Chapter 52: Battling Mental Illness by Leslie A. Fischman
You cannot fix people. You should assemble yourself not others. How you give your power away, fixing, helping, only do so under the direction and authority of professionals.
You don't always have the answer to everyone's problems and that's okay. Think with your head sometimes not just your heart.
Don't cover for people embrace cultural differences when it comes to choices always be yourself straight on your terms of living.
You don't know faith until it finds you. Always stay true to your good character traits in life and always do what you feel is right not succumb to the temperaments of others toward self. Be unique.
Love yourself no matter what they say. Nobody's perfect including me. You are what you say and what you do.
Love yourself enough to know when to quit. Don't put up with the bad circumstances of others, it's but they're fault for their misconducts, your shoes are your shoes always react from your shoes in life not the shoes of others.
When you are well minded your thoughts will lead you to better comforts in life than hate shame guilt and blame those are the seeds of negativity.
Know yourself well enough to know when to quit trying, and start living your life day by day.
You never know what's on the other side of tomorrow. Often times when we lose our cool we miss out on opportunities in life. You don't get many chances in life to make a good first impression, always be sound.
Never wonder too much about others or what they think, life is normal so long as you are normal, when you misbehave you will be judged by your behavioral health issues why it's important to be conservative in order to be well liked not mimic'd replicated as a traitor. That's paranoid thinking, thinking of self not others always put others before yourself, best interests.
Always be mindful of the spaces of others as well as your own spaces in life. Do not allow your illnesses with one another to interfere with your ability to function normally in any environment. When you leave social media, always leave things on a positive note to stay well, look well, be well.
Love the life that you're in. Never forget who was there for you when you were down. Always live life with purpose, and never stop giving back.
Loss on innocence occurs when we don't stick to our good values in life and venture outside the norm. Forgiveness is everything sound minded. Be clear to others but do not impede on the progress of others or their likelihood of success in life.
Understand you are not the only one with problems in life and know that everyone has problems of their own whether by their making of by the making(s) of others.
Always do your best to assist those in crisis. Your safety needs must be met first before you can help others. Once your safety needs are met, then and until then, will you be able to help those during a time of need.
When you think that everything is about you that's when you've misstepped in life. Always focus on being there for others, not worry about others being there for you. Lifes not about who's there for you, always be on your own team in life.
You are a product of your own Karma in life. What you put out into the World you get back. Make sure to always be positive, not all-knowing. There's a difference between delusion and reality. How you think is what becomes, what you fear is what you hold back, and what you love is who you are. Love yourself enough to know when to let go and when to let others go from your life. Hold on to what you can, and let the rest of the dust settle in life, how to stay on top of things, without falling under water.
Never rely on the realities of others to understand your own reality. You are a product of your own makings in life, what you perceive as real or unreal is a matter of what you see should not be by what others see. Know yourself well enough to understand the whys in life on your own and not become too reliant on others to understand whys.
When life happens let it happen on your own terms not the terms of others. You are your own best friend in life. Always listen to your intuition, when to stop, when to go, and when to move forward. The harder it is to move forward the more in life you have to let go.
Never allow the dirty thoughts of others toward or about you rot your mind away. You are always you no matter what anyone says about you. Only you can be you, it's not the power of others to take away from what you yourself empower yourself with.
Life happens on life's terms don't be so willing to go backwards making amends and getting hurt always with the guidance of others professionally follow suit. Don't dismember yourself going backwards in life unless it's necessary to move forwards in life away from your troubles and hardships bothering you and/or others.
Not feeling well is a product of unhappiness with ones self.
What you know about you is not what others know about you. People can't read your mind, they have lives of their own. No ones ever that obsessed with anyone to think of them 24hrs a day. Know that, never be too full of yourself to think thought of too much or more than wanted by others, people don't care that much for others other than their loved ones mostly for the most part.
Two teams in life everyone cares and who cares but always take life seriously enough to know when to stop caring, and pick yourself up.
Think for yourself not others. You are you no matter what and no one can change you but you no associations no connections. Be best for you not for others. Repairing yourself and what others think of you takes time.
Fantasy is based upon what you cannot create in real life for yourself and create circumstances or thoughts otherwise that help you toward the realization of dreams in real life. Creating a fake world for yourself to thrive in is called unwillingness to face reality and the present.
When you feel well everything around you will feel well too, that's how wellness works.
When it's clear who's wrong who's right a decision is made. No such persons should suffer any harms graver than the consequences for the chosen wrongful accusations toward another. And upon that decision weighted a judgment is passed upon another as being wrong or right. For every wrong there is one right of way, for every misdirection in choice, there is a right decision made. That is by choice. By our choices made right.
Always keep busy and stay right minded, don't give in to the repercussions of the actions of others toward or against you, always stay calm level headed to do well, act right, look right in life.
Everyday is an opportunity to shine. Learn to let go of the past and just move forward.
Know your limits in life. Your memory is best. Don't allow others to affect your memory cause you to turn on yourself or others. That causes self-harming behaviors.
You should not be affected by others well or not well. You should love yourself enough to know when to let go. Never let yourself go, always be kind to yourself and/or others.
Success is based on doing well and doing well for others it's not based upon obsession with self or others. Always do your best to be accepted by others, how you do well in life. Be the success you want to see in the World, not be a failure to oneself or others.
When World's Collide it's not really a big deal. It just means that one is in need of help and goes to the wrong person for help this causes a collision when you get help from the wrong people in life. Always date well to get up in life. Otherwise you get and feel devalued.
Leslie A. Fischman
Please Note: I have finished writing the first draft of my first book, still editing Ch 5-25, my goal is to publish my book 2020 after I graduate, working on myself right now.