When you separate people it should be for good reason, when theres something off or painful that cant be reversed and two are turned off by the other not a healthy match communications wise. Hurts. Then two people need to be separated apart too much fighting early on is a sign of insecurity a deficiency to the bond not clicking.
Lying is never the solution to any problem it only causes paranoia and self-doubt isolates you weakens your ability to be present set aside your needs for others, into your own emotions. Why care for those who don’t care never cared. Only when well are we at peace when tired we may become ill when slow is not good enough.
You cant live your life disappointed with yourself. When conservative, never loosen up to adjust to others or overdo your mood to compensate for another emotion felt. You can’t reverse pain once you hurt someones feelings you cant turn around you either fix amend or you yourself change your outlook and accept be accepting of others. –When its too late independent people hurting one another. Theres a social problem, an attention problem.
What you say you will be reminded of –your mind recalls what you say when anything you say is off –anything off will cue you to an off feeling, and all off things recalled if said when on but not realizing off. That’s a later recollection looking back with judgment toward self –non-acceptance causes upset.
Anytime you experience slowness –that’s your body telling you you need to slow down process not where you should be in life because focus misdirected either by you or another purposefully or by accident to be sharp one must work hard to think clear that’s how to achieve a natural calm in chaos.
When you think things are about you –you are less likely to succeed in life, being self-conscious, not sure or embarrassed of yourself, not like yourself.
When things are not going right that’s not an opportunity to criticize who is doing well or not bothering anyone in life its by your own merits you succeed mature.
You cant worry about the past so much it only stifles you. Never go to war on yourself, unnecessary hardship due to self-harming behaviors –causes illness, you cannot afford to let down your guard –it injures your character and your ability to behave well. You cannot depend your present unhappinesses –to dictate future consequences –that’s you trying to control now to –predict the future –just accept what you know without trying to figure out your future. When well don’t hurt yourself.
You cant go through someone’s present to figure out their past –That’s not how to solve problems –but creates problems or hurdles for others because thought deserved. –You cannot predict the future but you can control how you see the past –always be positive.
You cant reflect well on yourself when you are preoccupied doing something else. Its difficult to speak when what gets communicated back is to spite you cause you pain, anguish, or hardship. That’s purposeful conduct to screw you over in life as though you think deserved. Don’t allow people to take miscommunications too far. That’s how you get hurt by what you focus on. Whos on whos team does not matter. How things look from the outside looking in are never clear to someone new unless studied in depth, an individual to cause harm thought deserved. Most people are concerned with themselves not others.