There's a pain that comes with happiness. It's not always obvious. But whenever we remember the good times, we also remember the bad times, the mind has a funny way of reminding us of the past. Always stay in character. This can be difficult at times, we wander. Don't wander too far. It's always in pleasantries that we feel most comfortable, not pulled aside, or off guard, or out of character. We often get misread. It is not the fault of the readers, but of our input how we present ourselves matters. Its important to always be happy for others. In good times and in bad. We receive so many blessings in life, not to be abused, including our own lives. Whenever we are not happy with ourselves, thats not an opportunity to shine upon our weaknesses, and never a time to make not genuine the best interests of others toward us. People will plant seeds, hopefully good seeds. Those seeds planted whether they disrupt our well being or not, should never tear us downward. It is never the fault of the victim, and when thirst upon any spotlight, make due with what they've got. Its not our responsibility to handle the spotlight of others, whether they shine or don't its not our responsibility to represent others interests toward us. We are either accepted in life, or not. Whether for what and by what circumstances, we make due. You cannot have it all in life, sometimes we are left with less than, sometimes, we are left with more than, but its always important to trust. When we trust we give thanks. When we give thanks we trust. And with trust bears the burden of responsibility. That with that trust the benefit runs to the receiver of trust. The benefit need not run toward the giver of trust, that is a fallacy of thought, that when trust is given that there is some expectation or rewarded benefit for having given a sense of trust. Whenever one is pulled out of a closet that they got put in (2009) that closet hurts. Whenever someone gets put in a closet by the secrets of others, that burden hurts. Always be mindful of the secrets of others, and for which those secrets are kept. You never know to whom you are hurting whenever you find excitement in the secrets of others. There is no excitement when it comes to coming forward in life, or being kept in the shadows in life. There is no comfort in compared whenever something bad happens, or when that spotlight gets miss-shed upon another, deserving or not, its is important to always think twice before using people as props or before communicating within how someone feels about themselves, does not always help those with low self-esteem find theirs. Sincerely, #mymollydoll.