When you recognize your own failures in life, you can fix yourself. Until then you will be lost. Know your weaknesses, and know your errors in life, and regroup. There is always time to regroup in life, and think positively of self and others. What causes a loss, and causes a gain, is a matter of manifestation, what you in your heart think is real, true or not true about others, and upon that you react to others, and to people in your lives. Never take out your failures or unhappinesses out on others, as they are not to blame, never to blame for ones own current hardships. Know that until you are willing to move forward in life, and see best your interests and the best interests of others, then and only then will you be able to move past reasonings or people in your li[fe] who have caused you hardship or illness. Know you best suits in life, and always follow the rules and regulations of others, as well as protocols, how best to respond during crisis conditions, not make ill but make better self and others. That is how to build strong foundations, a willingness to surrender to your own faults in life, and help make better self and others. That is how to rebuild. When you are not doing well, that is not the time to confront or attack others, as you are wrong when you take out your aggression or unhappiness out on others. When your energy is calm, and when your energy is not directed toward others, that is when you will do well in life. When you communicate wrongs of others to build sides that’s when you are wrong, and when your side will not be taken in life. Never turn on people, to whom you confide in, those are people on your team in life.