You are what you allow, as painful as that is to say to onesself, its true that so long as you allow yourself to be hurt, and subject yourself to interpretations of you, that cause you to feel hurt, you are therefore only allow that pain to fester, and take hold of who you are, whether or not deserved, and whether or not those reactions within you or towards you are a manifestation of who you are in reality or not. Never become over-consumed with anyones anger in life, especially as directed toward you, although everyones happiness does matter, you cannot make anyone happy who cannot be happy for you or in spite of the happiness you are able to achieve for yourself absent minded them, absent minded their own emotional instabilities in life, when it comes to acceptance of you, you cannot expect everyone to be happy for you, the world doesnt work that way, as painful as it feels, one would expect when things are going right for nothing to go wrong, but that isnt the case. Even after you have overcome significant hurdles in life, that doesnt mean that you are therefore immune from controversies, or that you have built up any resiliency to be hurt in the future, there is no public status or level of success that makes any one person immune from being hurt in life. That you learn to accept, the day as it comes, no matter what happens to you in life, not allow those upsets and controversies concerning your good character, to cause you to implode and suffer anxieties in life that leave you bedridden, hopeless, and under so much strain stress and pressure in life, that you fail to continue to meet the mark when it comes to acceptances of you in life, required and needed in order for you to live life, free from harm, and able to thrive among others, without being subjected to attack, on the basis of who you are, including what matters to you, or because of what issues you have underwent be minimized by anything past, to serve as excuse or explanation for the hardships you have endured in life. We can't all be respected, whether or not we are famous, well known, or by who we know treated as special, or given any benefits of the doubt when it comes to our understanding of the world, and where we see ourselves as standing among others in life. Even if you have lived a great life, does not mean that someone who thinks they know you better or are more deserving of being heard as from their own perspective upon knowing you, feel it deserved to cast you under a different light in life, based upon their interactions with you and ability to control you and get you to portray yourself in a way befitting to their interests not your own best interests. Life is painful, but it doesnt need to be any more painful than it already is, we all suffer from some anxiety in life, some of those anxieties manifesting themselves in our life, at the control of other peoples wishes, and sometimes by our own forgivings and interactions private with others, a loss of respect occurs for us, by others, and by the ones who speak to us as though they see best, and do not allow you to be yourself in a critical world who judges you based upon what you look like, what you sound like, who you know, where you are in life, what meds youre on, your medical history, etc.
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