Co-Dependency is very unhealthy for self-growth, and in fact discouraged. By all means in-group and out-group methodologies are what brought us to this point of figuring out what terrorizes the mind, keeps us together and apart, like-minded, apart of, detached, and left out. For the sake of not undermining any privileged deductions we set a new code, nothing past is ever obvious looking back, we can only set forward and put together something new and achieved to create peace forward, that is my theory of like minded individuals forward, not necessary to pick apart like minded individuals past and point blame. That does no good forward actually. Detachment occurs, through the separation of self from others, occurring during alone time, this can occur by self study, reading, writing, cubicle time, continuing education either professionally or academically, schooling, internet study, or nowadays social media if you so choose to, through the study of others taboo if you might, but some prefer to, not my chosen methodology if you ask. Sociologist study populations of people not individuals, we study group methodologies not interpersonal relationships, but macro-level theories of interactions, physics on a macro-level not on a person-to-person basis, that is not as important. Self study comes last, as whats most important to us, is benefit to all, we are selfless in that way, we do not look for flaws in others or ourselves, that is not how we think, at least that is not how I am, and hope others will view me the same. For many years, I have taken photos and kept a running log of my progress, written and by photos healthwise, these are my documentary evidentiary records of my health, for medical reasons. Not for public record or discussion, or criticism actually. The best way to protect the safety of others, is to keep them flies on the wall, that is my duty, and so keep it that way, I’m very professional, good at what I do.