When you have no experience, everything feels overwhelming, each new task carrying a heavy burden, to understand, comprehend, and function knowing fully what youre doing and why youre doing what youre doing, that’s being professional. Whether or not you understand what youre doing, do you still do the right thing, you will always be tested in life, to see how good of a decision maker you are, before being allowed to make important decisions for yourself or others for that matter, whether that be through work or in relationships that require you to take on the responsibility of caring for another other than yourself. When your priorities are in order, that shows that one you care about yourself, and that two you are able to care for another, until then, you are required mostly to work on yourself to prove otherwise. The skys the limit, when it comes to responsibilities, the better situated you are in life, the more viable a companion you become, its second nature to accept those who are successful in life, without worry of feeling bad for them, as they are able to take care of themselves, its harder to be around people who need to be taken care of or in need of help, theres more room for worry, and more room for error, which upon failures no one wants to be responsible for. Once you fail to meet the standards of others, it doesn’t matter how high of standards you have set for yourself, or how hard you have tried, or how far you have come, once someone is unhappy with you there is no pleasing them, once someone has given up on you, there is no going back for understanding, once someone does not believe in you, there is no room for clarifying self, and once someone has let you go, there is no convincing them otherwise that you are deserving of positions in life, or taking on responsibilities now that you previously were considered for. Some will be harder on you than others, accept that much about life, people expect the best, when it comes to work and in relationships, it’s a competitive world, and image is important, its hard to focus on more than one thing at a time, if you cant balance it all, then don’t incorporate new people into your life, who do not love you as you are, everyone blossoms at their own paces in life, and if you have yet to blossom, choose those who do not impede on your self-growth, and allow you to be yourself, work at your own pace in life, that’s not finding yourself, or being lost, not all those who appear lost are lost, sometimes it’s a matter of wearing more makeup, shopping for more outfits, or sending fewer texts, whatever it is that makes you look like a needy unstable companion in life, don’t be co-dependent on others for reassurances in life, youll surely be let down, if under the guidance and confidence of another. Everyone tries to tell your story, when they think that everyone is watching, and an explanation is needed, before you know it, the relationship has ended, and everything on the outside looks and appears as if to benefit the image of the other, who was able to move forward, and prove fault of the person worse off in life, sometimes people need space to make important decisions in life, having nothing to do with the status of a relationship, if they love you, no time apart will be indicative of setting off a series of emergency circumstances, one should not need to be needed to feel needed, and once that need stops, one should not be reprimanded for focusing on oneself in life, and triggered, led astray in life put down, a clear break is a clear break, allow breaks to happen, without getting upset, that’s not how to win back someone you wanted to be with, or express resentments toward anyone who spent equal time caring for the other, in life. Losses occur both ways, time invested in caring on both sides, its not just on the side of the person left, or not able to return, and if your past is not clear to others, then you will relive those scenarios later in life, until you are proven to be weak or worth letting go, that’s how one suffers by sharing about breakups in life, your side is never taken but always the side of the person to whom your discussions are about, that’s the benefit of living a quiet life, with the exception of having no control over how your story is told behind your back, explained.
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