The times are not archaic, you may have a good idea to help bring people together, and it may still not be in the best interests of everyone to care. You have every right to care about causes and provide support to causes you think are necessary to the betterment of society, what issues you raise awareness to, should be as it relates to your life and experiences, and if as to the experiences of others, they come first, think what would be in their best interests. Take good care of yourselves, that’s best how to represent oneself, others cannot represent you in life, unless hired to, that’s always an unwanted burden to others to be available to help correct thoughts about self, or to help correct the thoughts of others about you. What may be obvious to some is not obvious to all, all are not exposed to the same connections in life, or belief systems. You choose your systems of support in life. Always with approval take initiatives in life, never without the blessings of those above you, that’s not how to make a positive difference, learn to be able to let things go if you want to help inspire change to the systems we currently provide support to, and where help is needed most. The chaos of loss, and the uncertainty that brings has much to do with the wellness of those around you, people don’t change, that you have to accept, people will always care most for whats in their best interests and if its not in their best interests to care, they wont care, some initiatives you take in life may be premature, based on what you are focused on in life, and what affects you. Don’t volunteer or become apart of organizations to correct your image, if you volunteer and then are punished, then correct your mistakes in life, and with permissions, continue to make progress in life. Not all will be in agreement with you, post punishments in life, don’t expect people to speak highly of you or trust you, there will always be room for question thereafter, don’t feed into that negativity, by behaving in ways or speaking in ways that support a negative viewpoint of you, that’s why they say to prove them wrong, that’s if you are currently facing adversities in life, not to go backwards and make your life more difficult, the mental health issues you suffer as a result of your mistakes in life, are never the responsibility of others to correct, if of your own making, you have to help yourself under those conditions, no one will lead you then, no one will correct you then, no one will advise you then, no one will redirect you then, unless you ask for help and permissions in life, that’s how best to move forward and interact with others in a way that both you and your audience are comfortable with, not under any obligations to care. In life you continue your education, that’s to match the times, every profession has their requirements, that’s normal, be fearless, but do not incite fear or worry in others, if something you care about has not affected them yet personally, everything adds up, not that we are all connected, but anything that goes wrong on the inside of any system of support, is the responsibility of those vocal within to correct, the tone of the environment, everyones safety needs matter, focus on your reality, without worry for those who have messed up in life due to drugs and alcohol, that’s why we are advised to care for ourselves first to be able to help others, and until we can learn to help ourselves, love ourselves, will we be able to help provide a voice of reason to others. When we say mental health comes first, that means if you’ve been there then don’t go back to those places in life, and if you cannot help, don’t make worse the condition of others caring for you, allow people to worry for themselves not about others, only you can help yourself. In a year I can apply again as a victim advocate, right now Im battling mental health issues ie self-harm, trust your systems of support, and as advised move forward in life.
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