Chapter 46: Whats On My Mind by Leslie A. Fischman
Life Isnt About Image or Connections by Leslie A. Fischman
Life isn’t about image or connections, its upon your own basis you become you, based upon your own merits in life, not the merits or good merits of others. How you self-identify and what becomes of you is how you will be judged by others. Always be yourself, you need not justify why you are the way you are or for what reasons you are ill is no ones business but your own. If you are doing everything you can to be well, than no people or persons should make you sick. People are not contagious, its bad ideas that are feared as being contagions, everyone is responsible for themselves, you cannot control others, it is not by our ideas that make us who we are but by our thoughts which control our actions and behaviors that make us who we are, how we are in public, how we address others, and how we ourselves are addressed, is a manifestation of how we see ourselves is how others will see us in reply, always be appropriate in public dressed and around others. That is how to be well-liked. When you are judged that is no excuse for self hatred or for upset, you can only do your best, and if your best is not well received than acceptance of self is required you cannot be accepted by all, that’s called discrimination. You just have to accept that some people will not like you for whatever reasons, whether by your associations connections what you represent or what they think you represent or by where your headed in life, they think deserving or not. Intimidation and wins are for the weak, life’s not a competition, take life easy, and always be there for others, when you help yourself, others will be helped too.
Moving Forward and Backtracking by Leslie A. Fischman
Whenever we move forward in life its common to backtrack and review ourselves, our strengths our weaknesses, and try to better our self and our image. Life is all about perfection. How we view ourselves, much to the same effect is how others will view us. If we do not go backwards and make our amends, and edit, then we as writers, subject ourselves to harsh and unnecessary scrutiny. Writing is all about perfection, no spelling errors, and no typographical mistakes. All of which affect the readers understanding of what is written. It is very important as a writer and publisher to always be unique, and to always be neat and tidy, that is how to make a good blog, one that is read, with ease. When there are errors, and blocks this causes the reader to question the source, and that is why people are blocked, and questioned, when they themselves are not tidy and neat looking they will be judged. It is by how we present ourselves, that we are looked at, manage your presence at all times well, in order to be well received, that is how to be best approachable.
Being Raised Conservative by Leslie A. Fischman
When you leave the woodwork you realize what you have, I was raised very conservative, and now I understand why. It was to protect me from harm, that when we let loose we will be judged by others, its how we are taken seriously, that others will judge us, based upon our own merits, and what we bring to the table, skills. Those skills are by education and background, those build the backbones to companies, and from there a company grows. What is independence. We chatted today before the meeting, to me that means a Corporation that is independently run, by its employees, who are independent of one another, not co-dependent. In the real world, I see that individuals, base selves on their accolades and based upon their merits, how confidence is made, not by being inside a group but by what they bring to the table, that is how confidence is made. You can only see yourself, when you are in a group of people, who is accepting of you not hard on you, know your worth. Sometimes in close relationships, people are hard on us, that’s to protect us from harm. When we understand the value of self, in relationship to others, we will know ourselves best. How to behave in front of others, whether to be known for our present or our past, and from that point determine how well known, know you best, not others, how to get to know yourself among people, how to self identify. When people look at you and think you are something you are not, that is because they know you based on what they hear, not based on what they know, or see, and that is always understandable, we give thanks to others, for acceptance always, how to move forward, and not discuss our private lives out loud, or professional selves, in order to maintain a positive outlook in life, is by our work ethic not others points of views. This is clear upon meeting people very well adjusted, I too was once well adjusted, and now struggle because of my relationships gone sour, while attending law school. I will never understand the pressure perceived until I undergo it myself. What you say about yourself, is by what rumor is known about you, always be truthful, and give value to your life presently, everything is a matter of correction. When you are a perfectionist and corrected, then you should know better how to behave is how one is treated, who looks or appears mentally ill, that’s called passing judgment upon another’s circumstances, and adding fruit to the table of concerns. What is concerning is what alarms, people should never be alarmed by adjusters. Adjusters are people who are accepting of all people, they themselves must be conservative minded, if to be a backbone to others, to mirror conversation behavior. That is how trust is built, not by surprises, but by dialect, being conservative minded. Conservative minded means being a defensive driver in life, watching out always for concerns, addressing concerns accordingly, and by offering reassurances. Reassurances are guaranteed by behavior present, and behavior continued, elsewhere. It is known that I struggled with alcohol after law school, its never been a problem in my life professionally, always sound, and never a threat to my environment, or to others, I’m not a loose canon, its by judgments threats to me, that occurred (once), said something back under the influence (once), that is not me but a product of my circumstances, I was judged as something I am not, and because they thought I was a whore, I was treated like that, Im very chaste, never dressed like a whore, never behaved like one, always conservative toward others.
What We See We Remember by Leslie A. Fischman
What we see is what we remember is what gets promoted about us, not by whats in our closet, or in our bedrooms. That is not how people see us, by our private spaces. Is not how you judge a cover by its book, its by how you remember identify yourself, not by the baggage of others, or by your things in life. You cant go backwards and try to be a better you, you have to just be you as you are now. That’s how to build a better you, from here forward, not by going backwards. Your past picture is always your best profile picture, as you remember you best. Ive found that that has helped me, gear myself back to reality, and how I understand my direction and self in life, and where I am headed, not by the direction of others, headed in life. Its important to stay true to your character, not be easily impressed upon or molded, slightly stubborn, but cautious, is the best way to lead yourself in any public environment. I have found that to rehabilitate my character it takes time, by good merits only. When I infuse myself with the troubles of others, bear burdens, that’s my weight. Not the weight of others upon me, but my instincts, errors, failure, to overcome. Perfection is a job, not a hobby, when you perfect yourself, you understand your own intrinsic value, that no other person’s value should affect you in communication. Its not contagious, stupidity, its just a recognized failure, always do your best to repair yourself separately.
Whats Important to You by Leslie A. Fischman
Whats important to you matters, however it may not always matter to others. What you project about yourself personally, is how you fail, in the image department. That cannot be removed from your record, how others see you, that is something that you cannot control. In the grand scheme of things, how you will be viewed and judged will be a matter of principles based, not gusto or energy, but by your nature and value and givingness to the trade, that is your writing. Overall how you will be perceived is how you are judged by others, as worthy of attention, put together, a cohesive idea, or something that needs more work. That is called acceptance. What matters to you may not matter to everyone, but that doesn’t mean that you or your ideas don’t matter at all. With proper training and instruction you too can make a difference in the lives of others, its all a matter of manifestation, and willingness to learn and try, always doing your best. How you represent self matters, and based upon those judgments and first impressions, a judgment is passed upon you, accepted or declined, mattered or fabricated, together or not, or picked apart. You should never be insulted by the input of others, and that should not change you or your feelings about yourself, or cause you to question yourself or others. That is your instability, a reflection of your own instability, when you feel judged. To think positively of oneself, is how to undo negative opinions about oneself.
Leslie A. Fischman
Please Note: I have finished writing the first draft of my first book, still editing Ch 5-25, my goal is to publish my book 2020 after I graduate, working on myself right now.