Leverage Your Story
Days 14-20 Handwritten (07/21/18 to 07/29/18)
Book #3 on mymollydoll.com
Day 15: 07-21-18
Not everything in life will work out in your favor. -Always be careful while in pursuit of your dreams not be offensive toward anyone -i.e. take your feelings out on others, or have your own unhappiness manifest as unhappy toward happy people. Whenever you see someone doing well in life -that is because they are focused on themselves not others. -Even if burdened bu the troubles of others -does not require you to fix them, always be yourself, never take anything personally as directed toward you, or make things about you, that are not about you, to better connect to others. You are your own worst enemy in that way. So long as you enable others to cause harm to you and your psyche, you will in turn empower others, not yourself. ~Not everyone knows you -and when an overall judgment is passed of you -make sure that its positive.
Day 16: 07-22-18
There will always be believers and non believers in your abilities, either supporting you or not -affect your well being, that is their opinions of you. You can rarely when trying [to] please a crowd. -Be careful never to please or do things in response to others disfavorable toward your best interests. That is not how to do well in life. You can never assume that everyone knows the same information as you, your attention, recall, memory, and best judgments usually affect your particular experience with a person as well or not don’t assume they know everything you know. Always be positive toward others the world is a big place and it certainly doesn’t need to be made smaller by sharing your problems out loud – affecting others, including yourself. We all have problems. What you read you either do or do not see well in others, always have well thoughts about others, whereas grievances can always be explained privately. -If you see your life a certain way allow your life to happen irrespective of whats going on around you. You cant change people, but you should also not make people feel small or less than value people for who they are not necessarily base your care for them amount, based upon a negative perception of them caring less for you than they do -simply because they care for themselves more, be open-minded.
Day 17: 07-23-18
When you decide to get sober (2014) that is a commitment you make to yourself in order to get well and stay well. But you still have to do the work, no one can push you to be a certain way to achieve well in life, that is work you have to do on your own. -When you finally achieve well in life, that’s a product of others or communications to you. Negative people tend to be selfish in that way all about themselves achieving well, much like those who are not well trying to achieve well not in competition with others. -You can’t judge a book by its cover. Some of us are well and some of us are not well, and some deserve to achieve well and while doing their best to appear well be treated so. -Not everything is about their wellness in life, not necessarily inspired to achieve well based upon your ideas of wellness -interfere with your ability to do well in life. -What people try to assemble on their own without you present, is not your responsibility to help or assist others achieve well at your own expense in life, end up not doing as well as others, and your competitive edge broken by the ideas others have of you, if in the negative, wrongfully interfere with your direction and course in life, by wellness one is always judged, how well do you have to be for acceptance? Not better than. When you know yourself, no excuses are necessary to explain your behavior or the behavior of others toward you, judge or misjudge you as in need of help or declare you as too ill to console until a set of responses from you benefits their position in life as against you and their discrimination of you as justified. You cannot change people, everyone has their own confidences in life. And when you are not doing well if you share your vulnerabilities with others that may only give them confidence over you ~Think twice before you speak and remember to never blame others for your illnesses in life. -Don’t build things up within yourself or get worked up by the troubles of others, that’s not how to connect well to others past or present. To sell yourself short in life, as example or interference provoked by the words or actions of others. To create circumstances by your own hard work and effort to benefit others and enable them to cause you pain and suffering unreasonably, because they either have or have not expressed an interest in belittling you or purposefully casting you away to benefit from your struggles your identity -treat you as not good enough. -That is by their own merits trying to prove or disprove conditions as existing by labeling you poorly to prove existence of a poor condition, conditions caused by others is never your responsibility to solve, so does being defensive to the wrongs of others toward you. To me #stopsuicide means not going backwards and moving forward in life -appreciating what is likeable about you and at the same time accept what is not liked about you -and not allowing others to change you. -You cant T up consequences backward to set someone up as not well presently, that does no good moving forward. ~In order to see the future as well, you have to first appreciate and recognize your present condition as well irrespective of the negative opinions of others toward you. Knowing you matter (talking to myself now) is important to let go of your past -and not allow past memories to dictate you recollections now -meaning -we all have positive memories and (some have) negative memories. What you remember or recall in the past moving forward affects how you see now ie presently. Everyone present is different, and based upon my own experiences in life I write. -You can either write by prompts and get paid or you can follow your heart and write from the heart. That means writing based upon present exposures and maintaining wellness in spite of negative exposures. People may present themselves to you for reaction, input, inference, delay, or consequence, but you are always in control of how you think -regardless of the thoughts or opinions others may have of you. Just always do your best to keep yourself separate from the interests of others to see yourself best.
Day 18: 07-25-18
Your hopes and dreams can easily be lost when stuck or misguided by the truths of others, Ive been told in the past that “we all have our own truth” and that’s what Im currently working on. What is my truth? Knowing yourself is one thing, responding to your audience is another thing. -What you know best -is figuring out what is your strongest suit in life and sticking to that. We all have our ups and downs in life. Just always do your best, and no matter what, stay true to your good character. To be smart is to be appreciative, life is short -much too short to blame others for your illnesses in life. Taking charge and responsibility for your own happiness in life -means not getting caught up in the delusion of the past.
Day 19: 07-26-18
Its important to think for others not just yourself, some are predispositioned to respond selflessly well taken care of with no problems and some of us have problems in life. Its not required to share your problems -or make worse your outlook in life -people pleasing those who do not like you. I get no advice in life, stayed in school. Some of us are blessed with confidence and some of us need to work hard. -Focus on your own wellness. I have trouble staying well myself now, alone, away from others. It happens in life that people get mischaracterized when talked about, you can do your best to reverse negative judgments past of you, but for me -only makes my present condition worse to respond to people past who have hurt me either directly or indirectly. Learn to leave people alone. Its best not to trigger me for reactions poor -to prove bullying of me is deserved when its not deserved. Everyone has their own solution in life, and their own set of problems, mine are private.
Day 20: 07-29-18
Not everyone knows the same information as you in life that’s next to impossible. For writers we can only do our best to share our thoughts without becoming frustrated by the thoughts of others about us. That’s not how to properly take care of someone, by passing negative judgment of them. Allow people to be themselves whether or not you are apart of their life or able to influence them. Acceptance is not always about being understood but by our own actions and thoughts are we judged.