You won’t always get your way in life, and its upon failures in life that you learn how to build a tough skin … learn how to handle your losses in life, whether they be separations of people or separations of interests, you know you best, fight through the pains of defeat and fight through the pains of embarrassment, you too deserve a life free from discrimination or hardships usually placed upon those who are not doing well, not well off, or not considered a success in life by monetary gains. You choose your own battles in life, and its to that you speak … not from whats inside that’s bothering you, and not from whats outside that’s bothering you, but always speak from a place that makes sense, that’s always the best way forward. Addiction has a lot to do with not feeling good, and in order to feel good, using things in place of that feeling to feel good, that could be by overtalking, or by drinking, pills, or too much socialization … all of which can be draining for an introvert … know your speeds in life, and set limits for yourself, its not necessary that you be well liked or loved by all, but always taking into the consideration the best interests of others, when trying to do well in life, not step on the toes of others wellness. As self-identified addict, or alcoholic, its important not to put the pressures of your pains on the doorsteps of others, your problems are your problems, not the responsibility of others to quell whats going on around you … or the voices within, and if people want to make it about another hardship they assume, well that’s their problem with you judging you by voice, or how you look as someone who has no experienced trauma, and whos disabilities are not yet readily identifiable. Everyone has their own struggles they tell you in life, that people are fighting battle you know nothing about … if you can’t sit up to bat, then don’t bat at all … and if you can’t handle the jokes in between … then don’t suit up and show up for the fight. If you are not well you are likely to be deemed contrary to the opinions of the masses if identified as being of ones own opinions in life, and if you are not valued as being the creator of an opinion in life, well then that’s people just being too hard on you, not seeing you as original or unique. Always strive for your best, that’s not addiction, that’s drive, always do your best, that’s not for others, but because you want to get well, and stay well, that’s for others to care not just for yourself.
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