Don’t get depressed thinking that life is short that just drags you down in life, don’t be led astray in life be thankful for what you have and be empowered by that. You will encounter a lot of illness in life think what is it that you can do to stay well in spite of suffering from illness. The positive interpretation is always best not by interpreting things in the negative do we grow.
You can only stay positive so long before something does not go right or runs afoul, think first what it is that you are focusing on positives or negatives to make happen for you in life a weller state of mind. Nothing negative sought to be proven ever led anyone to a better state of mind it’s usually the opposite when positive if focusing on negatives in avoidance of proof the negative occurs, why it’s important to either focus or create a more positive outlook even when things are not going right so that things fall toward the well not fall backwards into illness - give people time to heal, you cannot study the illnesses of others to help make them well you cannot not listen to those who are not well to think you can control their wellness play god or make yourself look better as caretaker to that’s not empowerment that’s disempowering the ill to make the well more well at the expense of those who are ill kept ill or going backwards toward illness. Allow people time to move forward and get well why we have right to privacy to not relive events or illnesses move forward in life. God forgives everyone has the responsibility to do the same not do up dirt about people who are well to prove smarter than or not well by comparison