Chapter 58: Nothing is Perfect by Leslie A. Fischman
Worst comes to worse always have a backup plan in life. Nothing is ever perfect unless we are, or so it seems. It's never too late to change or dream a new dream. When you have a strong sense of faith within yourself nothing can bring you down in life, not you not anyone.
When you lose support there is always another who gains support that is how support works. When one side is taken both sides are argued and both sides suffer loss of support and attention given to those who do or do not support each side that is always the group empowered not the groups or individuals in controversy.
Love yourself for who you are not who you are not. You don't ever have to embrace the harsh judgments made by others. Always be yourself.
The only pressure that can ever be is pressure you put on yourself. Know your limits learn to let go and always pride yourself in the work that you do.
Somethings are beyond you in life and that's okay. Always stick to what you're good at.
Never set expectations of yourself higher than you're capable of achieving in life.
It's never your fault in life when you do your best and still not good enough.
When you fear what others think of worry too much you run yourself for risk of paranoid thinking -which only leads you to ruin. To stay afloat always be centered think positive thoughts about self and others.
What gets you going in life is your business not the business of others. To each his own. Your personal motivations in life are not necessary to be shared in the public sphere or need be known to be heard with more or less scrutiny.
Balanced minded equals balance of opinion. Knowing your likes and dislikes in life, takes time. Not everybody likes the same things. Not everybody agrees upon the same intuitions in life. You cannot be well-liked by all, but that doesn't mean rebel and stop trying to be well-liked at all.
What does in good faith mean to me? It means doing things with a good heart with no intended personal benefit present or future. For the betterment of the majority not few and with no particular individual interests involved nor your own personally.
From where do ideas originate. Usually from our best interests, ideas are brought forward. Never to undermine our good wits about us, but to bring about changes in our lives thought with pride and looked up to with envy for those reasons we usually share ideas, however some ideas get rejected, that's marketing, not every idea is best or good, some ideas are best left in the wood work.
Never allow others to harm you or think justified to harm you no harm is ever deserved always remind yourself of that.
When you're lost and to no avail cannot find yourself well enough in life to make good decisions for yourself know that your best is always required in order to achieve well or better than in life or to better your present circumstances, not be worse off, worse off only ruins your worst and makes worse your present not better anything, to be better you have to continuously make yourself new again, better yourself everyday.
Its never too late to turn around and make mends where needed and ties where tightened needed. You cannot change things but you should not leave things undone, there's no room for error in life, only room for improvement, constant improvement and correction.
Everybody has issues. Some more apparent than others. That doesn't mean that your defective or that there's something wrong with you it just means that everyone's got their own issues and not to take anything too personally, some blend better than others, depending on their dispositions in life and confidence click or don't click.
Never let them win not haters not anyone in competition with you who try to bring you down or hurt you. That's never okay. Everyone should be able to achieve in life absent hurt or dismemberment be able to behave as a unit without interference from outside forces trying to keep apart or prevent relationships from occurring if so must be for good reason. Good reason alone is enough to prevent relationships from happening but only by good reason should relationships not happen in life.
You can't undo the past you can only move forwards. Sometimes there's nothing you can do to undo a wrong that's been done to you by another that doesn't mean fight that just means walk away move on, that's not time for an amends or time to talk that's just how you get hit with low blows in life always move on never fight, otherwise if you go backwards in life you get hit below the belt.
Always be in good humor about yourself and others. Hope is never lost its always around. It's all a matter of manifestation what is lost is always enthusiasm when there's too much negativity out why it's important to be positive to help maintain positive energy around to help set positive events in motion.
Never be defensive to the emotions of others. You are you and they are them. You cannot control people or their thoughts only your own. If people don't like you so be it, it's not the end of the World. Always be mindful of the thoughts and feelings of others never say anything under duress you'd later regret or take responsibility for the actions of others not your own you are never responsible where others are wrong that's not your responsibility to care for those who are wrong toward you or others.
When you win some you lose some. You cannot be perfect always. There will always be some who will not be on your side in life and that's okay. Not everything in life will be agreed upon, if so you're setting yourself up for disappointment and unreasonable standards. Always set yourself up for success in life by reporting to your superiors in life, that's how you stay on base, on par, on point in life by following the direction of others under the direction of others.
Leslie A. Fischman
Please Note: I have finished writing the first draft of my first book, still editing Ch 13-25, my goal is to publish my book 2020 after I graduate, working on myself right now.