When you put yourself under a microscope you will be judged for what you put under that microscope. Feelings about you and towards you will change, viewpoints. Some will like you and not all will, but you have to be accepting of all crowds around you. You cannot control your audience, or people who do not like you, they will watch anyways and read along anyways, and that you have no control over. People will always be judgmental, you have to maintain a positive attitude, there is no secret to positivity, there is no position or costume you can put on in order to be perfect, you just have to be yourself. That’s key. When you like yourself others will like you, when you do not like yourself others will not like you, you cannot read your audience, you can only read who writes you back, that is the bottom line. You cannot read what is not written to you, you cannot read words that are not spoken to you, you can only be yourself. You should not predict or anticipate the reactions of others toward you, that will only make you sick, the only thing you can control are your thoughts and your perceptions, do not make yourself sick anticipating the reactions of others, walking into puddles and dead ends in life, to their chagrin, those are those who are not accepting of you, and for whatever reasons, based upon what they hear or say when they look at you, should not be your problem, but problems of their own with you, and you should not be adversely affected by the problems that other people have with you, that and those are their judgments of you, accepting or not, and should not lead to self-harming behaviors and or dislike for self, you can only be you. Its impossible to please everyone, you can only have so many fans, and have so many people turn on you in your mind, that you eventually hurt yourself, life is not mortal kombat, never finish yourself off, just because one person does not like you, there is likely to be someone else who will. Be forgiving of yourself, life is not perfect, and you cannot be well-liked by all, but you should always like yourself.