How to avoid the demonization of self, requires a lot of discipline and positive thought. –Demonization usually occurs by obsession a specific obsession of wanting to be something youre not, this causes a negative outlook and negative attitude, which results from unhappiness with ones self. To undo a negative outlook, one must have positive perspective, to have a positive perspective in life, one must be able to see things for themselves, not be told what to do, but be able to achieve on their own, without the necessity of others leadership, or following to achieve a purpose driven life, this requires, tact, how to approach topics, without insult. How to behave in public is much of a reflection of your cares in the World, and that shows over time, selflessness, and care over empathy (sponge likeness) and leadership can be seen through example, of living with positive purpose, through tone, exhibited. –We are all responsible for ourselves, as well as those around us, always be mindful.