For: Leverage Your Story: (30 Days)
Days 1-27: 07/04/18 - 08/05/18
By: Leslie A. Fischman
Handwritten 30 Day Assignment (Days 1-15)
I was thinking today, I wonder what people think of me, or if that really even matters. You just have to be strong not worry about what other people think. The best part about staying well is getting well and once you get well moving past illness, recognizing what was causing you illness, and staying well in spite of recognizing those thoughts. “We all have demons” but its what you say and how you say it that matters most. “The Journey of 1,000 miles begins with one step” staying sober is a choice not for a comeback, you have to be well for that.
Living at home has presented a lot of changes for me in life. Im no longer alone all the time, wondering what people think, but get immediate feedback as to how Im doing in life. I never really understood the importance of feedback until it was needed, in order to do well in life. We don’t always know what to do, that’s the thing, sometimes we are more adept at figuring things out on our own and other times we cant make the right decision even if we get all the help and support we need. Be remined of where you come from in life, but never forget where you’ve been.
You cant go backwards in life pre-planning how you want your life to turn out looking back, some days you just have to move forward whether with others or not. Not everyone will be on your side in life and that’s okay. Just stay positive.
Not everything makes sense completely -you just have to move forward in life not get wrapped up in the nonsense provoked by others, thoughts or actions. I think this is why they say not to worry about what other people think. You just have to stay positive not everything works out in life. Whether you understand or not whats is wrong, should not gear your actions toward others right or wrong. That does no good moving forward negative deductions.
I don’t think anyone ever intentionally tries to hurt your feelings, but sometimes our feelings get hurt, when overexposed we may feel a tendency to relish in fear of our opposing forces in life, afraid to say what is, that [is] a normal feeling, talking helps its quiet that causes emotional disturbance when combined with negative thoughts toward ourselves, in our heads, as coming from another, or anticipated so. -Just stay positive, rome was not built in one day and neither was life as simple as good choices and best decision making skills exhibited. You never know whats in store for you, you cannot predict the future, you can only deal with and handle best whats directly in front of you. Always stay calm some of the best deciions we make are often times a product of not only having a clear conscious but also a matter of being a good person. -We are not always perfect. We may try our best, sometimes get thrown into messes and competitions in life, but always know your limits in life. You cannot be in two places at once. Whereever the grass is green, know your best and stick to that.
I don’t think anyone ever plans to get defamed. It just happens. Where you are or are not in the wrong if an opinion in the negative gets drawn as to your [good] character, then its your responsibility to correct that negative judgement of you. Blaming others for negative or poor judgment of you -only leads you astray further from your goals of acceptance of who you are or are not, proven wrong. By proving wrong negative judgment of you, that does not necessarily bring out positive consequences for you or past negative judgment changed as to your well being, in or in not your favor or in your best interests. -You are responsible for how others see you, well or not is always in your control -reversing the consequences of negative judgment is a matter of having (1) positive insight (2) positive outlook which upon negative insight and outlooks get frowned upon as deserving or not. What energies you feed into -reflects upon your well being -catering to crowds or yourself, well or not is based upon your (1) success(es) (2) determinations (3) energies. No one can read your thoughts, that’s only a delusion. From conversation to writing, your fathomed thoughts, translate to well or put together at length. That’s how you know whether positive or negative conversations are affecting your intellect, responses, and behavior, about or within you.
When you understand the difference between right and wrong you understand that much more about life, how to behave well, whos watching, whos not. When you get that much clear, you can then develop a better understanding of yourself, absent the expressions of others. -Know your best. Its not required that you receive acceptance from others in order to do well in life, you need only -not behave in a way that undermines your sense of being and your wellness. Always be courteous to the emotions of others, whether toward you or others, you need not always respond -simply being there for others is sometimes better than not being there at all for anyone. Always do your best. Don’t succumb to the weakness or words of others in conversation, make right those who have wronged you -learn to let go and forgive. The more you move forward in life, the better off you’ll be. -Don’t exploit the privacies of others. That’s not how to best help others whether or not you are well suited to be there for others -should not guide nor direct treatment of persons. Be kind to all, nothing insulting is ever if ever taken rightly always personally. Before you come up in life if theres lack of respect that’s outside of your control what others think of you.
People well do and say things you don’t want to hear in life but you cannot let anyone hurt your sense of inner peace. When in trauma and when you cannot express yourself, pause. Don’t enable others to hurt your sense of self, stability and self-esteem. That only hurts your image to enable others to make you look bad or cause you to self-harm to make them look or appear well or better than. All associations get disconnected once you lose your sense of cool and wellness. You cannot allow others to destroy your sense of self. [Took meds] if you are not happy with who you are or where you are in life, you cannot take your unhappiness out on others. There is a breaking point. Don’t aggravate people who are doing well in life. Past their breaking point in life, fall ill to well. Allow well to do well in life irrespective of what you think.
You can’t get a headstart in life piggy backing off the successes of others. All roads lead to one. For reasons not stated, one is or is not trusted by the thoughts of others about. To create defenses is to respond to whats it about. That is for no one to judge the wellness of others -or bring about consequences to them as in defense to learn to let issues go not correlate to prove causation of elements leading to goods or bad choices in life. You cannot blame people for what they think people will always think what they want to, we all respond differently to stimuli, always do your best to report and speak up, not cause consequences for negatives to occur in peoples lives -hurt their position and ability to speak on their own.
Whenever you feel like youre in disarray focus on the present what you can do now for yourself moving forward to make yourself well again. Everybody has their struggles in life its by what you do at the present moment that matters as to your self esteem, as you see best fit, how to be, during good times and times of turmoil, stay well in spite of others. Don’t be ashamed of your past. If you keep reliving the past you’ll never move forward. Life is about being able to simplify your needs and wants in life, do well. Know your limits in life don’t test them. What is well is well and leave it at that. Don’t push your limits in life and especially don’t push the limits of others. Always do your best to stay positive. You cannot control people if everyone was under control of the same person, life would be boring. Therefore always do your best to have fun enjoy life.
Staying positive, and moving forward requires more than just letting go. Part of us -feels torn this can make it difficult to make decisions in life. Who to trust and why -and who is best to speak to. Not everything in life goes smoothly, you are a product of your environment that will never change, you can do your best to appreciate and value life, but that will not change your circumstances in life, bring you happiness or effect the way you see things.
I don’t think its necessary to do things for the short blurbs about you you just have to move forward regardless of what other people think about you, a success or not. -What and who you are attached to does not matter in the long run its what you’re about that matters most. People are driven by different things in life, success, jobs, love -you have to find what it is in your heart that makes you happy. No one can be you. You have to just be yourself, until you are happy no one can make you happy. That is something you have to realize for yourself. The value of hardwork -knowing the difference between right and wrong and when tired, being immune from anything that causes you turmoil or illness. Just be who you are. Until you like yourself its hard to make anything go right for you in life. You cant get worked up over the small things in life, just do your best to stay well and not let anyone affect you. Lifes not a competition for wellness and its certainly not a race to success. You cant be made jealous by the successes of others. You just have to be happy with who you are and are not.
Having a positive effect on others means not engaging in any activities that cause harm to your reputation and by that harm not feel well or achieve well in life. -You cannot go backwards with people once they don’t accept you is to prove them wrong. Life is short, memorable, but too short to worry about things in life or the opinions of others. You can either live life -accepted or -rub people in the wrong way in life and turn them off. Not everybody knows you and just because you blog does not mean that everyone will like you. Just be thankful for where you are in life, not compete with others -be hardworking. Not everything in like makes sense -and you cant T things up for success, much of life requires us to roll with the punches -not make everything about you, stories, or people -you cant just wake up one day connect everything you know and at the same time try to prove yourself, that you’re smart and deserve respect. Not everyone will respect you and that’s okay, most of the time people are just being provocative to get a reaction from you, ignore those you don’t get along with that only causes illness.