Chapter 110: Leaving Solitude by #lesliefischman
You can only be yourself. You cannot worry about people trying to be you for political purposes or not. When in a relationship that causes loss of self-esteem to be lied to or put down just learn to let things go. If everything you say gets spoken then worry first about what you say not allow others to get inside your head worry you or others about you. They will always say things to discomfort you don’t allow others to cause harm to your psyche and sense of well being. Don’t allow the past to hear as stated now taunting you. Just stay positive and learn to let things go not get tired looking back. You can’t change the past best you can do is move forward presently.
Stay focused on your goals in life don’t go backwards trying to fix your past you only get hurt moving forward. Always do your best to be kind to others, not lead people astray in life, in your natural language do your best to communicate always not misuse your gifts in life.
Learn to let go of your misgivings in life and play by the rules for accolade. You cannot get far in life self-harming you only do yourself and others a disservice when you succumb to the weaknesses of others in place of your own values in life know your best and stick to that.
When you know your best all else falls into place dont play up to the weaknesses of others as for your own good not to be foresaken. When you do not get the approval of others that simply means to try harder in life for acceptance youcan’t reverse the consequences of non-acceptance
Once you’re done you’re done. At that point you have to focus on you’re health people like healthy people that’s how to do and know best, not basing decisions making your best decision making skills off the actions of words of others as toward you, for you, or against you.
When you feel better about where you’re going and where your headed in life all else tends to fall into place. Having a clear picture of who you are is key to getting what you want in life whether that’s love, success, or both. Nothing comes easy in life.
By the time you wake up you have to start living life. No one can live life for you. You just have to keep moving forward.
It’s by what you connect to that affects your sense of being. Whether it be by a wanted or unwanted connection you just have to be in acceptance of all. Life is beautiful, it only gets ugly if you allow the negatives to fester and wound you. Don’t let up hope, always pray for better days ahead, how to make now worthwhile not side stepping or going backwards into harms way.
Across the stormy waters the billowing sails of deceit we know few who with sound might transcend to the doubtful few what becomes of matters few. #davidspade #advocacy #mymollydoll #victims #stopsuicide
Life is not perfect. At times it will feel like nothing’s coming together for us. Always have patience that there are good things ahead.
You can’t go backwards in life once you make a mistake you have to live with those mistakes. You can’t go on trying to fine tune yourself through reliving those mistakes in life you have to build better habits for yourself moving forward that help you live life positively not driven toward ends in life, by sides, or for clarity of purpose, you know you best. Life is much too short to worry what others think they are mostly concerned with themselves.
You can’t go through life going backwards through your problems. Eventually you get tired. Life’s much too short to worry what people think, in acceptance of you or not. Moving forward, think what is it that I can do better in life. How could I have lived life differently. Just be appreciative of who you are and where you’re going in life. Be comfortable with yourself.
Discomfort is not an easy feeling to handle, affecting our decision making at times. Just pace yourself -rushing into anything is never a good idea when moving forward from an otherwise painful position in life. Sometimes you just have to make due with where you’re at in life whether or not your happy with where you are in life, for better or worse.
You are your canvas in life, paint your life as you see best fit for you, always be in control of your emotions no one can control you only if you allow others to affect you will they have an effect on you. Know you best and stick to that. You cannot be well until you achieve well in life. Nothing gets better without you in life, once you start seeing better everything will pan out whether or not in your favor in alignment with your values and choices in life is how your life will be looked at by others, in spite of your mistakes, in spite of your pitfalls, well or not a quiet acceptance of you will take place, blend in.
We are all mentally challenged in our own way, sensitive to our own needs as well as the needs of others. When we feel like ourselves we do best, and when we don’t feel well left to our own devices the strong either make it or are broken by the loneliness that that time brings in despair. Always do your best to exercise sound decision making skills and do your best, what is asked of you may not always bring you happiness but it is through the pleasing of others we find acceptance with or without people in our lives. Be at peace with yourself and the window of opportunity for change for the better this becomes limitless.
You should never trash yourself. The only person you hurt is yourself. Know when to stop. Whenever you receive love and acceptance from others is time to step back see what you can do better, and with a kind ear always listen.
Never let a thought pass you by without acknowledging that thought. In other words as a writer when you have a thought write it down. It’s when thoughts are lost, we go blank, trying to back track but one thought less. Thoughts build upon eachother. Knowing that, like a conversation with yourself, speak, then your thoughts will figure themselves out for you. You don’t have to think of others to understand them just always be yourself, not allow others to affect your thoughts about you.
It’s not helpful when you are not doing well to hear about others doing well in spite of your misfortunes in life. You just have to keep going in life. Whether others work off your material or not is not your responsibility to judge. Always focus on yourself, and from that place all other good will follow. When you are in your place in life, judgment will not follow, when you are out of place in life judgment follows. That’s how life works by judgments passed. Is how you get judged moving forward as put together or not, or good enough for follow. Otherwise no credit is given to not well and proven otherwise an unlikely fit. Knowing this always do your best to fit in when working well with others, stand out when you can, but never more or less than you deserve, receive attentions from others.
Leslie A. Fischman
Please Note: I have finished writing the first draft of my first book, still editing Ch 5-25, my goal is to publish my book 2020 after I graduate, working on myself right now.