Those who think they predominate in confidence sometimes think that they are entitled to feel that way because they think that there are lesser forms of human stability around them, that have caused others to be at a disposition in life, that sets them on lesser known courses in life, statuses or disciplines, and do not feel compelled to care for those who they cannot identify with and do not see nothing within them, usually people not as bright as them, who dont shine as well as them, who they do not see the as important, or anyone of importance or significance when it comes to how they have come to define themselves, some inspire others because of who they are, and some feel put down by others depending upon who they are in life, its all a matter whether you allow the dispositions of others to dictate how you feel about yourself, or where you see your potentials in life to blossom, whether among or apart from those who either dont identify with you or who have grown apart from you and no longer identify with you. Whenever you experience a change in beauty or body image, thats exactly what others think upon seeing you, first noticing a change and then assuming there has been a loss of identifying with whomever you have become separate from, whether thats friends female or male or lovers and companions and people with whom you have shared a monogamous relationship with and connected with on a spiritual level that is taking care of one another in a a loving relationship. Those who foster best do so whether separate or apart from those they love those who they consider friends, or those they work for, and even in a crowded room, neither intimidated nor feeling less than anyone around them, and still able to light up their own, absent minded who is looking at them, and whether anyone stands out to them, able to stand out too in a crowded room, and not lose light simply because someone else stands out too whether male or female, thats having no element of jealously or inferiority in comparison to those around you, feeling equally as human, whole, and solid as person, no matter who is in the room, whether anyone notices, them, looks at them, and by no matter how many people they meet in life, and interact with, are seen as themselves, not someone in need of fixing, or in need of help, which demarcates someone who is not found, or maybe even someone with disability who is overcoming their defects and weaknesses and trying to blend in with the rest of them, whether male or female. Preservation is about preserving your light, its not meant with the intent to see others as threat to your mental and physical health, no one has the power to take your light away, not by intimate relationships, not by friendship, not by photography, not by messaging, not by reading, and certainly not by exposure, able to change who you are on the inside, and how you look in comparison to how others feel and look whether around you in your life, or via their own observations in life, seeing you in public, rested among everyone else in the room no matter where that room is, who is in that room, who recognizes them in the room, who recognizes them they do not know, and no matter who is around, and who is in observation of that person in interaction with another, there is no power loss in any communications between people in private or by people in public or by people watching over people in private in communication shared or kept private. I am someone who dates, and some are empowered or bettered having dated me or having known me, and without me in their lives have been able to live good lives without me, thats not having control over people who are no longer in your life, and not allowing them to have control over who you are in your life, without them in your life, and sometimes there are attachments, depending on how long you have known someone, and any separation from them losses of light if seen are assumed to be interpreted as a connection assumed to be loved between people who upon separation caused a loss of light to occur. No one is responsible for anyone who losses light around them who knows them who they do not know, and no one with light is responsible for a loss of light occurring around them by people they dont know who see them in public, which is a natural defense upon recognizing someone you do know with light, thinking they have light because they are known to others, and thinking losses of light occurred because they were known to others. That is not the case that love is always involved, light is not about physiological changes in light, between people known or not known in public or upon interactions in public, knowing or not knowing people, see all people as human, not all interconnected based upon who is noticeable who is not noticeable, who is loved, who has loved, who one loves, who loves them, who they know, who knows them, and stop creating basis for excluding people in life, who you think have more light that you in life because they are known, and assume your loss of light is because someone who you think is who they are simply of what they look like or who they know.
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