Its’ your motivations in life that define you do not be defined by others. No singular hardships are ever the cause for success only failure, and failures do not make successes of themselves, only embarrassments of themselves. Be wary of who you choose to be in life, and be wary of what sides you choose to hold. Those are your beliefs as to causes, causes do not create sides of equality, and religions are not based upon principles of equality or of sides, but of peace. Peaceful minds, make the best decisions in life, ie those who preserve good in the World. Causes do not make belief systems, systems based upon hate, are dismembering to say the least, but principles of authenticity duty to warn bring about doubts that help, help peace to persist, are good decisions made, in fact the best decisions made, those who violate positions of trust, and do not follow religious tenants, are not causes but of concern. Be wary of the gravity of harm you place upon individuals for the rules and standards you put forth as to likings and as to welcomings, and as to acceptance and privileges given. Privileges given are to those in trusted positions, people in power who have money, are given insurances to boot, those who cannot afford insurance do not have car insurance. I am a very safe driver, I am someone to be trusted, a good samaritan, and I do not project weaknesses upon people by my own faults. –There are times to be thoughtful of others, and there are times to think of self, it just so happens that it took me a year to get well, and by the time I got well, everyone else was not well. I do not understand why that happened, but I always do my best. –I am always there for others, my entire life, someone to talk to confide in, trusted. –Now I am doing the opposite, talking in public, I do not need the confidences of others to function, I do not need following or fanship. Im just a writer., kind enough to share my stats, not for the purposes of promotion at this time, writing a book, and going back to school, with no plans to make money any time soon, for at least 1-2 years. It will take time for me to get a job and to function, I’m just writing a book now. Why now, I have been writing online for many years, now its time to permanently write something. Something of value, something that can be valued. –I’m a very thorough writer there are no slips, or lines to be read in between im not a poet, I am a very detailed and articulate person, time to be serious.