When you leave the woodwork you realize what you have, I was raised very conservative, and now I understand why. It was to protect me from harm, that when we let loose we will be judged by others, its how we are taken seriously, that others will judge us, based upon our own merits, and what we bring to the table, skills. Those skills are by education and background, those build the backbones to companies, and from there a company grows. What is independence. We chatted today before the meeting, to me that means a Corporation that is independently run, by its employees, who are independent of one another, not co-dependent. In the real world, I see that individuals, base selves on their accolades and based upon their merits, how confidence is made, not by being inside a group but by what they bring to the table, that is how confidence is made. You can only see yourself, when you are in a group of people, who is accepting of you not hard on you, know your worth. Sometimes in close relationships, people are hard on us, that’s to protect us from harm. When we understand the value of self, in relationship to others, we will know ourselves best. How to behave in front of others, whether to be known for our present or our past, and from that point determine how well known, know you best, not others, how to get to know yourself among people, how to self identify. When people look at you and think you are something you are not, that is because they know you based on what they hear, not based on what they know, or see, and that is always understandable, we give thanks to others, for acceptance always, how to move forward, and not discuss our private lives out loud, or professional selves, in order to maintain a positive outlook in life, is by our work ethic not others points of views. This is clear upon meeting people very well adjusted, I too was once well adjusted, and now struggle because of my relationships gone sour, while attending law school. I will never understand the pressure perceived until I undergo it myself. What you say about yourself, is by what rumor is known about you, always be truthful, and give value to your life presently, everything is a matter of correction. When you are a perfectionist and corrected, then you should know better how to behave is how one is treated, who looks or appears mentally ill, that’s called passing judgment upon another’s circumstances, and adding fruit to the table of concerns. What is concerning is what alarms, people should never be alarmed by adjusters. Adjusters are people who are accepting of all people, they themselves must be conservative minded, if to be a backbone to others, to mirror conversation behavior. That is how trust is built, not by surprises, but by dialect, being conservative minded. Conservative minded means being a defensive driver in life, watching out always for concerns, addressing concerns accordingly, and by offering reassurances. Reassurances are guaranteed by behavior present, and behavior continued, elsewhere. It is known that I struggled with alcohol after law school, its never been a problem in my life professionally, always sound, and never a threat to my environment, or to others, I’m not a loose canon, its by judgments threats to me, that occurred (once), said something back under the influence (once), that is not me but a product of my circumstances, I was judged as something I am not, and because they thought I was a whore, I was treated like that, Im very chaste, never dressed like a whore, never behaved like one, always conservative toward others.