Its not necessary that you be on everyones team in life in order to find and achieve success on your own, its important to make and have friends along the way, but its not necessary that those friendships if not maintained to the same standing they were once held, hold you back in life, as of less than in life, we all move forward we all grow apart, and knowing your connections in life, do your best moving forward to better yourself and your life, not hold others to conversations about you that would make them or yourself uncomfortable as around others. When you decide to be a peacekeeper online you have to be open about your mental health, physical health, and be open to criticisms along the way. When you provide a voice online to 3,000 a week or up to 1,000 people a day, that’s your responsibility to take responsibility for the words that you share, and not make worse your condition or the conditions of others as toward you or others, theres a fine line between sharing so that all can relate, and sometimes sharing to which no one can relate exactly, and that’s okay. We did not all grow up the same, so interpretations may vary depending on the closeness you feel to the writer or lack thereof, in favor of your own best interests and mental health. Given that, its important to understand that not all may be well liked, given there upbringing, and that some of those descriptions about others, they are born with, not something they later changed about themselves to fit any molds or ideals of thought, but based upon who they are, feel or think a certain way. I’ve been told that head hitting is hereditary, something my Grandma went through (#stroke), that doesn’t mean that that makes it okay for me to hit my head or stress out when I’m not feeling well on my own, with or without help from others, no one should have the power to push you over your edges in life, one should always be in control of themselves, not others to be at peace. If you cannot control yourself in response to others, then you are not being tolerant of their hate or disgust toward you for who you are or who you’ve become, successful or not. Not everyone has experienced the same hardships in life, its important not only to be an understanding and compassionate person, but pick and choose to whom your compassions are granted to. It is not expected to show compassion or love for those who cannot mend themselves, get help or rise above hate, or discrimination for who they are, or who they’ve become as single. That is for no one to judge anyone who is unwed, and for what reasons unwed, suicide is a problem, because people do not feel good about themselves, do not feel like they can achieve in life, and do not feel good enough, everything is within your reach so long as you choose to stay sober and clean, the longer you dumb down yourself, or your life, to a few blurbs about you, the more difficult it is to be accepting of your past and the past of others, and move forward. Until you can learn to accept the immaturities of others then, and your own immaturities as responding to others, then the greater acceptance of all can be furthered, as not limiting respect only to those conservative and quiet, in their approaches in life, and be accepting of those who speak for themselves, not for or on behalf of others, and allow people to represent themselves well. Its not a perfect world, you cannot accept people to be happy for you once you’ve achieved well, but it is your responsibility to stay well, disappointment, cures upon success, and disappointments following success, are hard to mend … you can only make mistakes in life so many times before people give up on you, and its by those mistakes you are judged in the wrong, or judged as deserving of mistreatment, so long as you do your best, whether or not you are able to achieve success in life, is your right to privacy, and your right to live life.
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