Don’t be resistant to help from others, they come a dime a dozen. Be appreciative always of your blessings in life and good fortune, without whom you would not be where you are today. Good luck comes to those who know and value themselves and others.
The less time you spend worrying what other people think the more time you get to spend being you. Forgive yourself often and always set your standards high. You can’t cut corners in life just do your best and work with what you’ve got.
Help yourself first before helping others, nothing gets done right when complacent, everyday is an opportunity to better yourself. That being said, know when to stop, nothing lasts forever. In order to set a good example you yourself must be well, otherwise let those who are well lead.
“Just stay positive” is sometimes easier said than done. You can’t always get your way in life if so then we would all be happy right? But life isn’t perfect, we all have our flaws, it’s to the betterment of all that we find some positive purpose in life, driven by goals, not needs and wants, finding comfort in the fact that you are not alone.
Some people don’t change you can’t change people. They may adapt themselves to their environments but that still may not be enough. Learn to let things go forgiveness is a virtue not everyone is adept at owning up to their wrongs in life, would never stoop to that level to make someone appear ambivalent when they care or aloof a sign of self-centeredness not righteousness. People can only be themselves. People take their own courses in life that will never stop, what can be stopped are expectations, what can be changed are hearts, know yours and allow others to choose for themselves who to change for, love, trust, admire, or empower that’s up to people not places.
It’s just a bad day not a bad life. Be careful not to vent your frustrations out to others -that’s not the solution to your problems to complain you usually end up worse off. It’s hard to keep a good head on your shoulders and avoid getting in trouble in life when carefree. Love often, trust more, and always be thankful for the people in your lives.
You only get one chance at hello people either welcome you into your hearts or speak above you, that’s usually a manifestation of their own insecurities reacting and responding as others would more or less understanding given the times ... some rise to the occasion and others sit back and are led by those who are well. Find yourself first and everything else will fall into place. Be patient.
Don’t let your troubles get the best of you. If you stay negative you’ll never get to experience the blessings that life has to offer. The only ones we let down when in fear are ourselves, your strengths generally come out during times of turmoil when pushed to our limits, how the best shine. Everyone gets upset and let down in life you are your own best friend in life what’s most important is being able to pull yourself out of a mess not allow the voices to fester.
Publish // Rule #1: Don’t complain. Sometimes life has it that you learn the hard way to be accepting of all, not everything is about you in life. People are mostly concerned with themselves. If paranoid think first what it is that you could be doing better in life then go out and do that.
Everyone wants to be special but that is not always the case there is a fine line not to be tampered with and that is a good image mistaken for a bad image then treated poorly to confirm the negative about someone that’s no way moving forward how to help others, by setting standards so high that once a good standard is shown or achieved put down as deserved this disables a persons ability to achieve well in spite of the circumstances to prove the past moving forward is not a result of rejection or the silent treatment that is deserved when someone is not good enough made to feel like a reject or not able. The well can be playful those who are not well do not partake in experimental behavior play with your own image not the wellness of others that’s what’s at issue when someone knowingly does something wrong it’s that response that is looked for and if in the reverse negative circumstances occur for them prove as justified or deserving as karma, allow people to grow at their own pace in life and do not be affected by the negative commentary made by others or as misdirected toward you as deserved to see how you respond the same or similar to as provoked to prove treatment of another is likewise deserved by reaction generated to confirm a similarity non-existent prior to causes creating controversy or discomfort is not then the responsibility of the person affected to be looked up for help as to the side that who while trying to identify the wrong illustrated a wrong by affecting the person believed to be a wrongdoer that’s not helpful for the provoked to defend themselves as being mischaracterized to justify a non-existing discord toward them to test to see if a discord exists as made fun of, that’s not the solution to bring about consequences or reactions to prove certain a given set of conditions occur prior to reaction to make the person reacting look defensive making others look well or better than by comparison.
You can’t always get what you want. Sometimes you are in the wrong when you’re thinkings not clear it’s easy to convince yourself that you are in the right. Never be too stubborn to think outside the box, maybe you don’t know everything, and your intuitions could be off. Let people be people you can’t control what other people think, your version of how the world works is not by the same interpretation how others see the world everyone lives different lives. By your upbringing and experiences in life contribute what you can without sacrificing what you know best yourself, all others to help you change comes slowly it’s not inevitable it take patient and good decision making skills to act and behave in a way that’s appropriate under any types of pressures to change better yourself.
No one will ever be on one side in life people will always hold their own opinions in life that’s just how it works. When a side is created by default upon the happening of any wrong, the bigger person is the one least affected and by default a chosen side. Don’t therefore by default reinforce sides and become a side or create a side or justify oneself unnecessarily to set ones self aside. When the voices linger as to your own conduct do what is right now correct what is wrong by stating what is wrong that rarely is the solution moving forward, those are called opinions you hear. Once you’ve arrived to well allow the voices to stop on their own it’s usually by good deeds and well managed thoughts we steer clear of controversy not place oneself within for unwanted attentions in life.
Not everyone is going to be on your team in life and that’s okay, in a perfect world people take sides, that doesn’t necessarily mean there is something to continue to fight about, learn to let the dust settle, let things go, and move forward without rehashing the past. Learn from your mistakes and those still accepting of you in spite of your imperfections should be valued. The more you allow your worries to dictate your thought the less of you you hear and the more of them you hear. Try not to reinforce negative opinions of you and everything you say matters and how you say everything matters as to how you will be judged.
You can’t get very far in life calling people out on their stuff to feel better about yourself, one side ends up losing the side that takes it too far or the side in defense of self wasting their energies on preventing problems can also lead to contributing to causing problems when the other side does not feel well or feel like it’s won in life, that’s called a fight. Always rise above, nothing can be solved by asserting yourself to prove another side wrong the best of them win not by proving anyone wrong but by avoiding all forms of competition for rights. To do right in life one must only be good.
Always do your best, less is more. If it would hurt someone to talk about better to talk about positives, what it is you are happy about in life rather than talk about your problems. We all have problems in life it’s selfish to assume that your life is more difficult than the lives lead by others, we all face challenges in life, we all have disabilities, and we all have pasts filled with moments we are either proud of or regret ashamed of. No one is perfect. Just do your best to stand tall and moving forward not allow your past to define you ... let go more often, enjoy who’s here now, and be of value. #thankyou #lebronjames
In order to build a better future for yourself process your past but not to the extent that it disables your present ability to move forward. Those who are successful are light on their feet, they may have been through a lot in life but they don’t easily take to heart commentary as directed toward them or others empathize with either side, are focused on being the best version of themselves. Life can be painful especially while wasting time, energy, and effort conforming to a set of ideals instead of valuing what there is to love about yourself. People who truly love you will accept you just the way you are and if you change so be it. Always do your best to better yourself everyday you’ve got and not give in to negativity that is processing the negative sentiments shared by others about you or others, stay on track and never give up. You are only allowed so many energy points per day spend them wisely on what matters and who matters to you in life, you’ll be lucky enough to be rewarded ten fold if you don’t lose sight of your cares in life and your way of handling reality coping see best fit.