Lifes not all about blogging, and it certainly is not all about you or the faults of others, blame rarely gets you far in places, complaints often frowned upon. Theres a certain state of helplessness, that follows in any addictive or malapadative behaviors that cause you to question yourself or others. According to Dr. Martin Seligman “The feeling of oppression and not being in control or in charge is the opposite of the top of the UpSpiral which is “feeling good and feeling free” (http://appliedneuroscienceblog.com/learned-helplessness-way). -Theres a condition of loss that occurs, loss of self, loss of standards, and loss of care. That’s how you know you have addiction, when you become dependent upon a system of support, and that support when overused, creates a condition of self hate. That is the trouble with Social Media, is when to stop, look up, and look around you. What is it that you’re trying to do in life, and never lose focus, not to social media, not to others, and not in place of self, and your life goals. One can be easily led astray online, and on the internet, and even while blogging, its hard to maintain footing in life, without the internet some days, if so then blogging may not be the correct profession for you, if unable to achieve your goals in life while blogging. Sometimes too much exposure, is cause for consequences, that flip back onto you, on your feet, on your side of the grass. What can you do to make your grass greener, by representing yourself well at all times, that requires not to share too much what is inside of us, and share more about what represents ourselves best. The outer layer.