Chapter One by Leslie A. Fischman (First Draft 09/24/17)

MYMOLLYQUOTES (Saved) – Archives (Twitter and Google, Post Lawsuit).
Typed: 09/21/17 by Leslie A. Fischman
 
I.          Shopifygirl Account (Recovered)
 
In a relationship you have to work twice as hard managing the mood of another as well as your own should only be done when you’re strong.
 
For me I have been able to achieve the most self worth and accomplish the most when I am on my own, it’s in [a] relationship I lose focus.
 
Your own happiness is measured by your self worth is measure[d] by your accomplishments why waste time please one and not all.
 
You’re most vulnerable when in love or alone, because you are not yourself, operating on an altered state out of touch sensitive.
 
Two times in life when you’re in your own world, when alone or when in love, like stepping outside yourself with your heart in your hand.
 
When in love, anything is possible, you feel like a machine focused, caring for another, and caring [for yourself].
 
When you’re off on your own, its easy to get discouraged and lose faith. Always keep yourself busy. We lose faith in ourselves and others usually when we are not confident, not disciplined, needy, and feeling less than or not good enough. Part of finding confidence and stability requires you to be okay on your own and fearless. Afterall it’s easier to be around someone who is stable rather than someone who is tripping. Usually unstable people are viewed as being problematic or risky, and quickly disassociated from, that’s normal, that’s business. People who are caretakers tend to be more empathic and understanding, not concerned with image and risk, more concerned with helping others, strengthening those around them. So when you’re down be understanding that not everyone is going to be willing to help you, and that’s okay, some people are not going to be there fore you and that’s okay too. Don’t take anything in life too personally, just always do your best to be thankful and grateful for those that do help you get back to normal.
 
Don’t miss opportunities in life taking your time or pre-planning how you want things to be –just be … whether perfect or on track live for the moment (enjoy life).
 
The more you pick yourself apart [online] and the less you succeed in life the guiltier they feel, harder on you [they are] and [you] failing [in spite of your experiences with them].
 
People bother you only for as long as you allow them to. Sometimes no matter how hard you try to be nice to someone and make amends with them, they will only bug you in reply back not soothe a rough edge.
 
It’s everyone’s job to help get people going around them. Use your positive energy to lift those around you not bring people down.
 
You need to be stable to attract stable otherwise stable people get turned off in survival mode anything unstable is deemed sick a threat.
 
That’s because in survival mode you’re body becomes defensive unlikely to attach easily because unstable turn others off who keep you stable.
 
When you don’t eat food you are more desperate less stable off center unhappy with self react easily to others have difficulty attaching.
 
Food [is] really important to manage the psyche think calm not be manic moody get stuck on a negative tangent.
 
II.                                     Twitter Account: mymollyquotes (Recovered)
 
I don’t think anyone is ever completely detached when they start a new relationship. You’re always attached to the last, or never detached at all.
 
In life you have several opportunities to realize your dreams and make a difference no one door opened or shut is the end all be all. Keep going.
 
People can only help you see yourself better or help you live a better life by pointing you in the right direction but cannot hold your hand.
 
Never assume that others know what you’re thinking, always best to explain yourself and be clear of your needs and wants in life in order to get a life you feel you deserve, in which you feel needed and wanted. Rejection results when the needs we communicate do not match the needs of the recipient.
 
Sometimes we don’t always see or appreciate others until they are gone from our lives but the lessons they teach us last a lifetime of value.
 
Sometimes things happen. You just have to learn to forgive others or forgive yourself move forward. Not everything goes right in life.
 
Don’t lose yourself over other people. Life is temporary, long, short sometimes, and definitely not worth your while wasted fighting with others.
 
Everything you say matters –to whom where and why. Make sure to always stay present not give in to [the] emotions and end up making excuses.
It’s unfortunate I do not deal with stress well get paranoid, bipolar and lose my marbles. Put on heavy meds. While on meds mistreated.
 
You cannot change people or their opinions of you. You can only change yourself. It’s not your responsibility to understand why respond to.
 
When things go awry in your life you have no one to blame but yourself usually whether doing well or rick bad luck occurs. Not your fault.
 
Nothing positive occurs when you move backwards in life ruminate or revisit any issue already dealt with resolved. Just adds animosity at you.
 
Sometimes things happen. You just have to learn to forgive others or forgive yourself move forward. Not everything goes right in life.
 
Nothing comes easy in life. And that includes finding your place in life. As difficult as this may seem -the route of all your problems ability to achieve this in life lies within yourself. When you are doing what you’re supposed to do in life usually things come together naturally for you. When you are not doing what you’re supposed to do in life usually things become more difficult for you there are added obstacles which challenge you to get from A to B and accomplish your goals in life and what is needed in order to achieve a life with purpose and find your place in life. Finding your place in life requires that you (1) know yourself and know yourself well (2) know your strengths (3) know your limits in life (4) understand your weaknesses (5) awareness of others and those in your immediate environment cognizant of their needs as well, and (6) able to adapt to change. Once you have achieved full understanding of how to aquire these life skills 1-6 then you will have a better understanding of how and what weaknesses are limiting your abilities in life and what is needed in order to strengthen a skill set that needs work. I hope you find your place in life as I too am constantly working on improving upon these skills in my own life. Such as adapting to change and being cognizant of the needs of others along my Journey as a Blogger. Once you start Blogging you can’t stop, once you create a demand then you feel obligated to fulfill those promises and perform and provide worthwhile pieces to be read that both represent you well and enable your readers to get to know you. What’s this all about. Respect. Because I do not feel respected in my life has caused me to become a Writer online to earn respect and have something to provide concrete evidence of why I feel that I should be respected and why I am respected by my peers to those closest to me. I don’t think its fair to judge others by their weaknesses but should instead by judged by their strengths and accomplishments in life. That I can shown by Awards and Certificates. -Once you achieve confidence in life your options become limitless. Once you achieve confidence in life you’re ability to adapt to change becomes strengthened. The better able you are to adapt to change and the more confidence you have the more you will know yourself. The more you know yourself the closer you will become to finding yourself and once you achieve this feeling in life it will usually be too late either after having experienced some loss or setback in life that makes you value your former self over your present self. These are all lessons and apart of growing up apart of life. To build a better future for yourself learn from your mistakes and improve upon these 6 skill sets in life and you will be on your way to knowing your place in life and being able to appreciate that space once you get there to avoid any setbacks that require you to start this process all over again. Best of luck to you all. And I hope if needed this blog post finds you and helps you along your journey in life. I know Ive realized how these skills were needed in my own life and I’m glad I have and can now appreciate the many blessings in my life I have and how to better preserve myself so that I’m able to achieve in life fulfill my goals. Thank you for listening.

By: Leslie Fischman
06/30/16

Don’t lose yourself over other people. Life is temporary, long, short sometimes, and definitely not worth your while wasted fighting with others.

Fighting with people just shoes that you care and insecure about what they think so much so that you want them to think what you think.

No one you fight with will think like you think by fighting with them –they think what they think usually because they are not seeing clearly.

When someone is not seeing clearly it’s important not to fight with them but to help them rather than harm them –harm resolves nothing.

Just because someone sounds retarded does not mean they are retarded they just don’t hear what you hear they hear themselves how they sound.

I get discriminated all the time spoken to like I’m retarded. My Law Professor asked me if I was dyslexic. No Im not dyslexic, I have learning disability.

I think everyone needs to change their tone get into doctor mode. It’s really hurtful when people are condescending toward you because you don’t puff your chest out.

Posture is everything. It affects how people talk to you. I know this because I don’t stand tall but slouched. That’s because I have a big chest, shy.

I make friends I lose friends now all the time due to blogging. That’s okay the personal troubles comes with the territory competitive.

People who speak badly of you generally do so because you have something they want or there’s a quality about you they don’t understand.

In order to get more people on your side its important to blog to your audience not to individuals or about others but keep it about yourself.
 
In life rarely when you talk about another will someone take your side similarly while blogging the same occurs they take the side of the other.

[I just realized to copy paste from Twitter HERE] -- It’s okay just gonna type it, proofread.

Similarly, blogging, people don’t want to hear you talking about other people that makes your audience uncomfortable taking the others side.

Why is that? People don’t want to hear you talking to other people because that makes them a third party eavesdropper which is naturally uncomfortable.

If you are blogging on a Social Network be mindful of your audience who does not what to hear you talking to other people but to them.

Blogging Etiquette is something you learn with practice and started on websites not social networks. On networks its not appropriate to converse.

>Sometimes we don’t always see or appreciate others until they are gone from our lives but the lessons they teach us last a lifetime of value.

People who offer to help you are considered professionals –not expected to hold your hand but lead you in the right direction professionally.

>People can only help you see yourself better or help you live a better life by pointing you in the right direction but cannot hold your hand.

When someone offers to help you they are but a guide in life it’s your responsibility to share with them what it is you need help with.

What do you mean “just being nice”? Meaning people who offer to help you are just being nice there but not there to do leg work for you but guide.

No one is expected to help you in life and if they do offer to help you usually they are just being nice open to conversation or interaction with you.

Why is that? Some of the most successful people in life are those that help others or provide a business or service that does. Know others well.

Successful people are someone the most understanding, genuine, naïve, and sensitive people you’ll meet in life. Know that don’t overwhelm them.

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Don’t be intimidated by the successes of others they too were once beginners in life –so they understand you’re struggling learning still.

Why is that? Talking leads to reflection of ourselves or others –we think with more depth the less we talk so when we do speak its worthwhile.

Less is more. Meaning the less you talk the better you’ll feel the more you you talk the less comfortable you’ll be around others and with yourself.

Being wordy or over talking is a sign of excitement either for yourself or another. Try not to overwhelm others with that always be cognizant.

When you[‘re] lost in life and lacking the maturity to deal constructively with criticisms –its important to listen more and talk less.

When you lost positive momentum it’s important to engage in disciplined activities and accomplish small goals to get back on track.

Keeping it simple is key to building long lasting relationships. With less effort relationships tend to last longer than over watered.

#Love: Finding the One by Leslie Fischman

I think it takes time to first find yourself before you are ready to settle down with the one. Part of finding yourself requires you to maximize your potential while on your own, get strong, and be able to survive with or without a partner in life. Sometimes you have to go out into the World and meet new people, make amends with those you’ve met and have time develop on your own comfortable with yourself. I think when we are not comfortable with ourselves makes it difficult for one to be able to be comfortable with another let alone establish a bond that’s tough enough to withstand the many hurdles to Marriage. You need to be strong in order to get Married and you need to be reliable trustworthy and open to change. I’m glad I took the past 4 months apart from my Ex in order to grow and repair my roots and make amends with those I’ve met along the way only then can we move forward and be able to establish a new relationship or better foster the development or mending of an old relationship. I think I’m happy with my decision to go back to being Single when not ready yet to dive into a serious relatiobship. I see now that I do much better one on one than being Co-Dependent on friends or new contacts to stabilize meet my security and safety needs which require a lot of attention and listening. Being needy is not the way to start any relationship. I’m glad I experienced this phase in life alone since 2014 and learned a lot about myself so that I am better suited to maintain a long term relationship that ends with Marriage. I’m looking forward to the potential to reunite with Jay West this Summer and pick up from where we left off. So lucky he was so understanding when I needed more time to be alone and fix myself make amends with others handle my personal issues and find myself online Blogging and develop my websites for Quotes and Fashion Blogging, a dream Career in addition to my current place of Employment. Relationships aren’t easy and certainly more difficult if they get started on the wrong footing when not ready, usually never lasts if on different pages. I hope that Jay is still on the page where we left off and now have the time and energy to fully invest my heart in getting to know someone new and establishing a bond with another fit for Marriage and Kids. If it’s meant to be it will be. If he still loves me then he has been worth the wait Single fixing myself and putting myself back together again. Thank you to everyone who helped me on my Journey Online and especially those who started following this Spring and helping to support MYMOLLYDOLL #BradyMusicCampaign a Fashion and Entertainment Campaign that seeks to Prevent Gun Violence. If not for this time period alone I would not have assembled so much online as a jumping off point for others to help grow a support network and Campaign that provides support to Victims and Brady Campaign. Thank you for reading and hope that you too if not now find love in the future and able to appreciate that person whole and stable. Love is hard to find. Never take for granted those who love you and never take for granted the short time we have on Earth to make a difference and contribute to bettering the lives of others as well as improving our own lives on a daily basis. -Last I spoke to Jay he offered to send me to a Self Development Retreat to help me grow. Wish I listened and attended instead of trying to figure out how to grow and develop on my own without getting hurt. Sober Celibate & Clean.

By: Leslie Fischman
06/29/16

Never waste time chasing people in life those that love and care for you stick around and those who are not worth your time will only harm you,

There’s a reason why someone is not talking to you but engages you in conversation and invites you to talk to hear or reject you at their leisure.

It’s a waste of time and energy to explain yourselves to others who don’t need explanation. Just be yourself confident not worry what others think.

The only person who can destroy you in life is yourself. Never give anyone more power or the right to harm you if you keep to yourself no can hurt you.

There’s a reason for blogging and why we have writers. Because its okay to write 20 blog posts to your websites but not okay to send 20 text messages.

Best if you have something to say worthwhile about yourself or thoughts to share them online blogging rather than by text messages to one.

People who are really busy in life who don’t have time to respond to you don’t have time to respond. Never take anyone too seriously in life.

There’s never a reason why anyone should ever respond to rejection with self aggrandizement. Don’t beat yourself up over it. Just move forward.

Usually when someone rejects you its because they don’t have a position available in their life for you. Or that position is already taken.

Never argue with anyone over Social Media Messaging or Text Message. Arguments written or any kind are annoying to read annoying to express out loud.

Never blog about people in your immediate circle in life or people you talk to on a regular basis it stifles socialization makes things awkward.

You realize what to blog about and what not to blog about as you go and as people respond to your blogging. You never know what’s appropriate.

After writing for so long. I realize that generally no one wants to be mentioned in a blog positive or negative then what’s the purpose for @

People I take it only want to write about themselves but for some reason want to control what is said about them on Blogs? In life you can’t.

Why is it okay for others to talk about people behind their backs or negative to their face but not okay to write about it on a Blog.

If someone doesn’t like you anymore it’s usually something wrong with them not you.

Why is is okay for someone who rejects you to read you to read your Blog behind your back. But not talk to you. To me that doesn’t make sense.

People who are mean are usually angry people who have issues with you because there is something about you that angers them. Not your problem.

You can always be nice. Fighting is never the correct response when dealing with an angry person just ignore them it’s their responsibility to change.

Time goes by much slower when you stay calm stay goal driven are doing what you’re supposed to be doing in life how you know whether you’re on track.

What you see you get in life. If you think positive good will come if you allow your worries to overconsume you nothing but chaos occurs.

Some of us get to live the good life some of us get sent to hell some of [us] get to live the good life but not [all of us get to] enjoy it and some of us are luck [enough] with 1 and 2.

I’m not married. I’m a 1 and 2 girl. And lucky to be in a good place in life right now just working on 3 right now.

In a relationship you have to work twice as hard managing the mood of another as your own should only be done when you’re strong.

Once you get labeled it’s very difficult to make it in society establish and maintain a relationship. That’s okay. Why I’m alone right now.

In a relationship I allow criticisms to get the best of me and underachieve perform under pressure feel not good enough.

Co-Dependency and Relationships by Leslie Fischman

There’s a time for nesting mode and nesting mode is not for career girls until we get to the point we’re ready to quit. That time has not come.

What matters most is your happiness not be bothered by others or those you displease in life the more time you spend on them the less on yourself.

There will always be people you come across in life who will take advantage of you if you allow them to its okay to say no and disappoint others.

In a relationship you have to work twice as hard managing the mood of another as well as your own should only be done when you’re strong.

For me I have been able to achieve the most self worth and accomplish the most when I am on my own. It’s in relationships I lose focus.

Your own happiness is measured by you’re self worth your self worth is measure[d] by your accomplishments why waste time pleasing one and not all.

Relationships in isolation tend not [to] last as long because one another is dependent on the other for stability rather than leaning to all.

It’s always good to have friends. To stay level headed and not fall of[f] course socially or romantically healthy relationships foster growth.

Right now I’m getting help from Rent-a-Boyfriend Online on Twitter and Instagram. For that I am thankful during this in between phase in life.

That’s how the other one another is felt needed wanted by fostering unhealthy attachments they think necessary to feel whole usually insecure.

Sickness from relationships is usually caused by Co-Dependency. Co-Dependency occurs when one another puts the other in an isolated needy state.

I think its important to be able to have friends to lean on talk to. When I’m isolated in relationships hyper focused is how I get sick.

Co-Dependency & Relationships by #LeslieFischman #MYMOLLYDOLL #BlogPost #Blogger #SelfHelp #Blog

lesliefischman
Jun 28th, 2016
 
Successful People – Tumblr Article by Leslie Fischman

Why is that? Some of the most successful people in life are those that help others or provide a business or service that does. Know others well.

Successful people are some of the most understanding, genuine, naïve, and sensitive people you’ll meet in life. Know that don’t overwhelm them.

Don’t be intimidated by the successes of others they too were once beginners in life –so they understand you’re struggling learning still.

When someone offers to help you they are but a guide in life it’s your responsibility to share with the, what it is you need help with.

What do you mean “just being nice?” Meaning people who offer to help you are just being nice there but not there to do leg work for you but guide.

No one is expected to help you in life and if they do offer to help you usually they are just being nice open to conversation or interaction with you.

Sometimes we don’t always see or appreciate others until they are gone from our lives but the lessons they teach us last a lifetime of value.

People who offer to help you are considered Professionals –not expected to hold your hand but lead you in the right direction Professionally.

People can only help you see yourself better or help you live a better life by pointing you in the right direction but cannot hold your hand.

Who Are You? By Leslie Fischman

I never stopped to question who I was and what I wanted to do in life until my late 20’s. This phase usually occurs after experiencing some kind of failure in life. For me it was not finishing Law School. It was my dream to be an Attorney, so when that dream could no longer happen I came to a crossroads in life. I could either keep pursuing my dream to get married or forfeit my 2 and a half year relationship to someone I loved but was not growing with, that is why I decided to leave him. (My Mom mentioned not to list names, why names are now loosely referenced to if not at all now).

Why do we question ourselves and our motivations in life? When one is motivated by goals that bring about positive changes or positive growth in one’s life then we know that we are on the right track, our decision making is sound, and that we are being accurately guided by our positive goals we have set for ourselves. Some call that your Chi. Finding your so-called Chi in life is difficult, not always necessary for one to be in their “Chi” in order to succeed in life and/or function, but definitely something we all strive to achieve for ourselves and once found, maintain.

So when lost, or experiencing failure, of course we look back and wonder, think, when was the last time we were in our Chi? For me my Chi is operating on all cyclinders, multi-tasking, accomplishing daily tasks with ease, and one goal after the other, with patience hardwork gratitude sincerity wit, healthy, strong, fit, well balanced mentally & physically, strong interpersonal skills, in touch with friends & family on a periodic to regular basis, writing, and most of all reading. I seem to do my best when I am reading a lot, I guess that’s why I love school so much I stayed in school. -Huh? I have a learning disability so I don’t read unless for School mostly and therefore only read what’s been assigned to me.

So why am I writing online? Are you soul searching Leslie or looking for your Chi? No. I know where my Chi is at and my Soul. Exists with whomever I’m in love with. I’m a pretty dedicated girlfriend, unconditional, patient, loving, and never complain. –I used to be great on my own, taking care of myself, until I became Codependent in my last relationship (2010-2012). I was ignored too much, and he didn’t have as much time for me as I expected from someone looking for a serious relationship, I think we would have been better off as friends as suggested for the long term but he insisted, I cried on my steps after our second date -telling him I’m not good at relationships and not ready for a serious relationship, having just left my Ex 8 Months or so ago for an Attorney who wasn’t ready for a serious relationship, leaving me alone in the date to date pool of people who wanna hook up but not ready for a committment -I go in my head so then what’s the point of hooking up if not for Marriage. Anyways I’ve grown since then and decide to just stay Celibate until I find those who do not have fear of committment and can handle me when I say I’m waiting for Marriage and still want to date me. Shows they have gusto, fearless of expectations, enjoy the moment type of people, I think I’ve found that finally, happy, blessed with my current Companion & Boyfriend.

And what about your Career? I’m back at my Dream Job, drafting Motions on a part-time basis and Volunteering for Mom’s Demand to help put an end to Gun Violence, related to my work I’ve completed online so far for #BloggingCampaign for #BradyCampaign -this is just the beginning of a life long committment I’ve dedicated my life to so far since 2013, something I’m very passionate about and causes that really hit close to home, how I’ve been affected.

Moving Forward by Leslie Fischman – Tumblr Blog

When things go awry in your life you have no one to blame but yourself usually whether doing well or sick back luck occurs. Not your fault.

Nothing positive occurs when you move backwards in life ruminate or revisit any issue already dealt with resolved. Just adds animosity at you.

Sometimes things happen. You just have to learn to forgive others or forgive yourself move forward.

Not everything goes right in life.

It’s unfortunate I do not deal with stress well get paranoid bipolar lose my marbles. Put on heavy meds.

While on meds mistreated. You cannot change people or their opinions of you. You can only change yourself. It’s not your responsibility to understand why respond to.
Rejection and Professionalism by Leslie Fischman
 
Never be discouraged by the wrongs projected onto you by others who misjudge you, underestimate your capacity, and level of intelligence disregard you all together as equal and or deserving of title to a position you deserve in the workforce. There will always be more opportunities for you to shine in life. Never let down your guard to anyone in a trusted position. Never assume that people who care can help you. In the workforce and in relationships, once entered into, only you can help yourself. Never rely on a partner or significant other to be there for you when you are down. When you are down, vulnerable is when they judge you, when relationships take a turn for the worst. It’s not your responsibility to explain your every quirk or shortcomings in life. You have no obligation to explain yourself to anyone. Those who pry do so only to size you up, if they’re sizing you up from the get go, even the more reason to limit bonding time with them. Professional relationships breed awkward Romantic relationships don’t allow another’s neediness to cause you to accommodate their needs stay professional at all times never let down your guard and never enter into a professional relationship when weak insecure or not sure of yourself it affects your decision making and when your decision making is off you have a greater likelihood of putting yourself at risk of harm of embarrassment. Either encouraged to engage in behavior against you’re general morals or habits to their convenience or not be viewed as valuable but replaceable if not confident with yourself. Why decision making skills must be up to par measured first by your ability to manage your life outside of work first before allowing your personal life to interfere with work relationships, spill over and result in dependency, co-dependency, or other like unhealthy relationships at work where boundaries are not respected and you subject yourself to rejection, get projected on, and treated like a pushover because your personal life issues were not dealt with prior to entering into that relationship. Food for thought. Good luck.
 
I should instead appreciate that I have someon new in my life who cares about me whether or [not] anyone else does or wishes harm upon me shouldn’t matter.
 
Its called getting dumped. It happens. No reason to commit suicide over it.
 
It’s not important to talk about [it] at this point [in time] what happened. But whats most important is what I don’t continue to respond but let go.
 
If someone is trashing you they can only do so if you allow them to make you feel that way don’t then respond in the negative that only empowers them.
 
For every reaction sticks on your record with yourself your esteem and the esteem that others hold of you. Never allow anyone to trash you.
 
When anything gets compleicated or seemingly overwhelming think first of what you do have control over your reaction. That you cannot later explain.
 
I don’t believe in the saying prove them wrong that requires reliance on another’s acceptance not by your own merits to succeed is draining.
 
You can contribute only when you feel whole that occurs by what you achieve through discipline not interaction.
 
Best to love yourself first than not at all rely on others to make you feel good feel whole, so you contribute more positive do more good.
 
You cannot contribute what you yourself do not possess you cannot attain what another has by being around them but achieve on your own first.
 
Best to love yourself first than not at all rely on others to make you feel good feel whole, so you contribute more positive do more good.
When you are unhappy with yourself it’s impossible to be happy for another that sentiment is carried over in your interactions negativity is felt.
 
The more you depend on others the less you can contribute the more power you give away and the more powerless you feel cycle of insecurity.
 
You are only bigger than the person you were yesterday growing up matters little with who you’re more than what maturity is self esteem.
 
What matters most is whats inside that counts –love matters little with appearances but based on a bond you have through communication with another.
 
When you love yourself its easier to love another. The more critical you are of yourself the more crucial of others you tend to be.
 
There’s never an answer to every problem, but there is always a solution. Never second guess yourself. What is right for you is not for everyone.
 
What makes sense is to be what makes sense to not makes sense you’re 1. Not where you need to be in life and 2. People pleasing.
 
Do for yourself first what others cannot do for you then accommodate the needs of others rather than first pleasing to get from A to B –lost.
 
Why is what makes sense have anything to do with where you are. Because tell tale signs of people pleasing result in feeling lost looking lost.
 
I’d rather hurt because I hurt myself then prove myself wrong then succeed for anyone else in life. I do everything for me now.
 
People who hurt you want you to fixate on them and the things they say to obsess over them and why be attended to how they feel empowered.
 
Everything you say matters –to whom where and why. Make sure to always stay present not give in to emotions and end up making excuses.
 
It’s easy to say sorry once all is said and done but the damage to relationships that result stings longer than the time it takes to just be silent.
 
When you are not yourself best to bit your tongue and be silent than give in to negative emotions react and say things you later regret.
 
Once trust is lost its hard to get back and can only be earned not given. Don’t allow negative emotions to overconssume you change you.
 
I think we are handling things better. My generation is still adjusting to building in group support networks and not being destructive.
 
It’s important when things are not working for you with any matter to back off things are only made worse the more you involve yourself.
 
The more you involve yourself in something that doesn’t matter to you. Make sure time invested is what matters not for gain or to harm.
 
From experience those who walk out on you then try to come back into you life when trusted will harm you again.
 
Always do your best to focus on the positives no matter how many people try to come back into you life –when up, stick to those [who where] around when [you were] down.
 
Once you move forwards never move backwards and always be open to making new friends check in on Social Media to read.
 
Lesson of the Day: Aggressive people will try to boss you belittle you if you allow them if not purposeful out of the way raise your voice.
 
Lesson of the Day: Thou shall not be trashy to thy neighbor always with compassion make requests to be unbeknowest bystanders of your need to move.
 
Love is the most dangerous position you can put yourself in when vulnerable how you get hurt rejected why I pop in let go.
 
The more you pick yourself apart [online] and the less you succeed in life the guiltier they feel, harder on you [they are] for [you] failing [in spite of your experiences with them].
 
People bother you only for as long as you allow them to. Sometimes no matter how hard you try to be nice to someone and make amends with them, they will only bug you in reply back not soothe a rough edge.
 
When you have it great in life never allow negativity to stand between you an your dreams always maintain steady footing to achieve goals.
 
People come and go from our lives … it may hurt but its important to put yourself first before seeking acceptance and validation from others.
 
I’ve found the most success when well rounded, setting goals for myself daily, making lists, and always being prepared. Ready for anything.
 
In the end (at the end of the day) … The ones that care stick around. Always best to first focus on yourself get strong and then be strong enough to be there for others.
 
The most meaningful interactions occur when we are lost –never lose sight of those who were there fore you when you were down.
Never allow rejection to keep you from fulfilling your dreams in life, there’s a place for everyone and there’s a someone for everyone.
 
The best feeling is looking back and seeing how far you’ve come.
 
I’ve learned that no one cares about your problems –especially with them, so best not to mention [them] to make the problem or person go away.
 
When it comes to Social Media People generally only want one thing privacy, mentions positive or not –would rather not be mentioned. That I can respect.
 
Life occurs on its own timing not always our best timing –why its important to be flexible, spontaneous, and take chances in life, have faith.
 
Why waste time loathing in failure stirring up negative emotions and giving into sin that carries no positive momentum for us forward. No shortage or values and good character results from the wrongs of others but only by our own wrongs do we limit our satisfaction in life.
 
Life goes on. Do not blame others for your misfortunes in life, shortcomings or hardships –you are always a product or the choices you make.
 
Never be discouraged by failure –when one door closes another [one] opens, best to never give up just keep moving forward.
 
Trying to control others that type of behavior is not normal means your codependent weak depend on others to feel strong be strong on your own.
 
Basic life skills helping others know your position well first before diving into a ring fiddling with the positions of others dispositions.
 
When you put yourself in another person’s shoes you take on their dispositions in life to better understand listen ask questions don’t try to fix.
 
Everyone needs to be nicer to eachother listen better and keep a level head on their shoulders put yourselves in your own shoes first.
 
The goal is not to defend anyone or argue. But make sense of what we do know so in the future these crimes do not occur protect one another.
 
I’m not a preacher. I write from the Heart. If I have nothing to say I say nothing. Believe whatever you want.
 
If you concentrate really hard on anything in life your bound to step foot in it one day you create your own path in life do not hurt others to achieve.
 
[I] am nothing, nothing, nothing, nothing, but a granule of sand on a beach on a beach on a beach on a beach therefore blendin.
 
When you see something you don’t like don’t don’t punish or ridicule or bend a rule and self harm faith is faith requires discipline and confidence.
 
But this but that you are but a product or the choices you make I know you care but you chose otherwise its not over pick yourself up.
 
But this but that life is short Molly everything mends itself when the time has come keep your faith and love will appear …
 
She cried and wept a sober solemn and when she broke he came around to check on her pick her back up … #Romeo … don’t cry Molly.
 
We do not throw people in dumpsters when they have harmed us we make them clean up their own messes in life [leave] them to themselves.
 
When we cleanse ourselves of the wrongs of others through exercise and good nutrition we rejuvenate our souls replenish ourselves from wrongs.
 
When you lead with a positive foot, positive things in life occur for you, for every negative, you set yourself back, fighting does not help.
 
Find a different purpose in life than trying to destroy my life my self esteem my self worth my image of myself to others, is normal fine.
 
These things you learn when you get older … how to be a lady. I’m a work in progress. Doing my best conservative uptight.
 
What’s the worst that could happen. I end up alone. At least I’m ethical about it. Let go fully before pursing another not pursing wile with.
 
You cant just get a job in a different Business if you are not passionate about what you do learn grow understand appreciate, #tech.
 
I had to familiarize myself with a whole new business learn new terms functioning capabilities strategies strengths weaknesses to perform well.
 
I was in the best shape of my life they put me on abilify shot because I cut my wrists after my Mom was giving me $hit for not having a job, [trying to make a job online].
 
It’s important to look at the big picture not pick each other apart over defects of character we are where we come from be respectful.
 
Key Point: Always trust your surroundings when lost as guide posts to your return from disorganization and chaos. Trust those who are strong.
 
Look on the Bright Side:
 
On rare occasions are we given the opportunity to communicate on neutral grounds it is at these times we should be thankful for both what is helpful and or no use but relevant nonetheless. Be grateful for those who share their stories. Without purpose to harm anyone or be benefited themselves in doing so but because it helps she’d light on something, a situation, or present circumstance in a way we would not otherwise see had they not shared given their insights into how and why these crimes occur and what has been done to stop them. We have done everything we can and we will continue to do everything we can which includes improving upon our systems of communication crisis response and timing of such responses and prepare those who are new to change how best to cope with the present times not live in fear but understanding of the basic ebbs and flows of human progress and communicate effectively with one another in a way that fosters development not stifle one another’s growth. We will continue to do our best to implement new sources for coping, provide resources, and strengthen existing strategies while trying new means of communicating once those previously used means cease to be effective in combatting terror. We have few resources when limited and many when we act as one. You can choose to continue disagreeing or realize once you turn on one you turn on all. Nows not the time for criticism. Nows not the time for complaint over selfish needs. Now is a good time to work diligently. Be prepared everyday for the next and do your best to contribute to the safety of those around you no put anyone on our soil in harms way bc you think deserved or not your problem. Make it your problem to keep one another on track and do what you can in order to promote that positive development in one another. I will do my best to improve. Be strong. And continue providing services online to those in need. I’m sorry for your losses I wish there was more I could do, but I have to be cautious not erratic and be Professional which requires me to process produce and proceed slowly so that in the event of an emergency we can all proceed swiftly. That’s how you prepare one another by adhering to basic standards of professionalism. There are rules and requirements for good reason you either choose to dismiss or follow. If you are harmed as a result of not sticking to those rules and scripts than we apologize if our services are of no value to you we can only help those who honor and respect those traditions we hold dear. Our set of laws that bind and protect our best interests. - Goodnight everyone. - Leslie Fischman on behalf of USMC my new Superiors Online. We need back up.
 
 
Side Note: Self-worth and self esteem you either have or you don’t for whatever reasons are not your fault to regroup be a cautious decision maker.
 
Do what you need to do to stay focused without causing harm to yourself or others. Blogging has been my means to achieve stability. Sanity.
 
I motivate myself keep myself motivated in life no one’s cheering me on at 30 its not an AYSO Soccer Game on my own –my job to stay driven.
 
These are my thoughts experiences understandings and whys not scientifically proven facts.
 
Don’t let people confuse you. It’s annoying. But that’s how people manipulate your moods. Get you to fixate on something wrong with you.
 
People who hyper focus on themselves then quick [to] change subject to make you look at yourself results in zoning out not present (Ex)
 
Locked in Deep Thought – Usually occurs when you have concentrated on one thing (matter) for a period of time then change focus period in between.
Locked Deep in Thought (definition): Zoned out, not present, usually long pause after thinking clear then sudden realization clarity arrives.
 
Don’t wait until it’s too late to tell someone how you feel. You never know what positive difference you can make without trying.
 
There are two reasons for failure in life. Either you’ve given up on yourself or you[‘ve] allowed you[r] fears to come to fruition (by giving up).
 
When we are lost its not because we are misunderstood or alienated you are the reason always for your place in life never because of others.
 
When one relationship falters another one will blossom. That’s how Karma works. When you are good you keep blossoming if bad you stifle others.
 
It’s nothing to be ashamed of when rejected or experiencing failure in life. Life requires perfection uniformity so if not up to par why so.
 
At some point everyone comes to a turning point in their lives when they no longer respond to the judgments passed by others and just be themselves.
 
It’s not required that you adjust to every quirk and judgment held by others toward you if they cannot roll with you the way you are then [its] not meant to be.
 
The one who doesn’t need attention means the other affirmed them well did a good job the one struggling didn’t get enough affirmation to establish [a] bond.
 
That’s when you give a lot of affirmations to establish a bond. Then once there’s a bond the partner feels secure. And doesn’t require attention.
 
Sometimes in the beginning you get a lot of attention. That’s normal.
 
Unhappy people just stick together. Grass is green there too. Don’t F up my grass.
 
People who are unhappy with themselves break people. Why unhappy people should just hang out date other unhappy people.
 
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People who have everything like me and still unhappy –means they have low self-worth cannot repair themselves no longer independent of others.
 
Happy people compete with themselves focus on themselves feel whole because they don’t ever feel less than because they keep their plate full excelling.
 
Unhappy people feel good for different reasons than what makes happy people feel good. Not a match. We don’t compete with others.
 
Everything happens for a reason. Small goals are worth achieving and nothing is too much to handle when you have friends.
 
Foods really important to manage the psyche think calm not be manic moody get stuck on a negative tangent.
 
You need to be stable to attract stable otherwise stable people get turned off in survival mode anything unstable is deemed sick a threat.
 
That’s because in survival mode you’re body becomes defensive unlikely to attach easily because unstable turn others off who keep you stable.
 
When you don’t eat food you are more desperate less stable off center unhappy with self react easily to others have difficulty attaching.
 
Don’t miss opportunities in life taking your time or pre-planning how you want things to be –just be … whether perfect or on track, live for the moment. (Enjoy life).
 
Its important when on a positive tangent to stick to that pattern [of positive thinking] –not go back and reiterate the whys and/or explain to those who do not believe [in you] –that just sends you back into a cycle of negativity –not helpful toward positive progress and building esteem from within by focusing on negatives.
 
I’d rather be alone than embarrassed.
 
When you’re tired is when you’re [more] likely to make dumb decisions and or harm yourself if pushed over the edge, So if strong now strong normal condition.
 
Never be discouraged by failure –when one door closes another [one] opens, best to never give up just keep moving forward.
 
I think love is about finding yourself and finding yourself with those who love and care for you –finding the one equally infatuated with you.
 
Everyone’s definition of fulfillment is different –some demand more or less depending on what their goals in life are.
 
Do not allow others to impede negatively on your personal growth. We are not Actors – we are Human, therefore in control at all times.
 
We find hope and strength when lost when we stick to our strengths and not lean on peers who exude the strengths [or weaknesses] that bring out our weaknesses.
 
It is important not to blame others when things do not work out for you personally whether you are right or wrong –it only makes you look bad.
 
The more times you stop and question yourself and others the further away you get from accomplishing your goals in life.
 
Success is by choice. The choices you make in life, that you take responsibility for, determine where you end up in life and how successful you are.
 
When you take responsibility only for yourself and your own actions your options [become] limitless in life, so long as you know the difference.
 
What is required is only that we learn from our mistakes –continue to improve, and always apply ourselves when down to come up again.
 
Rejection (Definition): [An] Inability to get what you want in life because you are lacking a likeable quality required for acceptance to fit in.
 
To have no enemies in life requires tact and self restraint to know wrong from rights as well as ones owns weaknesses not bestow [onto] others.
 
You have two choices [in life]: (1) Move Forward never look back; [or] (2) Sit and Ruminate make Amends go through your Inventory. (With #AA –I do both).
 
The Quality of Life we lead depends on two things how much time we invest and how much time we spend toward achieving [our] goals in Life.
 
It’s never easy letting go. And sometimes its hard to accept the facts when you are going through a difficult time –always be patient with yourself.
 
Never be discouraged by failure –when one door closes another [one] opens, best never to give up just keep moving forward.
 
The best life is by those who laugh the hardest on the inside most productive observers living life not whining complaining ruminating.