12/18/17 (Originally Handwritten - Journal)
How people put things together –Some people put things together to hurt you, if you allow them to –and sometimes people put things together in a way that helps. –You cannot control the interpretations of others –whether for or against you. It does not make sense why anyone would read along and not support me. –But take benefit [from my hard work and effort, writing, and academic disciplined knowledge]. –That does not make sense to me –why anyone [would try to credit themselves force credit upon themselves by triggering me personally now, for what consequences forward does that serve] –would acquire information information from a person they do not like. For what reason are people negative toward others? For what reasons do people bring up the past (not true) to serve and benefit themselves, their viewpoints. For what causes do they seek to trigger to benefit themselves?
There is always cause for worry once aggravated. Occurs when one side is not doing well and to better themselves bring[s] down another side. This is called competition for happiness. When one cannot be happy for others or another’s happiness irritates them.
[Always see the big picture, do not blame causes and consequences on oneself, when one is not in the spotlight and another is, there is no one to blame but the spotlight and from where that spotlight occurs, and for what reasons, positive or negative, I would never enter the spotlight, when I am not doing well, I’m not retarded, I’m cautious, and I warn others, how to behave, not get into trouble and how to achieve peace within before trying to correct others, is wrong, aggravation is wrong in all forms, I’m not famous, everyone has their own lives, that’s assuming there’s an obsession with me, a non-existent public-obsession and trying to affect me to see if theres existence of one, that’s called delusional behavior toward others, that’s called manipulation, to purposefully affect others, to generate a reaction to feel better about oneself, that is wrong, that is called being selfish about ones self].
That doesn’t make sense to me. Everyone deserves to live a normal life and do the best they can to achieve a normal life. There is never any excuse for anger or hostility toward others. [It] is never justified if not purposefully provoked. –Some problems exist within themselves. In it of themselves – in existence – meaning not existing because of others. –Problems, ideas, or thoughts. Are most likely generated from their own concerns. Assume from a good place to not contribute to[ward] those ills. –I was thinking about this today –There are conversations, then you leave a conversatio[n]. How to control yourself during unwanted conversations and what to do in the event of aggravation. –Usually it [is] best to walk away, leave the conversation and not engage others in conversation –avoid fights. –How you function afterwards –is in your control.
[Don’t attack others to feel a certain way in order to function in a way that brings you peace centers you makes better you, that is wrong, to be co-dependent on others, or to trigger others, to re-set your mood to better or better than].
No one can control you, your thoughts behaviors of how you function in life. It is never your responsibility to correct those who have harmed you. People who are exposed to abuse, used to those types of relationships will repeat those patterns toward you –hurt you again. Always be understanding. Especially when it comes to family and friends. Listen not tell people how you feel, but try to make new conversation, not relate what’s going wrong with individuals [who are] not concerned with personal issues [generally in states of crisis, -but concerned with themselves, their safety needs, that’s why I said always be understanding of others]. Platforms are not for attention but for communication with others. How people identify themselves is their own responsibility [including their own feelings and emotions, toward themselves, and toward others] –not the responsibility of everyone ever to help one person, a person should fix themselves to match their settings and blend in. Not stand out to be fixed. That’s trying –recipe for seeking unwanted attention so if talked about can place blame on others
[or create circumstances to justify win arguments or point blank prove a side or occurrence or sequence of events, or likelihood of causal connections or correlations, after the facts trigger and then see if any dice pattern throw out differently to match ones viewpoints toward or against an individual or group of individuals innocent is wrong –it is never the victims fault, always remember that].
-[or] try to make someone like you or have similar issues to be addressed or fixed.
[Be careful not to take on characters past in someones life to prove past or see if present occurs to denominate any individual as problematic characteristically or see if problems occurred in another character past, to judge a character now, that’s manipulation, use of self, to indicate characterisitics in other by default, ie manipulation, planned occurrence or planned response to triggers given].
Best to get professional advice, not wear out others with negativity [sought or felt upon interaction with others, based upon their present circumstances, who they are now, or who they were past, that’s stuff you usually keep to yourself in your own head, not trigger others negatively to generate responses, that’s considered immature ordinarily behavior, but for the times, common under crisis]. Once you change it will seem like everything changes around you.
Leslie A. Fischman
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