Who takes action first, is the first to whom a response is generated toward or about, whether for their best interests to protect, or whether for the best interests of themselves. Its usually only until later a bigger cause other than themselves is alluded to, that others take into consideration the viewpoints of others, as to what their work represents, and who their work represents, people, ideas, beliefs, code, or for the most part us. Who is "us" whoever you work with, are friends with know, interact with, share romance with in common, or know, these are all people of concern, when it comes to identifying you as a public figure, it is before you become a public figure that begs one to question uses of ones identity to shed light upon bigger stories, or to connect back to inferences as to individuals, who whether playing along with, or of and about their interests and care, later on match with the general interests and care of everyone. How specific you are as to your cares, will generate a response from others, depending on how big you are, or indentifiable you are to the masses, whether known to all popular in a city or town, stick out, or whether you blend in not famous yet, recognizable, or not recognizable to others on the street. Who stand out, was a virtue, given to those who are healthy, never then nor now, does that mean connected or known from online, a new trait. For some reason you can always tell when peace is about to be broken, when someone is photographed well, when their eyes are lit up, and then something bad happens to them, and their eyes become dim, a loss of light, is exposure to something hurtful, someone hurtful, someone lacking light, a loss of light within us upon exposure to a loss of light outside of us. Its important to keep track of yourselves, not others, what causes ones image to be painted in the negative by others, made to look dark, and when one is light, what is forgotten about them, in defense of themselves, make you look or appear worse in the public eye, without you knowing it. That is someone taking advantage of you when you are small (face-to-face) so that when looked at by all (overhead) you are seen under a different light, unpalatable to the tastes of all. Its so important how you represent yourself, so no pictures of you, words by you, get misread as identifying you among a group of people we call "offenders" -offenders are by definition, doing things on behalf of themselves not to the best interests of all or to the majority affected. By their insensitivity, their insincerity, their lack of effort, their failures, without due diligence, without forgiveness past, in their own minds, about others not themselves, affect the majority. That is being worrisome, someone who we think of, "unwanted thoughts about" bothered by. This why some people are "public figures" remembered and looked upon for cues, as to whats in the best interests of all (thats not code, similarities, thats "light") and when they appear to be thinking of everyone, or just themselves, casting a negative inference to appear or look like in reference to a photo: (1) Nude at Harvard Street sent made by an Ex, (2) Facebook Photo pose or face. If someone doesnt like you, then behavior by others in bikinis is allowable, except for you, to show yourself or your body, if its okay for others to look drunk online, its not okay for you to appear that way, and if its okay for others to date and mess around, that doesnt mean its okay for you, and if its okay for others to be friends, and hookup, its not okay for you to be friends and like anyone you are friends with, and when its platonic its platonic, its when it comes to liking people, for sex, likes, attraction, imitation, emulation, influence, we get judged hard. -Being nice means business. When you cannot tell the difference between someone who is intelligent versus someone who is healthy, then we are right on track, with wellness!
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