Expectations in Life and Conversations with Aaron Brown by Leslie A. Fischman - "A Positive Basis is Always Truth = Good Luck."
Expectations in Life & Conversations with Aaron Brown by Leslie A. Fischman
There are expectation in life. There are not combinations in life that can bring about psychic change for you in the future, or predict future outcomes for yourself and or others, that is just called, luck and good decision-making skills, being well read, and aware of your environment. Understanding whats going on, before something happens to you before you get hurt, well has happened to me enough times, that I can share, usually a period of discomfort, or feeling like you are being forced to be somewhere you do not want to be in life, and would rather be someone else, by choice, and not by choice, by the choices of someone else, where you are, that’s called a loss of control, not by your choices, not in your control, and then there is followed by an increased probability of getting hurt, that’s because (1) youre not where you usually are, not in your element (2) more likely to get hurt when you are not in familiar territory, or in an area where you feel comfortable, trusted.
I just got off the phone with my ex Aaron Brown, and after being heckled at the mall, not something I should repeat, after walking out of a Michelle Williams, Movie. Texted her not to take it personally, too many variables in motion, and was texting Barack Obama throughout before and during and afterward how I felt in response to seeing her, how I was affected by his death. The think his face was a poster I took down, that I never put online. So that’s impossible to have occurred in that way. So that’s the delusional assumption connection that was made, to connect me personally, to a series of events, a poster I took down, it was grostesque defamatory.
-I told Aaron “I’m sorry we faught. Wish I was never born, make the most of life, see positive always, what you have, not what people think.” (coughing in the background the haters walking down the steps who heckled me shouted a racist slur at me because of the way I look and how I speak, because they think I’m gay or needy of men, no I’m independent, I get harassed I NEVER harass others don’t test me, its called life or death, that’s a different set of circumstances = hospitalized NOYB). I work with ravdenltd now, overseas, which is helpful. Its not a big deal.
Aaron replied to me, that he was “glad [I was] born and glad [he] met [me]. [And would] always remember [me] … [but] wish[es] [he] could see [me] … [but] [is] too old, too fat now.” –These things you have to overlook, be encouraging toward others. Notice that if I don’t feel good, then he’s not gonna feel good, vice versa. Simple.
You guys attack me like Im Fox News, or understand public opinion, or how to gear opinions about myself or others, and Im simply not an experimental or experimental in that way, and not for experiment, if anything I try to add reassurances, that the job is getting done, and that I am doing everything humanly possible to help the Government make the best decisions they can for us moving forward, that’s my position. I’m not rebellious, I don’t need trust, I worked for them at Age 22.
Everybody’s On Something Else in Life by Leslie A. Fischman
Everyone is supposed to be on something else in life. That’s how we remain different and unique. So when someone asks, what are you on? On to the next, on to something, or on to someone or something better in life. Maybe it means something positive [maybe its focus on one’s self], maybe it means something good is about to happen. You should not fear the successes of others, or even your own missteps in life, but always seek to make better yourself and other. You can throw the past forward and expect a different set of circumstances, or different set of event to occur any differently, than previously having occurred, and ANY mention therefore, leads to risk of future occurance, this and the NSA I know very well, since 2013, why when it gets close, they throw confetti, its like Snapchat but of Law Students and Lawyers, we sue people and throw people in jail, they even didn’t give me jobs and threw me online [by default I became a writer online]. Desperate times call for desperate measure, its important to always stay calm, and be accepting of one another. One thing Ive learned is to always prove them wrong, never prove anyone against you right, that does not make things better only worse, to step into puddles laid out for you to slip and fall into like traps to see if youre good or bad, or have sound judgment and rationale decision making skills when presented with facts that can be used to illustrate a multitude of things for or against you in life, that is how information is unfortunately applied, by what is provided about each, and then each individual is judged based upon a series of informational tidbits and facts, applied to a bigger picture to illustrate that picture, whether it be positive or negative, the outcome is everyones responsibility to control, if a negative outcome is assumed to have occurred past, do everything we can to prevent that future outcome from occurring, that’s called taken preventative steps to ensure the safety and well-being of all, a quotes campaign, I thought best.
People will assume, no matter what information is provided that there are non-existing connections to event, to prove that some God exists, or that some power positive or negative exists that causes these occurences to occur, that is trusting in something greater than yourself, a purpose of another, always trust yourself first, and trust professionals, their opinions, and guidance is what matters.
“Also be mindful there will be people in my World who are not going to like me and that might not have anything to do with the distant past or present upon me.” (Video #1, 12/30/17)
“I think the whole point is for me to keep going in my World and not have it collide with the past World, like as if I had this conversation theyd think that I was crazy so its important to just stay in the present.” (Video #2, 12/30/17).
“Its like people can F up your life, if you just so happen to be doing something at the same time that this person decides to go to jail, and they want to mish mash the past with the present to see if the past turns out differently, Im not for experiment Im sorry.” (Video #3, 12/30/17).
“If you know yourself, and you operate from within, then everything on the outside will always be you, that’s the secret, I figured that one out too, they go wooo and leave an impression.” (Video #4, 12/30/17).
“So what happens when Im negative I look bad, when Im positive, I look positive, so that’s the simple solution, to talk like this at all times.” (Video #5, 12/30/17).
“I see that people want intimacy, Im not an intimate person, Im a writer, Im not going to attach my heart to yours, I want people to think for themselves.” (Video #6, 12/30/17).
When You Put Yourself Under a Microscope by Leslie A. Fischman - How to Handle the Pressure of Perfection
When You Put Yourself Under a Microscope by Leslie A. Fischman
When you put yourself under a microscope you will be judged for what you put under that microscope. Feelings about you and towards you will change, viewpoints. Some will like you and not all will, but you have to be accepting of all crowds around you. You cannot control your audience, or people who do not like you, they will watch anyways and read along anyways, and that you have no control over. People will always be judgmental, you have to maintain a positive attitude, there is no secret to positivity, there is no position or costume you can put on in order to be perfect, you just have to be yourself. That’s key. When you like yourself others will like you, when you do not like yourself others will not like you, you cannot read your audience, you can only read who writes you back, that is the bottom line. You cannot read what is not written to you, you cannot read words that are not spoken to you, you can only be yourself. You should not predict or anticipate the reactions of others toward you, that will only make you sick, the only thing you can control are your thoughts and your perceptions, do not make yourself sick anticipating the reactions of others, walking into puddles and dead ends in life, to their chagrin, those are those who are not accepting of you, and for whatever reasons, based upon what they hear or say when they look at you, should not be your problem, but problems of their own with you, and you should not be adversely affected by the problems that other people have with you, that and those are their judgments of you, accepting or not, and should not lead to self-harming behaviors and or dislike for self, you can only be you. Its impossible to please everyone, you can only have so many fans, and have so many people turn on you in your mind, that you eventually hurt yourself, life is not mortal kombat, never finish yourself off, just because one person does not like you, there is likely to be someone else who will. Be forgiving of yourself, life is not perfect, and you cannot be well-liked by all, but you should always like yourself.
Journal Entry #5 by Leslie A. Fischman
You have to be careful –what you consume affects you. What is becoming of you –is when you represent yourselves and others well. Always be in control of your emotions. What you send out (energy) gets sent back to you –especially on Social Media –where we are easily affected by others and easily misread. Who you are and who you are associated to matters. You build these associations to you by the likes you choose. –How people see what matters to you –and what you’re affected by. Always see the big picture. –Nothings a big deal if you don’t make it out to be a big deal. Think in terms of consequences. –How does your audience feel. That’s always a good indicator of how you should project yourself online to others –help make normal others. When you are normal everything around you will feel normal too.
Addiction and Trauma by Leslie A. Fischman
According to Nancy Boyd Webb: “under stress [it is common for others to] … rely on alcohol and drugs, and/or engage in other risky behaviors to help them cope, these methods [she states] may actually place them at increased risk of danger (Blaustein & Kinniburgh, 2010.” (6)
So how does this relate to Social Media use? According to Nancy Boyd Webb “a crisis intervention approach that aims to lessen the anxiety of the people involved in a crisis [is key] … to bolster[ing] their coping strategies [with] … the potential for the primary prevention of psychiatric disorders.” (8) Its important when others are in a “vulnerable state” to be patient, she explains it is commonplace for those in vulnerable states to react “aggressively after a relatively minor occurrence” if they are victims who “suffered repeated physical abuse” that is how they may respond she explains, “aggressively.” (9) Social Media can help in that it is a place that provides comfort to those in need, especially those in a state of trauma. She explains to always be aware of how “witnessing adults” in trauma affects your audience’s processing of events, why its important to always stay calm, be informative.
mmdfilmbase.weebly.com (Stencil/Trace Evidentiary Concerns, My Influences) was created for these very reasons, to alert those best situated to helping others of their power to control our audiences coping mechanisms. According to Nancy Boyd Webb: “the mastery in advance through reflection or fantasy [good-willed] provides a form of psychological preparedness that ideally will lead to enhanced coping in future stressful situations.” (9) Why I love Movies so much, because during my difficulties, I relied heavily on Movies to coordinate my feelings, to adjust to my reality, and in order to feel whole, related self to Film.
Sharing is one way in which to establish a system of readiness, among your cohorts, and audience. A system of readiness has been described by Nancy Boyd Webb as related to the concept of “misery loves company,” she then goes on to state [if so] “then we would expect the sharing or a crisis or traumatic experience to offer a degree of comfort and support that is absent when an individual undergoes such a stressful crisis alone.” (10) Which is why we have Social Media. In my mind, Social Media is not just an escape from reality, but a way to helpfully process events, news, and understand concepts in the public sphere so that we don’t feel alone in this.
Nancy Boyd Webb, Play Therapy with Children and Adolescents in Crisis, 4th Edition (2015).
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Over-Dependence by Leslie A. Fischman
You should never become too dependent on any one thing or person for love. That is up to you how you play your cards in life and where you end up in life is up to you. Don’t fret the small stuff in life. Always focus on the big picture. If you’re not where you need to be in life and not happy then think about what will make you happy in life. Never get too caught up in the delusion of unhappiness. Don’t lock yourself into unhappy or unwanted thoughts. Think about what it is that will make you happy. Is what you’re doing right now going to help you achieve happiness in life? Why or why not? Don’t let anyone bring you down in life. –We all get sick sometimes its all a matter of getting well and staying well.
Conversations by Leslie A. Fischman
I think conversations are supposed to be slow motion. Not to overwhelm the other party to whom you're having a conversation with. In today's day in age with text messaging it's easy to get carried away in any conversation. Often times stating too much without a response in anticipation of a response or in defense of self. -It's important to never be too defensive over ones thoughts and emotions and to always think of others first. -This is how to achieve balance in any conversation. How your reader feels should always come first in any conversation. -Too much of anything is annoying especially to your readers I've found this out the hard way. -Social Media therefore should be a place of limited communications in order to preserve real life communications which can be instead by text or by telecommunications. -Everything you say has an impact on the person to whom you're speaking too, always be wary of their feelings and responses. Timing is everything, it's never too late to earn a reply, this is often achieved by how we carry ourselves online -in turn affects our real life communications. Don't make things awkward for yourself over sharing amongst your friends, and always choose friends who know you best not likely to pass judgment upon you.
It takes time to process trauma, usually its best to leave things alone, and give your friends time to breathe. There is a time and a place for everything. Given the circumstances, its best not to say anything that would denote blame to any parties, or appear in a way, that denotes blame to self. How overreaction is perceived is someone who is not in touch with reality, or appears insensitive. Always be sensitive to the needs of others, especially during times of trauma. –Share the good times, but be wary of sharing the moments, you regret and/or are embarrassed by. Be kind to your connections in life, and be kind to those we remember, always. The memory of yourself, is something that you work on everyday of your life, how you will be remembered, is by the positive differences you make in your life, to live a better life, for self and for others. –Your problems should never be the problems of others, only your own, as they apply your words to themselves, those reactions you are not responsible for, how you are perceived by others, that is always outside of your control. –How you present yourself, reflects your drives and your motivations in life. Everything you say and everything you do, is used against you to prove or disprove your theories and rationales in life, purpose for living. Everything is always grounded in past behavior and achievements. How you are if the same as how you’ve been, will be judged in the positive. If how you are is different now than how you’ve been, you will be judged in the negative. Be careful what you share about yourself, after you become well known, everything then gets applied to relate to you, to better understand you, everything should always come from you, not sources. That is for the purposes of protecting the identities of others, not using the identities of others to make better the look of oneself, you will always be you in defense of you.
How to Get Your Cool Back by Leslie A. Fischman
How to get your cool back, after loosing your self-esteem on Social Media, is a complicated task. Once you make yourself look stupid, you have to repair yourself. Repairing yourself, requires that you engage in less re-blogging, less sharing, and be a minimalist. Minimalism is good for people who have a lot of issues, and do not want to be read, or suffer from misguided thoughts about self or others. Theres a reason for this. When you expose too much of yourself online, you give more ammunition to be criticized about you, the less you share about yourself, the less critical others will be of you, and you decrease your chances of looking or appearing hypocritical, meaning going against your word. Don’t make promises to others you cannot keep online, why less is more, when expectations of you are low, you improve your chances of excelling, when expectations of you are high, you increase your risk of choking under the spotlight, why its important to be frugal with sharing information about yourself in public, online, and on Social Media.
“Leave Things Alone” by Leslie A. Fischman
We are always told to just “leave things alone.” Why? Usually when things get to be too tough, or if there is fighting, we are told to leave things alone. To me leave things alone means “let the dust settle” or to walk away from whats bothering us, or a fight. These are called remedies, for dealing with what is difficult to us, to our minds, and to our well-being. If something is not in your best interests to continue, usually people walk away from what is bothering them to focus on something new. –I was just thinking about this, what we focus on matters. If we focus too much on the negatives, just like harping on the negatives, then we will become negative. If we focus on whats positive, then we will become positive. Never underestimate the power you hold, to undo what is negative in your life, so long as you continue to hold negative viewpoints toward self or others, you will never achieve happiness with yourself. –Ive once stated that whenever we hurt others, we only hurt ourselves, that is human nature, to empathize with people, so anyone in your life, who you hurt, you end up hurting because they become apart of your life once focused on. –Anything negative from your past can be brought forward to harm you in the present, why its important to move forward in life. When you are happy, I’ve said before, then everything around you will become positive, and happiness can be achieved. When you are negative happiness cannot be achieved. –Why its important to leave things alone, especially ideas and things causing you unhappiness.
The Timeline of Care by Leslie A. Fischman
There is a timeline of how long someone will care, usually not unconditional, in the field of marketing. Generally people only care for a little bit while marketing, and then they leave and find something better. That is my experience with marketing, if you cannot offer better, then your following will leave in support of something that makes them feel better. That’s generally how people choose spaces to grow, is based upon who they listen to. Who you listen to matters, it affects how you grow, and what you see, and what you feel, do not allow the sicknesses of others to affect your being, or how well you see in life. Always be appropriate, when you give in to sin, and behave in a way that does not reflect accurately your words or your viewpoints, you look hypocritical, that is living in a way that does not match the words that you say. This causes other people to question you, whether you are mentally stable or not, and whether you are deserving of your audience members. #TrustFacebook
What Are the Holidays For by Leslie A. Fischman
The Holidays are for spending time with Family. Whether that’s checking in on them, or sending gifts, or making a New Years resolution. It’s a time for change and reflection. Reflecting on this past year, what could we have done better, how could we have lived a better life for ourselves, and how can we earn a living to provide for ourselves and others. What we focus on in life, is what we achieve. We cannot be successful if we are only focused on the negatives. What becomes of us. Is what we focus on. Whats important to us, and our achievements throughout the year. Those are the goals we set for ourselves moving forward, as we better ourselves. Living with mental illness, is no easy task, it is something that must be managed daily, in order to achieve in life, maintain a job, and have a career. You must always be on your side first and foremost in life, you cannot become too dependent on others for approval, and sometimes on your own you have to figure out the difference between rights and wrongs in life. When you cause harm to yourself, not only do you let yourself down, but you let your audience down. Always have self-control. –It is not our responsibility to take care of others, only ourselves, and when given the responsibility to care for others, do not abuse those positions of trust, and always maintain a level of professionalism that is required of us. The better suited we are in life for helping ourselves, the better suited in life we will be to help others. That’s the bottom line when it comes to helping others, you yourself must be strong.
Why Tech was a Difficult Field by Leslie A. Fischman
Tech used to be a difficult field because people were not sure what information to put together and how to. Overtime as we realized what was causing beffudlement, we became more clear, with a more clear vision for how we want out sites to operate, within a whole, not stand out, as different, but supportive of one another. This took time. In any new field, there is competition for resources, after these resources become scarce, we realize that we need to be supportive of one another, in order to attract a larger audience. I think everyone is getting better at building websites, now that we are all working together, not separate spaces, but connected to a few spaces, social networks. Social networks are for websites and web personalities, to function we must always cater to ourselves first and our audiences secondly, that’s how to avoid repetition, and imitation results in unhealthy competition. When we build off one another, not on top of eachother, there results in a plentiful following to each site, when people move about, they follow those in connection to sites trusted, and where they can move from trusted site to trusted site with ease. When there is malfunction in the movement from site to site, then this results in questioning the sites functionality among. Why people create sites where once you get there you move from one page to the next within the site, to avoid confusion, and to keep people on their website. Some websites are landing zones, and some websites establish connections, and link you to other sites, that will not change. The sum of its parts, the person responsible for the identity, must be registered to be authenticated, be authentic, original, considered an original. –How do you make an original, when you do not copy or imitate others, how you stay unique, and maintain a following, when you base your identity off of others, online, you run the risk of devaluing yourself, if seeking to devalue the other, by being better than. Mark Zuckerberg and I help eachother, its like a Hospital, Patient.
Why Does Hate Breed Animosity by Leslie A. Fischman
Whenever you have a fear, that is not your own, that produces a worry for self or for others, to undo that fear, of popularity, that causes one to generate hatred toward another, also known as jealousy. Be very careful to whom and why you become jealous. Jealously is a tool for self-betterment, also a tool if misused, to cause hardship to another, that’s called trying to take the place of another, in place of oneself, to market oneself, with the identity of another, to make the other look stupid, and you better by comparison, that is the causes for jealousy and general reactions made by those who are jealous of another. Be very careful not to present self as someone who is jealous, but appreciate those around you. I’m no marketing expert, but any competition is good competition, it means bettering spaces, for everyone’s livelihood and that’s always a good thing. What you see and can make better, is usually called having a plan. When you see a plan its easier to make a plan, than it is to build something from scratch. Any website is time consuming to produce, with so many options at our disposal, its hard not looking put together these days, and if you’re not put together someone else will put something together. That’s how competition online works, who puts what together first, hopefully for good, we put together things, how we work together, the blogging community.
Respect why does it matter? Respect is so important, not just for the purposes of self-discovery, needing to have self-respect, but for the purposes of lifting those who we admire, and recognize those who we despise, without hindering the abilities of anyone, when we have self-respect, that means not engaging in fights, or behaviors that make us look disrespectful or immature. Listening to others is one way in which respect can be achieved, achieved for self and newly acquired respect for others. (What do I mean, I’m getting to the point. Reading over what I just wrote).
Self-Respect (definition): Holding yourself in high regard, demonstrated properness, socially, academically, and professionally, that illustrate you hold others in high regard too, that is how self-respect can be achieved, by those you hold in high regard. Those you admire, shape you, influence you, and that’s who you become.
Then whats the difference between self-respect and respect. To me, self-respect is respect for self, and respect is respect for others. It’s my theory that in order to have self-respect we have to respect others. Meaning, when we do not respect others, then we are lacking respect for something either them or ourselves, which causes immaturity, and immaturity is a result, to me, of lacking respect for self or others.
When you love yourself, respect yourself, others will love and admire you too. When you trash yourself, by being negative toward self or others, then others will not respect you. That doesn’t mean that they should trash you, but they will throw things under your bus, to make you trash yourself, or to cause others to trash you. That’s just apart of life, staying grounded in principles, that’s how you achieve good luck in life, by not allowing others to get under your skin, having a tough skin about you. –I don’t believe that overexposure causes one to look trashy, when on the inside you feel good exposed, that means you’re a performer. However, when you overexpose yourself in a way, by taking in too many exposures, you will feel trashed, or not good about yourself. Overexposure, works in one of two ways: (1) what we expose ourselves to (2) and what we expose others to, about ourselves. –That’s the big dilemma on Social Media, what exposures cause illness, and which help. –I think if you don’t like someone, then no exposure of them will help you see yourself, its important to always be separate from your audience as a writer, not in their face. –I’m chubby right now, so I only photo my face, not my body, that’s why. –I wish I was skinny right now, but I would never expose anyone to seeing me when I’m down. I only show my face when I look perfect, I feel better, key to high community esteem.
Your Influences in Life Matter by Leslie A. Fischman
Your influences in life matter, as to who you are, and where youre going in life. Where youre headed is always a direct reflection of what you have in your tool belt, the tools you acquire throughout life, are supposed to help you (1) be (2) be aware and (3) be aquainted in life with your surroundings, have an appreciation for where you come from, and the influences that define you. Why your influences matter. –Don’t be so hard on yourselves, nothing can change you, if youre hard headed enough not to let the voices of others drown out your own. You must always be in control of where youre headed in life, whether someone tries to be you, acquires your gifts, or competes with you in life, thinking they know better, and can achieve better, and have better direction in life, its your intuition that guides you properly. Always be proper in front of others, we are only misguided by our own missteps in life, how we end up places we wish we never were, and end up behind in life, or having to turn around in life, and find new direction in life. You are always the matter with you not whats the matter with others, you come first, in all matters. In order to be self sufficient and succeed in life, you have to matter to you, in order to not be easily misled by others, or put in harms way, misguided. –How you differentiate between the present and your future, determines where you end up in life. Its not that difficult to follow directions and laws, they are meant to protect you from harm, you and others from harm. What you focus on therefore matters, always focus on the positives in life, to prevent hardship, and or personal struggles, we need no mentors only ourselves, and we need guidance, in order to persevere. –Do not blame people you once looked up to and who failed you for direction in life, you are always responsible for the choices you make and who you idolize, be yourself.
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#PublicSafety by Leslie A. Fischman
“When you turn on people you turn on yourself never speak badly of others. How to stay in the game be popular, well-liked, appreciated, valued. By being a positive person, you change you its not the responsibility of others to change you. Don’t expect from others. –What you pick apart, apply to your knowledge to is your business. #righttoprivacy, it takes time to be a thinker, think for yourself, produce new thoughts to your own knowledge, by #schooling. Pop-Culture should not rule your mind.”
My Mom says “if money can replace it its not a problem.” –she told me to take down my Facebook the other day. But I went back and left it up, not to abandon my friends, or make them worry about me, why I left them. This is a problem I face whether to stay or whether to go. I just made friends with the Amish Girl from New York, Torah Bontrager, and she replied. One of her challenges is to write everyday for 12 minutes, she told us to handwrite. –I thanked her and she replied.
I think privacy is so important to maintain mental health and to preserve your personality. I had a panic attack when I found a tear drop in my journal, why -was someone reading my diary and crying. Probably my Ex-Boyfriend Aaron Brown. –He pretty much ate my brain, -we dated for three years, then he became a DA, and is now an Attorney, and showed up in one of my dreams recently.
You should always be you. Have you ever read the book Guns, Germs, and Steel, its about the History of Civilizations, and people eating people, its really sad. –I share my brain because I think Ive been to enough school to know whats positive whats negative and how to help myself, while helping others cope with the times. –No loss is worth losing yourself over, never take anything too seriously, yourself most.
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When People Are Grose by Leslie A. Fischman
We cannot control what we look like to others. Do not mock or imitate me and interfere with my progress, if you are unhappy with yourself, than its best to move forward in life. I do not promote people who are grose, or who do not like me or make fun of me, or who are not on my team in life, I just ignore them.
Its important to always be in control. People will hack to make you look like someone who is insecure, or not stable, and therefore not to be trusted. I’m not a grose or unsafe person, and I don’t have to prove anything to anyone. –I am very secure with myself, and because I am secure with myself, people read my NEW [website](s).
Its people who are grose on purpose for attention or who make others look grose, who are insecure with themselves, because they think its funny to do something (by few) behind their back to see (as experiment) what the reactions of others will be. –Its never proper to hurt someone purposefully, I am supervised by Srg. Lattimore of the US Military and cc him on everything important. This isn’t President Trump’s job. Whats beyond you, is not as important as whats in front of you. –To spread rumors is sin, and for those reasons, I have left a location or locked a location, in which I have been harmed, or where others have been harmed, deemed unsafe. Usually when you leave a location its because either you have been made to feel unsafe or because others have been made to feel unsafe.
When someone does something behind your back to hurt you, it is obvious to onlookers and not of concern to me. When people hurt you purposefully that’s on them, based upon their immaturity or inability to deal or cope with their own problems. The problems that people have either with themselves or toward me are not my issues, but their own. You cannot fight any war on personal basis, that’s selfish decision making, when you only make decisions for yourself not others.