Leverage Your Story #6
By: Leslie A. Fischman
If you’re not feeling well rest, yes it’s true people disappear, their lights on and off, that’s normal it’s not required we be hyper vigilant all the time it just means there’s not enough love coming from within or around, usually in love we make the best decisions and when broken it’s love that puts us back together. When people are well do your best to care and when people are not doing well do your best to make practical decisions for yourself and others not overstep your boundaries trying to get people to care for you or think about you that’s called being needy to be wanted by someone who has it all they have it all because they’re put together.
You can’t please them all, stay well, don’t get sick trying too hard in life for the wrong things ... especially for attention. The best decisions are made not by imitating others but by being original and by following your intuitions in life, that’s what makes people look and feel beautiful to be unique is to be admired those are qualities we seek to have in life not necessarily to be looked up to or admired that’s for the well to decide, who to trust and who to ignore. When you have it all don’t lose it all over bad decisions and excess, everything in moderation, sometimes discipline hurts, don’t try too hard for the wrong things in life, love comes and it goes.
When things are going well don’t make things worse by rehashing the past that can do more harm than good. Your thoughts are your own don’t allow others to make you look or feel less than you are in charge of what you think about yourself and others. Don’t confuse your emotions with the treatment of others toward you everyone has their own issues and problems in life it’s not all about you.
Advice to self ... you live and you learn don’t stop dreaming and never give up, only time will tell how far you’ll get happiness wise. Be in control of your emotions and don’t let the day get the best of you, you can’t please them all just be happy with yourself and where you are now. The past is the past if you keep thinking about the past you’ll keep reliving those experiences over and over again, learn from your mistakes.
Be your own person, you should not rely on others to feel whole. Be a good decision maker, and know when to stop. Neediness is a product of lack of self confidence, if so, don’t be too dependent on others for affirmation, that’s how you get hurt.
Life isn’t fair, not everything works out, you can convince yourself of anything when your defenses are up. Listen well to others sometimes you don’t always know what’s best. Good timing is everything ... be patient.