experienced terrorism. The 20 year olds experienced school shootings. I'm here to help both generations cope. It's an unfortunate set of circumstances. But if we just work together everything will work itself out. Just have faith. That's so important for positive outcomes to arrive. It's what we derive our causes from, from our esteems need be based on solid principles good sound bases of judgment moving forward. There's nothing you can do to turn back time. There's nothing you can do to undo the past. There's nothing you can do to take back words spoken. There's nothing you can do when actions are not taken. There's nothing you can do when preventative measures are not taken. And most of all there's nothing you can do when you feel helpless. Just accept the times, where you are, what you've got, who you're with, what you have, and where you're going in life, that's all you've got left to live for is here and now. Time for everyone to move forward. The past is the past is the past is the past if not reused for creative purposes ONLY should be left in the past if not put to good use forward presented with class, gratitude, and perseverance and a supportive attitude. (B) Respect Always be respectful of the spaces of others. You never know to whom may take offense. Be mindful of the opinions that others hold of you. It may be difficult for you to comprehend that you are not well liked by all but you are surely well liked by some if not by few and if not by few by just enough to get you by in life. Never lose faith, and never stop working on yourself. Do your best, when you're at you're best, others will want to be around you too. Never assume anything in life. Not even the thoughts of others. Always be open to changes in opinion. Just as your opinions change so do the opinions of others about you. Not everything is about you in life. Remind yourself of that. People have lost homes, pets, family members, valuables, life is precious so are things. Be thankful for everything that you have in life. Some people have less. -If you deserve it you will earn it. If you don't deserve it then work harder for it. Life is full of lessons to be learned. Some the hard way. Easy does it. When you're feeling down and the odds are against you, keep going, that's when you're on the brink of self-discovery. No one ever improved resting on their laurels or by getting down on themselves. It's when we overcome hurdles in life we learn the most about ourselves. There will be better days. Remind yourself of that. When you feel lost, when you feel down, when you feel like no one is listening there is always a way out back to sanity. No path is permanent in life. We are all capable of change. Respect is sometimes about love. If you don’t love someone chances are you wont respect them. Respect can also be about liking qualities about someone. Therefore if you don’t like qualities about them you wont respect them. Respect can also be about money. If they don’t have something that you want then you wont respect them. -Haters pick and choose who they respect. But good people respect all people. Always be please by the progress of others only your own disappointments with others can bring you down not other who are disappointing. –Inner circles are not small worls, small worlds are not based on inner circles, inner circles are not in control of small worlds, small worlds do not create inner circles, inner circles are not comprised of small worlds, small worlds do not make inner circles. –However when a natural disaster strikes, usually everyone is affected. That is because the causes are unknown, and when causes are unknown, it leads to trauma, and thoughts being provokes, i.e. torment and cases of traumatized thinking patterns, that have the possibility to lead to mental illness, the spread of. Why its important to understand the effects of trauma, to know how to help. –Natural disasters are hard to accept, from what point does a state of paranoia begin, and to whom and why does that have an affect on the general interpretations of others or does it have an affect at all, that is the question, only the professionals understand these concepts. –We often blame people for events that don’t make sense or we cant comprehend we look above to agencies, groups, organizations, and eventually God, and ask why? It’s normal to feel anger, sadness following disaster, and to cry. You shouldn’t care if people don’t like you because negative thoughts about self guided by others can cause mental illness or hatred for oneself or a false set of beliefs as to what others think and say about you behind your back, aka delusions self fulfilling prophecies. –Or stuff you think but don’t say because its mean to make people look stupid feel stupid generally. I see now the best way forward is to participate always … I stayed quiet in school for too long (2008-2013). When somebody just because of who you are treats you as less than and because you are treated as less than it interferes with your ability to achieve in life, is called sexism. There’s no excuse for it. All Women are smart. All people should be treated equally in the workforce regardless of their level of social and emotional intelligence, be treated professionally, for the skills they have to offer, not based on attraction or ability to promote a business based upon looks. –Its ones professional demeanor that shines. We all have moments of inspirations when we feel like the world is at our fingertips. Then something hits us and suddenly everything feels impossible. One day at a time. Life's all about setting goals for yourself: short term, and long term goals. The more you accomplish each day the better you'll feel tomorrow day in and day out. Facebook Heading: Chapter 22: When Something Bad Happens by Leslie A. Fischman #lesliefischman (Book) Chapters 21-25 will be on Crisis Management and Blogging. My Book will be 25 Chapters long. There will be and Introduction and an Afterword. The book will be complete by the end of December. I am typing Chapter 21 today from my notes. #CaliforniaWildfires, my prayers are with you! Sincerely, Leslie A. Fischman ---------------------- Chapter 21: Crisis Management by Leslie A. Fischman 12/09/17 (Written Originally in part 02/01/17). “Establish[ing] a state of readiness to respond to extreme events that could affect the community” are the purposes for “emergency preparedness.” For purposes of protecting the “health and safety” of individuals as well as the structures that support them such as social media. Social Media has played a fundamental role in emergency preparedness, establishing a framework for communications which help protect the “health and safety” of its participants. One of the primary goals is to “protect [the] public and private property” of individuals within the community, and build the necessary infrastructure that helps to “minimize the disruption of community acitivities.” (Ch. 9 Preparedness for Emergency Response, https://training.fema.gov). During the “conceptual design state of a system,” is when its important to address the problem areas and areas of concern. 2016, I met with the President of Brady Campaign LA and pitched to her my idea for a Campaign, an Entertainment based Campaign, which she approved of, and then went on to suggest changing my hashtag to something more general, which is when I changed my hashtag to #bloggingcampaign. At the time, my concerns were: blogging, databases, and gun violence prevention advocacy which I felt was lacking and in need of assistance, a campaign for campaigns, that was quote based. My campaign was designed by me for Brady Campaign, and was later called in to Volunteer for Moms Demand, a Grassroots Organizations dedicated to Gunsense Legislation. -Based upon my experiences in crisis, a secondary victim to homicide in 1994, I decided to focus on other areas of concern, not just gun violence itself. –How we communicate, support one another and process events is key to reducing recidivism. It requires more than just counterterrorism efforts, but requires a building of unique communications (Quotes and Symbolism) “infrastructure” among those within the helping professions, professionals. By “training” I am qualified to not only provide crisis hotline counseling services online but also qualified to blog in states of crises. I was a volunteer for MESA Moving to End Sexual Assault (2004-2006) while a College Student, and was Certified and Trained in the State of Colorado to service a crisis hotline. –Therefore while blogging, it was my belief that by blogging I could help professionals. Especially those in crisis among the helping professions, train newcomers and get training as a Leader for Moms Demand, how to assist those in crises current. –It is especially important among members of the helping professions to respond and understand on a subconscious level to what they are responding to, causing us mental illness and disease, within our environment. Usually it follows that when the surrounding areas are in a state of crisis, those within are equally affected. Nancy Boyd Webb explains, in School-Based Crisis Intervention, that “those who experienced violence in the past” are “directly affected” and those who can “identify” most are those in connection with, whereas those “further away from the center circle” enter a state of “shoc[k] and saddened by what happened.” (282) –Similarly professionals in the helping professions, are equally affected, some experiencing what Webb describes as: “ “vicarious trauma” (Pearlman & Saakvitne, 1995), “compassion fatigue (Figley, 1995), “disaster distress” (Miller, 2012), and general burnout.” (282). –Therefore she explains, its common for “interventions [to take place] with[in] people in the inner circles” which she states “must necessarily take place in the context of the larger social ecology of the disaster [such as through] … the interaction among an event, people, and their community as they are shaped by social, political, historical, cultural, and economic forces.” (282) This “ecology” she states includes “social networks,” such as Twitter, Facebook, Instagram, Tumblr, Weebly, Pinterest, Wordpress, and other social networking platforms online. It is my belief that those with a duty to respond should always respond during states of crises, especially those who operate networks, how they show they: care, are doing their best, and respond to our needs to feel safe. Reference: www.barnesandnoble.com/w/play-therapy-with-children-and-adolescents-in-crisis-fourth-edition-nancy-boyd-webb/1124303589 (A) Interpretation We're not sure what it is not reading into things too much or paranoia or misinterpreatation thats at issue but building a better understanding of how people make decisions or standrards through which they make their interpretations are whats most important in understanding the decisions for which they pass judgment make opinions and direct themselves or others in their life and throughout that is of concern. Best to lead oneself best is the best measure from which to determine anothers ability to lead is by how they lead themselves to be lead by association is the weakest justification for basing decisions or the process for which decisions are made but best made based on a basic understanding of the curcumstances as well as any prime examples tertiary examples of anything relevant or specific instances in which that was the case either like or not like or similar or relevant that add to justify compromise support take down render insignificant the processes through which any future decisions were made and acts committed to determine best for example the significance of interpretation in relationship to causes for consequences and decisions made based on that interpretation. Reference: http://www.mymollydoll.com/personal-journal/finding-a-cure-for-interpretosis (B) Responding to Crisis Finding yourself is one thing. Identifying yourself as a Blogger is another thing. "You don’t know what you’ve got til its gone". (Lyrics to an Erykah Badu or Janet Jackson Song). As a Writer on Twitter for many years I had no idea that what I was writing was considered blog worthy material. Never underestimate yourself. What is trash to some may be of value to others. I first learned this sharing on Instagram and Facebook. You don’t always get the most likes on Twitter, and participation often comes in another form –visits to your website. Twitter is more of a promotional tool than a tool for accurately measuring popularity rankings via likes and reblogs, but by Impressions (Twitter Analytics) & how many Followers you have. Getting a new Follower on Twitter is like the equivalent of likes and comments on Instagram. Valuable. *Here are The Steps I Took to Identifying Myself as a Blogger Online: (1) Is what you have to say of value? If what you have to say is of value than you may consider yourself a blogger. And choose to one day start a Wordpress or build a Weebly website to showcase your work. A worthwhile investment. I’m glad I did so. (2) Have you been writing your thoughts Online for more than a year? If so, then blogging may be a great job for you Online. (3) Are you an unemployed Writer looking to make money or support a Campaign? It takes time but there are ways you can make money Online. Usually by blogging material prescribed to you by a Website that will pay you to blog for them, on topics chosen by them, some of these positions you must apply for. Another way you can make money via blogging is by running Ads on your website. Im not quite sure how this works yet, as this has not been my focus but something new to me, is measured by traffic and clicks. Working on it, I’ll let you know when I start earning. (4) Are you able to Write and Compose pieces on your own without the help of anyone or any Online resources? If so, then Blogging on your own Website may be a great idea for you, and may help open doors for you in the future. When I first started blogging, I noticed everyone around me on edge, but overtime they got used to it. It definitely helped me get jobs, because it enabled my Employers to get to know me on a deeper personal level, see what I’m about, what issues or Campaign I support, and what jobs I may be best fit for, as an employee. (5) Do you have the personality for Writing in a Public Space? Are you Sensitive to Criticisms? This was the most important question I had to ask myself. As a shy person, blogging online was not something I participated in throughout School, seldom on Facebook and had opened a Twitter Account but never participated or wrote a single Tweet. To be honest I wasn’t sure how to use Twitter. Just like when I started using Instagram this year, I didn’t understand that the only way to communicate was by hearts, those were the like button. Now Twitter uses hearts so it’s a more universally accepted understood symbol for liking something online. This just changed in 2015/2016. –Main Point: It takes a long time to adjust to writing online and the professional and social anxiety that comes with it. You subject yourself to a lot of unnecessary and unwanted feedback and attention, and that is just something you will have to get used to, and learn how to respond to. Overtime as you become a stronger writer, you get more positive feedback and less criticism (Thanks Instagram!). That comes with the territory. Online people expect the utmost professionalism of you, but in a space that’s so quick to write print and publish from, for the writer it doesn’t feel like that same expectation is there, but it is. Be careful. (6) Are you Organized, Able to Keep Up with the Demand? Never start a project that you cannot finish and cannot continue to contribute to, perfect, improve, and grow. Once you generate an audience, that audience stays with you, don’t lose those members, they were they first to notice you out of everyone streamlining their pieces into the mix on hashtags. When you start blogging you want to keep your audience and you want to grow your following. This usually occurs by momentum. That is, positive momentum, which is generated by blog posts you contribute to your feeds and publishing platforms. If you cant keep up, don’t start publishing until you can, or write a few in advance to then publish later, to help maintain momentum and consistency. Your audience is always looking for quality not quantity. Blogging everyday reblogged pieces is fine and dandy, but when it comes time to wow them do you have unique pieces that set you apart, that can help you grow your following and maintain an existing fanbase. These are things you should prepare for before starting any type of blog. (7) Do you have some kind of Vision and Purpose for your Blog? As we discussed above, before starting any type of blog you should be prepared and have achieved a quality of composition that sets you apart from the other bloggers so that you stand out and gain new followers, and maintain uniqueness to your work product. Some people are able to achieve this by logos. Some people are able to achieve this by stylistic preferences, and some people are able to achieve this by putting their name on everything (that would be me). That would be your vision, how you see yourself and how you want others to see you, is that vision clear? If not, there are plenty of spaces to experiment to see what your audience likes best, start with one social platform, but do not experiment on all social platforms. You want to always present your best work to each, so make each introduction strong, with new material, and with that added edge of experience you were able to achieve from the previous social network you blogged from. The purpose of your blog, sometimes you know right of the bat, mine was to create an entity MYMOLLYDOLL from which I could create a Campaign for a Campaign. Sometimes this purpose evolves. I know on Instagram and Tumblr, I started with one account, and as I tried to organize my materials, I realized that my presentation of reblogs was best suited for separate blogs, to maintain consistency and theme. That was important to me, to separate my blogs by theme, categories or types of pieces shared, this can also be done through the use of tabs on a Website (something I have just considered doing for mymollydoll.com). Right now I keep everything on separate Blogs (Websites) lesliefischman.tumblr.com, mymollydoll.com, lesliefischman.weebly.com, facebook.com/leslie.fischman, Twitter.com/mymollydoll, and Instagram.com/leslie_fischman … the list goes on. (See mymollydoll.org). –The only problem is that if you are concerned about traffic points, you may want to stick to one Website, otherwise your 10,000 Followers get spread among multiple accounts on different Websites, making it more work for you to share and keep track of on a daily basis or update weekly. (8) Do you have any Conflicts of Interest that Prevent you from Blogging? This is an important question to ask yourself if you are currently employed. Some employers have specific guidelines outlined in your employment contracts that specify preference as to whether blogged about online and whether any work related interactions are blogged about. If so, then its best not to blog in any space, where you compose any impulsive writing off the top of your head, but blog only in spaces in which you compose one draft prior to publishing. For example: A Space Space to Blog for impulsive people would be Weebly or Wordpress, writing on Microsoft Word first and then publishing your final draft on your Weebly and Wordpress. That would be the smartest choice, to ensure that no information regarding work is shared online that would interfere with your contract or signed responsibilities of what not to include in your blog online, which is to write about work. (9) Do you have a particular interest in a genre commonly blogged about? If so, then blogging may be a great fit for you as a Writer or Composer. The more common, the easier it is to join and contribute to, blend in, without standing out or looking out of place. For me, when I started blogging on Twitter, they had just added the photo feature, and I blogged like I was on Facebook, putting all my photos up and talking about my personal life and what I’m up to. Have no fear, what was once uncommon is now common, and I am no longer one of few but one of many who blog about their personal lives in public on public publishing platforms that get Google indexed and tossed around online in places Ive never visited on Websites like Twicsy, that duplicates your account on a completely different website I don’t even have an Account to. This happens online, do not be alarmed. What you share in public becomes public information and public knowledge and can then be reused. Make sure you are cited and that you maintain uniqueness to your craft and put your logo, emblem, or web address, and/or name on your work, so that when it gets redistributed you are credited to your work, and can get business that way. (10) Are you qualified to blog about the topics you wish to write about? This is perhaps one of the more personal questions you must ask yourself, however discouraging it may be to realize that you need credentials to write about certain topics, that is why we have referencing abilities, and the purpose for citations. For knowledge that does not come from within but must be obtained from outside of yourself, is why we cite and do research. You can also compose blog posts in that way, via citations, there is nothing wrong with that, but make sure you cite. What are my credentials? I’m a BA with Honors in Sociology, have Composed & Published an Honors Thesis (A Qualitative Research Study on Hotline Counselors, about Crisis Management and Emotion Management, with approval by my attending University’s HRC (Human Research Committee) which I had to apply for, qualify for, and complete several online exams testing my understanding of the risks involved when studying at risk populations [Note: Similarly in 2013 I had to submit a proposal for future study to CU’s HRC prior to beginning Blogging Campaign for Brady Campaign –which was forwarded to the US Supreme Court for Review, and stamped by them reviewed]) … my Honors Thesis was later published with an Academic Publishing Company. In addition, I attended Paralegal School & Law School JD for 5 years, and I am now finishing my LLM and will compose a Dissertation, which I plan to Publish with an Academic Publishing Company when I finish. These are my Writing Credentials as a Professional, not including writing experience throughout my work experience, which included composing Legal Motions on behalf of Clients, composing Legal Research on my own, drafting Letters on behalf of Companies and Tenants, Composing Client Letters, Legal Memorandums, Drafting Legal Documents, Formatting Legal Documents, Indexing sorting and filing legal documents, and the list of responsibilities goes on as a Paralegal, Law Clerk, and Legal Secretary for many years (Since 2008). Based upon my experiences as a Legal Professional, I thought why not Blog and start a Blogging Campaign, I’m certainly qualified to lead a Campaign, I may not have the experience running a Non-Profit or Corporation (Now Officially Registered in CA: MYMOLLYDOLL as of 2016), but that is something you learn through experience putting together a Company online and Startup. Finding yourself is one thing. Identifying yourself as a Blogger is another thing. "You don’t know what you’ve got til its gone". (Lyrics to an Erykah Badu or Janet Jackson Song). As a Writer on Twitter for many years I had no idea that what I was writing was considered blog worthy material. Never underestimate yourself. What is trash to some may be of value to others. I first learned this sharing on Instagram and Facebook. You don’t always get the most likes on Twitter, and participation often comes in another form –visits to your website. Twitter is more of a promotional tool than a tool for accurately measuring popularity rankings via likes and reblogs, but by Impressions (Twitter Analytics) & how many Followers you have. Getting a new Follower on Twitter is like the equivalent of likes and comments on Instagram. Valuable. *Here are The Steps I Took to Identifying Myself as a Blogger Online: (1) Is what you have to say of value? If what you have to say is of value than you may consider yourself a blogger. And choose to one day start a Wordpress or build a Weebly website to showcase your work. A worthwhile investment. I’m glad I did so. (2) Have you been writing your thoughts Online for more than a year? If so, then blogging may be a great job for you Online. (3) Are you an unemployed Writer looking to make money or support a Campaign? It takes time but there are ways you can make money Online. Usually by blogging material prescribed to you by a Website that will pay you to blog for them, on topics chosen by them, some of these positions you must apply for. Another way you can make money via blogging is by running Ads on your website. Im not quite sure how this works yet, as this has not been my focus but something new to me, is measured by traffic and clicks. Working on it, I’ll let you know when I start earning. (4) Are you able to Write and Compose pieces on your own without the help of anyone or any Online resources? If so, then Blogging on your own Website may be a great idea for you, and may help open doors for you in the future. When I first started blogging, I noticed everyone around me on edge, but overtime they got used to it. It definitely helped me get jobs, because it enabled my Employers to get to know me on a deeper personal level, see what I’m about, what issues or Campaign I support, and what jobs I may be best fit for, as an employee. (5) Do you have the personality for Writing in a Public Space? Are you Sensitive to Criticisms? This was the most important question I had to ask myself. As a shy person, blogging online was not something I participated in throughout School, seldom on Facebook and had opened a Twitter Account but never participated or wrote a single Tweet. To be honest I wasn’t sure how to use Twitter. Just like when I started using Instagram this year, I didn’t understand that the only way to communicate was by hearts, those were the like button. Now Twitter uses hearts so it’s a more universally accepted understood symbol for liking something online. This just changed in 2015/2016. –Main Point: It takes a long time to adjust to writing online and the professional and social anxiety that comes with it. You subject yourself to a lot of unnecessary and unwanted feedback and attention, and that is just something you will have to get used to, and learn how to respond to. Overtime as you become a stronger writer, you get more positive feedback and less criticism (Thanks Instagram!). That comes with the territory. Online people expect the utmost professionalism of you, but in a space that’s so quick to write print and publish from, for the writer it doesn’t feel like that same expectation is there, but it is. Be careful. (6) Are you Organized, Able to Keep Up with the Demand? Never start a project that you cannot finish and cannot continue to contribute to, perfect, improve, and grow. Once you generate an audience, that audience stays with you, don’t lose those members, they were they first to notice you out of everyone streamlining their pieces into the mix on hashtags. When you start blogging you want to keep your audience and you want to grow your following. This usually occurs by momentum. That is, positive momentum, which is generated by blog posts you contribute to your feeds and publishing platforms. If you cant keep up, don’t start publishing until you can, or write a few in advance to then publish later, to help maintain momentum and consistency. Your audience is always looking for quality not quantity. Blogging everyday reblogged pieces is fine and dandy, but when it comes time to wow them do you have unique pieces that set you apart, that can help you grow your following and maintain an existing fanbase. These are things you should prepare for before starting any type of blog. (7) Do you have some kind of Vision and Purpose for your Blog? As we discussed above, before starting any type of blog you should be prepared and have achieved a quality of composition that sets you apart from the other bloggers so that you stand out and gain new followers, and maintain uniqueness to your work product. Some people are able to achieve this by logos. Some people are able to achieve this by stylistic preferences, and some people are able to achieve this by putting their name on everything (that would be me). That would be your vision, how you see yourself and how you want others to see you, is that vision clear? If not, there are plenty of spaces to experiment to see what your audience likes best, start with one social platform, but do not experiment on all social platforms. You want to always present your best work to each, so make each introduction strong, with new material, and with that added edge of experience you were able to achieve from the previous social network you blogged from. The purpose of your blog, sometimes you know right of the bat, mine was to create an entity MYMOLLYDOLL from which I could create a Campaign for a Campaign. Sometimes this purpose evolves. I know on Instagram and Tumblr, I started with one account, and as I tried to organize my materials, I realized that my presentation of reblogs was best suited for separate blogs, to maintain consistency and theme. That was important to me, to separate my blogs by theme, categories or types of pieces shared, this can also be done through the use of tabs on a Website (something I have just considered doing for mymollydoll.com). Right now I keep everything on separate Blogs (Websites) lesliefischman.tumblr.com, mymollydoll.com, lesliefischman.weebly.com, facebook.com/leslie.fischman, Twitter.com/mymollydoll, and Instagram.com/leslie_fischman … the list goes on. (See mymollydoll.org). –The only problem is that if you are concerned about traffic points, you may want to stick to one Website, otherwise your 10,000 Followers get spread among multiple accounts on different Websites, making it more work for you to share and keep track of on a daily basis or update weekly. (8) Do you have any Conflicts of Interest that Prevent you from Blogging? This is an important question to ask yourself if you are currently employed. Some employers have specific guidelines outlined in your employment contracts that specify preference as to whether blogged about online and whether any work related interactions are blogged about. If so, then its best not to blog in any space, where you compose any impulsive writing off the top of your head, but blog only in spaces in which you compose one draft prior to publishing. For example: A Space Space to Blog for impulsive people would be Weebly or Wordpress, writing on Microsoft Word first and then publishing your final draft on your Weebly and Wordpress. That would be the smartest choice, to ensure that no information regarding work is shared online that would interfere with your contract or signed responsibilities of what not to include in your blog online, which is to write about work. (9) Do you have a particular interest in a genre commonly blogged about? If so, then blogging may be a great fit for you as a Writer or Composer. The more common, the easier it is to join and contribute to, blend in, without standing out or looking out of place. For me, when I started blogging on Twitter, they had just added the photo feature, and I blogged like I was on Facebook, putting all my photos up and talking about my personal life and what I’m up to. Have no fear, what was once uncommon is now common, and I am no longer one of few but one of many who blog about their personal lives in public on public publishing platforms that get Google indexed and tossed around online in places Ive never visited on Websites like Twicsy, that duplicates your account on a completely different website I don’t even have an Account to. This happens online, do not be alarmed. What you share in public becomes public information and public knowledge and can then be reused. Make sure you are cited and that you maintain uniqueness to your craft and put your logo, emblem, or web address, and/or name on your work, so that when it gets redistributed you are credited to your work, and can get business that way. (10) Are you qualified to blog about the topics you wish to write about? This is perhaps one of the more personal questions you must ask yourself, however discouraging it may be to realize that you need credentials to write about certain topics, that is why we have referencing abilities, and the purpose for citations. For knowledge that does not come from within but must be obtained from outside of yourself, is why we cite and do research. You can also compose blog posts in that way, via citations, there is nothing wrong with that, but make sure you cite. What are my credentials? I’m a BA with Honors in Sociology, have Composed & Published an Honors Thesis (A Qualitative Research Study on Hotline Counselors, about Crisis Management and Emotion Management, with approval by my attending University’s HRC (Human Research Committee) which I had to apply for, qualify for, and complete several online exams testing my understanding of the risks involved when studying at risk populations [Note: Similarly in 2013 I had to submit a proposal for future study to CU’s HRC prior to beginning Blogging Campaign for Brady Campaign –which was forwarded to the US Supreme Court for Review, and stamped by them reviewed]) … my Honors Thesis was later published with an Academic Publishing Company. In addition, I attended Paralegal School & Law School JD for 5 years, and I am now finishing my LLM and will compose a Dissertation, which I plan to Publish with an Academic Publishing Company when I finish. These are my Writing Credentials as a Professional, not including writing experience throughout my work experience, which included composing Legal Motions on behalf of Clients, composing Legal Research on my own, drafting Letters on behalf of Companies and Tenants, Composing Client Letters, Legal Memorandums, Drafting Legal Documents, Formatting Legal Documents, Indexing sorting and filing legal documents, and the list of responsibilities goes on as a Paralegal, Law Clerk, and Legal Secretary for many years (Since 2008). Based upon my experiences as a Legal Professional, I thought why not Blog and start a Blogging Campaign, I’m certainly qualified to lead a Campaign, I may not have the experience running a Non-Profit or Corporation (Now Officially Registered in CA: MYMOLLYDOLL as of 2016), but that is something you learn through experience putting together a Company online. 09/06/16 Updated 12/05/17 Reference: http://www.mymollydoll.com/blog/how-do-you-know-if-you-are-a-blogger-by-leslie-fischman Facebook Heading: Chapter 21: Crisis Management by Leslie A. Fischman 12/09/17 (Written Originally in part 02/01/17). #lesliefischman (Reference: #nancyboydwebb) #crisisintervention #socialmedia #entertainmentcampaign #quotescampaign #bloggingcampaign #helpingprofessions #crisiscounseling #hotlinecounseling #crisishotlines Chapter 20: Building a Campaign as a Fashion Blogger Named MYMOLLYDOLL
By Leslie A. Fischman 12/07/17 (Originally Written 09/18/16, mymollydoll.com) According to mediapost.com “engagement beings with understanding” and connecting “authentically with the consumers.”[1] There are so many different platforms today, via social media, from which we are able to connect, learn, and grow. This was the basis for establishing an Entertainment-based Campaign for Brady Campaign. Three words that stood out to me were: (1) Engagement, (2) Authenticity, and (3) Understanding. “It's about considering the way something will be used, and how that will impact the user's emotions, as you market it.”[2] Engagement, according to mediapost.com involves not only understanding what the current issues are but also, understanding the impact, by demonstrating clear “attention to detail.” Since this is a Victim oriented Campaign, supporting those within the helping Professions, it was my duty to provide to them simple tools which could be used to help promote the services we have to offer and at the same time alleviate any confusion with clearly stated principles and methodologies from which to follow throughout the campaign. This is why we started with bloggingcampaign.tumblr.com and #BradyMusicCampaign as a hashtag which combined the Campaign type (Entertainment i.e. Music) with the Campaign it supported Brady Campaign, putting Music in between to make #BradyMusicCampaign. This I thought was a good idea, so that upon searching for like Campaigns, my Campaign would show up in the Search Engine, but have unique features that would make it identifiably different than the master campaign, and organized in such a way, unofficially, to differentiate it from the official campaign, as what I later identified it to be a “Campaign for a Campaign.” Authenticity. In order to connect authentically with my audience, I had to first establish myself as a Professional writer online and a trusted source. I began writing in 2013 under the names @randbocotimes and @mymollydoll on Twitter, which later evolved into Websites mymollydoll.com (lesliefischman.tumblr.com, bloggingcampaign.tumblr.com, bloggingcampaign.wordpress.com, mymollydoll.wordpress.com, and mymollydoll.org). In order the produce “insights” as described by mediapost.com, I had to first establish the different ways in which as an Entertainment Campaign, the material I provided could be used. I had to establish a form of communication with my audience, that could be replicated and reproduced through their professional line of work. That form of communication was via story telling. I would tell the same stories over and over again, just as Jay Carney would say the same thing over and over again from the Press Briefing Room, this was a skill I learned watching CSPAN. It adds a level of predictability that gives your audience a sense of comfort, by creating a “language” from which authenticity could bloom. As a Professional it has never been my purpose to be friends with my audience or romanticize goals, but always spoke in a tone that was serious, so that they would easily be able to identify if something was wrong along the way or if I had been harmed during the process of Campaigning. This is why Professionals with lofty goals, Campaigning for serious issues, should always do their best to be Professional at all times, and avoid goofing off or minimizing the severity of problems or level of seriousness to apply to ones work ethic. We all feed off of each other, this is what I learned about the Authenticity required to Campaign, and to Campaign for Campaigns, be taken just as seriously, and just as effectively assist with the achievement of goals set by the Campaigns to which one supports. That is the role of an Influencer, and the purpose for creating MYMOLLYDOLL. A public entity which could be easily recognized, well known, standing apart from the rest of the Bloggers, and be the platform from which I could establish Campaigns for Campaigns, by giving myself a name and creating a perfect version of myself online, an image I created for myself, to run this Campaign. As an Influencer I played an important role in not only generating support for a Campaign via hashtags and participation online, but also helped establish a NEW Campaign which was Entertainment-based for a Non-Profit Brady Campaign to help them raise money for their Campaign (attaching a link to my Website where they could click to access the main Campaings donation page). It’s a misnomer to say that Campaigning for a Campaign was used to establish my image, no that was not the case. An image must be first established online in order to address a large audience (1), and (2) once you have followers and able to address a large audience, you have to establish yourself as a writer and trusted source, then (3) as a recognized Professional you can Campaign for Campaigns. How did I establish MYMOLLYDOLL as a Professional? This brings us to our third point, Understanding. I have a keen understanding of trauma, based on the research I completed in College on PTSD and Psychotherapy, in addition to the research I completed online (on Library Databases) on Vicarious Trauma, Trauma, Sex Assault, Advocacy, Victim Advocates, First Responders, and Crisis Hotline Counselors. Vicarious Trauma was one of the few areas studied. Much like Entertainment as a means to combat terrorism and shootings. This was an area I chose to study, based on my research skills and understanding of trauma, that the following are required in order to develop strong coping skills: 1. A Line of Support 2. Demonstrated Presence of that Line of Support, and 3. Access to Resources. In addition, I posted copies of my Resume, and have had work experience interviewing clients, preparing documents, writing motions, and conducting independent research, that made me feel comfortable and confident addressing these topics, and thinking of a solution from which all could benefit, in a way that would not retraumatize those who have suffered and are currently suffering. According to mediapost.com “Understanding” involves not only a keen understanding of how your audience feels, but also how your audience will use and interpret the language from the materials you provide to them, as a means to assist with the coping and processing of events. This is primarily the role of the Journalist, as an Entertainment-based Campaign my role is much different in that I do not address the instances themselves, but respond by promoting my Campaign, and by addressing the fundamental principles from which my Campaign functions under my Umbrella Campaign Brady Campaign. Telling my stories, not their stories, and sharing my ideas and beliefs, not dissecting theirs. In order to do so, I stopped watching TV and stopped reading the News and watching CSPAN and started focusing on School and what I already know to produce new material everyday online. Eventually I started Fashion Blogging. As a Feminist, and a believer in Gender Equality in the Workforce, Fashion seemed like a great fit. And definitely a space in which I could easily take on a leadership role, selecting content I felt was best suited to represent the principles of my Campaign I created. And at the same time help others, who were trying to make it as Fashion Bloggers, stick to what was popular, and looks that we fed to one another, via Re-Blogging. I took it one step further, and for every look I liked on Pinterest, I then posted to my Wordpress. To save the looks, in an exterior archive for #BloggingCampaign, which I’ve just started to hashtag in detail on Wordpress. This again supports my understanding of my audience, in that I was able to get Followers on my own via Re-Blogging alone, without my own photos. And I was spotted by Sassique.com an Online Professional Fashion Community and hired as a Non-Paid Style Curator, which is why I created mymollydoll.wordpress.com –from which to share the best online with Sassique.com (now I have to go back through and select my favorites and upload them onto Sassique.com –this was how I decided to perform my role for Sassique –to save everything, upload what’s most important and unique). You can never stop learning online, understanding your audience, and as you grow as a writer, your relationship with your audience changes too, and a new set of expectations are required of you in order to maintain an audience. Your audience does not always want to be entertained and share a laugh, sometimes they want to learn, learn about you, learn about life, learn about how you learn, or learn about how you were able to put yourself together and a Campaign at the same time. Reference: Original Post: http://www.mymollydoll.com/blog/founding-an-entertainment-campaign-by-leslie-fischman [1] Mary C. Long, What All Marketers Can Learn From Entertainment Campaigns (Sept. 18, 2016)http://www.mediapost.com/publications/article/274512/what-all-marketers-can-learn-from-entertainment-ca.html. [2] Mary C. Long, What All Marketers Can Learn From Entertainment Campaigns (Sept. 18, 2016)http://www.mediapost.com/publications/article/274512/what-all-marketers-can-learn-from-entertainment-ca.html. Facebook Heading: Chapter 20: Building a Campaign by Leslie A. Fischman #mymollydoll #lesliefischman #bloggingcampaign #fashionbloggers (cc: #simplystylist). Chapter 19: Finding Myself Online by Leslie A. Fischman
12/07/17 (Originally Written – See Facebook Handwritten Notes 12/30/15) quotesgram.com – They say that, “sometimes you find yourself in the middle of nowhere, and sometimes in the middle of nowhere, you find yourself.” (ilovemylsi.com). (#googlesearch: finding yourself quotes). When I first joined Twitter I did not know what to expect for many years my Account was just a “blank space” online, with no words written or sent but just received and read. I never thought in my “wildest dreams” it would be a place for me to correspond, connect to individuals on a direct citation basis, and form long lasting relationships with individuals and entities who were once complete strangers to me. (Reference: Taylor Swift). When I left Law School in 2013, that’s when I began my journey, soul searching. Soul searching generally begins when you feel lost, displaced, and looking for something new to occupy your thoughts. For so long –school provided me with shelter for my mind but when taken away I absolutely lost my mind. Drinking, drug use, and dating followed that Spring 2013, along with the separation and breakup from my boyfriend in Law School of 2 years. That was a very difficult time for me. I felt lost because I grew Co-Dependent on another to feel validated and to receive positive affirmation from –on a daily basis, to provide me with reassurance that I was where I needed to be in life and that so long as I had him everything else would fall into place. –That’s not uncommon –to think that if you have one thing in life, then you should have this, this, or that. Thinking things go together when they don’t, or thinking things should come together when they don’t, is a common misstep in life. – Rather, I’ve found its best to focus on “is what I’m doing now going to get me to where I want to be in life.” (Advice from my Psychic Andrea Peet). –Drinking, dating, and drug use, obviously didn’t get me to where I wanted to be in life, set me so far back, I thought I would never recover from those losses. –But found hope for a better future for myself writing online, sharing my thoughts, making a difference online helping others, while helping myself achieve stability and find myself again. Focusing on my strengths has been key to my Recovery and Positive Development as a Writer Online. They say “some steps need to be taken alone. It’s the only way to really figure out where you need to be” (Reference: Mandy Hale, picturequotes.com, Google Search: finding yourself quotes). –Going through a break-up or any separation isn’t an easy process. In fact, its one of the most difficult hurdles, I’ve had to overcome in life; recovering from a suicide attempt February 2009, following a separation from my then boyfriend of three years. Facebook Heading: Chapter 19: Finding Myself Online by Leslie A. Fischman #mymollydoll #lesliefischman #bookblogger (cc: #candacebushnell #taylorswift re: #blankspace i.e #twitterspace). Chapter 18: Facebook Quotes (Twitter Archives)
12/04/17 I’ve found the most success when well rounded, setting goals for myself daily making lists, and always being prepared. Ready for anything. You only have one life to live make the most of it –no life worth living is worth living in regret enjoy every moment the good and the bad. The best feeling is looking back and seeing how far you’ve come. Don’t give up, never give up, don’t look back at your mistakes, keep your head up. In the end .. the ones that care stick around. Always best to first focus on yourself to get strong and then be strong enough to be there for others. People generally only want one thing. Privacy, mentions positive or not would rather not be mentioned. That I can respect. I’ve learned that no one cares about your problems especially with them so best not mention, to make the problem or person go away. Otherwise the more you pick yourself apart and the less you succeed in life the gultier they feel and the harder they are on you for failing. I’ve found the most success when well rounded, setting goals for myself daily making lists, and always being prepared. Ready for anything. We cannot grow or improve if we do not recognize nor value our blessings in life and allow anything to affect us negatively always think positive. People come and go from our lives … It may hurt but its important to put yourself first before seeking acceptance from others for validation. People bother you only for as long as you allow them to for a long time I was haunted by my Ex Schizophrenic, but I’m okay now. No matter how hard you try to be nice to someone and make amends with them they will only bug you in reply back not soothe a rough edge. I learned through patience and perseverance how to respond under stress when things didn’t work out for me, I never stopped trying to improve. Whether or not we appreciate our blessings in life has little to no effect on where we end up but may stifle our ability to be happy trying. It’s important therefore to value oneself first by valuing others and who is important in your life whom without we suffer from alienation. Happiness occurs when we appreciate the now as well as everyone in our life positive and negative which we take to help us grow improve. A true test of character is determined by how one responds under stress and after failure. It is by the choices we make when our options are limited that determine the strength of our good character and ability to persevere. What we do at the present determines where we end up, whether we know or not how successful we’ll be, never stop trying to improve upon oneself. It’s best not to tell people you blog for these reasons. Blogging is a great form of communication amongst strangers but not with friends. Close quarters blogging is so intense. Getting used to just posting quotes. Will not be blogging about school will be in close quarters 9-5:30pm everyday at School, not a good idea. I had fun blogging online full time since I left my job (job ended internship) in August. Which is why I wanted to go to coding school, but ended up not going. No one is expected to help you in life and if they do offer to help you usually they are just being nice open to conversation or interaction with you. Why is that? Some of the most successful people in life are those that help others or provide a business or service that does. Know others well. Successful people are some of the most understanding, genuine, naïve, and sensitive people you’ll meet in life. Know that don’t overwhelm them. Don’t be intimidated by the successes of others they too were once beginners in life –so they understand you’re struggling learning still. Look forward to going back to school this month. Will be blogging less, but leaving enough to be read while away. Buttoning up online. You are as capable of achieving goals in life that you prove yourself capable of achieving –always see the positive to get there, don’t give up. I learned once you get to the finish line, never stop trying that’s when you need to start over from scratch and do your best, always be tough. Facebook Heading: Chapter 18: Facebook Quotes (Twitter Archives) by Leslie A. Fischman aka #mymollydoll now @mymollydoll004 on Twitter. #bloggingcampaign supported by #lesliefischman (This hashtag costs $800 a month in Taxes along with my Corporation Registered in CA, $1300 including Legal Fees). |
AuthorLeslie A. Fischman Please Note: I have finished writing the first draft of my first book, still editing Ch 13-25, my goal is to publish my book 2020 after I graduate, working on myself right now.
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