What we see is what we remember is what gets promoted about us, not by whats in our closet, or in our bedrooms. That is not how people see us, by our private spaces. Is not how you judge a cover by its book, its by how you remember identify yourself, not by the baggage of others, or by your things in life. You cant go backwards and try to be a better you, you have to just be you as you are now. That’s how to build a better you, from here forward, not by going backwards. Your past picture is always your best profile picture, as you remember you best. Ive found that that has helped me, gear myself back to reality, and how I understand my direction and self in life, and where I am headed, not by the direction of others, headed in life. Its important to stay true to your character, not be easily impressed upon or molded, slightly stubborn, but cautious, is the best way to lead yourself in any public environment. I have found that to rehabilitate my character it takes time, by good merits only. When I infuse myself with the troubles of others, bear burdens, that’s my weight. Not the weight of others upon me, but my instincts, errors, failure, to overcome. Perfection is a job, not a hobby, when you perfect yourself, you understand your own intrinsic value, that no other person’s value should affect you in communication. Its not contagious, stupidity, its just a recognized failure, always do your best to repair yourself separately.