When you know what you want in life, nothing can stop you from achieving your dreams. You only have to accept your past, and move forward, not lamenting incidences or worrying what others think or might say about you, is always outside of your control and not your responsibility to ever control the thoughts of others about you or about others. That’s called fighting when an opinion based on selfish needs is made, to promote an idea or a set of ideas that serves one, is called being selfish. Always be selfless when writing online, considering the emotions of the audience as well as how you may be looked at affected by your train of thoughts. It is very important to always be clear, in order to come across as neat and organized. When you are off center and not all together perfect, you run the risk of being attacked by aggressive people, that is juts how people are, trying to change you or trying to fix you, or trying to get what they want, or trying to manipulate your story or your character, or sense of being. That is called wrong behavior for or toward persons of interest. It is wrong to use people as pawns, for unnecessary causes but ego. That is an unnecessary use of force upon another to break a heart, and is undeserving. The only way to move forward is not to break, not to bind, but to let go.