Chapter 70: Achieving Your Goals by Leslie Fischman
What You Know in Life by Leslie A. Fischman
When you know what you want in life, nothing can stop you from achieving your dreams. You only have to accept your past, and move forward, not lamenting incidences or worrying what others think or might say about you, is always outside of your control and not your responsibility to ever control the thoughts of others about you or about others. That’s called fighting when an opinion based on selfish needs is made, to promote an idea or a set of ideas that serves one, is called being selfish. Always be selfless when writing online, considering the emotions of the audience as well as how you may be looked at affected by your train of thoughts. It is very important to always be clear, in order to come across as neat and organized. When you are off center and not all together perfect, you run the risk of being attacked by aggressive people, that is juts how people are, trying to change you or trying to fix you, or trying to get what they want, or trying to manipulate your story or your character, or sense of being. That is called wrong behavior for or toward persons of interest. It is wrong to use people as pawns, for unnecessary causes but ego. That is an unnecessary use of force upon another to break a heart, and is undeserving. The only way to move forward is not to break, not to bind, but to let go.
Its Never Too Late by Leslie A. Fischman
Hearts break, and its never too late to fix oneself, and move forward in life. We may cry, we may mourn, we may feel physically and psychologically ill, but its important to keep going in life, always important. The minute you give in to sad emotions, is the minute you break, recognize whats hurting you, but don’t let is make or break you in life. People will façade themselves toward you, to gather attention, they may even try to persuade you to think things you are not or behave in a way counterproductive to your well being and the well being of others. That’s just manipulation, and there is nothing you can do about it. Often times we feel powerless to the thoughts and emotions of others, and this causes concern. Always keep moving forward, report as you go, and always do your best to keep your private and professional life separate from socialization, that is how you stay centered. People will cause blame where no blame exists to try to figure out causes and circumstances for illness always meeting you with disappointment a disgrace. Every way a person treats you is a manifestation of their own weaknesses in life. If they are not doing well, it may be difficult for them to treat you well. If you are not doing well in life, you may be treated as less than, less than capable of deserving a good life for yourself. These are all commonalities of socialization, competition.
Don’t Laugh Until It Hurts by Leslie A. Fischman
Don’t laugh until it hurts. There are some people who are still suffering from losses, who have not yet made their amends, and still in pain over who’s side to take. In life you are never obligated to fight, takes sides, or even participate in battles that are not your own. That only wreaks havoc on you psyche, mental health and well-being, and enters you into the blame game, which is a neverending story. Basically you have to be selfish when it comes to accepting any losses in life, that is time to only think about yourself, self-care is a number one priority, and so is caring for those around you. When you are ill, it is your responsibility not to make those around you ill too. It is your responsibility to make strong yourself, and to promote the general health and well-being of those around you. You cannot expect others to be there for you when you are down, why its important to be selfish when not well. You cannot care for others, when you are sick, as you run the risk of becoming overly (overtly ie needy) dependent on others, for serenity and peace. You have to find your own sense of peace in life, if you are to be surrounded by others in peace. You cannot expect others to provide for you something you cannot create for yourself. That is impossible to demand a life that you yourself cannot envision, and expect the same from others to provide for you a better life, you have to go out and do so yourself, make it happen, it will not happen for you lamenting and blaming.
Leslie A. Fischman
Please Note: I have finished writing the first draft of my first book, still editing Ch 5-25, my goal is to publish my book 2020 after I graduate, working on myself right now.