Eventually everything gets to be too much and you find yourself running for 5 hours in the dark and in the rain and the next day and a few weeks later, finally give up and lay in the ocean, that’s when you wake up and realize it’s all in your head, and at that point you have no one to blame but yourself, the rest of the thoughts may cause you to laugh at yourself about, how could you be so serious or how could you be so stupid, or how could you allow someone to affect you so badly that you yourself cave in -never give up. Some people have it all and able to rise to the occasion and some are less than able to arise to any occasion.
Sometimes you think you have it all figured out, but until you are well, makes it difficult to show care for others in a way that suits their needs, you can’t please them all. What does being loyal mean to me? All things aside never passing judgment upon others or doing or saying anything to make them feel bad, we can’t make everyone feel good, some decisions and choice words ... well there’s no turning back. In order to mix well with others you have to be forgiving and with an open mind think, your heart is your heart you are never required to share what’s bothering you if it has nothing to do with what’s around you, never vent your frustrations toward those who care for you, and always leave room for growth, that’s best how to help others while helping yourself stay fit to care for others. You can’t have it all ... be patient, there’s no in group to wellness or feeling apart of, just what makes you feel good, is no one’s business but your own.
If you keep on blaming other people for your problems they won’t go away. That just reinforces the negativity that’s keeping you from accomplishing your goals in life. If everything you hear sounds negative, still think the positive. Don’t allow negativity to get the best of you!
Know yourself well enough to quit, move on, move forward, and let go. We don’t all have it great in life some better off than others. Don’t be one of them, too stubborn to change or be accepting of others. We are all important. You may not matter to some people but that doesn’t mean you don’t matter at all. Everyone has their way with people, with words, and how they choose to be remembered by others, you are always in control of what you say and what you do to make your life better and the lives of others as you exist in time and space. Dont make your problems the problems of others.
If nothing makes you feel better no one will make you feel better including drugs and alcohol are especially not your friend during times of need. Knowing that rely on the good things that life has to offer not sit and waste away wondering what could’ve should’ve would’ve happened for you in life. You are responsible for the life that you lead including your systems of belief and people you believe in and trust.