You can't be scared of the past. In order to move forward you have to be present. Know when. When you're timing is off beat you're off beat -that occurs when you feel behind in life. Know your presence present matters well enough to let go of the past. How you get worked up over nothing. -and by the time you realize it it's too late or your timing is off you feel ill, burning. Don't traumatize yourself into believing things that don't exist. You can only voice yourself so often before it becomes unclear unnecessary a waste of time purpose not solid perfect anymore. Once you become defensive to the thoughts of others you become ill.
People with problems will think what they want to think absent of what they are told that's called delusional fears you cause oneself by engaging in risky behaviors. -There's a such thing as fame. Some are fame retardant some are fame attractors it all depends on your leadership skills whether you feel good to others light up a room or you light up in a room -shows what kind of person you are liking to watch or be watched. Affects how you light up to others. Always let the room light you up if you don't light up in a room means there's something wrong with you that needs to be fixed your surroundings should always feel greater than yourself more important than you, others. That's self-awareness of others, good behavior.
Some people specialize in being funny they're called comedians. Once you go funny serious scares funny. That's why you have to be careful how funny smart you are. To others your audience always read their needs not your own in order to be well liked. You get good attention by being good and you get bad attention by being bad.
You won't know where you're headed in life until you get there. Always be patient with yourself if you're not where you want to be in life -you should always appreciate now and who's around you -focused on what you have not what you have not.
Timing is everything in a World of fear your best timing keeps you out of trouble not off balance in life. You cannot go backwards in life, that's where blame and abuse lies. You just have to keep moving forward in life, step away from your problems, forgive, and move on. The more you stir the pot the more it burns and pains others to see you, then no one wants anything to do with you when you're off putting. That's why you have to be good to have good things happen for you in life. How to stay well.