MYMOLLYDOLL (Caliber Notebook #4)
By: Leslie Fischman
When you have a job you’re not competing for resources among people without jobs. Those whom you get to know personally will not treat you well if you are not confident with who you are. Some are careless, and judgmental toward those they think are responsible toward their social ills in life not as accepting of others as they are themselves. Don’t misjudge the intelligence of others. Usually its those more intelligent than ourselves when we are not accepting of us, they think they know more or better, hurt us. If its not a match its not a match and needs no comparison. What works long term? When we are happy with ourselves -things work out in the long term for us. When we are not happy with ourselves things don’t work out in the long term for us. Its important when leading self or others we maintain steady footing and keep a good head on our shoulders about ourselves, not let ourselves go. Staying positive is difficult when you are trying to build yourself up then let yourself down. People intelligent will not pay attention to you if you are manipulative with their emotions, always stay grounded and be independent of others if you want to have a life for yourself. That’s not how to stay positive by people pleasing your way to illness then blaming others for your failures. In public things always seem worse than they are, get back to reality and have a life for yourself worth living. Do not be intimidated by the happinesses of others in order to achieve happiness for yourself.
Being analytical, not sharing your wellness with anyone who takes advantage of your kindness to make themselves, gear your writing toward their interests. You can’t partner with everyone. Eventually you have to do whats in your best interests not be controlled by others. When we hyper focus on the interests of others not our own this can cause illness or not feeling well know your limits and never second guess yourself. When pushed by others we can make poor decisions for ourselves, when led astray from our best interests. -That’s not how to help others by who you’re connected to as not wanting to be connected to you. That’s not how to do well in life by who youre connected to. That doesn’t make you a better or stronger person by who youre connected to. -Always maintain a level head about yourself. Who is able to share and who is not able to share depends on how well you are.
Theres no easy clean up when it comes to image overtime you can only cleanup your image by moving forward irrespective of the opinions of others. -Your influences in life matter. You cannot discriminate others from being influenced by your opinions keep other people out. The more you focus on keeping others out the less happy youll be focused on their non-attention of you -or too focused on separation from. Its who you are connected to that affects your sense of being. No one can change you.
Don’t make fun of your infleunces in life. -Whats apart of you, you don’t like should not matter as to your makeup everyone assume is doing their best to stay well not necessarily be apart of. You are you, sometimes that’s all that matters. (Developing food for thought, tone).
Focusing on today and why does that matter to disconnect from others not interfere with the connections of others and build esteem why is building esteem important to reinforce what we like about ourselves not connect to bad sources.
When bad advice is given -just ignore don’t criticize when criticism is assumed anticipated -ignore. Don’t engage [in] conversation with those trying to get inside your head, you can hear them. Its not your responsibility to cure voices of others toward you -leave you voiceless. Just be quiet -to cure voices toward you and write.
Its not your responsibility to reverse the opinions of others toward you change if your are fine just the way you are then you can pay for help and meet in private with professionals to assist you with your dilemmas in life. Don’t assume everyone knows you or that they recognize you in public judgmental toward you -you don’t have to respond to people get tired. You don’t need to help anyone your issues your right to privacy.
Once you become well known you must be comfortable with yourself its hard to be well known accepted. Until you are comfortable with yourself will you be able to be known [by] others comfortable around you. -You are your primary caregiver, help yourself first.
Stay in positive spirits about yourself don’t allow the unhappiness of others [to] weigh you down hurt your heart others should not base decisions off you. That’s not proper perspective to see the outside of multiple events connect events to cause harm to people well. Things are best separate not be judgmental toward someone doing well to see what causes [self-harm]. -Its among women empathy and those well only when someones not well.
The opinions of others you cannot control as toward you you cannot control the voice of others only trust. Be respectful of the feelings of others. Don’t cause disturbance when emotionally disturbed. Always be calm. Don’t be a source of inspiration. Then be looked at as off putting not well. Its not for the humor of others to know you from online, then be interpreted as having self-esteem issues. Related to respect and acceptance. You cannot make others feel sorry for you in life. That’s not how to treat the[m] well like they are sick or as though there is something wrong with them that needs to be changed. -Allow people to be quiet -they are not required to light up others. -Allow people to be well on their own, see for themselves. -Don’t enable others to think look like you come on too strong or because you appear or look strong hurt your ability to be strong achieve well for yourself made to look ill, that’s not wellness to base confidence off of ego and wellness by strength.