#leverageyourstory (Days 21-24) (07/26/18 -08/05/18)
08-01-18 (Day 21)
When things are not going well for you in life its easy to blame others for our illnesses. -You cant go backwards from errors or mistakes in life you can only move forward. -Accept what help you get in life but don’t make worse your problems or the problems of others. Knowing when to stop is knowing to stop self-harming and start valuing yourself and your future endeavors put together or not.
08-04-18 (Day 22)
Being mysterious means not allowing people to control your sense of being in life. You cannot predict the actions of others and you cannot stop the feelings that others have toward you, that does not make better situations in life. You have to be in control of yourself and your emotions, not by embarrassment respond to others. You cant stop people from not liking you in life you have to stay positive.
08-05-18 (Day 23)
It takes awhile to continue to do well after you have hit a low in life or struggled with maintaining your sense of self and self-worth. When you are not strong in life it makes it difficult to connect well with others, old patterns of behavior repeat themselves when you are not doing well in life to any bystander it becomes obvious who is well off or not doing well in life. It doesn’t matter how much money you have if people don’t like you -they will still try to connect to you to cause you harm. -That’s why you let go in life. When things are not going well for you in life always take a step back. You cant relive your life differently if you are not happy with where you are in life. It should not matter what people think -or whether they empathize with you or not misread or try to read or dictate your path in life -to align with their interests as about them. That is why its important to disconnect with others who put you in the forefront of your mind affects always your sense of self and identity as a writer -sheltered this is something I understand but not most -How me as a writer gets affected by others. -Whether or not that’s purposeful knowing who I am -is not my fault. For the purposes of embodiments and honesty its who you put in charge of you that affects your sense of person -and acceptance of you is based upon your behavior and how you feel about yourself. What may be tested for is how others feel about me -not my responsibility.
08-05-18 (Day 23 – continued)
There comes a point when you stop blaming others for your problems in life and start accepting your life as it is now. There is no cure for acceptance of negativity -either toward you or about you. -In these cases best a person can do is lay low not subject themselves to negative judgement or put themselves up as vulnerable in need of acceptance. Learn to walk away from anything that causes you emotional disturbance. What occurs outside your sense of self is not your responsibility to correct. -Just identify your own happiness in life and what works best for you. When you are not doing well in life it becomes next to impossible to make others happy around you or be accepting of you as looking weird, or weak, or with low self-esteem without a strong sense of self-identity. Whenever something negative in your life occurs always do your best to separate yourself from whats hurting you or your sense of identity in life sense of being whole. Until you are happy with your own image will others be understanding and accepting of you. You are always affected by who offends you -don’t enable the wrong kinds of people to become apart of your life and hurt your ability to succeed in life, no one deserves that kind of power over you to hurt your ability to exist and function in life hurt your sense of inner peace and ability to adapt to your surroundings and hurt your ability to connect well with others whole now [at your own expense] imperfect [as compared to the wellness that surrounds you].