You will always be faced in life with three hardships: (1) sickness (2) unhappiness, and (3) insecurity. Similarly you will also learn: (4) love (5) pride (6) trust (7) smarts, and (8) forgiveness. It never ceases to amaze me, when things are not going right, and people are dying, whether from drugs, alcohol, connections, or by their own misconduct carry guilts from incidences past, that the well are affected, as though it becomes our responsibility to either (a) fix them, or be confronted with an even bigger project to (b) fix everyone. Im not really sure what the solution is, but Im pretty sure, that there should always exist a human ability to regain conscious awareness of the gifts, their health, their livelihood, their abilities, once all is said and done and responded to, with a great degree of care and sensitivity to the issues. I think the main reason why most dont get involved, is because if matters only affect a few, we assume should not affect many, but sometimes the loss of a few, do impact many, that is if we ourselves become sick, feel compelled to question those around us during moments of illness, and think that something has not already been done to address these concerns, and systems not already put into place, to assess the gravity of harm caused to them, by them, and how others have been affected, or will be affected upon knowing them, which is why we know few of them, drug addicts, alcoholics, and criminals, they generally dont shine once they have lost their shine, if not recovered, that attitude you cannot fix about anyone who wanted a better life, wanted to feel good, and in the process of trying to make things happen for themselves in life, just to feel good, wind up finding themselves alone in life, having helped no one, not even themselves, and possibly having hurt anyone who knew them, well or not well, expecting more of them, thats the type of disappointment that the well express toward anyone who they feel does not represent themselves well let alone others, so that they do not feel well themselves, as though there is something wrong with them, until they identify what it is that they are doing wrong in life, if they do not already understand what it is about them, that is so disappointing to others, whether that be family, or friends, or strangers, you really owe nothing to this world, except your good health, and well if you cant provide that in the least, than expect to listen more, think less, and take better care of yourself. As a general rule of thumb, NEVER wake everyone up to sickness in the world, as though by how you feel or by what you see needs to be known to all, always be sure to remember everything within you known is not known to everyone until you share out loud those feelings or thoughts, and no matter how sick the world gets about others, or about you, and your direction in life, you are never required from a better viewpoint in life, to articulate what it is others are thinking when they see you, or look at your life, or upon review of your experiences in life, think less of you, thats just society, sold on ideas, what works, and what isnt working, and that will never change about a well functioning system of trust, how trust is made, how trust is kept, and by what means people are accepted and able to care for themselves and others in life. Thats not the solution. When you get hit with a crisis that you cannot readily comprehend yourself, just because you are awake and functioning, does not mean that everyone is awake and high functioning, some get tired, disoriented, upset, angered, confused, hostile, for themselves, indifferent, or carry an attitude toward you, as a manifestation of their own unhappiness experienced upon seeing you, see your life as a joke.
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