Don't diagnose or misdiagnose the problems of others. Don't pass judgment upon others, if they so choose to get help or if you help others, thats not professional. You cannot interfere with the focus, or the minds of those to whom you give help to or by those to whom help is accepted. You have to be careful with how you help others, during times of need, there is a careful balance between being approachable and being professional, do not be something you are not. If you are not strong enough to help others, always say so. Do not do things to trigger or to manifest in another characteristics or traits you deem superficial enough to create instances to prove care is given. Thats not how to help people. It is for each of us to better understand one another, it is not the responsibility of others to care for one another on a deep level, but on a spiritual level be cognizant of the thoughts and feelings of one another, not to the extent that it is taken personally, or for the purposes of connection, make happen or become something that it is not, on the outside, look like something it is not, or take personal the shares of others, as personally directed toward you. Everyone is doing their best to cope with the times, it is not the responsibility of others to interpret the times as to each others shares, try to make different their opinions or the opinions of others. Thats not how to make change happen. In order to see change in the world, one must behave in a way that is accepting to all not just a fraction of the population, and not just for their fans, behave in a way they think is expected of them.