You cannot inspire others to create a life for themselves that you are not able to live yourself, and so the theory evolves, which type of lives inspire, lending insight for the creation of lives and to the betterment of all become well adjusted during times of need, versus, which influences and exposures, cause the inequitable exchange of emotions resulting in feelings of loss, and lack of ability to say the least. Empathy is a natural human emotion, not to be toiled or tampered with, manipulated or made better, via the influences of most, its a quality characteristic and trait existing within people they use to identify within themselves how to respond, do the right thing, say the right things, and not be led astray nor leave others astray for that matter by their advices. Who is in need? In your younger years you first experience a strong human need to bond and feel connected to someone you engage in a loving relationship with, a relationship, in which one or the other is accepting of the other, without hesitation or reading too much into their behaviors, loved unconditionally, and upon loving someone unconditionally they are bettered, that may not free them of their troubles in life, but sometimes its through the acceptance of another, they are provided with a comfort and reassurance in life, they are not yet ready able to provide for themselves without you in their lives, or because of being with you and around you have grown accustomed to that feeling of being loved, without having to try too much, and with little effort on their part, without guilt for the energy expended by the other to give love unconditionally through good times and bad. -There are many ways in which a person can be of value, as a writer, someone of value for interpretations is someone who shares insights that help build better understandings of most, whether or not the writer feels misunderstood, in a moment of weakness, or during moments of a lost sense of control over their sense of being among others respected, valued, appreciated, acknowledged, or reassured, its a very selfless endeavor to write through a multitude of phases in life, without expecting anyone to understand you as though that would make one feel better, sometimes its better to accept people as they are without reading too much into who they are, where they have been, what turmoils they have suffered from past, and be glad that they are here today, and respect their life as lived. We live in a society where some have been raised to feel empowered by knowing more, feeling that so long as they are able to see better than others, that they will feel better than others, and think thats what makes them intelligent, having not endured the same hardships as others, and even upon being exposed to circumstances faced by someone such as myself who got sick, not feel sick themselves, understand that natural benefit to hearing someones story, and understand the detriment that is felt by the story teller, who in exchange feels dis-empowered, the more articulate the other becomes at telling the story of someone elses life, as lived, not lived to be told and without necessity or burden placed on any individual who is expected to share their story and series of decision making efforts to be alive today, free of harm, insult, and unwarranted intrusion into their lives past, for the sake of connecting and assembling their memories, to better suit your own understandings of life, and how the world works. Never in any moment of history, has anyone ever been required to explain how systems of thought are derived to equate to the successes of most, and understand the more you try to tackle the subject as an outsider to the best interests of those wrongfully connected in different professions have the capacity to cause pain to most, that is when someone who thinks their need to feel specialized and in the know, is more important than those who work and produce absent minded anyone watching them or being influenced by their lives, remain specialists in their own respective fields, be viewed as important. Good wirting is not saying what people think, therefore, that causes a dis-empowerment to the writer and a loss of identity, to cause them to become over-concerned with what people think, and instead of reading from within and making decisions based upon their own exposures and understandings of life, go out of their way to accommodate someone elses perspective who is not likewise directly affected by my condition, my mental health, my ability to connect with friends, date, or be regarded as a professional, by man made worries, created by those without enough professional experience to feel confident and like minded or appreciative of my own achievements in life, equally as confident in my shoes, and base their understanding of my wellness, as based upon whether or not they feel well standing in my shoes think better for themselves, whether by knowing me see the world better, by my shared insights, come to understand better how others think and speak, and sometimes taking on the shoes of people from someones life feel a sense of empowerment being different than me, not having mental health issues, and not having suffered, see themselves as better than me, because the more they can learn about my life, think its fun to pretend, that had they been me wouldvt been smarter, or made better decisions for themselves, leaving them feeling empowered that they are not me, and benefit from hearing my story.
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