Look at the Big Picture.
Focus on Yourselves.
You see more clear when you are you, not focused on others.
How You Present Yourself:
Reflects (1) Your Drive and (2) Your Motivations in Life.
Always Be Positive.
It takes time to process trauma, usually its best to leave things alone, and give your friends time to breathe. There is a time and a place for everything. Given the circumstances, its best not to say anything that would denote blame to any parties, or appear in a way, that denotes blame to self. How overreaction is perceived is someone who is not in touch with reality, or appears insensitive. Always be sensitive to the needs of others, especially during times of trauma. –Share the good time, but be wary of sharing the moments, you regret and/or are embarrassed by. Be kind to your connections in life, and be kind to those we remember, always. The memory of yourself, is something that you work on everyday of your life, how you will be remembered, is by the positive differences you make in your life, to live a better life, for self and for others. –Your problems should never be the problems of others, only your own, as they apply your words to themselves, those reactions you are not responsible for, how you are perceived by others, that is always outside of your control. –How you present yourself, reflects your drives and your motivations in life. Everything you say and everything you do, is used against you to prove or disprove your theories and rationales in life, purpose for living. Everything is always grounded in past behavior and achievements. How you are if the same as how you’ve been, will be judged in the positive. If how you are is different now than how you’ve been, you will be judged in the negative. Be careful what you share about yourself, after you become well known, everything then gets applied to relate to you, to better understand you, everything should always come from you, not sources. That is for the purposes of protecting the identities of others, not using the identities of others to make better the look of oneself, you will always be you in defense of you.
Where is this coming from? I applied to Law School (2006) wrote my statements. How I am now, is much different than I have been in the past, why I’m upset with myself. Im not happy with where I am in life, but that’s no reason to give up, in and out of the psych ward, mentally ill. Its not fun being me at all, I have depression, not running as much.