Don’t feel bad if youre being judged upon who your influences in life are, and whether youre a product of your exposures in life, trying to be well liked or be more like others to become popular in life, that’s what is assumed of anyone who isolates, and lacking social skills, sometimes people isolate not because they have to but because they want to, that’s not due to apathy or thinking they are better then, you actually miss out on a lot of things in life, when your priorities in life are work in school, its better to maintain friendships, than to try to start a new life, why trade in your life, if you cant be yourself, you’ll never fit the mold of others expectations trying to be someone else in life, look or appear like others. That’s not how one develops interpersonally nor professionally by imitation. Its always important to be unique to be valued, its not important for others to notice your strengths in life, if the measure of your self worth is based upon qualities about yourself your proud of them one should not be judged as not possessing characteristics or traits they deem likeable if not noticeable upon their viewing of you, expect apathy from those looking for other things in life to make them feel good, anything you share regarding your successes in life, will be deemed as a potential future threat to their needs as they think your motives in life are to be of influence to others, and by trying to be an influencer in life, that people they know or will meet will have been influenced by you, that’s them thinking you are more powerful than you are, or possess power by names associated to, which they is cause for your likeness in life, not deserved. You are never responsible when others feel like $hit, there are no winning teams in life, everyone is responsible for their own health, required to do their best to stay healthy, its no ones business your medical history, assess your health looking for pre-existing conditions and future trip about accepting you into their lives, reject you without you knowing why or hearing from you directly, some people go off of what people say, and some people go off words verbatim, its unfortunate that you as the patient, are not listened to, reading your medical history others will assume something else, not that you were trying to get help or not feeling well, and assume all for the same reasons, life gets bigger as you get older, and develop professionally, you cant correct the past, if how you interpreted things in the past caused you illness then its important to continue doing whatever it is you are doing now, that’s keeping you afloat in life, it then becomes a waste of energy to share instances in which you became delusional and thought things were happening that were not happening -if youre not someone who can move forward in life, you will be deemed as someone with baggage also known as someone who has problems that need to be dealt with, not already processed. If when you are happy others are not happy for you, don’t assume the negative, and if you become unhappy, reassess your own life, before thinking its a product of what is said about you or become a product of what others think, don’t allow your fears to come to fruition in life, by focusing on others, some people get read, and some people who write are wrongfully accused of reading others, or being influenced by others to achieve in life, see forward, or feel good, that’s a blessing whenever someone comes into your life and accepts you warm towards you, that does not happen often, if you look like an unhappy person, don’t expect anyone to cheer you up, you will always be judged and questioned as to whether you are genuinely self motivated in life, or on the highs of who you are surrounded by made to feel good, as though your confidences in life have not been earned, its not by your experiences in life that make you strong, better, or unique, able, or with more access to knowledge to better understand the world and have power, thoughts of your own to share, don’t be minimized by lack of enthusiasm, and if youre doing well in life, ignore those who do not take you seriously in life, its more important to do your best in life, even if it means going out of your way to help others, than to sit and watch life occur. *Its by your work experiences in life, that you achieve the confidence required to act in the moment, and apply what you have learned to a real world setting when among others, that’s doesn’t mean that one is comfortable with themselves, or because they are able to perform under pressures in life, are comfortable around others (because the people themselves were studied). The more you focus on others the harder it is to perform and recall based off what you know and have learned in life function, you then become a product of the worries of others or by their insults affected, once they feel like you, and you don’t feel well, is sometimes by the time they stop harping on concepts looking for reactions from you, judging you as being in the wrong or drawn toward helping others because your strengths in life were empowered by the sufferings of others, or by exposure to traumatic events in life, disqualified as coming from a genuine place your cares in life, even if you automatically empathize with others, does not mean its your job to care, sometimes showing you care about issues, makes people think that you only care about issues that make you look good by caring for others, take on what they think are challenging jobs, as though you have an agenda of looking good, or using your experiences in life to benefit you, if your privacies in life have been violated and you cannot prove your losses in life, then don’t complain, and move on, its everything you complain about or argue, that others take from you, as you begin to not feel well in life, others will claim that they were understanding of you, and that your need to feel understood or clarify self was a product of your own mistakes in life, or initiatives, as you figure things out in life and if you develop a system of understanding and processing events and the past in a way that is helpful to you, don’t expect others to be there for you when you do not have yourself figured out, moving forward in life, what you have to say or think is only of value so long as you stay well in life, otherwise devalued as just words.
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