Theres a subtle difference between what is accepted said, and what is accepted past, and what is accepted presently, as in accordance with virtues set forward into motion. What is accepted is not the past, but in favor of the future, that exemplifies good bearings on current turmoils. When there is a rush, there is energy, and that energy must then be transferred to positives, positive focus points. When there is energy and that energy is applied to negatives, negatives result. Why its important to always stay calm, and to focus on whats within, not without, when in crisis. The common thing to do, is to focus on what you do have, not what you have not, when in crisis. Not to think of self, but to think of others, what are your needs, and what can you do to best assist others in crisis, is not to focus on self, but to focus on others, that is counterproductive when you change focus away from you to others, that shows that you yourself are not stable enough, and reliant upon others for assistance. Who is strong and who is not, is not important during times of need, but your own choices are much more important, as to who you go to for assistance. That is always important to go best to sources of support qualified to assist you. Redirection of focus is because some want to direct focus away from them, sometimes redirecting of focus occurs, because one wants to direct their own focus away from themselves, and their current troubles, escape from reality, that is called fantasy. There are such things as fantasy campaigns, I am not one of them, I am real. –Minimalism amplifies, because it suggests to focus on a few things rather than see the big picture, and whats in place, is what is left, that is minimalism to me, what remains, what is gone, is junk from our lives, why there was a minimalist movement to help us focus more on whats important, and what matters most to us, to get from point A to point B, positivity, and not go backwards, and relive the past over again. When you are reliving your past, you are making amends to get to your future self, a better self, and that is why amends are made. Never be too apologetic as accepting yourself as wrong, you are always right, the victim is never at fault, always remember that, in times of crisis, the one who suffers most is considered the victim. –I was raised never to play victim in life, and to always move forward, be strong. That is from a political standpoint best, when victim blaming occurs its because fault is placed on the victim, as to the victim’s current circumstances as asked for. I have never asked for any help or assistance my whole life, able to always work alone. How I was raised, to be independent of others, eventually you date and fall apart. That is the difficulty of being a Woman, giving your body to someone else, and trusting your body with another. You don’t realize the repercussions until too late.