Chapter 45: Your Mind Your Matters by Leslie A. Fischman
When people don't like you coming up because (1) you don't have a paid job don't (a) worry (b) fight back (c) let the negativity get to you. They will understand one day what's important what's not about people and others, what to care for who to care for and why.
When you match up well in life that's called fitting in finding you niche. It's important to always maintain a level head about you. Who you are you represent, who others are they represent. Others cannot represent you if you yourself do not represent yourself best.
What bothers you about others will soon dissipate the more people you care for, the more people you help, the better your outlook will be, not overly defensive to the problems of others, that are not your own.
What you fear you become if you're not cautious, less than you best. In the grand scheme of things, who is it that you want to be in life. Who are your mentors in life. How will you identify what is liked not liked about you based on those identifiable traits and characteristics about you.
Sometimes it's what matters that counts, toward your successes in life. What matters to you. Moving forward. How you cope will be a reflection of your good wits about you.
You cannot piggy back on the successes of others. Always remember who was there for you when you were down. To be a proper support system you must first represent yourself well. Why successful people surround themselves with successful people in life. You are at times a reflection of who you're surrounded by.
Being subservient to the best interests of others, means being kind. And there for them but not needed, that teaches them independence in relationships. #HowtoDate
When you are negative you will hear negative voices. Especially post breakup -Why it's important to keep moving forward. Not let the voice of others not on your side in life not on your team in life get to your head.
When you are too kind to others, not deserving, you have the potential to disempower yourself, while catering to the needs of others. Those who you put in trusted position to care and care back are called relationships. To build relationships, long term, one must be stable successful.
A little inspiration goes a long way live without regrets.
Leslie A. Fischman
Please Note: I have finished writing the first draft of my first book, still editing Ch 5-25, my goal is to publish my book 2020 after I graduate, working on myself right now.